Gym boy wasn't there today. :explode: :mad:

I'm starting to lose my patience.

Ugggghhhh me toooo!!!!!!!!!!!

You can hang out with my brother anytime lol. He would probably appreciate it :smokin:

I had date number four with a particular guy yesterday. It went well as they always do. We went to see The Hunger Games (he's even read the book ) and dinner. He's easy to be with and I like him. All signs point to a date number five as well.

i had a wicked date! remember when i thought i was getting played back in like january! haha well weve been dating! we went to the hunger games, canadian brewhouse for some beers and food! And in a couple weeks were going to the mountains for a couple nights!!!

So. . . there's this church girl. . .she gets in line behind me at the chili cook off and strikes up a conversation with me and introduces herself. So I'm fairly dumbfounded by this because she's freaking beautiful (not that I'm not worthy. . but wow). . Anyway, so that's that, I say goodbye and thanks for the vote as I'm leaving with my first place trophy. .

So now I'm looking for her at church and I run into her every week and chat her up for about 5 minutes before and sometimes after church (she sits with her family, and there are three services. . so it's a crap shoot which one either of us goes to (my kid hates the one she (usually) goes to, so I usually cave to his demands (he's 5. . I want him to LIKE church!). .

Anyway, so HOW in the world do you make any progress in a situation like that!? I'm not sure if she's just super nice to everybody or if she's interested. .partially because I've been out of this game for so long. . I did some online stuff, but that is COMPLETELY different from real life (or so I've discovered). . I can churn out the charm 80 words a minute online. . in person it's "duh . .uhh. . . blhorll . . huh? hi". .

Ok. .I'm not THAT inept, but it does take some practice to get those skills back..

So last Sunday I just happen to run into her (I'm practically stalking her). . and I told her that we need her on the softball team. . she asks a few questions about who to contact and so I said: "What's your number. . I'll text you the info". and she gave it to me!

so. . ladies. . creepy or cute? Obvious? Do I just ask her out, or carry on a text only thing for awhile? how long? I'm inclined to play it by ear, but I may be tone-deaf and I don't want to end up one of your creepy guy stories on these forums!

we went to the hunger games

Sounds like Hunger games was the date of the weekend. I've seen three of us with dates to the hunger games!

Gym boy wasn't there today. :explode: :mad:

I'm starting to lose my patience.

You don't pull the trigger when you can and then you blame him for lack of patience? Really?

I had date number four with a particular guy yesterday. It went well as they always do. We went to see The Hunger Games (he's even read the book ) and dinner. He's easy to be with and I like him. All signs point to a date number five as well.

Super!! Date 5 would mean a serious relationship to me!! :laugh:

So. . . there's this church girl. . .
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I told her that we need her on the softball team. . she asks a few questions about who to contact and so I said: "What's your number. . I'll text you the info". and she gave it to me!

so. . ladies. . creepy or cute? Obvious? Do I just ask her out, or carry on a text only thing for awhile? how long? I'm inclined to play it by ear, but I may be tone-deaf and I don't want to end up one of your creepy guy stories on these forums!

Wow, that's tough being in the same church because if you creep her out then you'll still see each other often and that could be awkward. Since the church has 3 services, I'm guessing it's large enough to have some fellowships or singles events on a regular basis. In addition to the softball angle, perhaps you could ask her if she's attending the next one and hang out with her. If you get a good vibe, you could ask her out for coffee/lunch/dinner. Just whatever you do, try to make it easy for her to say no without being permanently awkward (easier said than done- wish I had a good suggestion).

Hope it works out!

^^^this!! Good luck :flowerforyou:

There's one particular lady I'm starting to see on quite a regular basis now. Kinda nice cause I'm tired of the one & done dates. O, forgot to mention that I got my tongue pierced just yesterday! Now to figure out how I can use this to my benefit!:laugh: :bigsmile: