Over 50s Ladies - Our Special Needs

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  • tanengre
    tanengre Posts: 11 Member
    Hello! I have been of MFP for several years, but actually started trying to loose weight in August after a good tongue lashing from the Doctor about the 15 lb weight gain last year. In January I tried to get on board with LCHF, but am not getting the hang of it yet. Since August I have lost 12 lbs and I swear all of it is in my breasts. I am 5 ft 8 in and 248 lbs. I would like to get down to 150 but I would be elated at anything under 200.
  • wheatlessgirl66
    wheatlessgirl66 Posts: 598 Member
    Hi @tanengre, this is a good place to find information and support. I started eating LCHF on March 1 and am learning the ropes, too. The ladies here are very helpful and willing to answer questions. You have a great start with a 12 lb. loss---congrats! Keep it going!
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    Welcome tanengre! As wheatlessgirl said, please ask if you have any questions, we're all more than happy to help. Everyone in the whole LCD Group knows that what works for one will be different than what works for another, but us post-menopausal women do seem to need to limit calories and track more closely than the men and younger women.

    LOL I've lost fat from my face, neck, breasts and back so far. Top down, as usual ;) It is good not to bulge out of my bra cups any more, it was such a lumpy and weird look through a t.shirt before.

    Congrats on that 12 lbs, that's awesome work!
  • RATSMITH69
    RATSMITH69 Posts: 127 Member
    Hello Everyone!! Welcome aboard. There are quite a few newbies around here but these ladies are the greatest so you've found the right place to be.

    @KnitOrMiss‌ thank you for explaining all of that. Will have to remember in the future that some of our buddies are from across the pond!

    @GrannymayOz yes, I married at 15 and pulled my 14 years :\ . I'm glad yours has turned out better than mine!

    LOL at the way/areas people loose weight. I sometimes wish I could loose my breasts but they just don't budge. Mine is all in my face right now. Gotta get on taking those pics for before so I can show off my afters! :p

    Headed into the weekend with my GrandFlowers and tomorrow is my youngest son's 27th bday so there will be eating out challenges for me.

    Hope everyone has a great weekend!!
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    How's everyone doing? I feel stalled again, but when I look at my spreadsheet it's truly only been about a week, and my macros yesterday were way out of whack. Brunch threw me off plan and there was nothing I could do with dinner to bring me back to goals. Oh well, this is a long journey, not daily perfection exams *shrug* o:)
  • shadesofidaho
    shadesofidaho Posts: 485 Member
    edited March 2015
    All is well here. I been working hard in the yard all day yesterday. Ha I walked 2 miles and never left the yard. Today was eye doctor day and I am scheduled for cataract surgery in April. One eye at a time. Can not say I have been l@@king forward to this but the struggle to see is wearing me out. Doc totally agrees. Not sure if being able to see will help my spelling any. Lets hope so. LOL So today I have been pretty laid up as my eyes still have not cleared from being dilated this morning. Still a little bit dilated 12 hours later. The up side is I can kiss coke bottle lenses good by. They are so heavy even in plastic. I was a bit confused. He said I will be able to see to get around with out my glasses, which I can not do now, but I might need them to read??? I think this is what he was saying. I was a bit in shock at the time.

    I have been checking my macros against the Flexible but not always trying to hit the magic 2. I am trying to stay real low carb for 2 meals and allowing my main meal for veggies. Keeping track of everything in Excel helps me to see everything in one spot no more clicking around. I think I will be able to pin point what is working or not easier. Time will tell.

    Have a good one I am off to bed. I have a lot to get done around here before April. so excited about the new yard look.
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    That's fantastic about the outcome after the cataract op Shades! You certainly do work hard and I know you'll enjoy it more when you can see more clearly, and stop having to bother with glasses. Wow, you won't know yourself! I wear mine every waking hour, but they are light thankfully.

    I'm glad that you're enjoying logging in Excel now. It has to work for you doesn't it? I've just now found out how to copy something I had for lunch yesterday into dinner today. That was annoying me no end, but I finally had time to investigate that little down arrow that has been hiding the secret ha ha!

