TEAM: Gutbusters (August)
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Hi, just a heads up that something is wrong with the weights, it has me gaining this week and I lost a bunch. Also I hope @bootssowhite did not actually lose 148 lbs this week :-P
@brunchowl. Thanks for that.
I most likely would have picked it up in the end of week check, but thank you for pointing it out early. It's been corrected now.
@bootssowhite. has not posted a weigh in-this week tet.
@brunchowl. Well done on doing so well this month. 2.7% down over 3 weeks is great work. Over 11lbs down (almost 7%) since June. Slow reductions means they are most likely to stay.0 -
mthomas0228 wrote: »...
Whatever path you take, it has to be sustainable for you for the long term. The way you eat during this process needs to become a lifestyle not a life sentence.
@mthomas0228. This is a brilliant quote. I may use that in future. It is SOOOOOOO true.
The trick is finding what works for YOU. I know my diet would not work for most people, but it works for me (I can eat out socially and have food I enjoy).1 -
Besides this group... are there any other posts you refer to for motivation?
I love the What's Your Most Recent NSV and PHOTO ONLY SUCCESS STORIES! under Success Stories tab in the forums.0 -
Username: bootssowhite
Weigh in Week: August Week 3
Weigh in Day: Monday (whoops)
Previous Weight: 307.6
Today's Weight: 308.4
Sorry about the late weight in. Things have been pretty crazy. I was offered a job last Wednesday and accepted in on Saturday, which is obviously pretty great, but it now means I have three weeks to move half way across the country. The good news is according to my Fitbit, packing is burning a lot of calories.2 -
Username: inshapeCK
Weigh-in week: Week 3
Weigh-in day: Wednesday
Previous week's weight: 147.6 pounds
Current weight: 146.1pounds
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craigo3154 wrote: »LesIckaBod wrote: »Quick question:
Those of you who have lost enough weight to warrant cleaning out the closet, what is your strategy as far as keeping the big clothes? Do you just toss or donate everything, figuring you'll never go back? Do you keep some things?
I'm in the midst of a closet reorganization right now, and I feel like I'm having a mental war between the self that says I'm on the right path and I'm sticking to it and the self that .... doesn't say that.
@LesIckaBod. It's a good problem to have.
I lost 50lbs and had to get new most things. I still have most of my old clothes, but am looking at donating most of them to charities that accept them. I'll keep a few things (that show how much my size changed), but most will go.
I know I'll never go back to the size I was. I've been 50lbs under my start weight for almost a year and am comfortably maintaining. The habits I have in place now (and consciously re-enforce) will keep me for getting overweight (even if ill or immobilised for any reason).
@craigo3154 The conscious reinforcement aspect is crucial. Sometimes I feel like I'm teetering at the edge of the cliff, ready to fall backwards again. I think my eating and exercise habits right now are pretty good -- far from perfect, but allowing me to make progress -- but I've got a lifelong set of skills as a self-saboteur, and it feels like fighting the saboteur is a different battle than fighting the weight.
Anyway, the clothes are on their way out.
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This is going to be super long lol because I've put a lot of thought into it. It was hard for me to let go of clothes because they are "worth money".
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I don't know about you, but I didn't like most of my bigger clothes. I felt dowdy because that seemed to be the only available style where I live. The clothes make me feel guilty.
For these reasons--most to do with keeping mentally healthy--I've purged my wardrobe. I keep things that don't make me feel bad (how do I feel when wearing it?) that aren't too baggy looking (some sweaters can be oversized and still look nice, etc.). But most have gone. The irony is I have a bunch of clothes that do fit already...because I never got rid of many items I grew out of. I actually got rid of some of these items that fit okay for the same reason...they don't make me feel good about myself. I feel frumpy in them.
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I feel really good about getting rid of it all. I actually have an organized closet for the first time. Because I can fit everything in there!
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In short, I recommend getting rid of everything that doesn't look/feel good and (if you are a woman who wears dresses) buying cheap dresses while still on your journey! Also I donate everything frumpy and check in with a few friends first about the clothes I actually think are nice.
@eevang Couldn't agree more with all your sentiments here, particularly regarding feeling frumpy, dowdy, or even guilty. Turns out, I didn't need to buy anything new for the upcoming season, as my old clothes from 10 years ago still fit and are such conservative patterns that (I think) they are still passable, for as much as I recognize about fashion. Then there are some items that are nice, some even luxury items, but suitable for a younger, pre-mom woman, and I felt bad about letting those go, like I frittered away my youth while gaining all that weight. Ugh. This reorganization opened up a lot of feelings, but it's mostly positive in the end.
