WaistAways - November 2020 Team Chat
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Thanks so much for the encouragement @Gidgitgoescrazy. I also have a huge bin of clothes from 2012 when I was into Crossfit and from 2008 when I ran a half marathon, but in between each of those athletic events, I ate my way back up to 250lbs. So far I haven't added any exercise to my weight loss plan because I know that for me, food choices are what I've so far been unable to change permanently. How do I learn to accept that I don't need more than 1400 calories a day when my husband gets to eat cheese, and steak sandwiches, and nachos, and all the yummy things.... I have enough willpower for myself, and have always been able to stay fit while single, but as soon as the comfort food requests come out and the cuddling on the couch with tv part of relationships takes over from the going out and being active, I spiral back up to 250 again before I catch myself.
How do people with children do it?!? They're amazing to be able to make meals kids will still eat while keeping them filling and low calorie. Or else having to make 2 meals every time to satisfy everyone. Kudos to those who find that balance!
Courtney
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Sorry that I haven't been checking in on a daily basis, the last two weeks have been a little crazy for me. Starting today I'll try my best to check in every day with updates and goals and how I'm doing both good and bad.
I haven't been doing any exercise the last two weeks, but I have been starting to walk and count my steps. Today, I'm going to add some exercise into my daily routine.
My Goals For The Rest Of November:
1) 3,000 steps 6 days a week
2) Exercise 4 to 5 days a week 30 minutes a day.
3) Drink a gallon of water a daily. (128 fl oz)
4) log in my dairy daily. (good & bad days)
Haven't really been doing most of these, but today is a new day. Hopefully, by doing these goals faithfully I'll start seeing an increase in weight-loss.
Hope everyone is having a good day and staying safe. 😃 🏵️2 -
PW: 217.2
CW: 220.6
I'm up and down all in the same week. I've been 215-221 and everything in between just this week. I am trying to shift my macros so I eat more protein. I am struggling to get it together. I will keep practicing and hopefully it will come together soon. I'm trying to think long term for my 2 year mark at the end of February. I got some protein powder and prepped some smoothie stuff.
@PlaneMonkey There is hope and husbands are trainable! I think we have a lot in common. Similar top weights and we are in similar weight ranges right now. My husband is generally slim and likes evening snacks too. So do I! This was one of the first areas I worked on with weight loss. If I couldn't get him on my side this was going to be difficult. We started with small steps. First we planned snacks ahead of time so I could budget. We didn't change the snacks at first. Then we started switching to healthy or lower calorie snacks. Air popped popcorn is a favorite 😋. It took baby steps but we made changes together and he has lost 25 lbs and I'm taking all the credit. As far as kids go, I make one dinner and they just get what they get😆 Unless it's something expensive like crab legs! Then make them mac n cheese and go as long as you can before they figure out that spiders of the sea are yummy!6 -
@PlaneMonkey one of my fav low calorie dinners and so super easy: 1 lbs of chicken breast, 1 can each (undrained!) black beans, corn, rotel. Dump all in a crockpot (also have made in the oven). When its cooked, use 2 forks to shred the chicken and mix all together. Sometimes I throw some cream cheese in at the end to give it a creamier texture. It is delicious, reheats well, and so easy to make. I eat it with tortillas, rice (or riced cauliflower) or sometimes just eat it right out of a bowl like chili, you could also make it into more of a soup by adding a container of chicken broth.5
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WaistAways! We did not make it into the top 3 this week, but we had a good percentage of small green increments, so hang on - we'll hit a good whoosh soon. **Kittens** in gear - you know what to do! And @Terytha . You know how much I enjoy numbers, but you are NOT stuck on 169 just because it is the lowest you hit years ago. Promise.
Crazy Idea Department:
I just went through the whole team - it being the day for tallies - and I see that it would be easy to make 12 "pods" of 2-3 people, each within a fairly small weight range. I'm wondering if you'd be interested to have this kind of pod thing to add a layer to the team support. You could send each other a daily text, try to lose the same amount in a week, get in touch before eating the evil chocolate cake of doom or something - . Of course, I know that some of you are crazy busy and would have trouble adding one more thing, but if you're interested, make a squeak.
Here are the groupings just based on weight - it isn't the only way to do it, but just as an example.
@YinxFed and @coffeetwist
@mbakhtiaruz and @snakagawa11
@terytha @krcapone and @CanadianGiraffe
jguldi11 @MandiSaysHey and @AshenMoon
@PlaneMonkey and @conleywoods
@lovethyneighbor and @ells_runs
@dashofwicked and @offitgoes
@kmriedell @evelynladams527 and @Kali225
@JvalaNavin and @KellyBgetsfit
@evangsimmons170 @travelingalone1 and @happimess01
@SMcFall0215 @Gidgitgoescrazy and @Steph1498
@pearl4686 and @micki48
I chose similar weight as a way to make the groupings since it is usual that you could lose at around the same rate and would be aiming for similar monthly goal weights. Give it a think and let me know if you'd like to try it! Or if you absolutely would not consider it. Maybe just a few people want a buddy to get some kicks in the SOP more personally
@jugar I like this idea....sorry I'm so late in responding.
