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  • 316Judith
    316Judith Posts: 12,721 Member

    Today for me started off with an hour long Bible Study I do via Video. We finished up our Study on the Characteristics of a Christian. Our next several studies are on the Women of the Bible. Our 1st study is on the Life of Miriam. We break for Christmas on December 8th as it gets really busy with family and Church activities so we break early. We are back in New Year, date is yet to be determined. 

    This afternoon it was a sorting out of Christmas gifts already bought and sorting out of Christmas Gift Bags, what bows, tags are needed. I was pleasantly surprised how organized I was with having all the things I do have. I have my Cardstock for my Christmas cards I make for family, the Dies, Stamps, markers, embossing folders and embossing powder. I have my design already decided on. I’m way ahead of what I was doing for my daughter’s Birthday card! I have a list that again was so pleased as I ticked off so many things I had done. The weekend I am excited to finish Lynn’s card, I did a little work on it today. 

    Susan, you have quite a talented group of Villagers with a group writing the script, directing and then there are the costumes having 100 in the play is both awesome and impressive with pulling it all together as they are doing. Do you have a speaking part? I know you are playing your Ukulele, you mentioned a Choir, are you singing in the choir? So sorry to ask but I have lost my train of thought in how much you do besides playing your instrument. Your play sounds like it will be so much fun, I look forward to hearing all about it. 

    So sorry you were dealing with such a chaotic household this morning. It sounds like Inara has too much energy and doesn’t know what to do with it all. . I hear you when you say you love Inara so much but when Inara gets in these boisterous episodes its hard. I am praying for you for a calmness to come in your home and for Inara to be calmer and quieter. Hope your morning practice went well. I hope things quiet down so Yolanda and Inara can come to the play, it would be good for them all. Hope Yolanda can take Inara outside to play, perhaps a visit to a local park, where she could be on climbing equipment, swinging on the swings and playing on a teeter totter.it would be great fun, and she would get the added fresh air which would give her a good night sleep. I often took my grandkids out to the park, I took sidewalk chalk and a big bottle of bubbles. The kids had such fun. This helped avoid bursts of energies and even screaming episodes. I wonder if this would help Inara? 

    Linda, you had a full day with getting your laundry done and floors mopped, that is a clever idea of using an old towel for the heads of your mops. That’s a great idea. This is so nice of you to go with your friend to sit with her while her husband has reconstruction surgery on his Shouler. I am sure she will so appreciate you being these with her. Sitting in a surgery waiting area is not fun. At least she will have someone to talk to. Thank you for the heads up regarding the Government Shut down. Hope the Senate passes it and President Trump signs it before it’s officially over. Hope it happens soon. You asked about our Postal Strike. Thankfully they settled and are back on the job however the mail is really slow. I am getting mail but it’s really behind. I am going to write out my Christmas cards and get them all mailed out by the end of November. I am hoping all my family and friends who live some in the USA and others out of the Province will receive their cards. I worked on my Birthday card for my daughter again today. Hoping I will have the card done by the weekend. 

    Barb, I didn’t realize your Mom had 8 vertebrae fractures. Such a painful condition for your Mom. You mentioned about assisted living, how does your Mom feel about it? It’s hard to have to think about giving up the things you are attached to. I have known people who do very well. Hopefully your Mom will be ok with assisted living. You have so much on your plate with helping Harry3, HH with the girls, and the added stress for both you and Cher having decisions about how to help your Mom, and I am also thinking this is Harry3’s last week for rehab then he will be home, you will be busier with helping Harry3 more. And now Jean and Tim having his Mom living with them. I read in one of your posts that Tim’s Mom was suicidal, is there a plan for some counselling? All I can say Barb, my heart goes out to you, you still have your macular treatment, there is so much to pray about. You can count on my prayers!

    It’s late and this is the 4th post as each one got lost that I posted previously. Will say Good Night 😴 God Bless. 🙏🤗

  • 316Judith
    316Judith Posts: 12,721 Member

    Today for me started off with an hour long Bible Study I do via Video. We finished up our Study on the Characteristics of a Christian. Our next several studies are on the Women of the Bible. Our 1st study is on the Life of Miriam. We break for Christmas on December 8th as it gets really busy with family and Church activities so we break early. We are back in New Year, date is yet to be determined. 

    This afternoon it was a sorting out of Christmas gifts already bought and sorting out of Christmas Gift Bags, what bows, tags are needed. I was pleasantly surprised how organized I was with having all the things I do have. I have my Cardstock for my Christmas cards I make for family, the Dies, Stamps, markers, embossing folders and embossing powder. I have my design already decided on. I’m way ahead of what I was doing for my daughter’s Birthday card! I have a list that again was so pleased as I ticked off so many things I had done. The weekend I am excited to finish Lynn’s card, I did a little work on it today. 

    Susan, you have quite a talented group of Villagers with a group writing the script, directing and then there are the costumes having 100 in the play is both awesome and impressive with pulling it all together as they are doing. Do you have a speaking part? I know you are playing your Ukulele, you mentioned a Choir, are you singing in the choir? So sorry to ask but I have lost my train of thought in how much you do besides playing your instrument. Your play sounds like it will be so much fun, I look forward to hearing all about it. 

    So sorry you were dealing with such a chaotic household this morning. It sounds like Inara has too much energy and doesn’t know what to do with it all. . I hear you when you say you love Inara so much but when Inara gets in these boisterous episodes its hard. I am praying for you for a calmness to come in your home and for Inara to be calmer and quieter. Hope your morning practice went well. I hope things quiet down so Yolanda and Inara can come to the play, it would be good for them all. Hope Yolanda can take Inara outside to play, perhaps a visit to a local park, where she could be on climbing equipment, swinging on the swings and playing on a teeter totter.it would be great fun, and she would get the added fresh air which would give her a good night sleep. I often took my grandkids out to the park, I took sidewalk chalk and a big bottle of bubbles. The kids had such fun. This helped avoid bursts of energies and even screaming episodes. I wonder if this would help Inara? 

    Linda, you had a full day with getting your laundry done and floors mopped, that is a clever idea of using an old towel for the heads of your mops. That’s a great idea. This is so nice of you to go with your friend to sit with her while her husband has reconstruction surgery on his Shouler. I am sure she will so appreciate you being these with her. Sitting in a surgery waiting area is not fun. At least she will have someone to talk to. Thank you for the heads up regarding the Government Shut down. Hope the Senate passes it and President Trump signs it before it’s officially over. Hope it happens soon. You asked about our Postal Strike. Thankfully they settled and are back on the job however the mail is really slow. I am getting mail but it’s really behind. I am going to write out my Christmas cards and get them all mailed out by the end of November. I am hoping all my family and friends who live some in the USA and others out of the Province will receive their cards. I worked on my Birthday card for my daughter again today. Hoping I will have the card done by the weekend. 

    Barb, I didn’t realize your Mom had 8 vertebrae fractures. Such a painful condition for your Mom. You mentioned about assisted living, how does your Mom feel about it? It’s hard to have to think about giving up the things you are attached to. I have known people who do very well. Hopefully your Mom will be ok with assisted living. You have so much on your plate with helping Harry3, HH with the girls, and the added stress for both you and Cher having decisions about how to help your Mom, and I am also thinking this is Harry3’s last week for rehab then he will be home, you will be busier with helping Harry3 more. And now Jean and Tim having his Mom living with them. I read in one of your posts that Tim’s Mom was suicidal, is there a plan for some counselling? All I can say Barb, my heart goes out to you, you still have your macular treatment, there is so much to pray about. You can count on my prayers!

    It’s late and this is the 4th post as each one got lost that I posted previously. Will say Good Night 😴 God Bless. 🙏🤗

  • 316Judith
    316Judith Posts: 12,721 Member

    Today for me started off with an hour long Bible Study I do via Video. We finished up our Study on the Characteristics of a Christian. Our next several studies are on the Women of the Bible. Our 1st study is on the Life of Miriam. We break for Christmas on December 8th as it gets really busy with family and Church activities so we break early. We are back in New Year, date is yet to be determined. 

    This afternoon it was a sorting out of Christmas gifts already bought and sorting out of Christmas Gift Bags, what bows, tags are needed. I was pleasantly surprised how organized I was with having all the things I do have. I have my Cardstock for my Christmas cards I make for family, the Dies, Stamps, markers, embossing folders and embossing powder. I have my design already decided on. I’m way ahead of what I was doing for my daughter’s Birthday card! I have a list that again was so pleased as I ticked off so many things I had done. The weekend I am excited to finish Lynn’s card, I did a little work on it today. 

    Susan, you have quite a talented group of Villagers with a group writing the script, directing and then there are the costumes having 100 in the play is both awesome and impressive with pulling it all together as they are doing. Do you have a speaking part? I know you are playing your Ukulele, you mentioned a Choir, are you singing in the choir? So sorry to ask but I have lost my train of thought in how much you do besides playing your instrument. Your play sounds like it will be so much fun, I look forward to hearing all about it. 

    So sorry you were dealing with such a chaotic household this morning. It sounds like Inara has too much energy and doesn’t know what to do with it all. . I hear you when you say you love Inara so much but when Inara gets in these boisterous episodes its hard. I am praying for you for a calmness to come in your home and for Inara to be calmer and quieter. Hope your morning practice went well. I hope things quiet down so Yolanda and Inara can come to the play, it would be good for them all. Hope Yolanda can take Inara outside to play, perhaps a visit to a local park, where she could be on climbing equipment, swinging on the swings and playing on a teeter totter.it would be great fun, and she would get the added fresh air which would give her a good night sleep. I often took my grandkids out to the park, I took sidewalk chalk and a big bottle of bubbles. The kids had such fun. This helped avoid bursts of energies and even screaming episodes. I wonder if this would help Inara? 

    Linda, you had a full day with getting your laundry done and floors mopped, that is a clever idea of using an old towel for the heads of your mops. That’s a great idea. This is so nice of you to go with your friend to sit with her while her husband has reconstruction surgery on his Shouler. I am sure she will so appreciate you being these with her. Sitting in a surgery waiting area is not fun. At least she will have someone to talk to. Thank you for the heads up regarding the Government Shut down. Hope the Senate passes it and President Trump signs it before it’s officially over. Hope it happens soon. You asked about our Postal Strike. Thankfully they settled and are back on the job however the mail is really slow. I am getting mail but it’s really behind. I am going to write out my Christmas cards and get them all mailed out by the end of November. I am hoping all my family and friends who live some in the USA and others out of the Province will receive their cards. I worked on my Birthday card for my daughter again today. Hoping I will have the card done by the weekend. 

    Barb, I didn’t realize your Mom had 8 vertebrae fractures. Such a painful condition for your Mom. You mentioned about assisted living, how does your Mom feel about it? It’s hard to have to think about giving up the things you are attached to. I have known people who do very well. Hopefully your Mom will be ok with assisted living. You have so much on your plate with helping Harry3, HH with the girls, and the added stress for both you and Cher having decisions about how to help your Mom, and I am also thinking this is Harry3’s last week for rehab then he will be home, you will be busier with helping Harry3 more. And now Jean and Tim having his Mom living with them. I read in one of your posts that Tim’s Mom was suicidal, is there a plan for some counselling? All I can say Barb, my heart goes out to you, you still have your macular treatment, there is so much to pray about. You can count on my prayers!

    It’s late and this is the 4th post as each one got lost that I posted previously. Will say Good Night 😴 God Bless. 🙏🤗

  • LosinSusin
    LosinSusin Posts: 8,800 Member

    Oh no, Judith! I hope you can post it again later. How frustrating.