So anyway, I've put the dowdy items aside to be given to charities that can either sell the items or recycle the fabric. Some of the nicer items I'm passing on to friends or family if they want them.
A funny thing happened as I went through the clothes. At the beginning of the spring, I had begun a kind of opposite purge of my closet, removing all the smaller sized items because I thought I could never fit them again. I really had given up on myself. I put the items aside on the floor and kept forgetting to take them to be donated, so there they sat, for months. I decided to try them on, and now, they're almost too big. One skirt is wearable maybe only for the next few weeks of the summer, and then, if I stay on track, I'll be much to small for it next summer.
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Exercise: Not exactly. Took a planned off-day from "exercise" today, but had a couple of walks with the boys riding their bikes, so there was some activity for the day, just not very strenuous.
Calories: No
Tracked: Yes
The big bummer, and why I'm writing long posts tonight, is that we went out to eat at the pizza restaurant. Why do I do this to myself? I don't even like the pizza at this restaurant, and I never did, even when I wasn't trying to lose weight. I keep thinking I can go with them and not have the pizza, but when it's ordered for the table, I do have some. Ugh. I immediately felt bloated and gross afterward, and angry I'd spent my calories on that disgusting mess rather than something like ice cream.
Blegh. Best to avoid the place altogether, I think.
Anyway, the good news is that I'm eager to get back on track tomorrow. This feeling stinks, and I want to move on.
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Name: klmac8
Week 3
Weigh in day : wed
Previous week: 195
Current weight: 195.81 -
LesIckaBod wrote: »Exercise: Not exactly. Took a planned off-day from "exercise" today, but had a couple of walks with the boys riding their bikes, so there was some activity for the day, just not very strenuous.
Calories: No
Tracked: Yes
The big bummer, and why I'm writing long posts tonight, is that we went out to eat at the pizza restaurant. Why do I do this to myself? I don't even like the pizza at this restaurant, and I never did, even when I wasn't trying to lose weight. I keep thinking I can go with them and not have the pizza, but when it's ordered for the table, I do have some. Ugh. I immediately felt bloated and gross afterward, and angry I'd spent my calories on that disgusting mess rather than something like ice cream.
Blegh. Best to avoid the place altogether, I think.
Anyway, the good news is that I'm eager to get back on track tomorrow. This feeling stinks, and I want to move on.
@LesIckaBod. This is one of the dilemas. What happens when you don't want to eat what everyone else is eating when out socially?
I have made it well known that I preference not to have gluten foods (so for me, pizza is not on the preferred list). Most of my friends and family would not suggest pizza for me now
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One thing you can do is see if you can find something on the menu that fits what you want (high fat, high/moderate protein, low carb). Another thing, at a sit-down restaurant, is see if the chef can do a special meal (based on your dietary preferences). Most chefs jump at this opportunity as a chance to do something out of the normal grind.
Lastly you could forego mains entirely and just straight to dessert (have it while others are having mains ). This way you get something you enjoy .
Most of the time and good solution can be found with a bit of lateral thinking. Social occasions are a part of life and you need a strategy to be able to participate without paying a high price health wise.
The main thing is to have an advance plan. As you found, sometimes it is best not to eat, than eat something that makes you feel bad. Don't make a big deal of it, be nice about it, join in conversation. If asked why not eating simply deflect the question with an answer like "I've found this type of food does not agree with me, I'll have something else later".
Live and learn. Best of luck next time this type of situation occurs.
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Name: grebber1
Week: 3
Weigh in day: Thurs
Previousweek: 375.1
Current weight: 368.65 -
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August 16
Exercised?: Yes. 20 mins bodyweight strength.
Calories?: Yes
Tracked?: Yes
Exhausting day. VERY busy at work with back to back meetings as well as tailing up Sydney work. Only just got enough time to get a quick bite for lunch before flying home.
Daily Strength challenge
"Challenge for August 16 is squats (no weight - air squat - http://www.12minuteathlete.com/how-to-do-a-proper-air-squat/).
You can do assisted squats (using a table or bench top to take weight off the knees if it is too much)."
3 sets- First set till the point where you can do no more, wait 2 mins
- Second set of 60% of the number you did in the first set (half, then another 10%), wait 2 mins
- Third set of 50% of the number you did in the first set (half)
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craigo3154 wrote: »
Thanks. Really just been trying to track everything as accurate as I can. Finding that place where I'm in a deficit but not starving myself. So far so good.
