The mythical "ideal partner" (?)
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Raise your hand if you cant wait for whathisproblem to turn thirty-three and nom on his words for the rest of his thirties?
Doesn't apply as much to men as it does to women. Men's stock rises as they get older. Women's stock drops faster than Lehman Brothers in 2008 after they hit a certain age. Personally, I have 100x more option now than I had when I was 20. Men are like a fine wine :drinker:
Yup, another one of those unfair double standards.
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Raise your hand if you cant wait for whathisproblem to turn thirty-three and nom on his words for the rest of his thirties?
Doesn't apply as much to men as it does to women. Men's stock rises as they get older. Women's stock drops faster than Lehman Brothers in 2008 after they hit a certain age. Personally, I have 100x more option now than I had when I was 20. Men are like a fine wine :drinker:
Yup, another one of those unfair double standards.
*ducks and takes cover*
I have to disagree... I got more v-jay from 15-25 then I can dream of now.... but that is strictly based only on my case.0 -
I really don't get the whole concept of get it while there is an abundance. Sure there are far more single men and women at younger ages but that doesn't mean that once men and women pair up they stay paired up. An attractive appealing young man or women may have a whole lot more choices than a homely one but that doesn't mean they choose wisely or that their tastes don't change as they get older. It's not like marriage is shackles that bind you forever. People can and do get divorced on a daily basis. Most people consider it unethical but it does happen that affairs happen between people who actually end up getting married after one or both parties to the affair dissolve their current marriage. My SIL's (brother's wife) dad is now married to his former next door neighbor. She divorced her husband within a few days of him divorcing his wife and they moved in together within a month of both filing for divorce. They would have you believe that there was no relationship between them before the separations. I have an ex who when parents met her mom was engaged to her dad's best friend. Her dad was on leave from the military for his best friend's bachelor party. Her mom and dad eloped that weekend and were married for over 50 years.0
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Also - because guys who are 5'8" say effed up sht when a tall girl crawls on top during sex, like "OMG Go easy on me, Im just a little guy" and you lose your lady boner and want to go cry cause short guys never miss an opportunity to call you huge.
When has this happened?
I am open to women of a wide variety of heights. I find tall women attractive and I've never called a tall woman 'huge'. That is just inconsiderate.
Yoovie I have felt like that too...not sexually of course. But I've heard negative comments about my height before. Doesn't help that I am rather big too. If I was tall and a stick it might be one thing, but the fact that I'm not stick thin means I'm invisible to men. Except for creepers or men who have way too many problems. Those kind love me.
Frankly, I think the man feels emasculated even if he denies it.0 -
Also - because guys who are 5'8" say effed up sht when a tall girl crawls on top during sex, like "OMG Go easy on me, Im just a little guy" and you lose your lady boner and want to go cry cause short guys never miss an opportunity to call you huge.
When has this happened?
I am open to women of a wide variety of heights. I find tall women attractive and I've never called a tall woman 'huge'. That is just inconsiderate.
Yoovie I have felt like that too...not sexually of course. But I've heard negative comments about my height before. Doesn't help that I am rather big too. If I was tall and a stick it might be one thing, but the fact that I'm not stick thin means I'm invisible to men. Except for creepers or men who have way too many problems. Those kind love me.
That sucks to have that happen to the both of you.
I like women of all varying heights. Taller or shorter than me, height has never been an issue for me.0 -
Also - because guys who are 5'8" say effed up sht when a tall girl crawls on top during sex, like "OMG Go easy on me, Im just a little guy" and you lose your lady boner and want to go cry cause short guys never miss an opportunity to call you huge.
When has this happened?
I am open to women of a wide variety of heights. I find tall women attractive and I've never called a tall woman 'huge'. That is just inconsiderate.
Um lets see - New Year's Day of this year, October of last autumn and twice last summer- should I go back farther? Wait - lets not forget the comments they makeafterwards - lets see theres...
"I survived the big one"
"I stayed til the bell, do I get a prize?"
"This must be how King Kong felt when he got to the top of the ESB"
and my personal favorite.... "I love tall girls, they have to work so much harder in bed hahaha - more than fat girls cause at least they can shrink"0 -
Raise your hand if you cant wait for whathisproblem to turn thirty-three and nom on his words for the rest of his thirties?
