I confess- Single Peeps version

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  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    I confess if work gives a snow day tomorrow (we are expecting 3 inches :laugh: ) I will be pissed since I already have the day scheduled off since I am going to MN.
  • jkandktmom
    jkandktmom Posts: 1,010 Member
    I confess that after we "broke up" the other night, I scheduled an appointment for tonight to get my hair cut....I was planning to get about 3" off. When he came over the next night, and we agreed to take a little time to think, then talk tonight I told him I had the hair appointment, so we'd have to meet after. His eyes got big and he said "just a trim right?? Because you don't need to cut it short!".

    I confess that I'm now getting the 3" cut just to see if he has underlying control issues.

    I would too. I hate it when men suggest something about me or my hair, it is a major turn off.

    SV- I would like to know more about the uprising... pictures or it didn't happen.

    Kit- Your pu$$y is adorable! A little on the hairy siade tho:laugh:
  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    I confess if work gives a snow day tomorrow (we are expecting 3 inches :laugh: ) I will be pissed since I already have the day scheduled off since I am going to MN.

    I'm thinking the same thing!! Tomorrow is my day off and we're expecting a snow day. Grrrr.....
    I would too. I hate it when men suggest something about me or my hair, it is a major turn off.

    He's made comments to me about how he likes a woman to dress or how she should present herself socially at his work functions. He always gives the disclaimers of "of course, I know I don't have to worry about you". But, then it makes me second guess myself sometimes when I'm getting dressed for a date.

    I ended up getting it stacked in the back, but just a few more layers in the front.

    It doesn't matter anyway. He didn't bother to show up for our talk. I texted at 9 to see if everything was ok and he finally called at 10:30 to say that he had fallen asleep.
  • jkandktmom
    jkandktmom Posts: 1,010 Member
    I confess if work gives a snow day tomorrow (we are expecting 3 inches :laugh: ) I will be pissed since I already have the day scheduled off since I am going to MN.

    I'm thinking the same thing!! Tomorrow is my day off and we're expecting a snow day. Grrrr.....
    I would too. I hate it when men suggest something about me or my hair, it is a major turn off.

    He's made comments to me about how he likes a woman to dress or how she should present herself socially at his work functions. He always gives the disclaimers of "of course, I know I don't have to worry about you". But, then it makes me second guess myself sometimes when I'm getting dressed for a date.

    This would totally turn me off but that is because I am a jeans and t-shirt type girl. Your new cut sounds cute we need to see pictures.

    I'm sorry he didn't show up for your talk. Do you think that means it's over or will you try and have the talk again?
  • SVCat
    SVCat Posts: 1,483 Member
    I would too. I hate it when men suggest something about me or my hair, it is a major turn off.

    SV- I would like to know more about the uprising... pictures or it didn't happen.

    Kit- Your pu$$y is adorable! A little on the hairy siade tho:laugh:


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    I need a wide angle lens for that.
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    I confess that I am getting really, really sick of this "being single" thing!! :grumble: :sad:
  • Jennifer2387
    Jennifer2387 Posts: 957 Member
    I confess that I am getting really, really sick of this "being single" thing!! :grumble: :sad:

    I confess I am too. I never thought I would say that. I was ok until I started dating again .. I was just fine being all by myself and then I broke that seal .. now I am lonely and bored and sad. I freaking hate it.
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    I confess I saw one of those funny looking men at the bar last night. Good looking really fit ,broad shoulders, good arms, flat stomach, and then *sigh* I got to his legs and he had little toothpick legs :grumble: :laugh: :huh: .... Never skip leg day guys..... talk about a total turn off... he looked like he was gonna topple over :sad: Shame to the rest of him was nice
  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    This would totally turn me off but that is because I am a jeans and t-shirt type girl. Your new cut sounds cute we need to see pictures.

    I'm sorry he didn't show up for your talk. Do you think that means it's over or will you try and have the talk again?

    I'm both....I dress well for work and social gatherings, and can usually hold my own at a party (but definitely have my socially awkward moments). I've never had complaints, so when he makes comments that have me second guessing myself, I know it's something to think about....

