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Wonder who's still on this thread!...... 6years later, NOTHING CHANGED!.... Came back to get my facts straight as i file for divorce. I wish i had listened to those who said LEAVE ! Anywhoo... toodles!. #roadtohealing

I see it as addiction!

lmao... Perfect!

im interested :)

Thanks much! Appreciate it

Yet you two stillll keep coming back to this post.... hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!! SMH

.... I don't feel the need to defend what I do. If others believed it based on ONE persons comment, that's them.

" None of us spend time worrying about you", yet you still chose to respond. AT the end of the day I can seek feedback from whomever I chose. It doesn't mean I take it. I never asked for a vote, or planned to vote on the matter, in fact I never even asked anyone what I should DO, You should refer to my opening post. I was…

If its not the place to look for anwers, then WHY PROPOSE YOUR SOLUTIONS. I have friends and have spoken to a couple, literally 2. Its not an easy thing going around telling your friends your husband of only 5 months is already not attracted to u and is attracted to another. It is easier, or so I thought, to get feedback…

Thank You!

I think u missed a lot of other info as well, in addition to teller her she is attacted to her, he said he is not attracted to me. I am very aware that he would appreciate other womens bodies, but to go to the extent of telling her "im attracted to u" is disrespectful to me, why? because I believe he has developed an…

ANYWAY, thanks to all who sincerely offered sound advise.

Well at this point I could care less.... At the end of it all I am NOT building an emtional attachment to scores of strangers., which he was doing with ONE FEMALE. There is BIG difference.

Very helpful. Thanks!

Hye everyone, thanks for your comments, really did not think it would generate such feedback, but I appreciate ALL... What he said.... I told him we need to talk, and he said ok. I knew he knew what i saw because i had been quiet for a few days and he was being extra mushy and loving. Anyway I told him what I saw on his…

I will be 30 in a few months. No children. I just cane imagine what the hell was he thinking.... then I put it back on what I did to cause it.

Actually, I just felt he loved me. Its questionable now. We were together 4 years before marriage. But I think I saw the signs, I just was an idiot an ignored it.

and I did speak to him. Talking to stranger is a way to hear others opinions as sometimes during emotional times your judgment can be clouded.

Oh, he is very handsome, women are attracted to him all the time. His is slim and tall. He has gotten a little punch since we got married.

I agree..... I feel like i made the biggest mistake of my life. Never knew my husband was like this. I'm still in shock a little. In that moment I realized something is definitely wrong with him. But its still hard to not internalize it and feel hurt.

I gained about 10 pounds. I was 185 around our wedding. the scale said 196.5 this morning

Thanks so much. I even tried to get him to exercise with me, as I go longer when I have someone with me. He did it a few times.

Nice butt, slim waist.... everything im not.... the thing is, I was never like that though. So I guess I was fooled all along.

I NEED this: Starting weight: 196 12 week goal weight: 166 Physical Goal: Consistently EXERCISE Nutritional Goal: Staying away from Junk

Wow congrats Calrsberg. I'm special because I see the beauty in everyone... IM beautiful and I LOVE ME :)

Goals: Donot eat Flour Complete my second week of a 30 Ab Challenge that im in

I wanna join.... I HAVE to lose no less than 30 lbs by September..... HAVE TO.... My wedding dress will be arriving at the end of August, a size SMALLER.... eeepp... Imagine the horror if it doesn't fit... so I NEED the MOTIVATION.

WELLLL Said... and timely.... Had a somewhat 'cheat day' yesterday... and applied some of these concepts to not feel so bad.... and today i'm back at it.... it keeps me sane for certain :)...

Inspiring!