Monday updates....
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I went on a second date with this guy on Saturday! It was pretty fun! We saw the Hunger Games. And then he dropped me off at home but since we have the same friends we ended up meeting out at a party and went to the bars together.
wooooohoooooo!! Sounds like lots of romances going on this weekend
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I almost got into a bar fight with a man who claimed to have ties to the mafia.
OMG! Pleease dont pick fights with men!! You will lose!! :laugh:0 -
I almost got into a bar fight with a man who claimed to have ties to the mafia.
what what?0 -
I had a date Saturday night with a guy I’ve been seeing off and on for the past five months. He’s perfect and I absolutely love hanging out with him. Problem….he has a lot of family and personal issues going on…..so he’s not at a place to have anything serious. It sucks and I know I’m setting myself up for heart break but I cant seem to stay away from him. :sad:
Its just bad timing. May or may not get better. Who knows? But, as long as your'e happy with what's going on, then be enjoy it!! :flowerforyou:
The problem is....... I'm not happy with what is going on at the moment. I want more and he is not capable of giving this to me right now. I know he likes me but his family life is a mess right now. I get it....but that dosent mean I have to like it!0 -
I almost got into a bar fight with a man who claimed to have ties to the mafia.
what what?
I don't really remember what happened, but it was an older guy, probably about 40-50, and he came over and tried to hit on me and my roomie in a very vulgar way. So I told him pretty much to eff off, and he started trying to get in my face, and I got right back in his talking about how I work out and flexing my biceps and telling him I could kick his *kitten* LMAO. My friends ended up holding me back and the token big black guy friend got involved and told him to back off. Then he went back inside and came out with two more old guy friends and got me all riled up again. I ended up telling everyone at the bar that he was a ***** for not fighting me and for fighting me. Does that make sense? It's all kinda blurry lol.0 -
I almost got into a bar fight with a man who claimed to have ties to the mafia.
Sounds dangerous! Be careful out there .....
I had a weird phase of ex (insert random adjective here) guys when I did online dating (ex-gangster, ex-monk, ex-psychotic). Made me want to demand of people before a first meeting: "yes but what did you USED to be?" :laugh:0 -
So POF girls. Do you send a message to the guys you don't want to communicate with? I had almost 40 emails and only really want to respond to 3 of them.0
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Don't bother. Men have integrated that there will be a high percentage of rejection on these websites...So POF girls. Do you send a message to the guys you don't want to communicate with? I had almost 40 emails and only really want to respond to 3 of them.
Plus if you reply to everyone, you'll have creepos.
Thus why half of the men here don't even bother going there anymore. :laugh: Just poor ROI.0 -
So my weekend was entertaining to say the least....
Friday night was the rock concert for my boys and I rode up there with this guy who is also friends with the band. We had a blast but I think I missed something cause my girlie came up to me and asked do seriously what are D chances. I just looked at her blankly for a minute and was like hes really nice and has great taste in music thats all I know about him lol. Well the show went great got my shirt signed a guitar pick signed and I new Cd plus about 150 pictures. He dropped me off and I gave him a hug lol. He has asked to see me again so we will see if anything develops.
Now Saturday I went out with that old FWB/ semidated guy. We had a blast and got trashed lol I was out til 830 in the morning (I know some 24 places). Nothing happened with us which is good I think....
Oh and on a side note current FWB blew up my phone the whole weekend but I couldnt see him lol cause I was out. Tonight however he and I are going to the bar were my girl is DJing so it should be interesting.... All in all I'm glad I have alot of energy or I think I would have collapsed by now lol0 -
Gym boy wasn't there today. :explode: :mad:
I'm starting to lose my patience.0 -
Gym boy wasn't there today. :explode: :mad:
I'm starting to lose my patience.
Ugggghhhh me toooo!!!!!!!!!!!
You can hang out with my brother anytime lol. He would probably appreciate it :smokin:0 -
So POF girls. Do you send a message to the guys you don't want to communicate with? I had almost 40 emails and only really want to respond to 3 of them.
If they wrote me a long message and I could tell they really read my profile I would send a simple "thank you for reading my profile" just because I wanted to be nice.
All the other stupid 1 liners ("you're hot" "nice pics" "how are you") were simply deleted.0 -
I had date number four with a particular guy yesterday. It went well as they always do. We went to see The Hunger Games (he's even read the book
) and dinner. He's easy to be with and I like him. All signs point to a date number five as well. 0 -
I had date number four with a particular guy yesterday. It went well as they always do. We went to see The Hunger Games (he's even read the book ) and dinner. He's easy to be with and I like him. All signs point to a date number five as well.
yay :drinker: keep us posted.0 -
i had a wicked date! remember when i thought i was getting played back in like january! haha well weve been dating! we went to the hunger games, canadian brewhouse for some beers and food! And in a couple weeks were going to the mountains for a couple nights!!! 0
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Gym boy wasn't there today
aww man :-(0 -
So. . . there's this church girl. . .she gets in line behind me at the chili cook off and strikes up a conversation with me and introduces herself. So I'm fairly dumbfounded by this because she's freaking beautiful (not that I'm not worthy. . but wow). . Anyway, so that's that, I say goodbye and thanks for the vote as I'm leaving with my first place trophy. .
So now I'm looking for her at church and I run into her every week and chat her up for about 5 minutes before and sometimes after church (she sits with her family, and there are three services. . so it's a crap shoot which one either of us goes to (my kid hates the one she (usually) goes to, so I usually cave to his demands (he's 5. . I want him to LIKE church!). .
