I, like most people, am pretty oblivious when someone is in to me.. But if I had to guess I would say...
Clingy guys who end up trying to control me. Or guys who lose interest out of no where and just vanish.

Neither are appealing in any way....

Hey, me too!

I am an expert in the oblivious subject. Completely and utterly clueless if someone is into me.

I can`t say that I really (in everyday life) attract anybody. :embarassed:

This is me too! But I don't think I'm giving off the "come hither" vibes just yet...

Married men :noway:

this! i don't seem to attract anyone that is single,( or not enmeshed with their EX.) or in my town. or state.

but, married men, from wherever, seem interested :-/ it's kinda depressing.....

Older than my Dad

idiots.

I like to think that every single woman I meet is attracted to me! I clearly have no self esteem issues!

he admitted that he had seen me way before we met and he had even broke into my apartment a few times and hung out.

Whhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat!!! :noway: :noway: :noway:

That would FREAK me out!!

Was he just a loon?? Or eccentric ? Or what?? :laugh: I can't even believe he told you....:noway:

Unfortunately I have not been attracting hot kinky women who have jobs brains a love for fitness and live within 50 ish miles. Well since I am so full of myself I choose to believe I have been attracting them, they are just too overwhelmed with all that is me to approach me!

turns out dude was going up to the roof then swinging in like freaking spider man :noway:

and i should have known something was up because the first time (i thought the first time) he came to my apartment my cat who was normally very shy with new people was all over him like she knew him..

needless to say i broke the hell up with him and made sure to lock my windows whenever i left.

WTF!!! What did he do to your cat to make it be friendly is more of a concern. This is why I have a dog. Cats cannot be trusted. As for the crazy guy: Dead bolt, restraining order, or a I know some guys...

I'm the guy she knows! Want me to throw a beat down to your crazy guy? Or maybe shave the cat for consorting with the freaks?

If I went off of who bought me drinks the last few weekends while I was out, the type I would attract would be Vietnam Veterans in their late 60s/early 70s! HAHAHAHAHHAAHHA! Shameless flirts, but with some pretty awesome stories to tell with few people willing to listen.

Other than that, I don't know who I attract...I guess maybe guys who don't really know what they want and maybe have some growing up to do.

last one (2012): have known for over 4 years, he's also military (stationed overseas) and friendship grew into feelings...and then his ex came back in the picture. She cheated on him after being together for a year. He deserves better than her, but I can't make him see that and I'm not going to hang around like a lost puppy waiting for him to get his head on straight...still really hurts my heart.

one before that (2011): neighbor's best friend, a few years younger than me. He wasn't what I thought my 'type' was...he was a bit more sensitive and I thought "well, my 'type' isn't working, so let me try something else. What a mess...clingy, intimidated by my independence, said that I flaunt my money (even though my money is what paid for my plane tickets to see him after he moved?) and he said I didn't know how to communicate well, which I think boiled down to him saying that when I didn't give him an answer that he liked

one before THAT (2010): best friend's little brother (also my boyfriend from jr high...hahah), so someone I had known for over half of my life, but he lived in MN. When I was home in 2009, he was very interested but I was wary of distance and thought his interest would fade, but he kept in contact and brought up being together when I was home the following year. I decide to give it a shot and things were going great. We talked all the time and he even started looking at jobs down in GA and was planning a trip down here to go to a military function and maybe talk to some potential employers. I had used airline miles to get the ticket.
He
never
got
on
the
plane

Haven't talked to him since...still no idea what happened, but according to his sister he's getting married this fall. Good luck, buddy.

After writing this, I guess the ones that I attract are those who either don't live here or have the potential of moving away...and can't commit, obviously.

I feel like I've lived here long enough that I've vetted the locals I'd be interested in/they were interested in me and it didn't work

losers!! :laugh:

Me too. And Charlie Manson guys. I'm a big hit with them. Pretty much why I've given up dating.

I keep attracting Mr. Wrong. When is Mr. Right going to pop in??

losers!! :laugh:

And not to equate the next batch of people I attract with that - I tend to attract a lot of black guys too, as another poster stated. I only like white guys. usually losers and people I'm no way physically attracted to.

Obviously the wrong ones.

ditto!!:laugh:

I keep attracting Mr. Wrong. When is Mr. Right going to pop in??
send me one please!!