Brenda's Maintenance Journal Year 1

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  • Brendalea69
    Brendalea69 Posts: 3,863 Member
    edited June 2017
    It's getting hard for me to count calories especially when I'm out and have no idea what the calorie count for certain foods are so Im changing my plan again (See Tracey @tlblanksfit, Im always doing something different :p ) Starting this week I'm going to have maybe 2 or 3 splurge days and the rest of the days will be OMAD...Wow this maintenance thing is very challenging, but that's ok because I'm up for the challenge :p
  • wsandy8512
    wsandy8512 Posts: 1,897 Member
    You're doing great on challenging yourself. I do not want to spend the rest of my life counting calories when I reach goal.

    My MIL is 66 yo. She's about 5'3" and in great health and physical condition. She doesn't count calories, but she eats healthy all week long and does whatever on the weekends, then she gets back to it on Monday. When I was bigger, it was embarrassing to me that a 66 yo had more energy and could get around faster and better than me at 47! She doesn't allow more than about 7 pounds to come on before she'll do something like cut back, no calorie counting. I'd like to follow in her footsteps after I reach goal.
  • Brendalea69
    Brendalea69 Posts: 3,863 Member
    Finishing up my Birthday weekend, last night was the movies with my husband, today Santa's Village with the grandkids and tomorrow we will be 4-wheeling <3:)
  • wsandy8512
    wsandy8512 Posts: 1,897 Member
    What a total blast you're having! I see you've taken the word "extended" to levels outside of fasting and into the realm of birthdays! Haha Enjoy!
  • Brendalea69
    Brendalea69 Posts: 3,863 Member
    edited June 2017
    Alnost forgot to post this...

    Weekly Chart (Maintain between 125 and 135)

    May 27th....130 GOAL Weight
    June 3rd.....129 OMAD/4:3
    June 10th...128 OMAD/4:3
    June 17th...130 OMAD/5:2
    June 23rd...128 OMAD/5:2

    I'm sick today and I know it's because I have been eating crappy for 3 days and I haven't been eating my coconut oil...After I had my gallbladder removed a couple of years ago I started getting sulfer burps and really smelly gas...Its almost like the food in my stomach is rotting...Someone suggested eating coconut oil and it helped because I haven't had an episode until today so from now on I will be eating my coconut oil...I hope Everyone has a wonderful week!!!
  • wsandy8512
    wsandy8512 Posts: 1,897 Member
    Aww, hope you feel better soon. But, wow! The crapping eating still ended up in a loss. You're beyond awesome!
  • tlblanksfit
    tlblanksfit Posts: 1,573 Member
    How much coconut oil do you take and do you just eat it plain or do you put it on your food?
  • Brendalea69
    Brendalea69 Posts: 3,863 Member
    edited June 2017
    wsandy8512 wrote: »
    Aww, hope you feel better soon. But, wow! The crapping eating still ended up in a loss. You're beyond awesome!

    Thanks Sandy but the above weigh in was done before the crappy eating and those results won't show up until this Fridays weigh in :p
  • Brendalea69
    Brendalea69 Posts: 3,863 Member
    edited June 2017
    How much coconut oil do you take and do you just eat it plain or do you put it on your food?

    In the beginning I was eating 3 Tbsp. a day but now I only eat 1 Tbsp a day plus I oil pull almost every day...I melt a Tbsp of coconut oil and cook my scrambled eggs in it or I melt 1 Tbsp. coconut oil with 1 Tbsp. of butter and cook it in 1/4 of a cup of popcorn.
  • Brendalea69
    Brendalea69 Posts: 3,863 Member
    edited June 2017
    Still not feeling 100% yet so my OMAD meal tonight will be Popcorn, I gotta get my Coconut Oil in me!!!
  • tlblanksfit
    tlblanksfit Posts: 1,573 Member
    Feel better soon Dear!
  • wsandy8512
    wsandy8512 Posts: 1,897 Member
    ^^What Tracey said. Hoping you'll feel better soon!
  • blambo61
    blambo61 Posts: 4,372 Member
    As far as the maintenance challenge goes, I still think making any meals before dinner very low carb is the way to go. If you eat carbs at dinner, your asleep when it would normally make you hungry so it doesn't have the same effect as eating carbs earlier. Good luck. I think I change things very frequently also. I think it is good to experiment and see how things work. Good luck!
  • Brendalea69
    Brendalea69 Posts: 3,863 Member
    blambo61 wrote: »
    As far as the maintenance challenge goes, I still think making any meals before dinner very low carb is the way to go. If you eat carbs at dinner, your asleep when it would normally make you hungry so it doesn't have the same effect as eating carbs earlier. Good luck. I think I change things very frequently also. I think it is good to experiment and see how things work. Good luck!

