Would you be mad if..

If he's your ex why do you care? He's out of that part of your life. You should be happy your friend may be able to find love. How would feel if he was her one and only and you stopped that because...well for whyever you stopped it. Then ask yourself how you would feel if you found a guy that you really liked and actually had true feelings for and then found out he was an ex of one of your friends, would you give up on a chance at love just because your friend used to date him. That's high school BS.

Thats just my opinion.

Edit: The I don't know who to choose would be my issue, but she's confused she wants love wants to be loved and to throw that chance away because he's the ex of my friend has got to be hard for her.

Your not in High school anymore, grow up and move on..it would be different if you still loved the ex...ohhhhh wait that's the problem you still care for him and want him back..now I get it.

In my book, the "no ex" rule is an unwritten law that must be obeyed and never broken. I mean, you can consider this a true test of your friendship. You have been true to her, but will she be true to you? If that happened between my best friend and me, I would be pissed, and it would definitely change our relationship.

Hmmmmm...what to do what to do.









I guesss Id feel.................






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totally blessed if that were my biggest worry of the day.:blushing:

Your bestfriend started talking to your ex ??

Just recently my bestfriend started talking to my ex , we weren't to the extreme of talking about marriage or anything like that but to the point of where we met eachothers kids .. well last week he asked if she was single and then they started talking and when i asked her about it she said she doesn't know who to pick between .. and honestly i never told her she had to pick but i did tell them both that it bothered them.. idk maybe im over reacting ?? and she says she does';t know who to "pick" .. shes known this guy for about a week and me and her have been friends for years ?? wth.

I dated a guy for like a month. Met my SO and he's friends with the guy I dated for about a month. THAT group of friends hate me now because I started datingone of his friends. It wasn't a serious relationship and I didn't meet my SO until about a year after that relationship ended. In cases where you haven't dsated long I don't see the big deal, but if it was serious to the point where you met each other's kids, as a friend I would respect that and no it' not okay.