    I think it's over. It's the second time he's flaked on me and he's the one that requested time to think things over and have a second chance. Then he sleeps through it. Total turnoff.
  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    I confess I saw one of those funny looking men at the bar last night. Good looking really fit ,broad shoulders, good arms, flat stomach, and then *sigh* I got to his legs and he had little toothpick legs :grumble: :laugh: :huh: .... Never skip leg day guys..... talk about a total turn off... he looked like he was gonna topple over :sad: Shame to the rest of him was nice

    Hahahaha!!!! Those are the best
  • Moe4572
    Moe4572 Posts: 1,428 Member
    I confess that I am getting really, really sick of this "being single" thing!! :grumble: :sad:

    I confess I am too. I never thought I would say that. I was ok until I started dating again .. I was just fine being all by myself and then I broke that seal .. now I am lonely and bored and sad. I freaking hate it.
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    ME TOO!!]
  • Jennifer2387
    Jennifer2387 Posts: 957 Member
    I would too. I hate it when men suggest something about me or my hair, it is a major turn off.

    SV- I would like to know more about the uprising... pictures or it didn't happen.

    Kit- Your pu$$y is adorable! A little on the hairy siade tho:laugh:


    I need a wide angle lens for that.
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    Tease.
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    I think it's over. It's the second time he's flaked on me and he's the one that requested time to think things over and have a second chance. Then he sleeps through it. Total turnoff.

    Sorry to hear that but probably better sooner than later, right?
  • The_Iron
    The_Iron Posts: 288
    I confess I saw one of those funny looking men at the bar last night. Good looking really fit ,broad shoulders, good arms, flat stomach, and then *sigh* I got to his legs and he had little toothpick legs :grumble: :laugh: :huh: .... Never skip leg day guys..... talk about a total turn off... he looked like he was gonna topple over :sad: Shame to the rest of him was nice

    Hahaha. Amen! When I go the gym, more often than not I see guys moving mad weight up top but never work those legs. Especially calfs. I know you look like you could crush a dumpster with your arms but if I just kick your knee one time you are going down for the count. I am 6' 7" and wear a 39" inseam so I have always made sure never to skip or cheat on leg day. It would ruin the whole 'appearance'.
  • MaraDiaz
    MaraDiaz Posts: 4,604 Member
    I confess that I am getting really, really sick of this "being single" thing!! :grumble: :sad:

    I confess I am too. I never thought I would say that. I was ok until I started dating again .. I was just fine being all by myself and then I broke that seal .. now I am lonely and bored and sad. I freaking hate it.
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    ME TOO!!]

    Me three. But I don't want to be serious with anyone because I want to move far away from this place.
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    I confess I saw one of those funny looking men at the bar last night. Good looking really fit ,broad shoulders, good arms, flat stomach, and then *sigh* I got to his legs and he had little toothpick legs :grumble: :laugh: :huh: .... Never skip leg day guys..... talk about a total turn off... he looked like he was gonna topple over :sad: Shame to the rest of him was nice

    Hahaha. Amen! When I go the gym, more often than not I see guys moving mad weight up top but never work those legs. Especially calfs. I know you look like you could crush a dumpster with your arms but if I just kick your knee one time you are going down for the count. I am 6' 7" and wear a 39" inseam so I have always made sure never to skip or cheat on leg day. It would ruin the whole 'appearance'.

    Your 6'7? well hello there havent you heard how use ladies like the tall ones lol
  • lniffa
    lniffa Posts: 675 Member
    I confess I saw one of those funny looking men at the bar last night. Good looking really fit ,broad shoulders, good arms, flat stomach, and then *sigh* I got to his legs and he had little toothpick legs :grumble: :laugh: :huh: .... Never skip leg day guys..... talk about a total turn off... he looked like he was gonna topple over :sad: Shame to the rest of him was nice

    Too bad, they get a nice little butt too when they work the legs..:laugh:
  • lniffa
    lniffa Posts: 675 Member
    I confess I saw one of those funny looking men at the bar last night. Good looking really fit ,broad shoulders, good arms, flat stomach, and then *sigh* I got to his legs and he had little toothpick legs :grumble: :laugh: :huh: .... Never skip leg day guys..... talk about a total turn off... he looked like he was gonna topple over :sad: Shame to the rest of him was nice

    Hahaha. Amen! When I go the gym, more often than not I see guys moving mad weight up top but never work those legs. Especially calfs. I know you look like you could crush a dumpster with your arms but if I just kick your knee one time you are going down for the count. I am 6' 7" and wear a 39" inseam so I have always made sure never to skip or cheat on leg day. It would ruin the whole 'appearance'.

    Well hello you tall drink of water! (always wanted to say that)..
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member

    I think it's over. It's the second time he's flaked on me and he's the one that requested time to think things over and have a second chance. Then he sleeps through it. Total turnoff.