    I've blown out my carbs today. 30 grams! I aim for under 15 if possible and 20 at an absolute max. Only had 41 grams of protein instead of 70. Oh well, can't win 'em all.
  • shadesofidaho
    shadesofidaho Posts: 485 Member
    @GrannyMayOZ Yes I will be happy to have the surgeries over. For now I will continue to work in the yard. I have worn my glasses round the clock for over 40 years.Bi-focals for 30 years and trifocals for the last 10 years or so.

    You will be back on track tomorrow GrannyMay. Try not to beat yourself up for goofing up the carbs It happens once in awhile even when you are trying to be good. The 4 carb fiber powder is a pretty hard hit to my day right off but needed so I make room for it.
  • sbom1
    sbom1 Posts: 227 Member
    Hope everyone is having a good weekend thus far. I've made a decision about my WOE; as much as I love LCHF, it isn't working any more for me as a weigh loss regime. So, I'm going to go back to what did work for me, intermittent fasting. I will continue to eat lower carb, higher fat but will probably allow up to 50 g carbs instead of my under 30 net (which I was generally staying around 20 net anyway) as I miss my fruits and veggies. Hope I can still be a part of the "gang" here! FYI, there is a good LOACA (ladies of a certain age) thread on the IF site here if you are interested: https://thefastdiet.co.uk/forums/topic/help-all-ladies-of-a-certain-age-please-respond/
  • shadesofidaho
    shadesofidaho Posts: 485 Member
    @sbom1 (*) I certainly vote yes. Your changes might help some one else.
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    @sbom Yes of course you can stay!!! Please do report on what you do and what it achieves. We're all here for health, weight loss and support of one another. Everyone that is accepting of all the ways to achieve that is welcome here! <3
  • kuranda10
    kuranda10 Posts: 593 Member
    Hi I'm new to the group (48.5) but have done LC off and on for years.

    Right now I'm struggling a bit to get into ketosis.
    I'm using Trendweight and everything is trending downwards, but it would be nice to actually "see it"
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    Hi Kuranda and welcome. You mean it would be nice to 'see it' on the scales, or the tape measure? I don't know what Trendweight is - guessing it's to graph your scale weight.
  • kuranda10
    kuranda10 Posts: 593 Member
    It would be nice to see it in the tape measure and the way clothes fit.

    www.trendweight.com

    you weigh everyday and it removes the "noise" and calculates the trend you are on.

    Mathmatically I am rocking this!
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    I certainly hear you on this Kuranda.

    Oh wow, WiFi? How awesome is that? I was tempted to ask for a body analysis scale for Mothers Day, this has given me another idea. Though I don't think I've ever *asked* for anything and I don't know what they cost (to split between 2 children).
  • kuranda10
    kuranda10 Posts: 593 Member
    edited March 2015
    I've seen the Aria sell between $120 -$169
    8 people can use it.
    We got it because actually writing down his weight was too much work for my husband
    I would check eBay and Gumtree
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    LOL Husbands are amusing. Hopefully I can say that in this thread ;) Thank you for the pricing and locations to look <3
  • pcfrend
    pcfrend Posts: 58 Member
    I've had a tough 2 weeks - not eating well at all. I went through a counseling session and it sent me spiraling into emotional eating (my worst habit). Now trying to climb out of the whole and back to my WOEing.

    I learned that carbs make me tired, gives me headaches and I feel blotted. My Dr wants me to eliminate wheat which is easy if I'm eating LCHF. I had lost 10 over 8 weeks or so and have gained back 7. Sad really.

    I did track my eating because I do believe that eating in awareness is a vital tool to keeping the calorie count down. There were days I ate 3,000 calories of bad foods but had I not been tracking it could have been much worse. So thank goodness for MFP and my pals here.

    Happy Sunday everyone. Blessings to all.
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    Most of us have slips at some time of another. If it's not food it might be in other ways. We're here almost around the clock if you need a friend, or just to talk something through rather than eat over it.
  • Jolene5329
    Jolene5329 Posts: 14 Member
    Introduction here...

    Short story: No Thyroid, stable on meds; T2 using long & fast insulin, with Metformin.

    I have hard a rough journey emotionally the last 3 years, in which at the end I threw my cigarettes away. In the last year 2014 I went up on weight 25#s and abused my fast insulin as well. "Yeah doughnuts, I have insulin ... So I'll take 2." Finally, I was sick of having to buy new clothes and I felt like dog poo.

