SarahJean0704

i don't want him back but i can't say i dont care for him somewhat , but im way too good for him and hes no where near my level, just sayin may sound bad but its the truth .

well right .. i told them both i would be happy for either of them if they found someone to be with but i don't think they should have even made that decision to start talking .. when he started i think she should have turned him down and left it at that , thats just me saying what i would do if i was in that situation.

she may be rebounding but whether she is or not i don't think she needed to do it with my ex.. idk i just feel like ive been really disrespected by the both of them .

Thanks, i deff don't want to lose our friendship and i've told her that and thats when she said "idk who to pick" thing .. i would love to still be close with her and everything like it was before but i really think our relationship will deff change if she keeps talking to him .. i think its pretty disrespectful .

I don't think i could ever talk to anyone that was with my bestfriend .. maybe if it was just anb accquaintance ex then yeah i'd go for it but we were like sisters, I let her stay with me through her divorce and we have always been there to help eachother but idk I really don't like nor did i ever expect this kind of thing…

I thought ther "no ex" thing was just known too ! Yeah ive told them both that it really bothers me .

I've told her how i felt and i don't understand how she has to choose between anything .. because the answer is pretty clear to me !and hes a nice guy but not relationship type AT ALL ! so if she gets with him then I hope the best for them but i honestly dont think i can just sit around and still be as close with her as i…

hahah thanks Spartan

yeah i thought the "no ex policy" was just an unwritten rule .. ha maybe i was wrong..

yeah, like would you be mad? or am i just maybe overreacting?

i ment- "i told them both that it bothered me."

Mine was when i stepped on the scale (didnt used to do very often, i was terrified!) and i weighed more than i did when i was pregnant with my son who came out weighing 10 pounds! and also this is really shallow lol but a couple years ago i was a stripper and when me and my fiance first started dating who would tell people…

Im glad im not the only one that thought dirty on this one :)

haha i agree gauges deff do stink .. my fiance has them , so for Christmas i bought him silicone ones , they're not too bad anymore .

i have a really big and close family .. and it seems like there is always food together when we get together. thats when I have the hardest time staying within my calories , and the bad thing is we get together almost everyother weekend .

haha the first time me and my now current fiance ever stayed the night together i warned him "I'm probably going to fart on you in the middle of the night" lol and he replied with "girls dont fart!" my response .. "This girl does!!" lol

Thanks everybody for replying .. im still over here balling my eyes out lol but i do feel a little better.. but it sucks to know that some of you feel the same way as i do , it is a horrible feeling , especially when you have no one that understands .. but its kinda nice to know im not as alone as i thought i was .

I weigh myself everytime i walk into my bathroom ..

im just so upset i let myself get to this point :( like i dont even go out in public anymore .

:heart: aww bless ur heart !!

150 ??

haha me and my sister are always doing weird stuff to get a reaction out of people .. just this past weekend we were at the zoo and he daughter cant wlk for long periods of time so we had a wheelchair with us .. well our kids were off looking at something and me and my sister were talking to the wheelchair as if there was…

I don't think you could do it for the rest of your life but I did hear of people doing it for up 40 days at a time

thanks for all the advice :)

:) MFP told me i should be eating 1200 calories a day but im seeing people say they are eating more and as result losing more weight .. is that something i should try ??

i do the Jillian Michaels 30 day shred and walk 45 min on the treadmill everyday

no , probably not