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My daughter kept me out shopping longer than I expected this afternoon and just got in from my date....I'll get your updated scores posted tomorrow.
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1247
So telling someone your not into them instead of just poofing = 2 guys on OKC last night =25x2=50
1297
Ok so I got antsy and went out last night ..dont judge lol....:glasses:
Going to a bar on your own-500
Eye contact with a stranger =1x10=10- lots of single guys at my bar
smiling at a stranger-1x10=10- Eye contact is nothing without the smile:bigsmile:
Starting a conversation-5x5=25- Gotta love it when you go to get a drink and a guy is just standing there all by his lonely :devil:
Flrting with someone -50x3= 150- big diference between talking and flirting.
New total-1992
Man last night was a blast
Going to the bar by myself-500
Eye contact with a stranger =1x20=20
Smiling at a stranger-1x15=15
Flrting with someone -50x4=200
I wanna know do I get extra points if I flirted with 2 of these people at the same time :smokin:
new total 27270 -
PJ - you get points twice because you asked 2 coworkers.
I haven't been online over the weekend but before I left work on Friday, I ended up asking a 3rd coworker...OMG who am I? :laugh:0 -
Stats as of 8:30pm EST, 13Jan13....
AA (0 - 99) -
christine24t - 4
4themoney - 31
kerrymh - 56
oualum26 - 62
smallerbridesmaid - 62
shammxo - 82
lacroyx - 95
AAA (100 - 999) -
grum84 - 169
pa_jorg - 195
kitsune - 224
MAJORS (1,000+) -
will010574 - 2,075
fitnesspalworks - 2,522
jenbit - 2,727
We have a competition brewing .... 0 -
Stats as of 8:30pm EST, 13Jan13....
AA (0 - 99) -
christine24t - 4
4themoney - 31
kerrymh - 56
oualum26 - 62
smallerbridesmaid - 62
shammxo - 82
lacroyx - 95
AAA (100 - 999) -
grum84 - 169
pa_jorg - 195
kitsune - 224
MAJORS (1,000+) -
will010574 - 2,075
fitnesspalworks - 2,522
jenbit - 2,727
We have a competition brewing ....
I must say I'm a bit intimidated by the people in the AAA and major leagues!!!! I thought about saying hi to someone today and cringed haha.0 -
I must say I'm a bit intimidated by the people in the AAA and major leagues!!!! I thought about saying hi to someone today and cringed haha.
Don't be intimidated.... look at those within your group. That's why I broke it down. We all have different comfort levels in different situations. This is just to help you realize that it's ok to start smiling at people and talking with strangers. If I were playing, I'd be low as well because I rarely go to bars. Just try starting conversations with the person next to you at Starbucks sometime, or in the elevator....hehehe 0 -
Don't be intimidated.... look at those within your group. That's why I broke it down. We all have different comfort levels in different situations. This is just to help you realize that it's ok to start smiling at people and talking with strangers. If I were playing, I'd be low as well because I rarely go to bars. Just try starting conversations with the person next to you at Starbucks sometime, or in the elevator....hehehe
Ya, I don't go out and I see the same people everyday. To say that I'm routine in my activities is an understatement! haha. Hence the reason I tried to participate in this, but I guess I need to see people to do it! haha0 -
Don't be intimidated.... look at those within your group. That's why I broke it down. We all have different comfort levels in different situations. This is just to help you realize that it's ok to start smiling at people and talking with strangers. If I were playing, I'd be low as well because I rarely go to bars. Just try starting conversations with the person next to you at Starbucks sometime, or in the elevator....hehehe
Ya, I don't go out and I see the same people everyday. To say that I'm routine in my activities is an understatement! haha. Hence the reason I tried to participate in this, but I guess I need to see people to do it! haha
I'm the same way. I have my routine and that's it. I have time usually to do things too, but I don't always have people to do things with. I am going to join a weight loss challenge in Feb so maybe that will help me get out there and meet some new people, even if they're 20 years my senior.0 -
Stats as of 8:30pm EST, 13Jan13....
AA (0 - 99) -
christine24t - 4
4themoney - 31
kerrymh - 56
oualum26 - 62
smallerbridesmaid - 62
shammxo - 82
lacroyx - 95
AAA (100 - 999) -
grum84 - 169
pa_jorg - 195
kitsune - 224
MAJORS (1,000+) -
will010574 - 2,075
fitnesspalworks - 2,522
jenbit - 2,727
We have a competition brewing ....