@ evelynladams527 I'm glad your spouse was OK with the surgery. My ex/re husband (LOL) is on the mend, although he hates being home and restricted.2 -
KellyBgetsfit wrote: »The last week has been hard. Work has me very stressed out and anxious. Mom life has been hard. My 4 year old wakes up several times a night. One night, I slept for 3 hrs 45 min, not in a row. I am lucky if I get 6 hrs, not in a row. This morning, I got up at 5am, ready to workout and the baby got up 5 minutes later.
My weekend wins - went for a walk on Sat, even though I was exhausted. I logged all weekend (all week actually) I did NOT eat all the carbs like I usually do when I sleep deprived. I not only washed the clothes, but I put them away - HUGE WIN for me. I am always doing laundry and I hate putting it away.
@KellyBgetsfit Your life sounds SO much like mine! Getting 6+ hours of sleep is a rarity for me too, and I don't have any kids! The rare times when I do take a day for me to do something crazy like sleep, rest, relax, etc. I always feel guilty. LOL2 -
MandiSaysHey wrote: »@PlaneMonkey one of my fav low calorie dinners and so super easy: 1 lbs of chicken breast, 1 can each (undrained!) black beans, corn, rotel. Dump all in a crockpot (also have made in the oven). When its cooked, use 2 forks to shred the chicken and mix all together. Sometimes I throw some cream cheese in at the end to give it a creamier texture. It is delicious, reheats well, and so easy to make. I eat it with tortillas, rice (or riced cauliflower) or sometimes just eat it right out of a bowl like chili, you could also make it into more of a soup by adding a container of chicken broth.
That recipe sounds delicious @MandiSaysHey. You seriously don't rinse the beans?2 -
@MandiSaysHey I can't edit the above post, so I'll have to correct it here! Is it just the rotel that's undrained? Or all of the cans?
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Hi everyone! I have missed you so much! I hope everyone is doing well. (I'm really behind in reading all the posts. I'm sorry.)
Here's a quick rundown on what's been happening in my world and "demented" schedule as @jugar called it. LOL
1. I fell off the wagon so bad in October; I think I even blew it up! I've been so overwhelmed mainly with work that I stopped logging, stopped exercising, etc. But this week I just built a new wagon and started over. I started exercising again with my Leslie Sansone workouts, and I even went to the gym yesterday to walk on the treadmill.
2. My ex/re husband and I are doing great. He's on the mend from his hernia surgery last week. I think he's gonna pop the question really soon....before this year is out! To God be all the glory!
3. I'm currently waiting to see if I get a new job in the HR department of my school district. I need something far less stressful that what I'm currently doing as an assistant principal.
4. Thanks to the madness of my job, that left me so exhausted each day, I have to retake the 2 doctoral courses I took earlier in the semester.
5. I'm only working 1 side hustle for the most part....I work part-time with K12 5 nights a week for 4 hour shifts.
I had no idea exactly how insanely busy I am until last week when I was taking care of my ex/re husband. I honestly do not know how I've been handling all of this so long. Something MUST change....the first thing is my job. I desperately need to reduce my stress.
Well, my list is long enough. Hopefully I haven't bored you to tears. Take care everyone!10 -
I can't believe that it's Thursday, already! @jugar My CW is: 187
I wasn't very attentive over the last few days, until I realized I ate a large bag of baked (not fried) corn-popped chips on my 1.5-hour drive home from Emily's yesterday. Oops. I decided to weigh myself this morning to compare with yesterday's weigh in...yeah, 188 was a little crazy making, even though 8 is my favorite number!
We're planning on having a baked shrimp & veggie dish tonight which will even out the water retention issue and get me moving in the right direction! I *have* been better about daily waks. Monica is maniacally fast! She's even faster than my sister, @jugar, and that's saying something! Monica is the human version of our family dog, Wolfgang. He'd take us for walks and run circles around us as we speed-walked on the trails...very large "circles" where we wouldn't see him for 5-10 minutes at a time.
I'm not quite at *that* level, but I'll work on it.
Happy Thursday, y'all. Please work out at home and not at the gym. There are just too many risks with C-19. Our mom in Matthews, NC, has 5 friends in quarantine since direct exposure to the virus this past weekend. So. It's all over the place. Vigilance is the word of the year.
Have a peaceful evening.
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I've decided to kinda stop trying to lose weight until the new year.
I'm still going to log my calories and make something of an effort to keep them down, I still hope to lose a little, I'm just going to stop *trying* so hard, you know? I'm not going to get hung up on my exercise and such.
I'm unbelievably exhausted, I'm suffering bad burnout, and I'm one tiny mishap from losing my fragile grip on my temper basically all the time. Now is not the time to worry about whether I should really eat that pirouline.
I cope with my anxiety and depression by compartmentalizing my life, but I'm getting too tense and inflexible on those compartments and it's not good for my mental health.
Anyways. That's what I'm thinking right now.
In other news, we... we bought a new car. Again. Between us that’s 8 cars in under 10 years. I'm not proud of that. In our defense, this time we downgraded to a smaller, cheaper car for my husband to try save on gas.