    Linda, thank you for understanding about how different life is for us right now. We're doing our best. Glad your towel mop worked out so well.

    Barb, sorry to hear about Tim's mother and the continued issues for your Mom. I hope the birthday party might lift a few spirits. Take care.

    Inara was a bundle of energy and attitude all day yesterday. Her Mom took her to parks and out shopping. You're right, Linda, she has no outside playing space here. Colin took her to meet some of the neighbours yesterday too and she behaved for them. Vol and I went to the Memorial Day service and lunch at the Clubhouse which was a lovely peaceful time. The choir sang Amazing Grace acxompanied by a Piper and also the national anthem to a backing tape.

  • Paraest
    Paraest Posts: 1,986 Member

    Susan. Prayers for you adjust. Havig a preschooler I assume a toddler have so much energy. Is there a playground near by? Most kids like bubbles so aybenbutbthen only be 5-10 minutes of freedom. Praying.
    The play sounds so cool & 2 residents having written it with over 100 in it. Thats a lot of people who must know what to say & where to be. Kind of like a marching band performance. All 4 of our kids pay an instrument & were in marching band.

    Judith so sorry once it took 3 tries for me once. It is so frustrating. Prayers.

    Linda so cleaning day. Nice if youth be with a friend facing surgery. Maybe bring a book?

    Marlene is older than me, thats all i know. She has more medical problems. She lives in Missourians Jean lives in Kansas. Not sure if Marlene has insurance. We did t see them today. Tomorrow works better for them. They will tkae Evan to Build a bear. It’s a teddy bear store, to build a teddy bear, and Evan will have fun. A nice birthday gift.
    As for my mom there is talk of releasing her Thursday. To the skilled nursing place. We wish she have more time. Not sure what will happen. I know we will have to empty her place, as she doesn’t own it Calvary home, where she lives owns it. She has 2 bedrooms, living room, dining room, kitchen and sun room. So lots to empty. Prayers appreciated. In Gods time.
    I am concerned about 3 as with. I don’t want him to,regress. I know we will take him3 days a week to,walk with a walker. Trust that helps him, though I wish it be 4 days every so often. I hope they give him-a schedule or exercises for him to do. I know HH feels she can’t as she has the girls. I keep praying and poor out my heart to,God I know 3 is alive and tumor benign he can dress, tie shoes and shave. Please Lord help him with his balance & see Neuro ophthalmologist before February

  • Healthyme7410
    Healthyme7410 Posts: 11,561 Member

    Today I was supposed to be sitting with a friend while her partner had surgery but it did not happen. The surgery was scheduled for 12:30PM but by 3 they decided to cancel it. They were having problems with the sterilizing machine and did not have the proper equipment to do the surgery. I am glad that they did cancel it because with improperly sterilized instruments there would have been potential for major infection. They are not sure when it will be rescheduled. They may have to wait for longer since his surgery was elective. The ones that are medically necessary will probably be rescheduled first. My S-I-L said she saw gorgeous "northern lights" tonight but we went out and did not see them. We used to have them in Ohio and they were so pretty. Glenn was disappointed because he has never seen them. I saw them once when we were flying to Ohio before my partents moved to California with my brother. it was amazing to see as we flew through or past them.

    Judith - I am so sorry that you lost your post four times. I am pretty frustrated with just loosing mine one time but four is ridiculous. Congratulations on gaining and keeping on an ounce. Every little bit helps.

    Susan - I am glad that you and Colin were able to go to the memorial service and lunch for a little peace and quiet. I am sure the choir was beautiful to hear. How old is Inara? I think I have asked before but am having a senior moment.

    Barb - If your mom is discharged on Thursday and goes to a skilled nursing home, is this permanent? I worked in skilled nursing for many years and they had rehab services there too. If there was not potential for improvement, they also had "rehab aides" that did exercises on residents to keep them from regressing. I can not speak about where she is going but I know these services were very helpful for many of the people I took care of. That sounds like a lot of work to clean out your mom's house. I hope she can have a few special things in her room to keep if she stays in the nursing home. There may be a chance that 3 will regress but if he is willing to work hard, he can at least maintain. I know I had plans for my parents to do things but without their buyin, it did not go very far. He needs to see that he needs this not that you want him to do it. You did not ask for my opinion so ignore what I said if you want to. 🙃

    I need to go do dishes now. The biggest thing is that I need to clean the dehydrator which is very big. It does not fit into the dishwasher so it needs to be done by hand. I do not use my dishwasher much since we do not have enough dishes to do in one day so it take a while to fill it up before I use it. Today I thought about using it but I discovered that it had been a while and there was water that had not drained out in the bottom of it. It smelled like swamp water so I spent quite a while scrubbing it with hot soapy water then ran a hot cycle with a cup of vinegar then another hot cycle with a cup of baking powder. It smells nice and fresh now. From now on I will check to see that the water is completely drained after I take the dishes out. I have no idea why it did not drain unless I stopped it to get something out and forgot to start it again. Who knows at this point?? At least it is clean now.

  • Paraest
    Paraest Posts: 1,986 Member
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    Jean’s picture

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    My picture the camera cell sees the lights better than naked eye.

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    Elisabeth’s picture Wichita.
    I don’t know where my mom will go something about rehab. One day at a time Cher always says.

  • 316Judith
    316Judith Posts: 12,721 Member

    Evening Hello All

    Thanks for your kind comments about Lost posts! I am heading to bed as I am in Vancouver for better part of the day! I see my Oral Oncologist!

    Yesterday for me started off with an hour long Bible Study I do via Video. We finished up our Study on the Characteristics of a Christian. Our next several studies are on the Women of the Bible. Our 1st study is on the Life of Miriam. We break for Christmas on December 8th as it gets really busy with family and Church activities so we break early. We are back in New Year, date is yet to be determined. 