In my defense, I didn't go out at all this weekend... so watch out, Jenbit!!!! Hee hee!!!* 0 -
Was a busy weekend full of going out...and going over my calories! Previous total 169 points.
Eye contact with a stranger = 1 point x 30 = 30 points (rough guess with all the bars/clubs)
Smiling at a stranger = 1 point x 30 = 30 points (guessing but always smile with eye contact)
Initiating an email (or wink) on a dating site = 1 point x 1 = 1 point
Starting a conversation with a stranger in public = 5 points x 2 = 10 points
Flirting with someone you don’t fancy = 10 points x 1 = 10 points
Telling someone you’re not into them (instead of poofing) = 25 points x 1 = 25 points
Attending any social event/function you wouldn’t normally = 30 points x 1 = 30 points (trying to be more social)
So this weekend brought in about 136.
New total of 305. Wow, I am even impressing myself. Never took note of these things before.0 -
Was a busy weekend full of going out...and going over my calories! Previous total 169 points.
Eye contact with a stranger = 1 point x 30 = 30 points (rough guess with all the bars/clubs)
Smiling at a stranger = 1 point x 30 = 30 points (guessing but always smile with eye contact)
Initiating an email (or wink) on a dating site = 1 point x 1 = 1 point
Starting a conversation with a stranger in public = 5 points x 2 = 10 points
Flirting with someone you don’t fancy = 10 points x 1 = 10 points
Telling someone you’re not into them (instead of poofing) = 25 points x 1 = 25 points
Attending any social event/function you wouldn’t normally = 30 points x 1 = 30 points (trying to be more social)
So this weekend brought in about 136.
New total of 305. Wow, I am even impressing myself. Never took note of these things before.
That's awesome!! 0 -
Stats as of 8:30pm EST, 13Jan13....
MAJORS (1,000+) -
will010574 - 2,075
fitnesspalworks - 2,522
jenbit - 2,727
We have a competition brewing ....
I went out last night and have some new numbers lol
Eye contact with a stranger = 1 point x4 -slow night at the bar =4
Smiling at a stranger = 1 pointx4 =-4
Starting a conversation with a stranger in public = 5 points x2 =10
Asking for/or giving out your phone number = 20 points x2=40
Flirting with someone you fancy = 50 points x1 =he was cute =50
Going to a bar on your own and flirting with someone = 500 points x1=500
New total 33350 -
From today:
Initiating an email (or wink) on a dating site = 1 point x 10 = 10
Any conversation on a dating site that makes it to 10 replies back and forth = 5 points x 5 = 25
195 + 25 (for Friday that i forgot to add in) + 35 points from today alone = 255 total
I'm really trying to break free of this comfort zone!! :drinker:0 -
From today:
Initiating an email (or wink) on a dating site = 1 point x 10 = 10
Any conversation on a dating site that makes it to 10 replies back and forth = 5 points x 5 = 25
195 + 25 (for Friday that i forgot to add in) + 35 points from today alone = 255 total
I'm really trying to break free of this comfort zone!! :drinker:
You are killing it!!! I would say you are one of the bigger winners excluding the already very confident!
I smiled and made eye contact with my gyms maintenance man yesterday so 2 more points for me. I tried smiling at a man today but he looked down at the last second. I'm up to 6 now.0 -
From today:
Initiating an email (or wink) on a dating site = 1 point x 10 = 10
Any conversation on a dating site that makes it to 10 replies back and forth = 5 points x 5 = 25
195 + 25 (for Friday that i forgot to add in) + 35 points from today alone = 255 total
I'm really trying to break free of this comfort zone!! :drinker:
You are killing it!!! I would say you are one of the bigger winners excluding the already very confident!
I smiled and made eye contact with my gyms maintenance man yesterday so 2 more points for me. I tried smiling at a man today but he looked down at the last second. I'm up to 6 now.
