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What is the "Harriet" part? That confuses me unless the Harriet part is like the dating site talking about you? I agree, the negative stuff, although subtle, can be downing. You could spin it around and write "I love a good cup of coffee, none of the instant stuff please." That puts across the same message but less…

Are you forced to choose something? Because I hate all those descriptors and they mean different things to different people!

I think this is way more common than you think. I always hear that love starts out romantic and turns out for many to be more of a partnership.

Absolutely horrible of him. No wonder he's not getting sex...I'm sure a guy who makes a spreadsheet like this is a great guy!

My friend had this happen to her. Met a guy, they dated for a few weeks, and then he disappeared. Stop answering calls and texts, when she went to his house his parents told her he wasn't home, etc. Later he reappeared and said that he was "scared" of their connection. Vomit. Basically, you don't want this guy if he's a…

I wish I had this problem. Hahahaha

This article is in the same vein... http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/relationship-advice/relationship-virgins The author wrote a book, which I have on reserve from the library.

Ah yeah I think I understand. 19% of women who have been out with a man before didn't consider it a real date? My friends and I would love to date the "old-fashioned" way. Unfortunately this hasn't happened for us. It really is a shame that dating has gone downhill the way it has. I feel like nowdays, if you missed the…

I have a couple of friends who have never been on a date before. I've really only been on two real dates. I actually think that number is probably too low.

$0 dollars here. Haven't been on a date in two years.

All of the big crushes in my life don't look alike but their personalities were remarkably similar. The "funny" guy who always gets a ton of laughs from everybody, life of the party, big drinkers who don't take life seriously. I'm trying to grow up a little now haha

Anna is right! Frame your discussion as "I'm worried about your health." Not "I want a workout buddy."

It's kinda dumb, I just like secret Santa.

I can see both ways. In the case of ballet vs football game...one is easily "DVR-able" "read an article online about it" "listen to a recap every hour on the hour on Sportscenter for three days." Ballet is not "DVR-able." Recaps WON'T be on TV. If I liked ballet and the guy I was dating chose to take me to a ballet recital…

I don't get that...

Avocado has a ton. Just use it as a spread on sandwiches.

Congrats!! Beautiful! And omg honey boo boo family loving it!!

Thirded.

Hope all is well!! Wishing your family the best.

When I was 16 I had an 18 year old coworker I had the biggest crush on. A few years later I had a crush on another coworker. He was actually super nice to me and sometimes I thought even flirty. I remember posting about him here last summer. I thought maybe on my last day he would make a move (hahahahahahahaha in my…

Yes my dress is cut tight to my body, fits really well! And I don't like showing my boobs or butt as it makes me very self-conscious and tugging at my clothes all night. Glad the cape is long so I can walk around without everyone checking out my assets. I like showing off my legs though so I think it's going to work out…

Yours has more cleavage (I don't like showing cleavage) but I'm wearing a short black dress, belting it with a thin red belt, and a long red cape, no stockings...thought about them as the picture for the basis of my costume had them, but I know I would just be annoyed as all get out with stockings! Trying to keep them up…

We are celebrating Halloween November 1st. Halloween night I will be handing out candy and working. Friday night going to a party. I'm little red riding hood.

I cannot day drink. I'm tired by 11 pm!!

Maybe, but I'm typically not attracted to men of other races anyway. I might find a black guy cute, but I could not picture myself ever dating a man of another race or falling in love with a man of another race. But if someone of another race liked me, and I actually liked them, I would probably try to find out their…

Working out tonight, then pumpkin picking tomorrow!

Agree. You gotta be strong and save that emotional connection for an actual relationship even if it isn't a big deal to you. There is no way I would cuddle and be emotionally affectionate with anyone not my boyfriend. Even if the guy says does all the right things, if he's not saying the right things it is a big sign.

Kim said it perfectly.

I really think it depends on the guy and you have to gauge that personality. However two guys I know both told me that they prefer to take it slow. However if the guy chooses to indulge he shouldn't judge you because he chose the same thing.

Ok thanks PJ I was curious! But yes I understand your analogy and wonder the same thing.