    This afternoon it was a sorting out of Christmas gifts already bought and sorting out of Christmas Gift Bags, what bows, tags are needed. I was pleasantly surprised how organized I was with having all the things I do have. I have my Cardstock for my Christmas cards I make for family, the Dies, Stamps, markers, embossing folders and embossing powder. I have my design already decided on. I’m way ahead of what I was doing for my daughter’s Birthday card! I have a list that again was so pleased as I ticked off so many things I had done. The weekend I am excited to finish Lynn’s card, I did a little work on it today. 

    Susan, you have quite a talented group of Villagers with a group writing the script, directing and then there are the costumes having 100 in the play is both awesome and impressive with pulling it all together as they are doing. Do you have a speaking part? I know you are playing your Ukulele, you mentioned a Choir, are you singing in the choir? So sorry to ask but I have lost my train of thought in how much you do besides playing your instrument. Your play sounds like it will be so much fun, I look forward to hearing all about it.  So sorry you were dealing with such a chaotic household this morning. It sounds like Inara has too much energy and doesn’t know what to do with it all. . I hear you when you say you love Inara so much but when Inara gets in these boisterous episodes its hard. I am praying for you for a calmness to come in your home and for Inara to be calmer and quieter. Hope your morning practice went well. I hope things quiet down so Yolanda and Inara can come to the play, it would be good for them all. Hope Yolanda can take Inara outside to play, perhaps a visit to a local park, where she could be on climbing equipment, swinging on the swings and playing on a teeter totter.it would be great fun, and she would get the added fresh air which would give her a good night sleep. I often took my grandkids out to the park, I took sidewalk chalk and a big bottle of bubbles. The kids had such fun. This helped avoid bursts of energies and even screaming episodes. I wonder if this would help Inara? 

    Linda, you had a full day with getting your laundry done and floors mopped, that is a clever idea of using an old towel for the heads of your mops. That’s a great idea. This is so nice of you to go with your friend to sit with her while her husband has reconstruction surgery on his Shouler. I am sure she will so appreciate you being these with her. Sitting in a surgery waiting area is not fun. At least she will have someone to talk to. Thank you for the heads up regarding the Government Shut down. Hope the Senate passes it and President Trump signs it before it’s officially over. Hope it happens soon. You asked about our Postal Strike. Thankfully they settled and are back on the job however the mail is really slow. I am getting mail but it’s really behind. I am going to write out my Christmas cards and get them all mailed out by the end of November. I am hoping all my family and friends who live some in the USA and others out of the Province will receive their cards. I worked on my Birthday card for my daughter again today. Hoping I will have the card done by the weekend. 

    Barb, I didn’t realize you Mom had 8 vertebrae fractures. Such a painful condition for your Mom. You mentioned about assisted living, how does your Mom feel about it? It’s hard to have to think about giving up the things you are attached to. I have known people who do very well. Hopefully your Mom will be ok with assisted living. You have so much on your plate with helping Harry3, HH with the girls, and the added stress for both you and Cher having decisions about how to help your Mom, and I am also thinking this is Harry3’s last week for rehab then he will be home, you will be busier with helping Harry3 more. And now Jean and Tim having his Mom living with them. I read in one of your posts that Tim’s Mom was suicidal, is there a plan for some counselling? All I can say Barb, my heart goes out to you, you still have your macular treatment, there is much to pray about.

    It’s late and this is the 4th post as each one got lost that I posted previously. Will say Good Night 😴 God Bless. 🙏🤗

  • 316Judith
    316Judith Posts: 12,721 Member

    Hello All

    Not sure what is going on as I posted in all the other Threads but have had to repeat mega times and every post in Chat has been lost since yesterday including tonight. Except a note like you are getting tonight. Will be back tomorrow. I am in Vancouver tomorrow to see my Oral Oncologist!

    Good Night 😴

  • Paraest
    Paraest Posts: 1,986 Member

    Praying Judith. So sorry MFP troubles.

  • LosinSusin
    LosinSusin Posts: 8,800 Member

    Judith, I saw your same post six times, so maybe scroll back and see if you can see them? I hope everything goes smoothly with your appointment today. It will be tiring, going to Vancouver. Take care! Glad you are organised with your Christmas and birthday cards. I have a design I like for the next dozen cards I am making. If Inara is gone today (they are going to other family today and tonight) I might get some made. Yes, Yolanda and Shaun take Inara to all the local parks and she burns some energy at them. I like bubbles with young kids too. Maybe I'll get some more. I threw out my last lot some tears ago, since Inara hadn't even been thought of then. Our next youngest grandchild is 12! Yes, for the play I am singing in the choir, singing and playing with Uke Jam and I have a small speaking part.

    Barb, lovely photos of the Aurora Borealis. I was going to tell Linda that Glenn might need a camera and a longer time exposure to see them. When we were in Tasmania we saw the Aurora Australis but cameras did a much better job of seeing them. I agree that you have so much going on. I am glad you have your faith to turn to and that the power of prayer is amazing. May all the challenges work out according to God's will. Hugs!

    Linda, I'd say your dishwasher is pristine! Good idea to scrub it out that way. The food dehydrator sounds big for sure, just perfect for all the dehydrating you do. Sorry your friend's surgery was cancelled but it was for the right reasons. Inara is 3.5 years old but her maturity is more lime she is 2 due to being deaf till at around 18 months - 2years.

  • LosinSusin
    LosinSusin Posts: 8,800 Member

    Taken by an Australian weather man:

    "8:15pm Aurora (Australis) from my place at Leslie Dam, Warwick QLD. Can’t really see it with your eyes but the iPhone on a 30 second exposure and there she is! ~ Jeff ~"

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  • Paraest
    Paraest Posts: 1,986 Member

    Susan. Thank you for your picture of the aurora. Very neat we might have them again tonight! You are right take picture as naked eye doesn’t see them like the camera!!

