Over 50s Ladies - Our Special Needs

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  • happylifex10
    happylifex10 Posts: 56 Member
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  • shadesofidaho
    shadesofidaho Posts: 485 Member
    @GrannyMay, I forgot to mention the pie chart on macros on fitday. I use it to help me decide what I need to include in my next meal. If I am short of one macro I add it to the next meal. I know the numbers on MFP do the same thing. I guess even though I am a numbers person the pie visual helps. I am aiming for grams but seeing the percents helps me.

    I like the meals run together because many times I just eat a chicken thigh for breakfast and lunch and I can just double the same entry verses having to open break fast or lunch to do so. I enter my foods as I eat them so I csn pretty much tell what meal I am in.It seems to be less clicking around for me. Annoying though is it makes you log in constantly. I just refresh the page right off now if I have been away from it a few minutes.
  • RATSMITH69
    RATSMITH69 Posts: 127 Member
    Hello everyone and congrats to everyone on your victories!

    Last week was rough, stomach bug and radiation kicked my butt! But I am back and ready to go at this again. I am so inspired by all of you lovely ladies and continue to be very grateful full all of the positive thoughts and support.

    Hope each and every one of you have an amazing day and tons of continued victories.
  • sbom1
    sbom1 Posts: 227 Member
    RATSMITH69 wrote: »
    Hello everyone and congrats to everyone on your victories!

    Last week was rough, stomach bug and radiation kicked my butt! But I am back and ready to go at this again. I am so inspired by all of you lovely ladies and continue to be very grateful full all of the positive thoughts and support.

    Hope each and every one of you have an amazing day and tons of continued victories.

    Glad you're back-sorry about last week; hang in there!
  • sbom1
    sbom1 Posts: 227 Member
    Forgot to report on my first week of intermittent fasting results-down a pound!!!! Ate low carb, 3 days of fasting (each day around 500 cals).
  • shadesofidaho
    shadesofidaho Posts: 485 Member
    I do hope it works for you sbom1.

    I did not drop more today but gained back .4 of a pound. My thoughts are I worked so hard in the yard digging weeding squatting over and over for over 4 hours yesterday my muscles are complaining and sore. I heard some where this can cause a bit of weight gain in water retention. I anxiously await tomorrows weigh-in. Yes I am an every day weigh person and always will be. I hit from the scale for over 2 years and it did me no good. LOL
  • happylifex10
    happylifex10 Posts: 56 Member
    RATSMITH69 wrote: »
    Hello everyone and congrats to everyone on your victories!

    Last week was rough, stomach bug and radiation kicked my butt! But I am back and ready to go at this again. I am so inspired by all of you lovely ladies and continue to be very grateful full all of the positive thoughts and support.

    Hope each and every one of you have an amazing day and tons of continued victories.

    hope you are feeling better this week and you have my positive thoughts heading in your direction <3
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    Hello everyone <3 I've had my son and grandson staying, then my husband rostered off for 2 days. He's working later today and then has tomorrow off for his knee and hip x-rays and ultrasounds so I haven't had much online time. I've read all the posts and send my love and prayers to all of those who are ill, or recovering <3 and my congratulations to all of those working hard, fasting, reducing calories <3 and know that if the scales haven't praised you yet, they *will*.

    I'm up 400 grams (1 lb) on the lowest weight I reached Sunday, but we all know that's how it goes and it will come back down when it's ready.
  • sbom1
    sbom1 Posts: 227 Member
    Good fasting day yesterday. And enjoying my coffee with coconut oil this morning! Have a good one ladies.
  • cathy120861
    cathy120861 Posts: 265 Member
    Good Afternoon All -- i saw my pulmonologist yesterday (i was diagnosed with chronic obstructive lung disease last may) and a good time was had by all. She was thrilled with my progress. I dont think she is used to people actually following her instructions when she tells them to lose weight and exercise.

    Interestingly, she advised increasing my pilates and yoga. Both activities focus on conscious breathing and will be excellent for my lungs, she says.

    I have a question: I notice people writing about "fat bombs" quite a bit. Maybe i am just put off by the name, but I still have at least thirty pounds to lose and am wondering if any of you guys use them while trying to lose (or used to use them when you were trying to lose). Any information at all would be much appreciated.
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    edited March 2015
    Congrats sbom, you're doing so well!

    Awesome news on your pulmonary appointment Cathy!