    At Christmas 2014, I tossed another bad habit in the trash bin: Sugar.

    I went to my doctor and said, help, and he said, "It's the insulin." So I knew my goal was to reduce my insulin usage, which meant carb intake.

    After going to a weight doctor and not losing an ounce in the first month, I got serious. I reloaded MFP on my phone and iPad, bought a FitBit Flex and got serious. I don't weigh in with the fat doctor until Friday, but I have been reducing my carb / calorie intake each week. I knew from history if I went cold turkey to 1100 calories and 90 carbs a day, I'd fail. So slowly I'm going down there slowly.

    My doctor has told me - diabetics have it harder and that I will lose in 2 months what most people who aren't lose in a month.

    I'm here to encourage others on the same journey.
  • shadesofidaho
    shadesofidaho Posts: 485 Member
    Welcome Jolene. you have already accomplished great things with tossing the smokes and now the sugar and hopefully the insulin or being able to reduce it as your need for it reduces. Seems several of us are low thyroid and have insulin resistance or diabetic.

    Probably not a bad idea to take those carbs down slowly until you are comfortable to dropping to the 20 or below you need to be. I dumped mine right away and suffered for it but at least I was not hungry. Except I sat in my chair for almost two weeks unable to do much more than the needed chores around here. Feeling much better now.

    You can do this.
  • sbom1
    sbom1 Posts: 227 Member
    Thanks ladies for the acceptance! Here's my plan: 3 days of fasting from 7pm until at least 1pm to get an 18 hour fast, later if I can (I've done before so I know I can go to 3pm usually), remainder of day eat up to 500 calories of LCHF foods-50 grams carbs or under. Remaining days eat around 1500 calories LCHF.

    Welcome Jolene (and anyone else I missed).
  • pcfrend
    pcfrend Posts: 58 Member
    Most of us have slips at some time of another. If it's not food it might be in other ways. We're here almost around the clock if you need a friend, or just to talk something through rather than eat over it.

    Thanks! I will do that!
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    Welcome Jolene5329 Sounds as if you have a sensible doctor. They are far and few between! Congratulations to you for all the things that you have thrown away – awesome work! I’m glad you’ve joined our group and hope that you enjoy participating. I don’t know anything about being a diabetic but I’m certainly finding it’s slower for post-menopause. This is my first time of weight loos post menopause. Please chat here any time. This thread is for anything we want it to be!

    @Shades I remember you feeling wiped out. I’m so happy that you have your energy back.

    I seem rather cyclical at the moment – good one or two days and then back to really tired again. I’ve been sleeping really well ever since about a week in on my LCHF journey. Last week I had an 11 hour night, then 7, 7½, 7¼, 7¼, then two 9 hour nights. But after the first 9 hour I was so tired the next day I needed a nap that ended up being 2 hours. Today after the other 9 hour’s sleep I still feel a bit tired. And I feel ‘heavy’. My arms and legs are hard work to move – that kind of heavy. I seem to have made my keto flu a long drawn out affair. Typical of me to not do things typically ha ha!

    @sbom that sounds like a great plan. You’ve obviously gained benefit from Intermittent Fasting before. I’ve done one 24-hour. 7pm Saturday evening to 7pm Sunday evening and I was amazed at how well it went. The way my weight is behaving I think I need to do this again LOL
  • j9swimer
    j9swimer Posts: 5 Member
    I just found this thread ... and want to say THANK YOU for starting this. I began my low carb lifestyle Nov 2013, due to testing results that showed I was insulin resistant and headed for diabetes. At that time I weighed 194. I am currently hovering between 159 - 163, with 12 more lbs to drop to reach goal weight. The first 12 to 14 lbs came off quickly, but since then, it has been slow progresses, and stall phases abound. I have had to adjust and fine tune my diet to keep loosing. Once I got the hang of it all, I have to say I very much like this lifestyle. I certainly feel better (all my joint aches went away!). I sleep better. My thinking is clearer. And, I have much more, and steadier, energy.