    Carbs are my sleeping pill for sure :p
  • Brendalea69
    Brendalea69 Posts: 3,863 Member
    I'm feeling sooo much better today :)

    I've already lost 2.8 pounds of water weight from my 3 day binge now only 4 more to go until Friday...I got this!!!
  • wsandy8512
    wsandy8512 Posts: 1,897 Member
    So happy you're feeling better, and yay for the 2.8 pounds. You're rocking your maintenance!
  • minigrrll
    minigrrll Posts: 1,590 Member
    This is awesome - maintenance is definitely harder than losing IMO...
  • Brendalea69
    Brendalea69 Posts: 3,863 Member
    Thanks Girls...It's not really hard it's just really challenging and I'm really hoping the plan I'm doing this week works because I like it so far :)
  • blambo61
    blambo61 Posts: 4,372 Member
    minigrrll wrote: »
    This is awesome - maintenance is definitely harder than losing IMO...

    I don't think so, I can eat more in maintenance! There still needs to be strict rules though or our past habits will re-surface and the weight will be regained. Just my experience.
  • x3nomorph
    x3nomorph Posts: 174 Member
    edited June 2017
    In general, if you think of maintenance as two incredible "let go" days a week and then moderate OMAD the other days, that will be enough to make sure almost anyone will maintain. At least that's the "quick and dirty" version.

    I disagree, in theory that would work , the problem is you are not factoring in the addictive nature of the junk you are gonna eat in the "incredible let go days" very few people are gonna be able to pull it off LONG TERM, for most people if they keep around the same food triggers that got them fat in the first place eventually will revert to their bad habits and blow up, the only solution, again for MOST people, is to revamp their diet around healthy whole foods and permanently stay off the bad foods, no "let go days" haha,

    same as "moderation doesn't work for addicts" this stuff is similar since hyper palatable foods behave like triggers in a low grade addiction for people with weight problems
  • minigrrll
    minigrrll Posts: 1,590 Member
    edited June 2017
    blambo61 wrote: »
    I don't think so, I can eat more in maintenance! There still needs to be strict rules though or our past habits will re-surface and the weight will be regained. Just my experience.

    Hopefully doing OMAD will make it easier for me in maintenance. My usual thing is to maintain for a few (even as many as 5 or 6) years and then slowly start eating more and more. I think with OMAD I can commit to doing it forever and maybe extend my eating window or something... Though I can pack away a fair few calories in an hour or two, so that may not be necessary!!

    I agree about moderation - I am not good with it in any way, shape, or form!!

  • arguablysamson
    arguablysamson Posts: 1,709 Member
    edited June 2017
    x3nomorph wrote: »
    In general, if you think of maintenance as two incredible "let go" days a week and then moderate OMAD the other days, that will be enough to make sure almost anyone will maintain. At least that's the "quick and dirty" version.

    I disagree, in theory that would work , the problem is you are not factoring in the addictive nature of the junk you are gonna eat in the "incredible let go days" very few people are gonna be able to pull it off LONG TERM, for most people if they keep around the same food triggers that got them fat in the first place eventually will revert to their bad habits and blow up, the only solution, again for MOST people, is to revamp their diet around healthy whole foods and permanently stay off the bad foods, no "let go days" haha,

    same as "moderation doesn't work for addicts" this stuff is similar since hyper palatable foods behave like triggers in a low grade addiction for people with weight problems

    Uh, well, I'm speaking from experience, so yes, it's definitely true. I'm not theorizing here.

    If someone can't control themselves, then they won't have made it to maintenance. Or else they won't have lost much weight to learn to fully restructure their eating. Assuming someone stays cognizant of the need for the fasting life change, then meager efforts to maintain it will suffice. If a person has overcome their addictions through fasting, then they no longer have "food triggers" anymore.
  • Brendalea69
    Brendalea69 Posts: 3,863 Member
    edited June 2017
    x3nomorph wrote: »
    In general, if you think of maintenance as two incredible "let go" days a week and then moderate OMAD the other days, that will be enough to make sure almost anyone will maintain. At least that's the "quick and dirty" version.

    I disagree, in theory that would work , the problem is you are not factoring in the addictive nature of the junk you are gonna eat in the "incredible let go days" very few people are gonna be able to pull it off LONG TERM, for most people if they keep around the same food triggers that got them fat in the first place eventually will revert to their bad habits and blow up, the only solution, again for MOST people, is to revamp their diet around healthy whole foods and permanently stay off the bad foods, no "let go days" haha,

    same as "moderation doesn't work for addicts" this stuff is similar since hyper palatable foods behave like triggers in a low grade addiction for people with weight problems

    I have had "Let Go Days/Splurge Days" once a week since I started my diet over 9 months ago and I lost over 64 pounds and now I'm doing either 2 or 3 Splurge days and I'm maintaining just fine...If I have a week where I'm higher on the scale then the next week I will have 1 less Splurge day...On my Splurge days I'm eating whatever I like and I like sweets and pizza and Chinese and Popcorn at the Movie Theater...On my Non Splurge days I mainly eat low calories and some days will be low carb it just all depends on what I feel like eating that day :)
  • wsandy8512
    wsandy8512 Posts: 1,897 Member
    Hearing from you three, Bob, Joe and Brenda, is even more inspiring to me. OMAD is the first thing I've done where I can actually see not only reaching my goal, but keeping the weight back off for life following all of your examples :-)
  • jvcinv
    jvcinv Posts: 504 Member
    Uh, well, I'm speaking from experience, so yes, it's definitely true. I'm not theorizing here.