    Prayers for you in your morning routine. HH will be busier with 3 home after Friday, every day. Though he gets himself dress but needs help getting upstairs. I wish he slept upstairs too. But that’s not my call. I pray though.
    inhope all your practices are going well. I’m glad your speaking parties is small. I’m sure you enjoy the singing & playing the uke part. How are the costumes coming? Can you save them and use them for other plays? If so is there a closet to keep them in? Try the bubbles we used it a lot,when I worked with toddlers. All my grand kids love them. You can mke bubble too. Plus playgrounds to let them run. Prayers.

    Judith. Prayers for you as you are in Vancouver. Trust all went well & you are not I pain. As for my mom I don’t know what will be next. Cher keeps us informed she wasn’t there today. I know they like to send her to rehab. So that is first. If she can’t go back to her place we will have to empty it.
    The government shut down is OVRR. PTL.
    I got 6 of your one post.

    So glad you got your Christmas cards done and worked on daughters card. After Thanksgiving I will get ours done.

    Linda. So glad you got so,e cleaning done. I’m not urge when I’ll get one done but sometime. Tomorrow will be but. Harry 3 in morning then JOY group hurt then a meeting about Christ,as shoebox then pick 3 up at 3. Hi last Thursday and Friday it’s it. They’re to give us exercises. HH and 3 were working on a schedule HH says they might not need us every day so we will ee he plan on keeping him busy I’m praying. Maybe you can see the aurora lights tonight just take a picture and see them

    I took Mariposa. for walk today & read a book, then it was Evan’s birthday lunch, then my macula therapy in which I was tested again. I have only 2 more treatments testing and see my eye Dr in December.
    I also got rid of my zinnia and marigold plants and cut my snapdragon plants today I may rake this weekend but it’s busy already we have the new theater play and dinner matinee on Saturday. That’s why we miss Evan's bday party. Thank you again for the prayers.

  • Healthyme7410
    Healthyme7410 Posts: 11,561 Member

    I got most of the bathrooms cleaned but still need to do the shower stall. I wish there was a magic solution to get the soap scum/mininerals off the glass doors and grout without scrubbing. I know we need to use a squeegie on the doors each time we shower but I forget. I had my second pre-diabetes class tonight. He wants us to get very active. I though I was doing well on the treadmill but he said it needs to be faster to get my heart rate up. I hope if I make it faster that I do not fall off the end of the treadmill because I can not keep up. I am so grateful that I found two lost items that I have been looking for for more than 6 moths. I found them in a box with my winter blankets. I have no idea why my purse and a pillowcase would be in there but I am glad I found them. It does not take much to make me happy.

    Judith - I am impressed that you have so much of your Christmas shopping done. We still have not given out gift lists yet. Because we are not very up to date on fashion, we usually get gift cards for those who ask for clothes. That way we know they will be what they want. I hope your day at Vancover for the oral oncologist was not too tiring.

    Barb - the pictures of the Northern Lights were beautiful. We tried to get a camera to show up the lights but we could not see them last night and tonight it is too cloudy and the weather man said that they would be up further North so we might not see them anyway. Praying that 3 will be able to maintain what he has done already.

    Susan - I am glad that you get a break with Shaun and family gone to visit other family members but I am thinking that Inara might be more confused the the changes of not being at your house. I think time will cure some of her energy. Maybe by the time they get ready to leave, your house will already be calm.

  • 316Judith
    316Judith Posts: 12,721 Member
    edited November 13

    evening Hello All


    Susan I am not sure what MFP is doing but thank you for letting me know there were 6 posts, I just shake me head, For some reason MFP is reading everything I post and not allowing it to go through until next day. And to answer your question if I saw the 6 posts last night no but tonight I saw them! So sorry’ I don’t know why that happened.

    Beautiful pictures Barb and Susan of the Aurora Borealis. (Northern Lights) So Beautiful! ♥️

    Praying Harry3 will maintain and do well as you continue to help him!

    Thank you Linda for your kindness and prayers my Oncologir appointment did not go well! A very intense appointment. Will update on the prayer thread tomorrow morning.

    I am tired so calling it a night, some threads are posted on.

    Good Night 😴

    God Bless 🙏🤗

  • LosinSusin
    LosinSusin Posts: 8,800 Member

    G'morning. Just on our way to the hospital. Colin has lost a lot of sight in his right eye the past 3 months so they are sending him to the "emergency" Eye Clinic at last. It has taken them weeks to tell him to go there, hence the quotation marks. He has packed an overnight bag in case they admit him. More later.

  • Paraest
    Paraest Posts: 1,986 Member

    Susan. Praying for Colin. Prayers the Eye clinic can help him out so sorry for the stress. I could not see the auroras last night and tonight it’s cloudy. Tuesday night it was cool. So glad you saw them too Susan.

    Judith praying for you as your Oncologist appointment NDIS not go well prayers to our Lord who heals. Today after Joy group I was crying my heart out to,God with my mom in so much pained going to,the other place with her hime,and Harry 3. Will his voice ever be normal, will he ever have his balance and no double vision. Will he be able to work? God knows and He does provide but it’s hard. Its been over 6 months and he is young. His family needs him. I will our my heart out to God for you too Judith. We both d Susan need to feel Gods arms around us during all of this.

    Linda. So glad your lost items were found. I remember finding my dish cloth in the freezer. Crazy, where we can leave something. My son in law whose dad installs kitchens bathroom in new house he leays told I to get a spray bottle and put vinegar and water I it. So we us thr after each shower. It does help. Smells good too & it is also cheap. I hope it helps you. Yes, he knows how to put in wood or tile floors too. He great he always fixing up their house.
    I hope we can keep 3 so he does not regress like he did the other time. I know HH says he will have therapy 5 days a week, and they might not need us 3 days a week. I hope we can walk with him with his walker sometimes, as it’s nice to encourage him & see what he is doing or how well.
    Keep praying for his voice too. Thank you all.
    My mom has moved & has more inflammation due to her compressed disks. She is in the place for therapy that is connected to her home. Some many need healing; Judith, Colin, my mom, & 3. I know in God’s time.
    Joy group was fun. We had a good,group too. Then imhad the training for Samaritan purse, Christmas shoebox. Next week is the collection. So many countries do it. Australia, Spain, Canada etc. it’s amazing.