    I was a bit worried about his whole attitude to your religion Becky. Especially after only dating you for a few weeks. It reeked of power crazy control freak to me!! I know plenty of devout Catholics; I went to Catholic School and I have a lot of Irish friends, but I've never heard of them worry about their partner's religion. It's not a very preachy religion, if you know what I mean. (I mean, we are all Christians at the base line) At least not in a secular country like England. As long as the religious person is allowed to keep their faith, then it's not an issue. Unlike Orthodox Jews, for example, who tend not to inter marry!

    Any now he's saying about your hair and clothes...........hmm!

    Perhaps he knows deep down that you aren't the type to be manipulated, so has backed off........I dunno, but anyway, things will work out for the best :flowerforyou:
  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    I dunno, but anyway, things will work out for the best :flowerforyou:

    Thanks Anna! I absolutely agree with all of the above. I was trying to give him the benefit of the doubt considering some things he was going through, but it is time to cut ties. I feel much better about it today. I can say I gave it a good try and didn't just give up. :smile:

    Now for some good "me" time. :)
  • jkandktmom
    jkandktmom Posts: 1,010 Member
    I dunno, but anyway, things will work out for the best :flowerforyou:

    Thanks Anna! I absolutely agree with all of the above. I was trying to give him the benefit of the doubt considering some things he was going through, but it is time to cut ties. I feel much better about it today. I can say I gave it a good try and didn't just give up. :smile:

    Now for some good "me" time. :)

    I do think it is important to say "I tried" rather than spening time on what ifs.

    I confess that I seriously can't concentrate on work today and have spent most of my am on MFP. I also confess I am going to have a nooner and I am hoping that after that I can focus. :happy:
  • jkandktmom
    jkandktmom Posts: 1,010 Member
    I confess I saw one of those funny looking men at the bar last night. Good looking really fit ,broad shoulders, good arms, flat stomach, and then *sigh* I got to his legs and he had little toothpick legs :grumble: :laugh: :huh: .... Never skip leg day guys..... talk about a total turn off... he looked like he was gonna topple over :sad: Shame to the rest of him was nice

    Hahaha. Amen! When I go the gym, more often than not I see guys moving mad weight up top but never work those legs. Especially calfs. I know you look like you could crush a dumpster with your arms but if I just kick your knee one time you are going down for the count. I am 6' 7" and wear a 39" inseam so I have always made sure never to skip or cheat on leg day. It would ruin the whole 'appearance'.

    Your 6'7? well hello there havent you heard how use ladies like the tall ones lol

    I totally agree with Jen- you gotta love the tall guys!
  • MaraDiaz
    MaraDiaz Posts: 4,604 Member
    I confess, when I put my weight in on the elliptical, I put my naked weight, not what I weigh with clothes and shoes. AND I round down!
  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    6'7"..... I confess that I am trying to imagine the logistics of this. You're nearly a foot and a half taller than me. :noway:
  • Jennifer2387
    Jennifer2387 Posts: 957 Member
    I confess I want to give the secretary in the main office a high five .. in the face .. with a chair .. a metal chair... really really hard.
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    I confess I want to give the secretary in the main office a high five .. in the face .. with a chair .. a metal chair... really really hard.

    Is she also writing letters to your PPWB??
  • Jennifer2387
    Jennifer2387 Posts: 957 Member
    I confess I want to give the secretary in the main office a high five .. in the face .. with a chair .. a metal chair... really really hard.

    Is she also writing letters to your PPWB??

    Probably .. stupid *kitten*. :noway:
  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    I confess I want to give the secretary in the main office a high five .. in the face .. with a chair .. a metal chair... really really hard.

    Is she also writing letters to your PPWB??

    Probably .. stupid *kitten*. :noway:

    :laugh: :laugh:

    F her.... let's go have beers Jen. Is it time yet?

    ETA - DAMNIT!!!! That was my 1,000 post..... I've been trying to watch for that. *@#$@#(@#@(*#@)*
  • lacroyx
    lacroyx Posts: 5,754 Member
    I confess I saw one of my 5 gym crushes (I'm not a player, I just crush a lot) So I purposely took a path, out of my way to be able to walk past her when I thought she smiled at me causing my heart to race faster than anything physical I did @ the gym today. But it wasn't @ me. It was some other female friend that I didn't see until the last second. ( . _ . )
  • Jennifer2387
    Jennifer2387 Posts: 957 Member
    I confess I saw one of my 5 gym crushes (I'm not a player, I just crush a lot) So I purposely took a path, out of my way to be able to walk past her when I thought she smiled at me causing my heart to race faster than anything physical I did @ the gym today. But it wasn't @ me. It was some other female friend that I didn't see until the last second. ( . _ . )

    PLAYA GOTTA PLAY!!!! :smokin: