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Well, exercise is a great outlet for sexual frustration! At least we're in good company? =)

Sadly, this is kind of my marriage, too, except that I'm checked out. I've been very vocal about my needs and he's ignored them for years. I thought I could somehow make it work, but there's other behavior that's become intolerable. I think part of my "problem" is that I'm not willing to settle and give up on an awesome…

I had to adult today and now I'm waiting for a big kid to get done with his class.

You sound like my next ex-husband.

I'm a writer so using anything except proper grammar makes me feel dirty and not in a good way. I personally love Tinder for the eye candy.

I'm afraid most in my age group would need to google before answering or they'd ignore. Except for the nudes part.

If a woman were looking for just a hook up, what would the magic words be? I mean, I'm just asking because I'm nosy. I have Tinder and my conversations usually stop dead when I say, "Hi, how are you?"

I'm so glad you're ok. This is my worst fear when I'm out riding because some people seem determined not to share the road. I hate to sound like a mother, but where was your helmet?

I talk about myself/my life a lot, not because I'm that into myself but because I'm afraid if I ask the other person questions, I'll be seen as intrusive and rude. I'm an open book, though, and will talk about pretty much anything at any time. Want to discuss why I won't do anal while we share dessert? Fine. I have a…

4 years old and...well, not 4 years old.

Thank you! It's totally the hair cut, but I appreciate it.

I'm Tracy and live in VA. I'd like to lose 10 lb. but my primary focus is on reducing body fat and building muscle. I run, swim and bike on a regular basis because I'm training for a 70.3.

@km8907 I'm so sorry.

I'll add a story from my brief stint as a cougar. Before I met the current spouse, I had gotten divorced from my lovely ex, who cheated on me for 8 out of the 10 years we were married. He's on wife #6 now, just fyi. After we split, I dated around just to have fun. I was working 2 jobs so I didn't have the time to be in a…

I confess that I'm slightly worried that I picked up on the word nachos before I thought about a guy in a speedo.

Thank you so much! I don't think I'm amazing; I just want to be in good health and set a good example for my kids.

Waiting for children to be ready to leave for the pool and figuring out how I'm going to avoid doing any serious work this afternoon.

Well, now I know what I've been doing wrong. No swim fins.

In our state, you have to be living separately for a year if you have minor children (which we do). There are rare instances in which a couple has gotten divorced while sharing the same house, but there were people who could corroborate that the couple were not sharing a bedroom. The difficult part in my situation is that…

Aw, thank you! He's beautiful! Roosters are so awesome.

I ate lunch after the pool. I assume that's why I didn't drown.

Actually, knitting and crocheting are my winter hobbies!

We do our own thing the majority of the time. I think the only common interest we have at this point is the kids. I spend a lot of time either at the gym, outside running or cycling or at the pool. He talks about all of the things he's going to do and doesn't follow through.

No such luck! Maybe I'm too old and hideous.

I had a fwb once that was the best. He may have just been a booty call since we didn't have a lot in common but I really thought a lot of him. I didn't want to be in a relationship so that was perfect for me. I'd kill for a fwb now.

The best kind of shoes are no shoes, like at lunch time today.

I hate to say this, but.... Come September 6, I may take margaritas to the bus stop. Our 9 and 6 year olds have been home with us during the summer. We both work at home, but the kids hang in the living room where I work. I'm good at tuning them out (plus I'm partially deaf) but sometimes they are just so annoying with the…

@mkakids I'm so sorry but also congrats on all of those races! I started an argument last night because the spouse hadn't said anything about not getting there to the finish and he looked absolutely bewildered about my thinking it was a big deal. I actually asked him if he was, in fact, human or if he'd been raised with…