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  • lauriekallis
    lauriekallis Posts: 4,770 Member
    edited January 2022
    Good for you, Connie.

    I was working very hard on "retraining" my brain yesterday. Stress hit and all I could think of was comfort food. Managed not to. But I was stunned at how quickly my son telling me he tested positive for Covid turned into thoughts of donuts. I could almost laugh it it wasn't so sad.
    We can do this...it is just going to take some hamster herding and retraining.
    There is a book out there - can't think of the title - but I'll track it down and maybe take a look at it more seriously now.

    A non-drinking alcoholic friend of mind put it very well. He wanted to drink when things were good, when things were bad, when he was happy, sad, scared, excited, relaxed - any occasion called on him to drink.

    And there are still those that say overeating isn't an addiction.
    So you should be very proud of yourself for getting things in line today.
    Let's work on alternate ways to "treat" ourselves? That can perhaps be a new thread?
  • Americanbabydoll
    Americanbabydoll Posts: 1,255 Member
    @Yoolypr I follow up with the doctor in July, but he said he was amazed by my results and to just keep doing what I've been doing. He congratulated me for my weight loss and dropping the A1C so much.

    My next medical goal is to be taken off of blood pressure medicine. I take 2 of them daily and hate taking them.
  • Yoolypr
    Yoolypr Posts: 3,298 Member
    edited January 2022
    Oh Connie, I feel for you. Trying to hold everything together is hard work! Believe me, I know from experience. I finally learned I needed to be kinder to myself. There’s only just so much you can fix. Who is worrying about your well being?
  • lauriekallis
    lauriekallis Posts: 4,770 Member
    Like Yooly said, Connie. Somehow you have to find a way to set a boundary where you take care of yourself. If you can't do it for you do it for those that need you. ♥️
  • PAV8888
    PAV8888 Posts: 14,253 Member
    Breathe Connie. You have to set aside some non eating Connie time, please🤷🏻‍♂️
  • Yoolypr
    Yoolypr Posts: 3,298 Member
    Laurie, I hope it’s a mild case! Our viral crud lasted about three days and was mainly annoying and worrisome. Wasn’t even as bad as a regular cold. We’re all fine now but staying close to home for a week.
    Connie - I too have thought of getting a smallish tattoo. Hubby would not like that at all. I think I’d like to get a tattoo just to revisit my wild and rebellious youth. I can just imagine the church ladies getting a glimpse of it.
  • Americanbabydoll
    Americanbabydoll Posts: 1,255 Member
    I have 18 tattoos. B)
  • bmeadows380
    bmeadows380 Posts: 2,981 Member
    I am doing better today….

    I"m so glad for you, Connie! <3:)
  • Yoolypr
    Yoolypr Posts: 3,298 Member
    edited January 2022
    Sometimes you just have to go where the work is. While I hated some of the places I lived as a military wife, looking back it was a tremendous life experience. My sisters who stayed back home have a much more limited world view. And the interesting people you meet along the way!
    Saw the ortho guy today. Hoping physical therapy and pain pills do the job. Otherwise it’s more steroids which I’d like to avoid.
  • luxia2020
    luxia2020 Posts: 55 Member
    I hope you feel more upbeat soon, @conniewilkins56, And I hope your husband stabilizes his blood sugars soon! You need some quality Connie time!

    @Athijade, the housing market is such a pain right now! I feel you! The house next door was opened for sale, and its starting price was already $650K! The homes in the area are worth around $550K at most; it's insane. :/ You can think of it as there's a better house waiting for you, just waiting for the right opportunity to show itself to you!

    I hope you're feeling better, too, @Yoolypr! I'm praying the physical therapy and painkillers will do just the trick for you!

    I hope it doesn't become something much serious, @lauriekallis! I'm pretty sure I also caught COVID since I showed symptoms. However, I've been primarily fine after sleeping for 10 hours straight for the past few days. (Sure is nice to tell everyone I need to quarantine myself and be left alone!) Just a slight cough every once in a while left. My swab test is next Wednesday. No matter what they say, having the vaccination shots do help with the symptoms even if you do catch it! Always getting all the listed "side effects" when you get the shots isn't fun, though.

    Let's end it on a little happier note? I've confirmed that a week's worth of overeating will only cause me to gain 0.5lbs/0.23kg. One day, for sure then, does no damage to a month's worth of effort. Then again, I lost 0.9 lbs/0.41kg right afterward the following week, following my calorie restriction more closely. Biggest takeaway? Not worth the effort to stress about it. It was more refreshing to see I'm still losing little measurements all around. No matter what the scale said. It's not considerable decreases, but it's incremental, and that's what should matter, right?
    It won't top my most significant victory to date: Saying no to a large boba milk tea from my favorite tea shop when I wouldn't be the one paying for it. Admittedly, my more health-conscious at-home version doesn't hit my craving as well as theirs, but at least it's not around 600 calories for a large cup. Then again, I could drink 2.439 servings of my homemade version with that kind of calorie allotment! I guess at this point, I should take quantity over "quality," right!? :D
  • PAV8888
    PAV8888 Posts: 14,253 Member
    @luxia2020 incremental cumulative improvements... and making the conscious choices and trade offs that are WORTHWHILE for YOU!

    That's the name of the game! 👍
  • lauriekallis
    lauriekallis Posts: 4,770 Member
    @luxia2020 - yeah - what he said! :)

    And thank you for the well wishes. It is on its way out - woke up today after only 8 hours sleep (pretty good this week) and feel pretty well back to normal.
  • Yoolypr
    Yoolypr Posts: 3,298 Member
    Feeling pretty good today. Therapy exercises seem to be working! A friend dropped off a large box of chocolates from her trip to Belgium. How could I say no to that? I’ll have to figure out how to slowly enjoy them - at least before skinny hubby munches his way through the box. 😋
  • PAV8888
    PAV8888 Posts: 14,253 Member
    hmmm... skinny hubby munching his fair share off doesn't sound like a terrible thing to do! And you still get your fair share too! :smiley:
  • bmeadows380
    bmeadows380 Posts: 2,981 Member
    I didn't have a good weekend at all, diet-wise. :( I did so well Monday through Thursday last week, but Friday, Saturday, and Sunday fell apart. I found myself extremely hungry too early in the day, so while I let myself have a sensible, reasonable breakfast on those days, once I started eating, the drive to keep munching was too much for me to resist, and I found myself browsing the rest of the day, and I know I went way over my calorie limits. No amount of guilting, pleading, sternly admonishing, bargaining would stop it.

    At least I got a lot of chores done - gathered the garbage, put up shelving in the kitchen, moved 100+ quart jars of food into the kitchen because the shelves they were on before weren't strong enough to hold them, cleaned up the kitchen, and a few other things I can't quite remember now on Saturday, and then yesterday, I cleaned the bathrooms including scrubbing down the shower with a magic eraser, did some vacuuming, mopped the whole house, fed the birds, dug out my snow shovel and propane heater, and a few other odds n ends. So I was moving around the house both days most of the day.

    Still, I can't be having weekends like this where I wipe out all my progress I make the week before in 2 days' time.

    Today is supposed to be a full fast day, though that insidious voice that wants to much is already awake. And its brain driven entirely because my tummy is perfectly content and not given me any rumblings at all - the coffee was plenty for the tummy, but not for the brain. Grrrrr!

    Even though the wind is still high here and its still snowing, if its stays a light snow, I may go out and start shoveling the 4+ inches we have on the ground now just so I have some exercise in!

    What's sad is that I'm much more interested in shoveling snow than I am getting on my elliptical. And this summer, we are going to install a wood stove for our house which means we have to cut wood for next spring, and I'm actually looking forward to it because I find I enjoy the strenuous labor involved - including splitting most of it by hand!