    I've made only one batch of fat bombs - it made 12 nearly 2 weeks ago, and I have 3 left (I kept them in the freezer). So I have really enjoyed them when I'm hungry and still have the macros to allow them. I don't eat anything sweet so mine are savoury...
    200g / 7 oz cheese (ideally grated)
    125g / 4.4 oz softened cream cheese
    62g / 2.2 oz softened butter
    approx. 1/8 C heavy cream
    approx. 1/4 C coconut oil, melted
    Seasonings (garlic powder, chili powder, crumbled bacon, chives…)
    Optional: toasted nuts or seeds (sunflower, sesame…)

    Line 12 tiny, or 6 larger, individual muffin pans with half the grated cheese. Melt at 180°C / 350°F for 4 mins and allow to cool. In a bowl combine cream cheese and butter, then cream, coconut oil and seasonings. Place mixture over cooled melted cheese and freeze. Cover with remaining grated cheddar and quickly grill to melt top cheese, cool a little then freeze until wanted.
    (Makes 12 tiny muffins)
  • KnitOrMiss
    KnitOrMiss Posts: 10,103 Member
    6am is still sleep time for me - for obvious reasons. I hear it's a beautiful time of day ;)

    Oh, I didn't expect that answer, I thought it would be a cut of cold meat like your bolony (which is polony to me). We don't have pastrami either, but I'm guessing it's similar. It actually sounds quite nice - the Reuben I mean. Neither hungry nor nauseous, never fear.

    @GrannyMayOz pastrami is NOT anything like bologna (which is nasty as heck). It is more like a spiced roast beef. Imagine pepperoni/salami spices on a good roast beef.
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    Yes, polony is awful 'regurgitated' stuff too. Yet if you take a child to a deli counter the staff will more often than not give the child a slice :( I'll try to remember about pastrami, thank you. It sounds a lot nicer than polony :D
  • KnitOrMiss
    KnitOrMiss Posts: 10,103 Member
    I've always heard corned beef for a reuben, but my man loves his pastrami (prefers the beef to turkey variety, but you almost can't find the beef one where we live, so he deals with the other). To me, it is overseasoned. I might use one slice with a bunch of other stuff, but it's more expensive, so I leave him to it. And I loveLOVE salami and pepperoni, so the spicing proportions are different. I am NOT a fan.

    Bologna makes me sick, even the all beef kinds. I can tolerate hot dogs (similar components, but only if grilled and buried in something more palatable.... They make me sick, too, though I haven't tried them since changing my WOE...
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    Polony is quite a lot like the insides of a hotdog. Pale pink, similar 'fine mince' texture.
  • KnitOrMiss
    KnitOrMiss Posts: 10,103 Member
    Polony is quite a lot like the insides of a hotdog. Pale pink, similar 'fine mince' texture.

    Idiot americans - bologna is "bolony" as you spell it. I'm guessing Polony is the Oz version?
  • shadesofidaho
    shadesofidaho Posts: 485 Member
    Good morning and night to a few of you. Happy day again 14 days in a row now with only one day being the same weight and one day a slight raise of .4 of a pound. I am almost to tip over to the 4 pounds down. Hoping tomorrow will be that day.

    So far tracking on the other site has really helped me. I have no clue why, if the difference between two sites is so slight. I have not really changed anything except I did add the Choline and Inositol 500MG about a week or so ago. One a day. It is supposed to help with IR. I forget who talked about it and I had some on hand to give to hubby in his pill mix so I started them too. They are inexpensive.

    The loss is slow and I am fine with that as long as it keeps going down with any major bounces back up. I was feeling pretty discouraged after a 3 month stall and being so good to never cheat.

    It is raining oh happy day for my newly transplanted Bergenia. They will be lovely in their new spot. They can run wild as they choose and not over power the smaller plants like they were doing in their old bed. I am off to my glass work. Have a good one ladies.
  • RATSMITH69
    RATSMITH69 Posts: 127 Member
    Happy Hump Day Everyone! Woke up with tons of energy and raging to go so look out work here I come. :D Hope everyone has a great day. Come on, we can do this!
  • shadesofidaho
    shadesofidaho Posts: 485 Member
    You have a great day too Ratsmith. Good to hear you are having energy.
  • sbom1
    sbom1 Posts: 227 Member
    Good morning and night to a few of you. Happy day again 14 days in a row now with only one day being the same weight and one day a slight raise of .4 of a pound. I am almost to tip over to the 4 pounds down. Hoping tomorrow will be that day.

    So far tracking on the other site has really helped me. I have no clue why, if the difference between two sites is so slight. I have not really changed anything except I did add the Choline and Inositol 500MG about a week or so ago. One a day. It is supposed to help with IR. I forget who talked about it and I had some on hand to give to hubby in his pill mix so I started them too. They are inexpensive.

