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Once I wore an outfit to work (and I just so happened to have worn it at our bridal shower previously) and he told me that I looked like I was going to a funeral....

Life is what you make it. So is drama. Hence.... drama.

All around ignorance. You forgot the part where I've repeatedly stated that I'm the happiest I've ever been and I've found someone to SHARE life with, not argue with.

No, I left him at my lowest weight of 122; 160 high.

I left him then found her. There was no leaving for someone else. You people are the plot twisters....

Thank you everyone for your support! It is embarrassing saying that I'm divorced, but at the same time no one knows the extent of the situation. I never said it was all him. There were problematic attributes on both sides. Just because I put a few quotes of what was said didn't mean that was ALL. We wanted completely…

I knew what marriage entailed. I know what "till death do us part" means. But I was also pressured by my Christian family. We were living together and trying to start a business... Realize that everything isn't always black and white. Oh and he said he always wanted to run a business of his own and he got it. Did he work?…

Please read my replies to others. I'm not putting blame on a one-way street.

He was the same. I was naive and thought this is as good as it gets. Boy, I was TOTALLY wrong. Life is a dream now

To each their own. I'm happy that I'm away from that toxin that always made me feel worthless. I'm stronger than that! Life is happier when you and your partner want the same out of life. I hope you're happy with yours :)

Very much so. It was a toxic relationship with many problematic attributes on both ends, but I never made him loss the feeling of self-worth or self-love. Life is much happier and more peaceful when you and your partner want the same out of life.

Also, in accordance to this post, does anyone have problems losing weight with vitamins?

I have noticed a great improvement with biotin. My nails grow super fast and my hair doesn't break as much and I certainly do not lose as much hair anymore.

I had this "fear" too and I mentioned it to someone one day. She said, "You need to get rid of them. Don't let your body go back to that size." Get rid of them for a long-term goal! Love eBay!

Bump, please :)

Show them what you can accomplish. Be the one that's in better health. Be the one that they are envious of. In fact, they may be already- envious that you've gotten that motivation and they haven't.

The before picture was in 2010. I didn't start losing weight until March of this year. Thanks everyone!!

Thanks!

Everyone is different. There is no isolated right answer to this. As long as you aren't uncomfortable, I'd say you're good.

I don't like this. Talk about creepy...

Take it for what it is. If you feel full, don't force yourself to eat. You'll just feel miserable. Listen to your body. That's number one. And ignore all of the know-it-alls.

Really?

I had no change in appetite, diet, or exercise. The weight literally just came on. Keep in mind that I didn't lose the weight until a year after quitting the medication.

Not too sure what to think about this one. Furthermore putting off my want for kids.

It's like that was the first place I lost weight! At least I knew what it was like for a little while to have boobs...

Cats? Get a puppy. That'll cure it. Kids were the one thing that I KNEW for certain I wanted. WRONG! We got a puppy and between her and my husband, NOOOOOOOO!

Oopsie here. I'm a wedding photographer and I like to know how my people are related. Usually I just ask what the relation to the bride is. Not this time. The sister came in and I said, "And you must be the mother!" "..........I'm the sister." Smoking ages you badly, people!!

Society has so much to do with this and it's slowly killing young people who strive to be "perfect". I just wish these girls could see what they are doing to their bodies. Yeah, they may reach their goals of thigh-gaps and every rib exposed and they may be happy with their bodies at that moment, but they don't see that the…

It's just really sad to see these girls doing such horrible things to their bodies. It's a death sentence, really, and those doing it for attention really need to open their eyes.