Patience is not my thing. Been working on that. It's easy to wish it would all come off in a cpl months. But it won't. BUT it is coming off so I'm happy2 -
@craigo3154 As always, thanks for the words of advice and encouragement. Funny thing is, when I sat down, I did envision sitting there with a salad with grilled chicken on top. I ordered the salad, not the chicken -- figured I would "treat" myself to one of the chicken fingers that my boys get there. I ate the salad, ate the chicken finger, then reached for the darn pizza. There's another problem with us going to this restaurant as a family that I don't want to get into specifically, but I think the solution might be for me and the boys to get out of there as soon as we finish our meals, let my husband stay as long as he likes, and for the rest of us to walk to the park nearby and play until he's done. Not ideal, but apparently I don't have the willpower yet to sit there and not eat any of the pizza after I've finished my planned meal.
Anyway, I'm back on plan this morning and feeling better about life. Completed my HIIT exercise for the day and a bonus 30 minute walk on the treadmill just to help unload some of this bloated feeling left over from yesterday. The endorphins help immensely, and I've been realizing that I'm having fun now when I exercise. It feels good to use the body. What a miracle these bodies are, really, right?3 -
Username: craigo3154
Weigh in week: Week 3
Weigh in day: Wednesday
Previous Week's Weight: (62.6kg) 138.0
Todays Weight: (63.1kg) 139.1
Now in the right range. Was too low. Weigh in Friday as was away on Wednesday morning.
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LesIckaBod wrote: »@craigo3154 As always, thanks for the words of advice and encouragement. Funny thing is, when I sat down, I did envision sitting there with a salad with grilled chicken on top. I ordered the salad, not the chicken -- figured I would "treat" myself to one of the chicken fingers that my boys get there. I ate the salad, ate the chicken finger, then reached for the darn pizza. ....
Anyway, I'm back on plan this morning and feeling better about life. Completed my HIIT exercise for the day and a bonus 30 minute walk on the treadmill just to help unload some of this bloated feeling left over from yesterday. The endorphins help immensely, and I've been realizing that I'm having fun now when I exercise. It feels good to use the body. What a miracle these bodies are, really, right?
@LesIckaBod. It's hard to train yourself out of habits of a lifetime. It really takes a mindset change to food to be able to do that. Sounds like you started out fantastic (and you also have ideas for follow through plans for next time which is great).
These bodies we have really are miracles. Once you start them doing the right things, they become accustomed to it and want to do more of them (unfortunately, it's the same if you start them doing the wrong things too - they want more of them too).
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Username: cjscoey
Weigh in week: Week 3
Weigh in day: Thursday
Previous Weight: 177.0
Todays Weight: 175.4
Pleasantly surprised!1 -
I’m super annoyed. Not sure if it’s at my co worker, at myself... most likely both.
Sitting down to work.. co worker comes over and asks if I wanted this peanut butter Krispe treat covered in melted chocolate. I said no thank you. Mind you they know I’m trying to lose weight. It’s not a secret... the Nutrisystem part is but they know I’m trying... so what does he do? Plops it right down in front of me on my desk and walks on. If I didn’t have someone sitting next to me I would have just thrown it away but we were working on a project so she moved the trash can so we could sit next to each other.
I ate it. I already touched it. He already had touched it. I didn’t know where he put the container. Now thankfully Nutrisystem allows me to flex (exchange things in and out) so I decided that I would flex my dessert and have this. And it wasn’t even good. At all. It was meh at best.
30 minutes go by and he asks if I ate it. I said yes but please don’t ever set food down in front of me again.
Now I’m thinking I probably sounded like a witch, and I’m new so now I’m worried about how I came off.
Sigh. I’m taking this weight loss seriously. I’m paying quite a bit of money for my plan. And if I go off it I feel like I’m wasting money because I am paying for said plan. I don’t want to be fat. And I’m an all or nothing kinda girl as well so going off what I’ve planned for myself is why I’m upset with myself. That’s how it always started in the past when cooking my own foods.. oh it’s just this once.. oh it’s just a bite.3 -
@LesIckaBod It looks like you're already thinking towards the future and how to avoid eating the pizza, which is awesome.
I do want to add...I'm not sure I could eat a grilled chicken salad while people are eating pizza around me. Ever. I just couldn't face that temptation while eating salad. My go-to meal at an Italian restaurant is generally a chicken entree where I ask for the noodles to be swapped out with broccoli (I generally check to make sure they have broccoli first). I've done Chicken Parmesan and Chicken Piccata before. I also did a philly cheese steak without bread over baby spinach before.
It's not great, mind you. I have to estimate calories, I generally make sure to hit the gym on days where I eat those meals, and I typically take home over half. But unlike eating pizza, I get enough protein, and unlike eating salad, my willpower doesn't collapse. It's more expensive, but I get two meals out of it, so I usually feel good about it.0
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