Doesn't apply as much to men as it does to women. Men's stock rises as they get older. Women's stock drops faster than Lehman Brothers in 2008 after they hit a certain age. Personally, I have 100x more option now than I had when I was 20. Men are like a fine wine :drinker:
Yup, another one of those unfair double standards.
*ducks and takes cover*
I have to disagree... I got more v-jay from 15-25 then I can dream of now.... but that is strictly based only on my case.
maybe you're a woman and didnt know?
same here. quantity does not always equal quality.I really don't get the whole concept of get it while there is an abundance. Sure there are far more single men and women at younger ages but that doesn't mean that once men and women pair up they stay paired up.0 -
Raise your hand if you cant wait for whathisproblem to turn thirty-three and nom on his words for the rest of his thirties?
Doesn't apply as much to men as it does to women. Men's stock rises as they get older. Women's stock drops faster than Lehman Brothers in 2008 after they hit a certain age. Personally, I have 100x more option now than I had when I was 20. Men are like a fine wine :drinker:
Yup, another one of those unfair double standards.
*ducks and takes cover*
not referring to you- referring to the guy that keeps saying that he knows for a fact that his life is over when he turns thirty and is suffering with depression because of it, but thanks for playing.
Know how many times I got hit on between the ages 21 and 31? 6 times.
Know how many times Ive gotten hit on today, at 33?
6.0 -
Also - because guys who are 5'8" say effed up sht when a tall girl crawls on top during sex, like "OMG Go easy on me, Im just a little guy" and you lose your lady boner and want to go cry cause short guys never miss an opportunity to call you huge.
When has this happened?
I am open to women of a wide variety of heights. I find tall women attractive and I've never called a tall woman 'huge'. That is just inconsiderate.
Yoovie I have felt like that too...not sexually of course. But I've heard negative comments about my height before. Doesn't help that I am rather big too. If I was tall and a stick it might be one thing, but the fact that I'm not stick thin means I'm invisible to men. Except for creepers or men who have way too many problems. Those kind love me.
Frankly, I think the man feels emasculated even if he denies it.
I have some sad news for you. I consider myself of average size and above average height. My waist is actually small for my height according to my seamstress at work. The part above, where you're always big because youre tall, doesnt go away when you lose the weight. It just becomes one more thing that they love to make you feel insecure about.
My advice? humiliate them right back.
"This must be how King Kong felt when he reached the top of the ESB"
"No kiddo, you're the little blonde chick in his hand"
We tall girls have one option. Find an other hald where you are both all about each other. And dont sleep with shorties, they will take the chance to tell you something to make you hate your body right before you orgasm.0 -
Know how many times I got hit on between the ages 21 and 31? 6 times.
Know how many times Ive gotten hit on today, at 33?
6.
You've lost weight. When someone looks better, they get hit on more.0 -
Also - because guys who are 5'8" say effed up sht when a tall girl crawls on top during sex, like "OMG Go easy on me, Im just a little guy" and you lose your lady boner and want to go cry cause short guys never miss an opportunity to call you huge.
When has this happened?
I am open to women of a wide variety of heights. I find tall women attractive and I've never called a tall woman 'huge'. That is just inconsiderate.
Um lets see - New Year's Day of this year, October of last autumn and twice last summer- should I go back farther? Wait - lets not forget the comments they makeafterwards - lets see theres...
"I survived the big one"
"I stayed til the bell, do I get a prize?"
"This must be how King Kong felt when he got to the top of the ESB"
and my personal favorite.... "I love tall girls, they have to work so much harder in bed hahaha - more than fat girls cause at least they can shrink"
This may speak more to the quality of men you are having sex with. I can't even imagine getting naked with a man who would make such comments.0 -
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\Know how many times I got hit on between the ages 21 and 31? 6 times.
Know how many times Ive gotten hit on today, at 33?
6.
You've lost weight. When someone looks better, they get hit on more.
that wasn't in my twenties.0 -
Also - because guys who are 5'8" say effed up sht when a tall girl crawls on top during sex, like "OMG Go easy on me, Im just a little guy" and you lose your lady boner and want to go cry cause short guys never miss an opportunity to call you huge.
When has this happened?
I am open to women of a wide variety of heights. I find tall women attractive and I've never called a tall woman 'huge'. That is just inconsiderate.