    If someone can't control themselves, then they won't have made it to maintenance. Or else they won't have lost much weight to learn to fully restructure their eating. Assuming someone stays cognizant of the need for the fasting life change, then meager efforts to maintain it will suffice. If a person has overcome their addictions through fasting, then they no longer have "food triggers" anymore.
    I agree with you and think this is the key point, whether or not the person has made the change to a fasting lifestyle. I feel I have and look forward to maintenance because I know my food addictions have been eradicated. I'm now addicted to the control and freedom that an OMAD-type lifestyle offers. I'll never give that up.

  • x3nomorph
    x3nomorph Posts: 174 Member
    edited June 2017

    Uh, well, I'm speaking from experience, so yes, it's definitely true. I'm not theorizing here.

    If someone can't control themselves, then they won't have made it to maintenance. Or else they won't have lost much weight to learn to fully restructure their eating. Assuming someone stays cognizant of the need for the fasting life change, then meager efforts to maintain it will suffice. If a person has overcome their addictions through fasting, then they no longer have "food triggers" anymore.

    see this the issue here, your personal success doesn't mean most will be able to replicate it, conscientious/non agreeable personality types, like you seem to have, can push through and make it work through thin and thick but not everyone has that psychological make up

    there's also another thing in your particular case, you have other incentives, like leading this group/youtube channel/coaching services that provide extra motivation since it places you in a position to be an example/help others etc

    I'd say that for the losing phase having trigger foods around MAY be feasible since the losing phase is a relatively short time but maintenance is a whole different ball game, we are taking decades down the road here

    I predict that with the current guidelines as they are structured

    1. most people wont even make it to the maintenance phase, this is already a reality when you look at the "graveyard of threads" in the community 90+% people that start a log disappear to not ever be seen again

    2. from the few who make it to maintenance , most will get fat again at some point

    now don't get me wrong OMAD is a terrific tool, just need the other half of the equation(abstinence from crap) to really work for most people, you cant just ignore the elephant in the room, which is the addictive super palatable foods in our modern environment and achieve success long term ,again for most people

    of course I may be wrong but I guess time will tell
  • x3nomorph
    x3nomorph Posts: 174 Member

    I have had "Let Go Days/Splurge Days" once a week since I started my diet over 9 months ago and I lost over 64 pounds and now I'm doing either 2 or 3 Splurge days and I'm maintaining just fine...If I have a week where I'm higher on the scale then the next week I will have 1 less Splurge day...On my Splurge days I'm eating whatever I like and I like sweets and pizza and Chinese and Popcorn at the Movie Theater...On my Non Splurge days I mainly eat low calories and some days will be low carb it just all depends on what I feel like eating that day :)

    9 months is nothing in the grand scheme of thing, don't get me wrong you have done a terrific job so far, I hope you can keep the weight off for good :)

  • blambo61
    blambo61 Posts: 4,372 Member
    x3nomorph wrote: »
    In general, if you think of maintenance as two incredible "let go" days a week and then moderate OMAD the other days, that will be enough to make sure almost anyone will maintain. At least that's the "quick and dirty" version.

    I disagree, in theory that would work , the problem is you are not factoring in the addictive nature of the junk you are gonna eat in the "incredible let go days" very few people are gonna be able to pull it off LONG TERM, for most people if they keep around the same food triggers that got them fat in the first place eventually will revert to their bad habits and blow up, the only solution, again for MOST people, is to revamp their diet around healthy whole foods and permanently stay off the bad foods, no "let go days" haha,

    same as "moderation doesn't work for addicts" this stuff is similar since hyper palatable foods behave like triggers in a low grade addiction for people with weight problems

    I've found never allowing indulgences is also a trigger to a binge. I think it is perfectly fine to go ahead and have some very big indulgence days like on special occasions. Some minor indulgences maybe on a weekly basis. I don't want to give up sugar permanently but I do know I need to watch it. I agree with your point though that people need to be careful and if a person can't control it, it would be better to totally abstain than go off on the deep end.
  • blambo61
    blambo61 Posts: 4,372 Member
    minigrrll wrote: »
    blambo61 wrote: »
    I don't think so, I can eat more in maintenance! There still needs to be strict rules though or our past habits will re-surface and the weight will be regained. Just my experience.

    Hopefully doing OMAD will make it easier for me in maintenance. My usual thing is to maintain for a few (even as many as 5 or 6) years and then slowly start eating more and more. I think with OMAD I can commit to doing it forever and maybe extend my eating window or something... Though I can pack away a fair few calories in an hour or two, so that may not be necessary!!

    I agree about moderation - I am not good with it in any way, shape, or form!!

    For maintenance:
    I plan on fasting forever but not OMAD style everyday. My plan is OMAD a couple days a week and a 16:8 the other days with an occasional eat every meal day thrown in if I'm doing some demanding physical thing in the morning or if there is a special occasion where I would want to eat breakfast.

    I also plan on eating earlier meals mostly very low carb.

    I plan on exercising as much as possible.

    I plan on weighing every day and if I see things creep up. I add more OMAD days. About as simple as that.
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