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Yeah, that is definitely not good. I agree with mnichol. Don't waste your time on this guy anymore. You deserve to be with someone who cherishes you and wouldn't do something to hurt you. And whether or not you're having relations should have no bearing on his "extracurricular activities." Don't ever feel like that makes…

You DON'T look 39! Not that 39 is even old, but...seriously, you look younger. Happy Birthday! And enjoy the jacuzzi tub! I am so jealous!

"I Miss You Love" by Maria Mena.

He is on a year long deployment. So Jan-Feb time frame next year. Fortunately he does get a break about "halfway" through. He'll get to come home for two weeks. We're thinking in August. I'm SO excited for that. He is going to be so overwhelmed with lovin' he's not going to know what to do with himself. :smooched: hehe It…

Congrats on being two sizes smaller. :) Do you have much longer before he gets home?

Jon, seriously, are you a career retention specialist? The unfortunate thing about men in the military (especially when they've been in for a long time) is that they often fail to recognize that people are different. It's like they all seem to think, "if you're not happy being in the military then there must be something…

I met my husband at work. We worked together for a year. With all due respect, my husband is not a lifer and does not have the mentality that you do. I appreciate everything you are trying to tell me. I am a Marine Brat and was raised by a lifer. I know lifers and I am very familiar with their values and beliefs. I *KNOW*…

Oh gosh, you got it exactly. Your post almost made me cry. Yesterday I told him that ending phone calls with hanging up is such a bad idea, especially considering every phone call could be our last. That is exactly how I feel about it. I don't mind him griping about things. I'm very open to that. But you are exactly right,…

Thank you for that. I have to admit I am starting to resent being told that my husband shouldn't have to worry about my feelings. I feel like that's a horrible message to be sending to my husband. Of course I know that he can't be worried about me right now. But at the same time, there is a small part of me wanting to kick…

Me at 138 lbs: Me now at 133 lbs: I don't know if you can tell much of a difference from those photos, but oh well. They're not really before and after...more like, before and during! I am still working on losing and toning. :) Those shorts I'm wearing in the 2nd pic used to fit very tightly. Not so much anymore! They're…

Thank you. :flowerforyou: I needed that.

:explode: It was tolerable. It was okay. We talk everyday and had pleasant conversations and I sent him letters and packages. I had my one meltdown that you all know about because I posted about it here. I promise, I'm not having another one! What I am struggling with at this point is a miserable husband. It seems like…

No problem!! Just giving credit where it's due! I feel like I need to be paying more attention to your posts to see what your diet and exercise regimen look like. Obviously you're doin' something right! I need some more motivation lately because I'm starting to feel like this belly refuses to go away. :(

Do you guys know anything about food sensitivities and acne? Is it true dairy products are more likely to cause breakouts? I have been breaking out very badly in the last few weeks, and I've struggled with body acne (shoulders) since I was a teenager. It was considerably better when I was on birth control, and I suppose I…

I love numbers 6 and 8, but then again, I'm using damask elements in my wedding, so I'm looking at these with a biased eye. What are your colors? Theme?

I guess if you're not getting your proper nutrition, then yes, it could weaken your immune system. However, I've found that I actually get sick less. I used to be very prone to catching whatever anyone around me had. I would get colds constantly. Whatever my little sister brought home from elementary school, I would catch…

How tall are you? 5'8" What is your weight? 133 What is your build? Medium How much do you workout? Six times a week How much do you eat average daily? Between 1200-1400 every day. I did the "happy weight" test. I am almost ten pounds lighter than what it suggests my happy weight is. It said 142 would be my happy weight. I…

Mine is in June 2010. Yay for all the soon-to-be brides!!

How old are they? How settled are they in terms of household items? What are you comfortable giving? Would you be more comfortable giving something other than a cash gift? Are you helping to pay for the wedding at all? If yes to the last question, IMO that would be gift enough. My parents are helping to pay for our venue.…

I met him May 2007 when I started working with him. We were friends for six months, decided to shake the whole damn place up and started dating. Yep! We definitely shook the place up (that is a really long, insane story). Thanksgiving 2008, he proposed. New Year's Eve 2008, we got married!

So glad Anoop made it in with that little twist! Tatiana is crazy, and I thought it was hilarious that she tried to use the accent thing after she saw it work for Jorge (the Puerto Rican). I love Danny! I also really like Matt Girard (sp?) and I wish Danny's friend would have made it. He was good too. I thought the girl…

I saw an old coworker at the gym the other day in the ladies locker room. Well, my dad saw her today and she told him that I looked great and a lot thinner! Whoooooo! It's so hard for me to notice a difference because, well, I see myself in the mirror everyday! But she hasn't seen me since I started losing last year, so…

I've lost 7 lbs since I got my engagement ring back in November. My ring size went from a 7 to a 6.

Thank you. ...For reminding me why I love my husband so much.

My mom sent me this last week. HILARIOUS. I forwarded it on to my hubby in Iraq. :)

Really awesome work!!! I wish I could buy smaller jeans already!

I like that part about lingerie! Yay for vanity! hahaha

Welcome to the site. :flowerforyou: I'm in NC as well, out by the beach. :)

I love heels! Ahh! I haven't worn them so much since I started dating my husband (he's an inch shorter than me), but I still love them. I am definitely completely in love with my high heeled cowboy boots...Steve Maddens. I got them on sale for $80. Ah...I love those things and wear them whenever I get the chance (which…

Stats Name: Cindy Height: 5'8" Weight (If comfortable revealing): 134 Goal Weight: 130 Highest Weight: 145 Lowest Weight: In the 120's Dieting Are you currently dieting? Yes! What diet do you follow? The MFP diet! haha How many calories do you take in daily? Hovering around 1200-1400 How many fat grams do you take in…