    The loss is slow and I am fine with that as long as it keeps going down with any major bounces back up. I was feeling pretty discouraged after a 3 month stall and being so good to never cheat.

    It is raining oh happy day for my newly transplanted Bergenia. They will be lovely in their new spot. They can run wild as they choose and not over power the smaller plants like they were doing in their old bed. I am off to my glass work. Have a good one ladies.

    Woo Hoo! I agree, slow is fine; stall not fine. Fast day again for me today, going for 3 this week. Down a pound after the loooong stall and feeling good.
  • shadesofidaho
    shadesofidaho Posts: 485 Member
    @sbom1 Woo Hoo for you to be down another pound.

    I have a funny. The pants I was so excited to get into really are too large. Even hubby commented on how baggy thy were and he rarely comments on this kind of thing. You all know I have whined about my butt in the front. He said why don;t I turn them around backwards and they might fit better. I did not know weather to laugh or cry.

    Also some thing odd. I always wear silver necklace and pendent and silver bracelets. I almost never have to polish them. The last few days they are tarnishing. Wondering if there is some thing changed my new WOE making them tarnish. Some thing changing in my chemistry.
  • wheatlessgirl66
    wheatlessgirl66 Posts: 598 Member
    @sbom1--Sure sounds like fasting agrees with you! Yay for the end of the stall and the loss!

    @shadesofidaho--That's so great that the pants you were hoping to fit, are too large! Now you'll have to go shopping. :) I guess it's no wonder that your body chemistry is changing, with so much changing inside going on.
  • Kitnthecat
    Kitnthecat Posts: 2,076 Member
    Hello Ladies. I have only been here about 3 wks, and hadn't read this thread yet. Today, although I was daunted by over 200 posts, I did read most of them. Please ladies excuse me if this is too long and boring, but here goes...

    I am 52 and have not reached menopause yet, but do know that it is harder to lose weight at my age. I used to be an expert at losing weight, the trouble was that I was also very good at putting it back on. Like most people, I wanted to have my cake and eat it too. I've lost hundreds of pounds over the decades and put even more back on. That can't be good, and it was horrible for my self esteem....but there were a lot of other factors that helped contribute to my lack of self worth, but I won't get into it right here. It became an impossible goal to try to lose weight.

    The last success I had, if you can call it that, was 10 years ago. I started out at about 260 pounds and lost 100 pounds, and felt on top of the world, sort of, for a couple of weeks anyway. I did it the ultra low fat way, by eating a lot of crappy processed low fat products, by limiting my calories way too low and by exercising like a maniac. I don't know how I thought this would be sustainable in the long run. I was also an overachiever at work, and was the one that my co-workers would turn to for everything. But I hid the fact that my marriage was breaking up and when things got very ugly at home, the weight started to come back. It was purely a self comfort thing. I have always worked full time and have 2 girls. While filing for separation with hopes of divorce, I had severe issues with my youngest child who was exhibiting violent behaviour and had to be hospitalized in the psych ward. This led to me losing my job due to stress and suffering my own breakdown. It was just too hard to maintain the weight loss with crisis in my life. So all the weight came back and more, and I felt like the ultimate failure who had lost everything in her life. I did manage to keep my house and my kids, and I am working on rebuilding my health and self confidence.

    Well, this ended up getting a bit heavier than I intended. Sorry if this isn't the place for emotional support. (I haven't worked up the courage to tell my story on the emotional support thread.) I guess my point here is that all kinds of stuff gets in the way of weight loss success. I can look back now and tell myself that when my life was in danger, I shouldn't have been giving myself extra stress because I was gaining weight. That should have been the least of my worries. I can forgive myself now, but I couldn't back then.

    I ended up taking all kinds of drugs to try to feel better, on my Dr's advice of course. It started with the sleeping pill, d/t stress, then lead to the antidepressant, then when the panic attacks started, there was another drug for that and another one for anxiety to help me sleep because the sleeping pill wasn't as effective anymore. Yikes.

    Then almost 5 yrs ago, my girlfriend was concerned about my health and took me to see her chiropractor who believed in total body/mind/spirit health, not just the state of my spine, but also my nutrition etc. At that point I was 284 pounds, had a bad back, and headaches daily, and my hips were crooked making it hard for me to walk straight. The Dr corrected my spine which I think made it easier for my body to function, my headaches went away and I could walk straight again. But most importantly, he taught me how to improve my diet by eliminating grains, sugar, starchy vegetables, most fruit and processed foods. I started to eat a paleo or primal diet mostly. I lost 40 pounds very gradually over 4 years. I completely changed the way I eat and shop for food. I have made this commitment to myself and do not intend to ever re introduce those foods into my life again. So I know this way of eating is suastainable for me to achieve long term success. It is just happening a little slower than I imagined it would, I think because I am getting older and my metabolism must be slower.

