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It never ceases to amaze me when one person treats their spouse like this woman's husband treats her. The one person who has signed on to be there for the rest of forever should be your best friend and companion! A mean word about me or my looks has NEVER been uttered by my husband, and I hope it to stay that way. OP: Good…

I do the EXACT same thing. If I said the same words to another, that I say to myself.... that person would likely be in tears. :( I usually push it off with excuses like "I have high standards!"... but it's just low self-esteem. Thanks for this post, today I will be nice to me. :)

Oooh I want in!

OMG I'm sick too! I started to notice it on Friday. I'm not alone! O_o I've got tickets to the MN/NY baseball game tomorrow and will be sending my husband's friend with him, in place of myself. GRRR!

omg lol

I lost over 100 lbs in 2008, but my mind never caught up. My self esteem was still crap and I saw a fat girl whenever I looked in the mirror. Other medical issues were present and when depression crept up later on I didn't have a chance. I got comfy, stopped caring and gained it all back, plus more. The less I cared about…

AGREE. Personal responsibility, ACCEPTANCE, EDUCATION do NOT mean RUDENESS. Empower people, don't shame them long before they can get a handle on their issue.

I'm with you, I am motivated and there is nothing that's going to stop me from my goal. BUT...THIS IS A PLACE FOR PEOPLE TO GET SUPPORT [re- the second 1/2 of the name of this sub forum] not people to tell them what they're doing wrong with a blunt group mentality. Especially people who were once in their shoes. Everyone…

I did close my diary over a similar issue. Honestly I don't need help at the moment anyways, so I will leave it closed until the time comes that I might want some advice.

I'm in one right now! :) The entry was $20 and the pot is past $12,000. There are 626 people playing.

A day ago. If I wasn't the busiest person EVER, I MAY have cut it out, but I don't mind going. If I stay under my calories and and don't go overboard, then it's just fine. I've made it a mission for this time 'round not to restrict ANYTHING outright.

This.

Just helping. :)

Great choice! I have an Avenger myself. I love Chargers and Challengers even more, but the gas mileage got me. I've driven a few chargers and I gotta say that is one hot car! Next comes the hot bod to go with it! You can totally do it! I am always looking for new friends, add me if you want. :)

You look so happy! Your smile shines now! You are inspiring!

Our starting weights are very similar. How long did this take you?

This.

This happened to me. I lost a TON of weight and I still saw the same fat girl. Depression got really bad and I gained ALL of it back, plus more. I am both terrified and determined losing the weight another time around. I'm trying to get that girl back (visible in my ticker) and when she's here I will tell her she is…

DAYUM. You look hot! Way to go!

I lost over 100 lbs from 2006-2008 and this happened to me. I saw fat everywhere on my body. I would tell myself I am still the same fat girl even though I was wearing medium shirts and size 12 pants (I have a large frame so that's an awesome size to be at). I didn't want people to look at me. I met my (now husband) and…

My name used to be Heather Lehman (before I got married). So HeyThereLameMan it is.

You guys are hilarious!

I was drinking 5-8+ cans of Diet Dew a day and zero water. I gave it up three weeks ago and after the initial withdrawal I feel great! It saves me money, too!

Height: 5'8" Age/Gender: 26/female Highest weight: 339 Current Weight: 324.6 (but I weigh in tomorrow!) Lowest weight: 187 (In 2008. Visible in my ticker...) Goal weight: 180-ish (I'm sure I'll be happy anywhere south of 200)

As you can see I joined this thing a loooooong time ago, too. I log daily and I'm always looking for friends. Feel free to add me.

I just commented on a similar post this very morning! http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/763772-citalopram-celexa-does-make-you-fat Chin up!

I was on this for 5+ years and during that time I gained about 110 lbs...BUT there were several other factors. -I LOVE FOOD. -I have had thyroid issues all my life and had it removed so my meds need to be perfect or my body goes all out of whack. -I have PCOS -I got on BC pills to help with symptoms of PCOS and baaaaaad…

You can't make everyone happy AND make no one mad.

THIS happened just today. I was proud, actually. There were free sandwiches, wraps, cookies, chips, pop, smoothies and water. I took half a wrap (they were good size), about 8 doritos, a pickle, and a smoothie. Junk-food me would have taken all of it! I also did not go back up when they told everyone there was plenty for…