Hmm. Thinking about it, only girls my age or older.

I think I scare the younger girls... Or maybe it's because I only hang out with people who are older than I am.

I honestly don't know? Some guys are attracted to how laid back I can be, some guys like that I find joy and am enthusiastic about what a lot of people consider insignificant, some guys like that I can string a sentence together... so it really depends on what aspect of me they meet and like.

I usually attract clingers. They come over Friday and they won't leave until Monday morning. Sometimes it's nice, but I hate having to kick people out.

Just kick 'em the hell out! I generally try to tell people up front that I really appreciate my alone time. Or just go to her house and leave when you want...

I hate staying over.
Get the hell out before it's time to sleep! (I'm only half joking)

So throwing her *kitten* out into the yard isn't too harsh??

I'd rather sleep in my own bed any day of the week, and alone... I bought a fancy couch for guests!!

only if she's helping pay for rent. otherwise i'd be like "what the hell am i, a bed and breakfast?"

Hmmmm.... I attracted a variety of men

Lets see I attracked alot of younger men lately ( had a 19 yr old hit on me lol ) according to them I look much younger than I am and I seem like fun...
I seem to be on a run of attracting military guys in the last couple of weeks...
I also seem to attract the brash and cocky type .....

I usually attract clingers. They come over Friday and they won't leave until Monday morning. Sometimes it's nice, but I hate having to kick people out.

Just kick 'em the hell out! I generally try to tell people up front that I really appreciate my alone time. Or just go to her house and leave when you want...

I hate staying over.
Get the hell out before it's time to sleep! (I'm only half joking)

So throwing her *kitten* out into the yard isn't too harsh??

I'd rather sleep in my own bed any day of the week, and alone... I bought a fancy couch for guests!!

If she doesn't get the hint, then she is probably dumb, and probably should have her stuff thrown out into the yard. ;D
I can't stand sleeping next to someone. It's the worst when they try to spoon you and wanna fall asleep like that. You move... Then they move closer. Take a fricking hint.

Just stretch, yawn and say "Wellllll, I should be getting to bed...." And start walking to the front door. Works most of the time.

Maybe a stretch a :yawn: and a "Get the F out, your *kitten* is in the yard!"

I'm beginning to think there aren't any men out there who are attracted to me :frown:

I usually attract clingers. They come over Friday and they won't leave until Monday morning. Sometimes it's nice, but I hate having to kick people out.

Just kick 'em the hell out! I generally try to tell people up front that I really appreciate my alone time. Or just go to her house and leave when you want...

I hate staying over.
Get the hell out before it's time to sleep! (I'm only half joking)

So throwing her *kitten* out into the yard isn't too harsh??

I'd rather sleep in my own bed any day of the week, and alone... I bought a fancy couch for guests!!

Awwwww, dont you like cuddlin after :smokin: Or is that just me :blushing:

I dont like sticking together while actually sleeping though. Apart from a foot touching or something :bigsmile:

You know, it sounds like people just need to stop inviting others to your own place to stay over.

yeah but some people wear out a welcome. or eat you out of house and home or end up using too much of your really expensive shampoo and conditioner :laugh:

i can understand this being an issue for some people because i'm not used to living with people or having to share. i mean no matter how much i like a guy there's only so many times i can take him drinking up all my lemonade or iced tea

yeah but some people wear out a welcome. or eat you out of house and home or end up using too much of your really expensive shampoo and conditioner :laugh:

i can understand this being an issue for some people because i'm not used to living with people or having to share. i mean no matter how much i like a guy there's only so many times i can take him drinking up all my lemonade or iced tea

I get what you're saying. I had a friend who needed a place to stay so she moved in... and it turned into a year! I learned quickly how at age 32 I was already set in my ways so it opened my eyes about what it would be like to share my space permanently. It really doesn't matter which way the toilet paper roll goes on (it does go with the lose end over the top though), haha...

I get the feeling most people here are more speaking to nightly/ weekend guests sharing the sheets, not the iced tea, so I don't think the same thoughts or rules apply, haha but then I'm a cuddler... until someone sweats on me, then its done...

I attract people (men and women) to whom I am not attracted. Boo!

I can't believe I just read hate and cuddle in the same sentence. Tisk Tisk single peeps. I cuddling.

I can't believe I just read hate and cuddle in the same sentence. Tisk Tisk single peeps. I cuddling.

For sure. How could you not like cuddles!

I like to cuddle when on the couch during a movie. Usually it'll lead to more, eventually.

At night, I like to cuddle for a while until I get really sleepy then off to my side. Although I did cuddle throughout the night a time or 2. I woke up with pain everywhere, unable to move my neck and an arm that I couldn't feel.

Fine with me as long as your naked...lol

Well DUH! That's the point of cuddling!!! :smokin:

I can't believe I just read hate and cuddle in the same sentence. Tisk Tisk single peeps. I cuddling.

For sure. How could you not like cuddles!

Easy, it gets old after about 5 minutes when I need to move but can't. I do like to lay my head in someone's lap while they play with my hair though (or vice versa), I'm like a dog.

I love guys to play with my hair