Um lets see - New Year's Day of this year, October of last autumn and twice last summer- should I go back farther? Wait - lets not forget the comments they makeafterwards - lets see theres...
"I survived the big one"
"I stayed til the bell, do I get a prize?"
"This must be how King Kong felt when he got to the top of the ESB"
and my personal favorite.... "I love tall girls, they have to work so much harder in bed hahaha - more than fat girls cause at least they can shrink"
This may speak more to the quality of men you are having sex with. I can't even imagine getting naked with a man who would make such comments.
Well, arent you the sweetest little judgmental doll! $10 says I can guess your religion and whether or not you think you're better than me cause you've never been surprised by a man that you like suddenly making a comment about you being a big girl and him not realizing it was hurtful.0 -
When someone looks better, they get hit on more.
Im going to quote this at you for the rest of time.
In fact- any time ANYONE here is complaining about not meeting anyone or not getting dates or ANYTHING like that, I'll instruct them to look better in the future.0 -
Does it make me evil that I love every minute of this thread!?! :devil: :smokin:0
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Does it make me evil that I love every minute of this thread!?! :devil: :smokin:
Not in the least. For once I get to take a backseat and let someone else do the hell raising. Pass the jell-o?
I love this woman.0 -
Does it make me evil that I love every minute of this thread!?! :devil: :smokin:
Not in the least. For once I get to take a backseat and let someone else do the hell raising. Pass the jell-o?
Haha, that is exactly what I was thinking!!0 -
Does it make me evil that I love every minute of this thread!?! :devil: :smokin:
Nope, what about me? Same thing? Evil right?0 -
When someone looks better, they get hit on more.
Im going to quote this at you for the rest of time.
In fact- any time ANYONE here is complaining about not meeting anyone or not getting dates or ANYTHING like that, I'll instruct them to look better in the future.
Your 'tude is abysmal. I feel like you've been consistently rude to me and you called someone a judgmental little doll.0 -
I don't know who's more of a punching bag.. DM, myself, or kls13la?
@Kitsune You've been going easy on me recently, what gives?0 -
Does it make me evil that I love every minute of this thread!?! :devil: :smokin:
Nope, what about me? Same thing? Evil right?
I still love you for your passion for BJ's, I don't remember how you stated it all those months ago, but I remember my ears perking up after reading it :happy:
edit to add.... DM is a good fella, you two just don't see eye to eye on this one.0 -
Also - because guys who are 5'8" say effed up sht when a tall girl crawls on top during sex, like "OMG Go easy on me, Im just a little guy" and you lose your lady boner and want to go cry cause short guys never miss an opportunity to call you huge.
When has this happened?
I am open to women of a wide variety of heights. I find tall women attractive and I've never called a tall woman 'huge'. That is just inconsiderate.
Um lets see - New Year's Day of this year, October of last autumn and twice last summer- should I go back farther? Wait - lets not forget the comments they makeafterwards - lets see theres...
"I survived the big one"
"I stayed til the bell, do I get a prize?"
"This must be how King Kong felt when he got to the top of the ESB"
and my personal favorite.... "I love tall girls, they have to work so much harder in bed hahaha - more than fat girls cause at least they can shrink"
This may speak more to the quality of men you are having sex with. I can't even imagine getting naked with a man who would make such comments.
Well, arent you the sweetest little judgmental doll! $10 says I can guess your religion and whether or not you think you're better than me cause you've never been surprised by a man that you like suddenly making a comment about you being a big girl and him not realizing it was hurtful.
Way to overreact. I can understand you being surprised once or twice by a rude comment from a clueless man, but you are talking as if it is happening to you repeatedly. As I said, I can't imagine why a man who is getting sex from you would make such a rude comment.
By the way, what does my religion have to do with anything?0 -
When someone looks better, they get hit on more.
Im going to quote this at you for the rest of time.
In fact- any time ANYONE here is complaining about not meeting anyone or not getting dates or ANYTHING like that, I'll instruct them to look better in the future.
Your 'tude is abysmal. I feel like you've been consistently rude to me and you called someone a judgmental little doll.
