The New Water Cooler

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  • jrbanta
    jrbanta Posts: 4,368 Member
    I don't know about what C is doing but I do know several people who did not experiment with drinking and drugs in high school but did so in college when they were away from home. It is normal for some to be curious and try it out. I hope C is not doing so but you know he is a good kid who may just be pushing his independence.

    I'm glad Bernie has a lead for Zach. I hope something works out for him soon. Is he looking at jobs in neighboring states or does he want to stay in your town?

    My pedicure was so nice. My feet feel so much better. Afterwards, I took Sarah some brownies at the nursing home. I ran into her husband and he told me she tried to get up and do something for herself and fell and hit her head again. She still has a bruised face from a few weeks ago and now has a big bump and bruising on her forehead. She doesn't have any memory that she can't just walk, but needs help. It is very sad.

    Tomorrow I hope to ride my bike if the weather is not rainy. Otherwise, I will wash sheets and remake the downstairs beds for company next weekend.

  • jrbanta
    jrbanta Posts: 4,368 Member
    It is windy and rainy today so no bike ride. I picked veggies in my garden and am relaxing and reading.

    Our neighbor's father who farms the orchards near us, dropped off a huge box of peaches. Russ has been cutting and freezing them so we can make smoothies, cobbler, pie, milk shakes etc. We don't want a fruit fly infestation so he took them to the pole barn to slice.

    Waiting for Rory and Hannah to call us and discuss their arrival next Friday. Russ and I need to plan the weekend menu while her parents are here. We want to follow Hannah and Rory's lead on what they want to do and eat while her parents are here.

    We had at least 3" of rain this past week according to my rain gauge!
  • jrbanta
    jrbanta Posts: 4,368 Member
    Costco trip today for paper products and a few other things. I fed my sourdough starter and it is so healthy. I need to bake something with the discard and I also plan to make a sandwich bread loaf which is softer and shaped normal for sandwiches.

    My sisters are coming for dinner when Hannah, Rory, and her parents are here. Russ will smoke ribs and a pork butt in his smoker on Sunday. We will have ribs, homemade Mac n Cheese, watermelon, coleslaw and dessert Sunday Eve.

    Cool day here. Nice and sunny and I feel lazy.

    How are you?
  • mizpaden74
    mizpaden74 Posts: 3,827 Member
    Yum. Your menu sounds delicious. Bernie did a pork loin this weekend and it was really good. We have a local shop that has a small storefront and they offer really good meat and way better prices than the grocery store. They are dealing directly with some of the packs and passing on the savings. You have to get a bigger box but we just repackage. We get chicken breast for less than $2 a pound. The pork loin was $2 a pound. I saw on their board they have brisket for $4 a pound. I think we should get one and try it. Bernie can smoke it and we can freeze it into smaller portions

    The week is racing on
  • mizpaden74
    mizpaden74 Posts: 3,827 Member
    Have you ever tried pickleball? I told Bernie we should learn to play
  • jrbanta
    jrbanta Posts: 4,368 Member
    Your meat choices sound wonderful. It's nice to have a place to get quality meats for less.

    We have 4 pickle ball racquets and balls but have yet to play since I had surgery. I want to learn. Hannah's parents play so I'm hoping they will give us a lesson this weekend when they are here. We have a park down the road that has a lot of courts and there is one in town too. Youtube has videos on how to play. I just need to watch some so I understand the rules of the game.

    Today I will make the downstairs bed and clean the bathtub in the guest bathroom. We won't vacuum, dust or clean the toilet and vanity until Friday morning.

    I fed my sourdough starter yesterday and will feed again tonight, late. I want to try making the sandwich loaf tomorrow and bake by tomorrow night or Friday morning.

    Two nights ago, our outside cameras showed two young coyotes walking by our house in the driveway. Last night showed a bobcat walking through our front yard. Lots of activity while we sleep! Hugo, Rory and Hannah's dog will have a lot of new smells. I hope it doesn't scare him. Charlie use to refuse to pee at night before bed. The wind rustling the pines, animal smells, not sure what scared him but he would go back in the garage and hold it until morning. We really miss him.

    Another nice, sunny day. Temps will be mid 80's to 90's over the weekend. We haven't had many hot days like that this summer.
  • jrbanta
    jrbanta Posts: 4,368 Member
    Accomplished my tasks today. I received a surprise text from my AK daughter in law this morning. They are available in October after Oct 3rd for us to visit them in AK. I booked a VRBO from 8/8-8/18, now to figure out our flights. We could fly to Chicago and fly non stop to Anchorage on AK Air. We have enough miles that we may get the tickets for really cheap or free. We would have to pay to get to Chicago from here. We are glad we get to make the trip to see David and his family. We don't know when we would see them again in person for a long time. With his work schedule, it is hard for them to come here and for us to visit them there when he is around.

    Our house guests arrive within 48 hours. It will be good to spend more time with Hannah's parents and Hannah and Rory. I hope Hugo travels well in the car.

    Have a happy Thursday!
  • jrbanta
    jrbanta Posts: 4,368 Member
    My first sourdough sandwich loaf is in its final rising stage. I will bake this morning and fingers crossed it works out. It is a different texture than a sourdough boule loaf which has a chewier crust and more artisan like. This is baked in a loaf pan and will be shaped like sandwich bread. Hopefully it will be tender too. Always a work in progress and this is my first time making this type of sourdough.

    Rory, Hannah and her parents arrive this afternoon/evening. I need to dust and vacuum, clean the guest bathroom toilet and sink, pick veggies from garden, water the garden, and pick up fruit and orange juice at local grocery.

    Russ' wildflower meadow looks so pretty. So much color and different types of flowers blooming now.

    Any weekend plans?
  • mizpaden74
    mizpaden74 Posts: 3,827 Member
    Yum - I bet your bread is delicious. Fresh bread is amazing. I can't imagine fresh sourdough!

    Hugs for Hugo - and his humans! ;>)

    Yay for getting to plan a visit to Alaska. I bet that will be fun.

    Have a wonderful weekend!
  • jrbanta
    jrbanta Posts: 4,368 Member
    Hannah's parents left last night. The kids dropped them off at the Traverse City airport at 5:30. After they left them her parents learned their flight was delayed 3 hours. Then it was delayed again until midnight. I've not known that to happen with Sun Country Airlines from Traverse City to Mpls. We think it had something to do with severe storms in Mpls last night and pilot flying time expiring. They possibly had to bring in a new crew.

    I will need to detox after Hannah and Rory leave this Friday. We have eaten fudge, been out for breakfast and dinner. We did do a nice hike up to a bluff over Lake MI so I got a workout one day. More walking in the past few days than I have done in awhile so that is good for me. I really need to get off my butt!

    Hannah's Dad is really shy and likes to be at home. He is not a big traveler unless they are going to his son's football games by car. He does not like to fly but made this trip for his wife and Hannah. The kids are going off on their own today to Traverse City. I will wash sheets and towels and pick up my knitting.

    I hope you are having a good week. What's new with you?
  • mizpaden74
    mizpaden74 Posts: 3,827 Member
    Sounds like a good visit. Except for the delays.

    The pictures of the bread looked delicious!

    Zach just got called for an interview Thursday. Here in town. If you are of the mind, would love som good vibes for him. Please God, let us be moving in the right direction

    Rub Hugo for more luck too!
  • mizpaden74
    mizpaden74 Posts: 3,827 Member
    God - it breaks my heart how excited he is. He is studying and preparing and so freaking excited. Just like the other few interviews. He pours himself into. Please God. Let this move him forward.
  • jrbanta
    jrbanta Posts: 4,368 Member
    Sending good vibes to Z. I hope tomorrow's interview goes well and he gets good feedback. I can't even imagine job hunting in these current times. I wouldn't have a clue.

    Today we went winery hopping outside of Traverse City on the Old Mission Peninsula. I hadn't been to any of the wineries out there. We chose 3 and did a tasting at one of them and just glasses of wine at the other two. They had good snacks so we ate our snack/dinner between all 3.

    The kids have one more day and then they leave for Mpls. It went very fast. It is hard to believe summer is over this weekend. We have a picnic at my cousin's beach house on Monday and then we move into Fall. There will be less people around until the Fall color pops.

    It went from 90 degrees yesterday to temps in the 60's today. Relief!

  • mizpaden74
    mizpaden74 Posts: 3,827 Member
    I’m so glad you have had a great visit. So many fun things to do around you!

    T-minus two hours. Please, please, please. Please let us be through the hard. I don’t know if any of us can withstand more of this
  • jrbanta
    jrbanta Posts: 4,368 Member
    Sending positive thoughts and prayers Z's way!

    Kids went kayaking this morning and went out to lunch together. Hugo is staying with Grandpa and Grandma and isn't so sure about it. They have been putting him in his kennel while they are gone but we said leave him out so he gets use to us and knows we are ok too. He is sitting on a chair across the room staring at the kitchen door waiting for them to come home. Another overcast day. I'm washing towels and sheets from guestroom, fed my starter, and plan to make blueberry muffins with sourdough discard in a bit.

    Hopeful for Z!
  • mizpaden74
    mizpaden74 Posts: 3,827 Member
    Aww sweet Hugo. Dear J’s home is a safe place too. I love his name.

    Zach felt very positive about the interview. He was with them for over two hours. An in depth tour and met several other people. The last time he was this upbeat was after the BD interview that would have been an offer if they hadn’t shut down the branch a week later. Anyway

    He’s writing his thank you letters. I’m not sure how long the decision process will be. The main guy is leaving for vacation tomorrow for two weeks.

    Thoughts and prayers still appreciated!

    Hugo hugs
  • jrbanta
    jrbanta Posts: 4,368 Member
    Sounds like it went well. Does Z know how many people applied and are being interviewed for this job? Did they say when they would let him know? Are there more levels of interviewing? I will keep sending positive vibes and prayers to NE.

    Rory and Hannah leave early in the morning. The house will be so quiet again. We will miss them both and Hugo too! They will return at Thanksgiving if weather cooperates for driving.

    Next guests arrives next Thursday.



  • mizpaden74
    mizpaden74 Posts: 3,827 Member
    No decisions until dude is back from vacation. So at least two weeks.

    Thank you for the thoughts and prayers. I feel them

    Bye R and H! Hugs to Hugo!
  • jrbanta
    jrbanta Posts: 4,368 Member
    Rory and Hannah made it over the Mackinac Bridge yesterday morning and then stopped for gas. They couldn't get their car started again and had to call a tow truck. Luckily it only needed a new battery rather than a mechanic. They got back on the road after a couple of hours and made it home last night by 7pm their time. Long day for them!

    Beautiful day but I stayed off the bike trail due to the holiday weekend. I don't like riding with too many people. They often don't practice good trail etiquette and it gets frustrating to have to slow down or try to pass a group blocking the trail.

    Russ vacuumed and mopped for me today. I went to Traverse to pick up my new glasses but the place was closed. They did not indicate closure on their website. Wasted of time and gas. I will pick them up Tuesday.

    Tomorrow I will make my desserts for Monday's picnic at my cousin's beach house.

    Any plans for Labor Day at your house?
  • jrbanta
    jrbanta Posts: 4,368 Member
    Meal planning for my friend's visit this Thursday through Tuesday. She eats Vegan/Vegetarian so we plan accordingly. She visited last summer and we had some good meals. Russ and I aren't going to give up meat but eating veggies and grains for 5 days does make the body feel good.

    Windy, but beautiful day.
  • mizpaden74
    mizpaden74 Posts: 3,827 Member
    Glad the kids made it home safe. Car trouble is the pits.

    Bernie did get a brisket and smoked it overnight Thursday. It is delicious. At $4 pound a great way to get red meat that tastes a lot like prime rib I think. We made a physical Costco run Friday and just stocked up on a lot of things. Lots of protein and yogurt and cheese and the more healthy frozen options. Bernie and I are trying to make better choices.

    Going to head to church tonight. Even though I pray for the family every day and night at home, I definitely feel like we need to get inside the church and pray some more that this is finally Zach’s time.

    Watched some volleyball too of course. Nebraska looking a bit rough. They won, but ugly and the competition is tough. We’ll see what happens. GBR
  • jrbanta
    jrbanta Posts: 4,368 Member
    Today we go to my cousin's beach house for our family get together. There will be 7-8 adults and two kids if all attend. My desserts are done and ready to go.

    I imagine it will be a hard wait for Z. Two weeks is a long time when you are hopeful this is the job. Did he like the people? What is the job?

    I received a vmail that my hair stylist has left the salon. I don't know if she quit or was let go but I need to reschedule my October appt with someone new again. Frustrated! This use to happen to me in Mpls until I found Roger my last person. He was stable, owned the salon and I went to him for several years.

    I have a list of things to accomplish before Kristin arrives from Mpls on Thursday. Busy week! It will only be in the low 60's when she is here with exception of arrival and departure day at 70 to 76. She is excited for the cool temps.

    I need to catch up with Vball. I do love watching college play. I need to shower, wash bedding, make Kristin's bed and get ready for picnic. It isn't going to leave the 60's today. It will cooler on Lake MI so I will layer and wear pants.

    Have a nice day!
  • jrbanta
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    The picnic was interesting to say the least. Most of the adults except Russ, me and my niece were in their late 60's to mid 70's, all women except my cousin Bill. My niece was with her children, ages 5 and 18 months. The two grandmothers of these kids were fussing the whole time about what the kids were doing, where they were, etc. Their mother was present but they obviously don't give Abby any credit for keeping her kids safe and being a good Mom. Their behavior seemed over the top. My cousin who hosted the gathering was less fussy but still a nervous wreck when the kids tried to go in the house from the deck. One of the grandmothers snapped at Russ when he said Bernie, the 18 month old, was doing fine next to him and the railing. She said "you don't know that nothing will happen!" Their big worry was he would fall off the deck, disappear out of sight, etc. The kids were off to the side of the house playing in a sandy area and doing fine. My sister Lynn, Grandma, started saying she heard the kids out in the driveway and where were they. She even got up to peek around the corner of the house to find them. I could see them on the side of the deck and told her they were there twice. She wouldn't listen and kept asking "where are the children?". She reminded me of my Mom in the early stages of her Alzheimers. She asked that question a lot but it typically meant her own children (we were all grown up). My poor niece! Her Mom, my sister, undermines her with the kids, says passive aggressive comments about her parenting and choices (Abby is a wonderful young woman, 44 years old), and does not seem to trust her. It makes Abby feel like an incompetent parent. She is a great Mom!

    Russ and I will have to evaluate if we go to that picnic next year. It was so weird! The weather beautiful and Lake MI was at its best. Sitting with the old ladies and all their fussy comments was so annoying.

    I went to Aquafit this morning, picked up my new glasses, visited Sarah and took her some treats, and put together some bread dough to bake tomorrow.

    How was your day?
  • mizpaden74
    mizpaden74 Posts: 3,827 Member
    Sorry. I’m still here. This week has been hectic!
  • mizpaden74
    mizpaden74 Posts: 3,827 Member
    That does sound like some odd behavior at your picnic. And it must be really hard for Abby. I forgot she has a baby Bernie.

    Overall it was a nice long weekend. Got a good bit accomplished. Not really thrilled with our anniversary Monday. I had mentioned that there is a cidery not that far from us and that it would be fun to go. Bernie wasn’t interested. Same story, different day

    This week has been nuts
  • jrbanta
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    Happy Anniversary! How many years? Russ can be picky about what he likes to do too. He certainly does not hesitate to say "no" and not want to do something that he is not interested in doing. I on the other hand will say "yes" if he wants to do it so it isn't all about my interests. Men!

    Kristin, my friend from Mpls is here. She arrived yesterday and is here until Tuesday morning. Yesterday I picked her up at the airport, went to lunch, came home and then went on a hike (uphill then downhill). I went to Aquafit before I picked her up and then went to shop for new hiking shoes for AK. Russ cooked a vegetarian dinner of veggie lomein and veggie spring rolls. Kristin is vegetarian and vegan. Healthy weekend for us.

    Today is cold and rainy. Shopping or a hike with our raincoats!
  • mizpaden74
    mizpaden74 Posts: 3,827 Member
    what a fun and healthy visit you have going on.

    Go you!

    (anniversary was number 29) -
  • mizpaden74
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    How often do you have to use your starter? I have been pondering getting one going, but don’t know if I can keep it. Someone on a different board on WW was talking about having one once but it went moldy because she wasn’t baking enough.

    What a week. That had to be the longest short week.

    Husker volleyball took a beating on Tuesday losing in three to SMU. It was not pretty. They are struggling early. So much talent. Hopefully they dial in. After so many years of disappointing football (fu Eickhorst and Callahan for ruining the team for decades). We are cautiously hopeful. Saw some good things from them last week. The new qb could be the real deal. As long as the line doesn’t let him get killed. Huge rivalry game tonight against Colorado. They thumped us last year and they weren’t amazing. They have a couple of big names but they are definitely beatable. We will see how it goes. This time it’s a home game. Colorado fans are so dirty. Last year a bunch of fans were throwing crap on the field at the players. Gross. I hope that NU is loud, but not stupid like that.
  • jrbanta
    jrbanta Posts: 4,368 Member
    I feed starter once per week. Equal parts starter, flour and warm water. It stays in the fridge when I'm not using it. If I am going to bake I pull it out, feed it again, and let it double in size and get bubbly. Before feeding, I dump it all in a small bowl and put back in only the amount of starter I want to feed. The extra goes in a separate jar and is called discard. Their are many recipes on Pinterest for discard use. I love the banana bread and scones. There are beginner groups on FB that you can read and learn what others are doing. I think there is a lot of better info on the internet regarding sourdough and recipes. Farmhouseonboone.com, therosehomestead.com and Maurizio Leo "The Bread Guy" are good sources. Artisan Bread Made Simple is an easy cookbook too.

    Kristin and I have been having fun. We have been rock hunting, buying local jewelry, hiking and today we toured the Traverse City Asylum that opened in 1850 and closed in 1989. Some of it has been renovated into shops and restaurants, businesses, apartments and some of the old buildings are still dilapidated. Very cool place with quite the history of caring for vulnerable people from very disturbed to unwed mothers. We learned a lot. We went for a walk and she is still out walking. My feet hurt so I only did one round around the orchard.

    I haven't had TV time since she got here so haven't seen any vball. Cold nights here now and Fall days this week. We will probably get another warm spell before Sept/Oct are over.

    I hope you are having a good weekend.
  • jrbanta
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    We spent the afternoon at Lake MI beach looking for Petoskey stones. I found more than I have ever found in the last 45 years. We took a walk on the beach and then at smoked trout Kristin bought at the fishery. We took a cooler with a few snacks. Russ has been cooking vegetarian/vegan meals to accommodate Kristin. I have to say I feel better after eating this way. I like meat but less may be a good thing. I wouldn't want to be Vegan but I could do more vegetarian meals.

    Kristin flies home tomorrow. I will need a nap with all the walking we have done. Good for my knee and body but more than I have done in a long time. We did one of the local hiking trails yesterday that I had never done. It was a great trail so I want Russ to walk it with me.

    Kristin is packing and then we are going to watch the second and third series about the Twin Flames cult that is local to Suttons Bay unfortunately. The leaders moved here in the past year or two. There are two docuseries, one on Netflix and one on Prime. Weird people and what a scam!!!!

    I hope you had a good weekend. Another week until Z hears something?