    When I started this new way of living, I used MFP to help me understand exactly WHAT I was consuming in terms of macros (carbs/fiber to determine netcarbs, fats, proteins), and a blood glucose monitor to determine what foods caused those insulin spikes that so effectively put fat on me (despite eating 1400 calories/day or less!). I started out with a goal of no more than 100 carbs. That was easy! The next week I went to a 70 carbs or less. The following week I moved down to 50 carbs or less, and stayed between 30 and 50 carbs for a few weeks. Eventually, I settled into a 20 to 35 net carbs lifestyle. Unfortunately, I am one of the 30% or so for whom the LCHF results in very high tested LDL cholesterol. So, I am now altering my diet to see if this will reduce my LDL.

    @GrannyMayOz, when I used to get the heavy/tireds with arms/legs that just do not want to move, it was a sign my electrolytes -- potassium, sodium and magnesium -- were low. When I was mindful and I ate high potassium foods, high magnesium foods, and liberally salted my foods or consumed salty broths, I did not experience "Keto flu" (even though my keto blood readings showed I was in ketosis). But when I did not do this I would eventually suffer the achy-slooooows. Fortunately, this was quickly relieved with a magnesium citrate supplement, along with a liter of water with 1/2 tsp "Lite Salt" (potassium chloride) dissolved in it, and some salted nuts (or salted something!).
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    Welcome j9swimer it's great to have you here, and really interesting to hear your story. It seems rather unfair that this group has to struggle, gram by gram and calorie by calorie to lose weight doesn't it? But I do accept that this is my lot in life and I may as well accept it and be happy ;)

    I do hope that you find your magic formula again really soon so that you can start losing again. And see results with your LDL too.

    Thank you for your advice on my current position. I know that my sodium and potassium are within normal range because I had a blood test very recently. I have been taking a small dose of iron, and have just restarted taking a magnesium supplement. I tried this before but it always made me feel slightly queasy, so today I took a half dose this morning and will take the other half before bed. I'm also switching to tea instead of coffee. There was a brand of coffee a while ago that made me more and more tired each day that I used it. Coffee is supposed to make us awake, right? LOL
  • sbom1
    sbom1 Posts: 227 Member
    Welcome J9...Happy Monday everyone!
    For those interested, it is my first IF day today (in over 2 years). Last ate at 8pm last night, now 12:30pm have had: Coffee with splash of cream and Tea with splash of almond milk. Due to break - fast at 2pm with small snack. Then dinner around 6:30pm (salmon and veggies). Should come in right around 500 cal as planned. Not really hungry now, had a few tummy rumbles on and off-drank water. Hope every IF day will be this easy!
  • wheatlessgirl66
    wheatlessgirl66 Posts: 598 Member
    sbom1 wrote: »
    Welcome J9...Happy Monday everyone!
    For those interested, it is my first IF day today (in over 2 years). Last ate at 8pm last night, now 12:30pm have had: Coffee with splash of cream and Tea with splash of almond milk. Due to break - fast at 2pm with small snack. Then dinner around 6:30pm (salmon and veggies). Should come in right around 500 cal as planned. Not really hungry now, had a few tummy rumbles on and off-drank water. Hope every IF day will be this easy!

    I'm really interested in seeing how IF works. It sounds like you've had a great first day--I hope it continues to be a great experience with great benefits for you! :)
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    Well done sbom, sounds as if you did really well. It's a pain that MFP won't accept finalising your day when you've eaten fewer than 1,000 calories - will that bother you?

    I did one 24 hour fast because I didn't feel well (I know that doesn't count ;)) but it jolted a 700 gram (1.5 lb) weight loss out of this otherwise very stubborn body.

    I'm feeling more energetic today to the point that I don't want a nanna nap. This is improvement, and I'm rather thinking it's because of the magnesium supplement. I really dislike supplementing, but I'm loving LCHF so I guess I have to learn to like supplementing. Hoping improvements will continue in my energy levels, I really need it!
  • wheatlessgirl66
    wheatlessgirl66 Posts: 598 Member
    @GrannyMaeOz I'm glad you're feeling better today. :D I don't like taking supplements either, but I do it (except when I forget!) b/c they help me. I have FM and it's always hard to tell what's wiping me out, but the supplements definitely help.

    I love LCHF too, but am afraid my weight loss will stall before I lose a significant amount. It's slow-going, and I'm impatient to lose a bunch and feel better. But we'll all keep at it, won't we! :D

    "Never give in. Never give in. Never, never, never, never—in nothing, great or small..." -Winston Churchill
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