Maracuya77

I think some people really don't know how to read. If they do have any slight inclination toward reading, it's lost in their ignorant obscurity...with that said, I have noticed that people on dating sites are terrible at reading. It's kind of an epidemic. It's all about convenience...the faster, the better. Lol

Absolutely great. You were always beautiful, but now you are definitely healthy and probably looking the way you feel on the inside. Inspirational : )

You are a masterpiece in God's eyes. Don't worry about everyone else. Just let your inner beauty radiate, and it will translate. I have a hard time with this too, I compare myself A LOT, and I shouldn't. I think you look beautiful, and since we can't look and be like everyone else, we just have to learn to love ourselves…

I'm 28, with two kids, and I have to lose 100 pounds as well...feel free to add me : )

You look cute!! Thanks for sharing. Rock the curves, sister! I'm 246 and rocking mine and getting in shape at the same time. You have to love yourself throughout the process.. ; )

I would say these are pretty much true.

Wow, that's such a rude thing to say. So...you want to lose weight to 'look good'? And not look 'fat'? What about worrying about your health and doing it for your future, for your lungs, for your heart, for your kids? If you have kids, I really hope you do not project these kind of hateful things to them. Who cares if…

By the way, I'm 258 lbs right now at 5'5. I am considered 'fattest' in most circles...but I know that my heart is true. I am working on self esteem and self worth, and I have to focus on my good traits..inside and out..my contributions to society and to my family....and just do this for my health. If you want to add me,…

Wow, you are beautiful! Well, you know...there's lots of people at the gym who are fit but probably self centered, conceited, selfish, rude, all that. You can work on being fit and just forget about them. There is more to your worth as a person than your weight. For example, I'm sure you're a down to earth, genuine,…

Aw, super sweet response. That's how Love is supposed to be : )

That's probably one of the best things I Read in this thread. Very awesome. Kudos : )

LOL. Old Yeller...good ol' tear jerker....

What he said....

I'm actually at a similar weight. This morning, I weighed 258! I couldn't believe it. I have been through personal hardships myself, including an ugly divorce, near homelessness, expensive custody battle, failed relationships, starting a new life in another country, being a stay at home mom from having an active…

You look great. Just please never put all your worth as a person on your weight. You mentioned something about your 'fake smile' when you were a size 24W. I am sure that at that size, there were plenty of things to smile about as far as life, family, friends, and hobbies go. Please never devalue yourself or your life…

Don't feel disgusting..you're not disgusting. You're a perfect and beautiful image in the eyes of God. But for your health, and only for your health and longevity, work hard to improve your heart and lungs. Try to take away the idea that the scale reflects your worth. It doesn't. You're beautiful. Work out for your health.…

This whole thread is disgusting. Nothing funny or amusing here...just a lot of disturbing images being enjoyed by disturbing individuals. Liking this kind of thing is nothing to be proud about...

Hey..wow. You remind me of Eva Longoria in your after picture. Absolutely beautiful..what an inspiration. I think you just inspired me to get on the elliptical. Have a blessed day : )

I think it's pretty sad and a true reflection of society. I think objectifying is the "norm" sadly. It's cool that there are still people like you around (to the original poster) that refuse to be part of something like that. It's not cute, not funny, not entertaining...just sad, really. Kudos to you. Have a blessed day. :…

I'm trying to lose weight so I can join today, even though I'm 27. Whether it's active duty, reserves or guard, I want it to be in my future. Thanks to all those who served.

That's amazing. I am starting out at close to 260 and I'd love to get down to 200. Thanks for the inspiration.

I honestly don't want stuff that makes me uncomfortable. Some people find college humor like American Wedding funny, and I don't. It's pretty offensive and overall terrible. I watched a standup from Tosh.O and wow, he was vulgar, offensive and a lot of things he said about women's bodies was over the top with crudeness.…