    Last September 2014, I was getting frustrated with the slow weight loss, and wanted to step it up a notch. I hadn't started tracking my food yet, except to journal my food daily, and did lose 12 more pounds by new years. In 2015, I started paying more attention to what exactly I was eating. I think paleo is already much lower on carbs that a SAD diet, but I just knew I had to go lower. I suspect that is the case with many older ladies. I've lost another 17 pounds in 2015, thanks mainly to joining MFP, where I was able to actually see how many carbs I was eating in relation to fat and protein.

    I have hypothyroidism as well, which I think is important to mention. I am sure that this makes it especially difficult to lose weight. I do take synthroid daily, but must admit, I hadn't seen the rise in metabolism I expected.......until I tried keto this year.

    I am so pleased that just by going lower on carbs and higher in fat, I am seeing progress where I had been stalled. The great thing is that my chiropractor is extremely supportive with my plan. I have done a complete turn around in terms of trusting conventional health, medicine and dietary advice ( I don't trust them anymore) and I revel in being the rebel. Oh I forgot to mention, that I ditched first the panic attack meds that knocked me out, then the anti-depressant, then the sleeping pill. I replaced the sleeping pill with "Natural Calm" magnesium almost 3 years ago.

    I am really enjoying being on MFP, and popping up in various conversations about all kinds of topics that nobody I know in person has ever had any experience with. MY kids and I are the only people we know who eat this way. It gets tiresome to have to explain to others who think you are crazy for not eating wheat etc. I want some of my friends to accept what I do and be excited for me, but they do not understand. I am so thankful to have found the low carb and keto people here who are going through the same experiences I am, and who know the joys of eating fat.

    One of the most wonderful things about eating a high fat diet is that not only do you feel satiated most of the time, but it is extremely good for regulating mood and for providing a sense of well being. If you could see me now, you would never suspect that I had previously suffered from depression.

    I am now 215 pounds and I can't believe that I am wearing clothes that I never thought I'd be able to fit into again. My health has improved so much, and I look forward to continuing on my journey with much more self confidence in what I am doing. It might seem like I have a long way to go, but I can look back and know that I have come a very long way, and I am excited to see where this ends up.

    Right now my goal is to be the fittest I can be for this summer when I am going on a whale expedition with my sister and mother. We are sharing a small cabin for 3 on the train and I have been designated to sleep on the top bunk ! That is motivating me to continue.

    Much luck to everyone on your journeys as well. :)

    P.S. I'm loving the energy from BPC made with 2 Tbsp butter and 1 Tbsp MCT oil, keeps me going until supper.
  • shadesofidaho
    shadesofidaho Posts: 485 Member
    Welcome Kitnthecat,
    You have been on quite a journey. Sounds like you are pulling yourself up out of what must have felt like a bottomless pit. Congratulations on your courage to keep fighting for your health. HA you had me about your first line where you said you were 52 and not in menopause yet. I think I would have out a bullet in my head. I guess all of us are doing our weight loss a little bit differently but it is all for the same goal and all of us I think are low carb in one way or another. I hope you get to enjoy that top bunk. I wish I had lost as much as you. Congratulations.

    chris
  • sbom1
    sbom1 Posts: 227 Member
    Welcome Kitnthecat,
    This is a fine place to get it all out! Very supportive group. Kudos on what you have accomplished and on your goals!

    2nd fast day of the week for me ladies, went well again. I am enjoying this! Have a ton of energy, surprisingly.

    Starting our countdown before our big 5 1/2 month trip, less than a week now. We usually travel a few months each summer but this year is a long trip. About 3/4 of the time we'll be in apartments and 1/4 in hotels, so I hope to keep losing and not gain as I usually do during these sojourns.

    Hope everyone had a good day.
  • shadesofidaho
    shadesofidaho Posts: 485 Member
    WOW sbom1, 5 1/2 months away. Have a great time. I have not been on a vacation for years and years. I think about 1999 was the last one to Canada.
  • wheatlessgirl66
    wheatlessgirl66 Posts: 598 Member
    Hi Kitnthecat---It is such an accomplishment to work through so much and get to a much healthier place that you are right now. This is a great group, and you are welcome here. Keep on working to be fit for that whale expedition!

    sbom1---Sounds like you're going to have a wonderful summer with your 5 1/2 month trip! You're doing so well with your WOE plan, I'm sure it will keep right on going. Great that you have so much energy! I'm waiting for that phase to hit me.