Thanks Christine! This is really something I want to work on for myself this year, which is why i started the thread... You're doing great too!! Every small step can lead to bigger and bigger ones!! :flowerforyou:0 -
I was at 224 On Thursday
Friday:
Eye contact with a stranger = 1 point (X7) 7
Smiling at a stranger = 1 point (X7) 7
Starting a conversation with a stranger in public = 5 points (X3) 15
Flirting with someone you fancy = 50 points (X3) 150
Total for day: 159
Running total: 383
Saturday:
Eye contact with a stranger = 1 point (X4) 4
Smiling at a stranger = 1 point (X4) 4
Starting a conversation with a stranger in public = 5 points (X2) 10
Total for day: 18
Running total: 401
Sunday:
I stayed home sick and watched Doctor Who all day.
Total for day: 0
Running total: 401
Monday:
Flirting with someone you fancy = 50 points (X1) 50
Total for day: 50
Running total: 4510 -
Ok so at last count I was at 62, and I don't know if this counts, but since I'm in the rookie league I think it should
I joined a second gym today. I joined a Planet Fitness around my area cause I didn't like the machines at my other gym. But I love my other gym cause it has a pool and a spinning class. Also, the reason I was at my first gym is because I didn't feel self conscience, because the average age was 60. I didn't have to worry about someone my age seeing me, judging me, etc. So I feel joining this gym, with people in my age range, qualifies for the attending a social function thing which would give me 30 points.
While I was there I made eye contact with five people and tried to smile at one, but he looked down.
So therefore I think I'm at 35.5 points haha (considering he didn't see my smile).
Which would bring my total to 97.5 , if we count my new gym 0 -
Ok so at last count I was at 62, and I don't know if this counts, but since I'm in the rookie league I think it should
I joined a second gym today. I joined a Planet Fitness around my area cause I didn't like the machines at my other gym. But I love my other gym cause it has a pool and a spinning class. Also, the reason I was at my first gym is because I didn't feel self conscience, because the average age was 60. I didn't have to worry about someone my age seeing me, judging me, etc. So I feel joining this gym, with people in my age range, qualifies for the attending a social function thing which would give me 30 points.
While I was there I made eye contact with five people and tried to smile at one, but he looked down.
So therefore I think I'm at 35.5 points haha (considering he didn't see my smile).
Which would bring my total to 97.5 , if we count my new gym
I think you should count it since it's out of your comfort zone!0 -
Stats as of 8:30pm EST, 13Jan13....
MAJORS (1,000+) -
will010574 - 2,075
fitnesspalworks - 2,522
jenbit - 2,727
We have a competition brewing ....
I went out last night and have some new numbers lol
Eye contact with a stranger = 1 point x4 -slow night at the bar =4
Smiling at a stranger = 1 pointx4 =-4
Starting a conversation with a stranger in public = 5 points x2 =10
Asking for/or giving out your phone number = 20 points x2=40
Flirting with someone you fancy = 50 points x1 =he was cute =50
Going to a bar on your own and flirting with someone = 500 points x1=500
New total 3335
Going to the bar on your own=500
Making eye contact 1x5=5
Flirting with someone you fancy =50 points
New total 3890
Btw how many points do I get for fending off 2 old guys who kept trying to grab at me without breaking one of there noses... One of them grabbed my butt :noway: :grumble:0 -
Stats as of 8:30pm EST, 13Jan13....
MAJORS (1,000+) -
will010574 - 2,075
fitnesspalworks - 2,522
jenbit - 2,727
We have a competition brewing ....
I went out last night and have some new numbers lol
Eye contact with a stranger = 1 point x4 -slow night at the bar =4
Smiling at a stranger = 1 pointx4 =-4
Starting a conversation with a stranger in public = 5 points x2 =10
Asking for/or giving out your phone number = 20 points x2=40
Flirting with someone you fancy = 50 points x1 =he was cute =50
Going to a bar on your own and flirting with someone = 500 points x1=500
New total 3335
Going to the bar on your own=500
Making eye contact 1x5=5
Flirting with someone you fancy =50 points
New total 3890
Btw how many points do I get for fending off 2 old guys who kept trying to grab at me without breaking one of there noses... One of them grabbed my butt :noway: :grumble:
Oh I love Fridays at the bar lol......
Going to the bar on your own=500
Eye contact with a stanger 1x10=10
Smile at a stranger 1x=7
Starting a conversation with a stranger in public=5x4=20
Flirting with someone you fancy =50x3=150
total 4577
Also turned down 4 drinks from 4 different guys because I was leaving within an hour and wanted to be a resposible adult and not drink more lol... However I did flirt with them afterwards because I wanted them to feel there efforts were appreciated lol a0