  • Healthyme7410
    Healthyme7410 Posts: 11,561 Member
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    Glenn and I got all the plants pulled out of the garden today. Now I can see all the apple peelings and cores that we put in the garden to turn to compost. I did not realize how much we had put in there. We need to dig in the dirt and cover it so they can break down by the Spring. Tonight I lost 3 pounds tonight at TOPS. All five of us that were in the meeting lost also.

    Susan - I m praying for Colin's eye. I hope they were able to figure out what caused the blindness. After waiting so long to get in the ER, I am not sure what they will find. Did he have to stay overnight?

    Judith - I am sorry that the oncology appointment did not go well. Rest well and tell us about it when you are feeling better.

    Barb - I am sad along with you at what is happening to your mom and the future for 3 - what will the future be for him and his family. That is a lot to have to deal with at the same time. I also remember how concerned you and HH were about 3 having surgery in the first place. We do have memories of how God took care of him and he has improved so much from that first week. I pray that God will give everyone strength during this difficult time. God knows the future and knows what is best.

    May God bless you all with his great love.

  • 316Judith
    316Judith Posts: 12,721 Member

    Dearest Barb, my heart goes out to you, it’s so hard seeing Harry3 struggling with his voice, balance, double vision, and not able to work, yes he is young and has a young family to care for, this is hard, and now with your dear Mom in so much pain and likely has to leave her beloved home. This is difficult. For sure I am praying for Harry3 HH and the girls and your beloved Mom! Special prayers for you Barb and Cher for God’s Strength and Comfort throughout this difficult time. May God wrap you in His Arms of Love. 🙏♥️

    Susan, I am so sorry to read this report on Colin’s eye with losing sight in his right eye and now gone into the ER. I do hope the specialist there who attends him will have some answers and can treat Colin’s sight effectively! I am praying for you my friend for God’s Strength and Comfort. May God wrap you in His Arms of Love! 🙏♥️

    Linda, I hear your Heavy Heart: so many who need Pray! I hope you are well my friend? Anything I can Pray for concerning you and Greg? 🙏♥️

    Thank you all for your Prayer Support! I feel those prayers! ♥️

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    316Judith Posts: 12,721 Member

    Dearest Barb, my heart goes out to you, it’s so hard seeing Harry3 struggling with his voice, balance, double vision, and not able to work, yes he is young and has a young family to care for, this is hard, and now with your dear Mom in so much pain and likely has to leave her beloved home. This is difficult. For sure I am praying for Harry3 HH and the girls and your beloved Mom! Special prayers for you Barb and Cher for God’s Strength and Comfort throughout this difficult time. May God wrap you in His Arms of Love. 🙏♥️

    Susan, I am so sorry to read this report on Colin’s eye with losing sight in his right eye and now gone into the ER. I do hope the specialist there who attends him will have some answers and can treat Colin’s sight effectively! I am praying for you my friend for God’s Strength and Comfort. May God wrap you in His Arms of Love! 🙏♥️

    Linda, I hear your Heavy Heart: so many who need Pray! I hope you are well my friend? Anything I can Pray for concerning you and Greg? 🙏♥️

    Thank you all for your Prayer Support! I feel those prayers! ♥️

  • LosinSusin
    LosinSusin Posts: 8,800 Member

    I have some good news. First, the emergency Clinic dash turned out to not be one after all. What is left of Colin's right retina is still attached. Remember he had a run of detached retina incidents a few years ago? He has low vision in that eye anyway but there was nothing sinister going on this time. The Emergency Opthalmologist said he has dry eye and this can lead to vision blurs. She recommended warm eye compresses, eyelid massage and also a moisturising agent with no preservatives in it. Eye drops with preservatives as an ingredient cause heaps of eye problems, apparently. (Let this be a red flag to us all.) So no need for an overnight stay and we can breath a sigh of relief. So sorry for worrying you all!

    We ate brunch at the hospital food court where they had a Subway. I had a Caesar Salad there. It wasn't bad at all.

    A bit more mixed news. The Administrative Review Tribunal sent us a file of everything they are holding on Colin to prove he has disabilities needing physio. It is nearly 400 pages long. I had to review that yesterday and figure out which documents were still missing (we found a pile) and write a letter explaining which disabilities we still wanted support for that are now no longer funded. The Tribunal has assigned us a Legal Aid Solicitor too (good) and has sent the 400 pages of Colin's file to them. We have a phone consult with the solicitor next week.

    In the middle of all that, the kids returned home. I did manage to quickly finish the legal tasks but it almost didn't happen die to all the energy and excitement of their return. (Good)

    Judith, I am so sorry your Oncology appointment did not go well. I will be happy to wait for you to rest and recover before you update us. I'll be asking the Lord to hold you close and to encourage you in His loving way.

    Linda, that is an amazing weight loss! Congratulations! Maybe all the work you have done in the garden and kitchen plus your diligence with your diet have led to the loss. I am so happy for you.

    Barb, you sound like you really need God's love and comfort. Praying for you, your Mom and for 3. Sometimes life seems overwhelming but God is our strength and shield. He who knows the end from the beginning will make a way for you all. God surprises us so many times with the challenges and blessings of life. Hugs and prayers.

