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Unsupportive SO's
First off, I'm NOT trying to offend anyone or point any fingers or say anyone's dude/dudette is unsuitable/a jerk/etc. I've been reading through some of these threads and I'm so sadden by some of the things I'm reading... your significant other telling you that you don't look good, pulling faces, having fights about your…
Good Sports Bras
I am doing really intense workouts with my husband and I need more support. I have some Sports Bras by Addidas but they're a little stretched. Are there any really good brands that anyone knows of that would support a 36 DDD?
Weird feeling
Sometimes at night when I am "spooning" my husband, I feel like I am snuggling up to a little boy, because I am so much wider than him. I hate that. It's one of the many benefits I see to losing weight...to make that weird feeling go away. Am I the only one who feels this way?
Partnership
This may have been unfair but I asked my husband to really push me. None of my friends that I actually see on a regular basis are struggling with weight, or they are but they're not really working on it. At first I didn't even want help from my husband because he didn't need to lose weight. Then we started exercising…
Insanity
You know that Beachbody workout Insanity with Shaun T? My husband talked me into starting it with him tomorrow! It looks super intimidating, has anyone tried it?
Going Out?
Hey you guys! I was just curious to know if any of you ever feel embarrassed going out to restaurants with your slim guy? I know it probably sounds petty but sometimes I swear people are staring at us and I can't help but wonder if they're thinking to themselves "Why is this good looking guy with this pig?" I'm such a…
Anybody else have conversations like this with your man?
My husband swears that even though I was skinny when we got together he likes me better with some weight on me. Says that male primal instincts like hips and a little bit of a belly. Whenever I complain about my belly gets a little agitated and says things like, "We want kids one day, how are you going to feel when you…
So supportive...
My Fiance has been so supportive during this whole process, and is even trying to work out with me and tone up himself..even though he could eat a whole horse and not gain any weight... Has your thin man been supportive of you?
I need to stop displacing my anger on my husband
I use to have this problem with getting angry at my husband when he would tell me how great he thinks I look, especially on days when I felt really fat and ugly. I would take all the frustration I had with myself out on him. I would tell him he was lying or just being nice. I would even ask him not to say those things…
Hello
I'm Jess. I'm 22 and need to lose about 45 lbs. I am Married to a wonderful guy who I have known since high school. I couldn't ask for a better husband. He never makes me feel bad about my weight or even acknowledges that I have gained a lot of weight since we got together. I was a zero when we got together and now I'm a…