Anyway, so HOW in the world do you make any progress in a situation like that!? I'm not sure if she's just super nice to everybody or if she's interested. .partially because I've been out of this game for so long. . I did some online stuff, but that is COMPLETELY different from real life (or so I've discovered). . I can churn out the charm 80 words a minute online. . in person it's "duh . .uhh. . . blhorll . . huh? hi". .
Ok. .I'm not THAT inept, but it does take some practice to get those skills back..
So last Sunday I just happen to run into her (I'm practically stalking her). . and I told her that we need her on the softball team. . she asks a few questions about who to contact and so I said: "What's your number. . I'll text you the info". and she gave it to me!
so. . ladies. . creepy or cute? Obvious? Do I just ask her out, or carry on a text only thing for awhile? how long? I'm inclined to play it by ear, but I may be tone-deaf and I don't want to end up one of your creepy guy stories on these forums!0 -
Car81307, I would start off with the softball info and maybe add some humor/ flirty stuff in there.. if she responds then you'll catch on if she's interested.
You could always call her!!!0 -
we went to the hunger games
Sounds like Hunger games was the date of the weekend. I've seen three of us with dates to the hunger games!0 -
Car81307, I would start off with the softball info and maybe add some humor/ flirty stuff in there.. if she responds then you'll catch on if she's interested.
You could always call her!!!
That's been my strategy so far. . . got a 'lol' or two. . keeping it low volume. 0 -
Gym boy wasn't there today. :explode: :mad:
I'm starting to lose my patience.
You don't pull the trigger when you can and then you blame him for lack of patience? Really?0 -
So. . . there's this church girl. . .
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I told her that we need her on the softball team. . she asks a few questions about who to contact and so I said: "What's your number. . I'll text you the info". and she gave it to me!
so. . ladies. . creepy or cute? Obvious? Do I just ask her out, or carry on a text only thing for awhile? how long? I'm inclined to play it by ear, but I may be tone-deaf and I don't want to end up one of your creepy guy stories on these forums!
Wow, that's tough being in the same church because if you creep her out then you'll still see each other often and that could be awkward. Since the church has 3 services, I'm guessing it's large enough to have some fellowships or singles events on a regular basis. In addition to the softball angle, perhaps you could ask her if she's attending the next one and hang out with her. If you get a good vibe, you could ask her out for coffee/lunch/dinner. Just whatever you do, try to make it easy for her to say no without being permanently awkward (easier said than done- wish I had a good suggestion).
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Gym boy wasn't there today. :explode: :mad:
I'm starting to lose my patience.
You don't pull the trigger when you can and then you blame him for lack of patience? Really?
Whatcha mean jelly bean? Now it's my fault he didn't show up when he should had? He's been slacking... last Thursday he was late (I think). Then today he wasn't even there. Tuesdays is the for sure day I see him though so it has to be tomorrow.
It seems when I'm looking for him he's not there.. and when I am not, he's everywhere. Today I had anxiety everytime the door opened because I knew that was it. I'm determined. Tomorrow is the day. (if he's there)0 -
Oh so tomorrow was the concert with friend lover but I received news that they moved it to Wednesday. I figured I wasn't going to see gym guy since I was going to possibly skip gym but apparently it's meant to be and we shall see each other tomorrow. HE BETTER BE THERE.0
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I had date number four with a particular guy yesterday. It went well as they always do. We went to see The Hunger Games (he's even read the book ) and dinner. He's easy to be with and I like him. All signs point to a date number five as well.
Super!! Date 5 would mean a serious relationship to me!! :laugh:0 -
Gym boy wasn't there today
aww man :-(
yep! This guy is bugging me now!!! :laugh:0 -
So. . . there's this church girl. . .
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I told her that we need her on the softball team. . she asks a few questions about who to contact and so I said: "What's your number. . I'll text you the info". and she gave it to me!
so. . ladies. . creepy or cute? Obvious? Do I just ask her out, or carry on a text only thing for awhile? how long? I'm inclined to play it by ear, but I may be tone-deaf and I don't want to end up one of your creepy guy stories on these forums!
Wow, that's tough being in the same church because if you creep her out then you'll still see each other often and that could be awkward. Since the church has 3 services, I'm guessing it's large enough to have some fellowships or singles events on a regular basis. In addition to the softball angle, perhaps you could ask her if she's attending the next one and hang out with her. If you get a good vibe, you could ask her out for coffee/lunch/dinner. Just whatever you do, try to make it easy for her to say no without being permanently awkward (easier said than done- wish I had a good suggestion).
Hope it works out!
^^^this!! Good luck :flowerforyou:0 -
I came down to Pensacola for a date/weekend.
The good, we spent the entire 48 hours together and get along great.
The bad, I'm not certain she's serious about being exclusive.
Hey! Give it time!! How many times have you met? How far do you live away from each other??
This was our first real date. We live about 7 hours apart.
Holy smokes! I have a difficult time seeing someone who lives more than 20-30 minutes away from me.
We're been texting and talking this week and we're going to make a go of it. Never say never.0 -
There's one particular lady I'm starting to see on quite a regular basis now. Kinda nice cause I'm tired of the one & done dates. O, forgot to mention that I got my tongue pierced just yesterday! Now to figure out how I can use this to my benefit!:laugh: :bigsmile:0
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There's one particular lady I'm starting to see on quite a regular basis now. Kinda nice cause I'm tired of the one & done dates. O, forgot to mention that I got my tongue pierced just yesterday! Now to figure out how I can use this to my benefit!:laugh: :bigsmile:
When you start thinking, "to her benefit" then you'll get your benefit. Think forward...0
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