  • Paraest
    Paraest Posts: 1,986 Member

    Susan. So glad no over night for you & Colin. So glad his retina attached and drops plus warm eye compresses. Sounds like you had some good food 😋.
    Prayers for you as you go over the Administrative review. Praying nothing lost as you have extra people living with you. Prayers for your future phone consult. 🙏🏻


    Judith I got your post 2 times. We just have to take a day at a time. I was thinking of job. The daily bread today was on patience. Very needed for me. 3 brought lots of papers exercises ideas etc. lots for HH to read. She had supper brought to her so that’s a if help. .we plan on walking w 3 on Monday. I hooe 2 more times but HH wants to check the papers. We need 3 to, practice his penmanship too. It’s bad a& was better in July. Not sure why all seems so sad, but that’s what it is. God heals in his time. He is alive & it’s not cancer. Thats bigpray we get him going and brain heals. Plus workmen disability to get money in. I’m not sure if it got extended. I’ve not heard either way.
    Elisabeth and family will be coming up for Evan’s party, as will 3 and family go, we will miss it, as we got New Theater tickets with 25 others from our church.

    Linda Congratulates on losing 3 lbs! 🥳🎉 plus all seeing it very good

    I got my peonies cut down and I hope to cut the rest of my phlox tomorrow, and maybe some more raking. Especially since our town will vacuum the leaves up next week. Cheryl was up with my mom today and she & herb Dr got all of my moms medicine and the time she is to get her medicine, got discussed, so she can’t have delays, as she has her impressed disks. Thank you for ll the prayers. We feel them.
    Pray we figure out how too help 3 so he gets better, stronger; his standing for in and out of the car today was very good. Mariposa, sure loves her daddy.

  • Healthyme7410
    Healthyme7410 Posts: 11,561 Member

    Today we went to our mountain property and found the lost stabilizer that fell off from the trailer. It looks like it would be easy to replace but it needs to be oiled so it works better since it was out in the weather for a while. We found it just outside of our gate as we pulled it toward the road when we left. We also discovered that when our nephew brought the cows down from the high pastures and the cows were drinking from our watering tank, they broke the pipe that was bringing the water down from the spring. . We did not have parts to fix it so we will have to wait until Spring to fix it. We are hoping that our nephew will work on it also since the tank is on our property but it waters his cattle.

    Judith - even though we got two copies of your post at least we know that MFP is working for you. I hope you are getting rest and having time to process what the dental oncologist told you.

    Susan - I am glad that it was a simple fix for Colin's eye. I am glad to know that eye drops with preservatives are not good for eyes. I do not use eye drops now but I did use them when I was wearing contacts. If I have to use them again, I will make sure that I use the right ones. 400 pages is a lot of pages to have to sort through to make sure you have the correct reports. I am glad that you have a Legal Aid Solicitor to help you. I hope it is not too hard for you to do while you have visitors. Is there a date that you need to have it done?

    Barb - I am glad that 3 brought home a lot of papers for exercises and ideas for him to do. Consistancy is the answer to progress. Has you mom been discharged yet? I am glad that the herb doctor was able to look through all her medications. We all want her medications and care to be good after discharge.

  • 316Judith
    316Judith Posts: 12,721 Member

    Susan, Praise the Lord for a wonderful report. God is Good, thank you for reminding us all that Colin had those episodes with a detached retina. So thankful it wasn’t the case this time. So happy the Ophthalmologist was able to help Colin and told him what to do with his dry eye with using the correct eye drops and using warm compresses and eyelid massage. I am praying all this will continue to help Colin. And another answer to our prayers in which I am thanking God and I’m rejoicing with you both that you received good news about the Tribunal Review that they have assigned you to a Legal Aid Solicitor. I will be praying for your Telephone Consult with them next week. I pray the Lord grant you favor with the Solicitor! I am believing and trusting God that Colin will receive all the help he needs and the physiotherapy he is needing.my prayers are with you Susan and Colin.

    Linda. Congratulations on your weight loss! Your fitness, walking and eating right is paying off. Keep up the great work. I am sure you were beaming in delight realizing you had lost 3 pounds. You and Glenn were really busy with all your yard work. I am sure with all this exercise you will lose more weight. I am sure this is strengthening you also. Thank you for your encouragement and prayers. Yes I will update you all this weekend on our prayer thread.

    Barb, you have been working hard in your yard getting everything done for the winter. Having land and gardens are wonderful but all the maintaining of the land is hard work. Hope you are nearing the end of pulling up plants raking and and getting the land ready for the winter. It’s wonderful the town vacuums the leaves up in your community. I am praying for Harry3 that he will become stronger and more healing come about in his body. Trusting God that Harry3’s Balance Speech, writing walking will improve over time. I am sure as you go with Harry3 helping him with his walking it will all improve. Praying for your Mom for God’s strength and healing that pain will be gone in Jesus name! Lifting up you and Cheryl in much prayer for wisdom and direction in how God will lead in your Mom’s care.

    Thank you Susan Barb and Linda and all who are praying for me. You are all so loved and appreciated! Good Night All!

    🙏♥️💤🛌😴

  • 316Judith
    316Judith Posts: 12,721 Member

    Morning All, My message from last night is above for you to read: it’s a reply to all of your posts from last evening.

    Good Morning

    God’s Blessings on your day! Enjoy today’s message from the image posted.

    Indeed We are Blessed and Praise God We are a Chosen Vessel of the King! Our King Jesus, Precious Son of God, our Redeemer! ✝️📖🙏♥️

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  • LosinSusin
    LosinSusin Posts: 8,800 Member

    Thank you for your love and care for us, Judith. We love and care for you, too. I hope you are able to rest after your ordeal at the Dr's office.

    Linda, glad to raise awareness about the damage from preservatives in eye drops. Yes, we have deadlines es for this Tribunal matter. We got back to them with all our reports in 2 weeks. The matter is supposed to be resolved just before Christmas.

    Barb, that is sounding good with the extra activities suggested for 3. I hope your Mom gets some relief from her review of medications too.

    We have church today. Wishing many blessings for you all.

  • Paraest
    Paraest Posts: 1,986 Member

    Susan May you enjoy the Lords day. I hope you receive a blessing in Gods word & us with sleep. Praying that the legal aid solicitor goes well. Praying as wi5 extra guests ll will go smoothly too. Especially time they call that you be free to talk.

    Judith thank you for the blessing with picture . You’re a blessing to us. Thank you for all you do. Praying you can sleep and for your healing. I still have some more phlox I can cut but ok if I don’t. Our neighbor has 3 oak tree odroppong this leaves now and will continue. Our town will vacuum up ,our leaves 3 times. For us it’s Monday and Tuesday & this is the first time they come by. Next time is week of Christmas. Harry mowed as it’s easier than blowing. Faster and nice mulch. We still need rain we’ve not really had any since July. It’s so dry ad dusty here.

    Linda. Sorry about the pipe broken I hope I theprinh youcn fixit. You are not having the war temple have? It was 76* today and yesterday. It’s to be 61*tomorrow.
    so glad you found the lost stabilizer. I bet that felt good to find it. God is good.
    My mom has been discharged from the hospital and is in the rehab place that is connected with her senior place. Praying they can give her meds when she needs them. She had quite a bit of visitors today & slept well last night. She is constipated but it takes time with no gallbladder. Some have told me that it takes a year to figure it lllut. She is taking MiraLAX.

    So we saw Alone together and had a buffet so I ate so much I’m enjoy trying new foods Harry doesn’t. I ate too much, so my supper was my leftover cranberry salad, I took to Joy group on Thursday, and milk. It was fun but not sure we do it gain. Harry says no.
    we start getting the shoeboxes tomorrow our churches and rest of the week other churches and such. I did 2 boxes I will take with us. We also will have a business meeting tomorrow, so it will be a busy AM.

  • Healthyme7410
    Healthyme7410 Posts: 11,561 Member

    I am just finishing up baking 4 dozen dinner rolls and have a banana bread ready to go in the oven. We are having an early Thanksgiving potluck at church so the students who will be going home for the holidays will not miss eating with us. I am also taking grean bean almondine. Two people are bringing senior turkey - one is smoked and I am sure that it will be delicious. I need to be careful or I will gain back the three pounds I lost. It is nice that I weigh on Wednesday morning because I am lighter then. For the TOPS weigh in on Thursday afternoon at 4pm, I have eaten during the day which adds to the weight but I also have a chance to get some extra exercise to get the weight down. I usually go to the meeting 1/2 hour early and briskly walk around several blocks for 25 to 30 minutes. I am hot and sweaty but it does help me be as low as I can.

    Barb - we are still having warmer weather than usual and we are expecting rain tomorrow night. I hope you get the rain on Monday after we get it. Who knows if we can trust the weather forecasters or not anymore. I pray that you mom is settling in at the rehab section of the senior place where she lives. Sometimes staff get busy so she needs to be able to speak up for herself. I also know when a person is waiting to go to the bathroom, the wait can seem longer than it really is. I remember some residents say they waited "an hour" before they had help when it really was not nearly that long. We have some neighbors who have huge trees with lots of leaves that are dropping on our yard also. Last year, our neighbors came over and helped rake up the leaves on our side. I thought that was really thoughtful of them.

    Susan - I am praying that you get all the papers sorted and get the final set in by the two weeks. It is so good that you will be getting an answer finally. Even if it is not exactly what you may want, at least you are not still in limbo as to what is happening.

    Judith - Thank-you so much for the image you posted. It is so true that we sometimes forget who and whose we are when we are burdoned down with earthy problems. I need this reminder every day that I am chosen, loved, blessed, treasured and creative. I am a princess and no one can take that away from me.

  • 316Judith
    316Judith Posts: 12,721 Member

    Evening All

    Susan, you are so kind! Thank you for your words of blessings! And Yes I have been getting some rest. It’s better tonight! Will bring an update Monday as the second part of my treatment and follow up is on Monday with my Surgeon.

    Barb, your Dinner sounded delicious but it’s true one does eat more at a buffet. I can’t blame your husband saying he would rather not attend a dinner like that again. Yes the falling leaves do make a mess to our streets and properties. Here in my area we have leaves everywhere piling our streets and yards! We have our Community Cleaners who come and use leaf blowers and sweep up the debris but for us it’s weekly. I continue to pray for your Mom in rehab and for Harry3 that he will be stronger in every way!

    Linda, so glad you found the part from your trailer! It’s so nice your Church is having an early Thanksgiving dinner sounded delicious those who are going home don’t miss out. Our Church does that for Christmas with a Banquet every year. The smoked turkey you will enjoy! Have had it once in my life. Your baking and making dinner rolls sound so yummy. Banana Bread is so good! Enjoy my friend!

    Have a Blessed Lords day all! God Bless! 🙏📖✝️

  • LosinSusin
    LosinSusin Posts: 8,800 Member

    Good Monday Morning.

    Judith, I am glad you feel more rested, knowing you have more medical appointments tomorrow. I hope the appointment is easier than the last one. We are organising get together for Christmas now. We'll have a church ladies lunch to go to in December. We're organising who brings what now. I'm bringing potato salad and a dessert. I am still deciding which dessert to make. I have several ideas. We don't celebrate Thanksgiving but I hope you enjoy yours!

    Linda, what a yummy baking day you had! I like your weight loss strategies. It's definitely working for you. Yes, it is good to see something happening on the legal front. Shaun actually reviewed a report I wrote then ran it through an AI app. The app took out some waffle and couched it in more legal lsngusge. I still want to tweak it but it gave some good suggestions. The solicitor will review our case on Friday. I don't know if he/she will represent us or not in front of the Tribunal, but it will help I am sure.

    Barb, it sounds like a little of the tension for your Mom had eased a tiny bit? I hope so. I know there are still many issues but hopefully being in Rehab will help her. Our Lord's Day was very good. And we are beginning to feel more of a routine is happening around home. Yesterday friends lent us a toy Village with little cars, people and furniture. Inara loves it. She took it out first thing this morning. I gave her my yoga mat to play on and all she has to do is keep the dogs from taking the little toys. Lol!

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