    It's Thursday, so have a great day everyone!
  • Kitnthecat
    Kitnthecat Posts: 2,076 Member
    Thank you everyone for your support. You're right Shades, it did feel like a bottomless pit. Sbom1,and wheatlessgirl, thanks for the encouragement. (It felt good to get all that out.) I think that 10 years ago, I was really afraid of what others would think about the turns in my life. But weight loss wise, I was in a different place. The weight fell off, but I was under so much stress, it was not healthy or sustainable.

    At this age, I was losing 10 pounds per year, very slow, but maybe it will stick. But since going lower carb, I feel like I have found what works for me. I aim for 5% carbs, and am usually under my 16 g per day, but on the odd day that I go out and my carb count might be in the 20's, I have still found that it has resulted in weight loss. If anything, I feel that this WOE, although very similar to how I usually ate pre keto, is like a magic formula for my body for weight loss. It feels so natural and stress free. I know it helps immensely to track what I eat and try not to go over, but I think it's the lower carb count that is really doing it for me.

    Scrambled eggs and BPC and I'm good to go to work. Have a great day ladies.
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    edited March 2015
    Hello Beautiful Ladies *waves* I seem to have been chasing my tail this last week. I’ve read all the posts since I last wrote anything sensible on here, and have sent you all love as I read – hope you felt it <3 Just had no time to reply to *everyone* that needed it and didn’t want to miss anyone, so replying has had to wait ;)

    @Shades I’m so, so excited for you that you’re tracking so well. That was a long dry spell and you kept on keeping on, and so deserve the success that you’re now seeing! That’s fantastic about those trousers/pants, though I hear you that you’d hoped to wear and enjoy them. I guess you could hang them on the wall and enjoy them that way? ;) I wonder if keto-acetone is escaping from your pores to ‘upset’ your silver jewellery? If ever you want a ‘virtual vacation’ I write a journal with photos each time we take a holiday so you can visit quite a few places in the southern hemisphere at www.mayL.id.au

    @RATSMITH So happy that you have found your energy – particularly after that awful gastro!

    @sbom You’re doing incredibly well, congratulations for all your hard work! Maybe I need to do a fast because sure as heck, nothing else is working for me right now :( Wow, your trip sounds amazing – are you travelling far or to many countries?

    @Kitn I feel so honoured, as a part of this group, that you felt safe to share your story with us. And so very sorry that you’ve had to endure all of these things in your life :'( This thread absolutely *is* the place for emotional support, please always feel that you can share here. Your total weight losses remind me of a saying that I love – a quote, I believe, by Elizabeth Taylor ‘If I’d kept off all the weight I’d ever lost I’d be hanging from a charm bracelet!’. I’m so glad you’re here Kitn, and the way you’ve come through your trials with such strength is truly inspirational.

    @wheatless I hope you gain the super-energy stage very soon <3

    For me… I took my granddaughter to my naturopath and he’s given her some supplements so I’m happier about her mental state. It breaks my heart when she suffers panic attacks because I know it was my genes that have given this to her. That’s not something that any grandmother wants to ‘gift’ her grandchildren :'( But she seems to be picking up, and has 2 weeks school holidays soon so that will help too. I’ve convinced myself that me worrying will not help my son to keep his job so I have ‘let go and let God’ with that. The fear of the snake in my house (8 days ago) is mostly fading, though I am definitely still affected, turning lights on where I’d normally walk in the dark from room to room etc. And the baby bird incident is in the past and I’ve let go the upset of all that.

    I’m as patient as all of us here with my weight but was really fed up with it this morning. I’ve been hungry this past week even though I’m eating almost all my calories each day. If I said that elsewhere in these threads they'd tell me to eat more, but I'm putting *on* weight. I've been eating between 1400 and 1500 calories a day with very little exercise this past week. Probably eating too much, but I've been hungry! I 'hit my groove' and was losing weight on 1150 to 1340 calories a day for a nice 6-day run, but have been hungry since then. I suppose I have to just wait (weight, LOL) until the next 'not hungry' stage kicks in. My weight was down to a wonderful 83.9 kgs last Sunday - now I'm up to 84.6 this morning. My waist is thicker again, and I'm honestly feeling fatter this week too. Oh well. I had to be patient to get from 88.3 kgs to where I am now and guess I have to remain that way. There's no other option after all ROFL
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    Oh and I meant to say - if anyone is happy to be addressed by their real name in this thread, please do say so! Mine, as you would guess, is May.
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