    Normal daily work seems to be what I am most interested in and enjoy doing but the problem is-the house chores, mowing the lawn, gardening, building things - the physical labor such as that is what I like to do. But my darned job gets in the way with my 9 hours a day desk job. Working from home has helped some because I can take a break and wash dishes or do a quick sweeping job, or even flex my schedule a bit to mow the lawn before the rain, but that only helps so much. That and I just feel so tired all the time, so getting myself going is a huge mental battle. Once I get started, I keep on rolling until the job is done, but getting started is NOT easy!
  • lauriekallis
    lauriekallis Posts: 4,770 Member
    So glad the exercises seem to be working, Yooly. Hope they keep on being worth the effort!
  • conniewilkins56
    conniewilkins56 Posts: 3,391 Member
    I am staying under 1500 calories today…..pre planned food, etc…..I can do this!
  • lauriekallis
    lauriekallis Posts: 4,770 Member
    Good for you, Connie!
    We got to get back on this train.
    I'm teetering back and forth - between my goal 1650 - and knuckling down to something more extreme because I have done nothing but gain this week despite being close to 1650 most days....
  • conniewilkins56
    conniewilkins56 Posts: 3,391 Member
    BMeadows, you did so well losing weight simply counting calories before….I can’t fast…..I don’t eat breakfast but by noon I am ready to eat….I do most of my eating from 5 p.m. to 830 p.m……has your husband tried the South Beach Diet?….it is basically no carbs and good for a lot of people….I usually prepare my dinner and then add or subtract something for husband….
  • Yoolypr
    Yoolypr Posts: 3,298 Member
    I couldn’t do fasting either. When I have to fast for lab work later in the day,I end up wanting to eat everything. So I try to schedule those tests very early.
    As physically hard as you work BMeadows, I don’t know how you continue to function without fuel!
  • bmeadows380
    bmeadows380 Posts: 2,981 Member
    BMeadows, you did so well losing weight simply counting calories before….I can’t fast…..I don’t eat breakfast but by noon I am ready to eat….I do most of my eating from 5 p.m. to 830 p.m……has your husband tried the South Beach Diet?….it is basically no carbs and good for a lot of people….I usually prepare my dinner and then add or subtract something for husband….

    The 60 lbs I lost in 2020 was done through a lot of walking, though. I was getting in at least 1 1/2 hours of walking 5 days a week or more, with some cardio thrown in as well. My problem that I've found is that I couldn't sustain it - I hate the amount of time it took to keep it going and then when the weather turned I couldn't get out anymore and make myself do it anymore. And now I can't get it restarted. nor can I seem to find the control to stick to a calorie limit anymore. Which is why I'm trying the fasting thing once or twice a week. The calorie limit is based on a weekly deficit of 7,000 a week for 2 lbs of fat loss. So if I can't stick to the 1500 calorie limit per day, then if I can instead have 2 days where I'm 1,000 calories under, I can eat 1800 a day on the other 5 days.

    I'm just trying it out for now because nothing else seems to work! But on days like today where I get a big bunch of physically activity in, I know that I need to eat so my body can repair itself properly, so instead of fasting today, I instead am eating to the 1800 and not counting any of the exercise calories. If I get a change to shovel more snow tomorrow, then I won't fast then either; otherwise, if I stay inside and stay sedentary tomorrow, then tomorrow will be my fasting day instead.

    My husband is doing even lower than South Beach. I had looked into South Beach, but its actually considered low carb, but not very low carb. His ideal would be less than 20 carbs a day for a 2 to 3 week period, then less than 50 after that, though we still haven't managed to achieve that yet.
  • conniewilkins56
    conniewilkins56 Posts: 3,391 Member
    BMeadows I have missed you!…..this summer I was swimming five or six days a week….right now it is too cold even with the pool heated!…I still hate R. Simmons…..he kills me!
  • bmeadows380
    bmeadows380 Posts: 2,981 Member
    BMeadows I have missed you!…..this summer I was swimming five or six days a week….right now it is too cold even with the pool heated!…I still hate R. Simmons…..he kills me!

    :) My husband LOVES to swim and would be very envious to know you can do that! The closest pool to us is going to be 25 miles away, if it every opens.....

    Still, we are considering a membership to see if that can encourage us to get more activity in!