Besides you can barely count my first car, I bought it from some dude for $500 and it was an unwieldy, busted up piece of junk from 1999 that lasted 8 months before dying completely.6 -
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Steps and Exercise update for 11th November:
Steps - 2336
Exercise - none (rest day)2 -
PlaneMonkey wrote: »@MandiSaysHey I can't edit the above post, so I'll have to correct it here! Is it just the rotel that's undrained? Or all of the cans?
Thanks! I'm going to try it
Can someone tell me what rotel is please1 -
Just read through all the recent comments - good to hear that people are recognizing that you just can't do it all ALL of the time. Just do what you can when your energy, emotion, and brain agree. Five years ago I had a few things pile on to me all at once, eventually I learned to go easier on myself if not everything happened as I would wish, there was no other option.7
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@eggfreak, rotel is canned tomatoes chopped with chili peppers, and sometimes other seasonings.2
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PlaneMonkey wrote: »Username: Planemonkey
Weigh In Day: Wednesday (a tad late this week)
PW: 217.4
CW: 217.4
LTD 26.6 Lbs
My poor behaviour has caught up to me. I'm going to have to make some adjustments and meal plan better.PlaneMonkey wrote: »Does anyone have a go-to, low calorie but filling, weeknight dinner recipe they can recommend? I need to add to my arsenal of go-to food so I don't fall back on takeout and give in to hubby's requests for calorie dense foods. Help! I need to break this barrier of bad habits and laziness to get the scale moving again in the right direction.
@evelynladams527
I love the idea that Monica is like the family dog! We have a lot in common - walking is all about running all over the place and burning off energy
@evangsimmons170
Holy cow, we have all been wondering how you do it all! So glad to hear you are wondering too Good on you for re-building the wagon though, and I'm so happy for you that things seem to be going well with your ex-soon-to-be non-ex! That sounds so wonderful. A different work profile sounds like a good move too - something's gotta give, right? And we don't want it to be you.
Big shout-out for tomorrow's weigh-ins!
@evangsimmons170
@SMcFall0215
@CanadianGiraffe
@happimess01
@Pearl4686
@Steph1498
@Kali225
And @eggfreak for today still yet to come.
@krcapone78 - are you still with us? Come on in for an update and a weigh-in!
Thanks!1 -
PlaneMonkey wrote: »Username: Planemonkey
Weigh In Day: Wednesday (a tad late this week)
PW: 217.4
CW: 217.4
LTD 26.6 Lbs
My poor behaviour has caught up to me. I'm going to have to make some adjustments and meal plan better.
@jugar what I didn't include in that post is that the weight I submitted was from Tuesday, because I wasn't able to get to a scale for my scheduled Wednesday weigh-in, and when I weighed myself Thursday I'd gone up 3 Lbs! So I'm using Tuesday's weight and going to try to turn it around by next week. If I'm not able, it's gonna be ugly. I'll definitely check out the volume eating. Too many veggies irritate hubby's intermittent IBS, so finding a balance is tough. Salads seem to be ok for him so I'll have to get back to those while I do more research.2 -
@PlaneMonkey nope I dont rinse the beans, I dump all 3 cans right into the crock pot. I suppose you could drain them but then I would add in some chicken broth because the liquid from the cans keeps the chicken nice and moist/tender
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@Terytha sounds like a little break could be helpful until you get your stress/mental health in a better place. Just don't undo all the great work you've done! Definitely don't let calorie counting negatively impact your mental health though! Hope you are feeling better soon. ❤3
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PlaneMonkey wrote: »@MandiSaysHey I can't edit the above post, so I'll have to correct it here! Is it just the rotel that's undrained? Or all of the cans?
Thanks! I'm going to try it
Can someone tell me what rotel is please
Rotel is canned diced tomatoes, with chiles. It's kind of Mexican flavored. Basically diced tomatoes with a little spice.2 -
I'm going to cry. Just wrote a big post/check in. Hit post reply. It did nothing. Got nervous and tried to quickly copy and I must have hit cut. Ah *kitten*
I'm good. Have to check in tomorrow. Not much battery power on my laptop.
I can't believe its gone!!8 -
PW - 287.3 lbs
CW - 283.3 lbs
LTD - 78 lbs7 -
Friday weigh-in
PW 87.9 kg
CW 87.4 kg.
A mixed week. Weekend was good but then had a few snacky days. happy with my loss.6 -
Forgot to post steps for yesterday, Thursday. I was at 12,0085
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Yesterday was good, didn't get any work walks in, it rained all day... Still a little yucky this morning, but supposed to clear up... But of course today I am super busy, I swear it's either all or nothing here...
Anyway, it's Friday YAY... Enjoy your weekend !5 -
happimess01 wrote: »PW - 287.3 lbs
CW - 283.3 lbs
LTD - 78 lbs
You just passed your 75 pounds lost milestone!!!8 -
Happy Friday the 13th 2020
I think I'll pretend I'm visiting @coffeetwist in NZ where it is over. Hopefully everyone will have a safe and comfy day.
I'm hitting level 10 procrastination this morning, so I had better get to it. Whatever it is...6
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