OMG - we see each other in the exact same light!!!!!!!!! I find you utterly abysmal!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Also- that woman who I called a sweet judgmental little doll said that I have issues with who I choose to sleep with because they made statements about my height that I was sensitive about. Not that they didnt think about what they were saying before they said it... but because I have bad judgment with men.
^ she said that. right there. *points*
YOU are consistently massively insulting on a scale Ive never encountered on forums before. But worse than that- you completely lack the ability to read social cues.0 -
When someone looks better, they get hit on more.
Im going to quote this at you for the rest of time.
In fact- any time ANYONE here is complaining about not meeting anyone or not getting dates or ANYTHING like that, I'll instruct them to look better in the future.
It may suck, but it is reality for both men and women. I think I got flirted with 4 times between the ages of 25 and 39. Now that I've lost 160 pounds, I get flirted with a few times a week. I'm sure some will say that I probably have more confidence and confidence is sexy. There's some truth to that but there is a lot of BS in that too. I know that since January, I've lost 75 pounds. My online profile has stayed the same except for the pictures. The number of views, flirts, and messages have all increased as the pictures have shown a slimmer version of me.0 -
Also - because guys who are 5'8" say effed up sht when a tall girl crawls on top during sex, like "OMG Go easy on me, Im just a little guy" and you lose your lady boner and want to go cry cause short guys never miss an opportunity to call you huge.
When has this happened?
I am open to women of a wide variety of heights. I find tall women attractive and I've never called a tall woman 'huge'. That is just inconsiderate.
Um lets see - New Year's Day of this year, October of last autumn and twice last summer- should I go back farther? Wait - lets not forget the comments they makeafterwards - lets see theres...
"I survived the big one"
"I stayed til the bell, do I get a prize?"
"This must be how King Kong felt when he got to the top of the ESB"
and my personal favorite.... "I love tall girls, they have to work so much harder in bed hahaha - more than fat girls cause at least they can shrink"
This may speak more to the quality of men you are having sex with. I can't even imagine getting naked with a man who would make such comments.
Well, arent you the sweetest little judgmental doll! $10 says I can guess your religion and whether or not you think you're better than me cause you've never been surprised by a man that you like suddenly making a comment about you being a big girl and him not realizing it was hurtful.
Way to overreact. I can understand you being surprised once or twice by a rude comment from a clueless man, but you are talking as if it is happening to you repeatedly. As I said, I can't imagine why a man who is getting sex from you would make such a rude comment.
By the way, what does my religion have to do with anything?
Once or twice verses four times. So if four times in 15 years a man called me huge (sidepoint- Ive been really tall for all 15 of these years) then I lack the ability to choose a quality man, so much so that I should be called out for it on the internet.
What does your religion have to do with it? Not sure yet- its not a God related variable - its just a knack I have for being able to guess a person's religious affiliation based on the way they show prejudice in public.
Ok - i have to go home and be an unwanted spinster godless floozy
yall have a good night- see you in a couple weeks when almost everyone is sharing the same hand me down perspectives again 0 -
Does it make me evil that I love every minute of this thread!?! :devil: :smokin:
Nope, what about me? Same thing? Evil right?
I still love you for your passion for BJ's, I don't remember how you stated it all those months ago, but I remember my ears perking up after reading it :happy:
edit to add.... DM is a good fella, you two just don't see eye to eye on this one.
I just talked my way out of being banned, Im not saying what I think of that human on this forum. Except that I love that he continually tells me and my peers that Im unlovable because my expiration date already passed and I need to settle for anyone who'll have me - and you guys all keep telling me that he is a good guy. Right. noted.0 -
@Kitsune You've been going easy on me recently, what gives?
I'm on vacation :laugh:
On a serious note? You haven't seemed as careless with your wording (intentional or otherwise) and while I might not agree with what you say, I am attempting to respond in an equally careful manner.Ok - i have to go home and be an unwanted spinster godless floozy yall have a good night- see you in a couple weeks when almost everyone is sharing the same hand me down perspectives again
Whoops, looks like I'm back on the clock.0 -
Ok - i have to go home and be an unwanted spinster godless floozy yall have a good night- see you in a couple weeks when almost everyone is sharing the same hand me down perspectives again
*Standing up clapping* Can't say I agree fully with any of the warriors above.... but welcome back Yoovie!! And thank you to the rest of the arguing warriors... best day of work I've had in weeks!!0
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