fullofwhimsy

The birth of Kim Kardashian's baby, obviously.

You've never been the lucky victim of pure unadulterated lust? That feeling or action of making out with or having sex with someone for that reason alone? I think sometimes it is just pure curiosity as well as the ability to separate emotion from physical action.

The older I get, the more I realize that I can actually define what I want a relationship to be, on my or our terms, and it is okay to be different! I don't think I want kids, and am not sure about marriage. I love not sharing a bedroom or bathroom. It gives me a feeling of space and independence I have come to crave. My…

I don't think men's clothing has the ability to sexualize men at all the way women's can do...unless you wear tight leather pants, a speedo or take your shirt off altogether! Um...please don't do any of that btw. I personally like a more casual look on a guy..kind of a slightly preppy surfer look. Like you just got off…

Hello kittens, it has been a while since I posted. Lots has happened! But let me just say...I used to be a big proponent of manners and not poofing etc. Mostly 'cause I am a people pleaser and also didn't like my ego being taken down a notch if and when it happened to me. But I have to say...I have kinda come around to the…

Rather than any martial arts I would look for a women's self defense class..often offered at martial arts places or community centres. They give the basics of defense from a female perspective and are shorter and more focused on that specifically than learning all the elements of a particular style. If you just want to…

As long as I was pretty convinced my safety was in no danger, I would totally go on a trip like that if it was offered. In fact, a friend of a friend went to Bermuda on an important work trip recently and invited me...the only reason I didn't go was timing and I have a boyfriend. He said he thought I would be fun to travel…

I tend to date men with amazing personalities and who are very average or less than average in the looks department. Emotional connection, sexual compatibility, sense of humour and their ability to make me feel amazing is what I need. I am attracted to them, but know they are not classically good looking. I prefer to be…

^^ Probably because in professional sports there is still a HUGE stigma?

Aww.. Lacroyx! That was so sweet. Excellent flirting by the way...

Hey baby..I don't disagree with you. The meaning of "curvy" has expanded to include not only thin women with fake boobs. Have the meanings been diluted? Yes. Do they speak towards more "fat acceptance"? Probably. But my question is why was curvy ever restricted to a weight class anyway? Anyone with rolls of fat can tell…

F it. I put "a few extra pounds" because I didn't want to identify as a BBW and am still losing weight...and because I am definitely on the cusp of BBW....well maybe more like in that camp altogether. I hate the term. So am I misleading? You could also call me blonde or brown haired, depending on your perspective, as well…

I write a novel...every time. I like to think I am pretty funny and interesting...lol. To their credit....a good percentage of men did read or at least skim what I wrote. It is a good filter for me...to see who is paying attention and puts in a little effort.

Oooh I love a sexy voice. Higher pitched and nasal on a man is a turn off for me. But I also like "guy" voices, and not super deep old man raspy voices. Well not to date, anyway. Not a deal breaker though.

HA! You have the sad face muppet mouth happening.

When I was in Korea, a taxi driver said I looked like Mariah Carey. Don't you just love drunk and blind taxi drivers?

I am fairly photogenic. Notice though that every photo I have is pretty calculated. I know my angles. One side of my face photograhps better and I always try and catch a little jawline. I can look awful in a picture too...but I'm a poser and I tend to not post things I look bad or caught off guard in. I do feel better…

^^ Yup.. I actually prefer not to really like or enjoy the company of mine. Sure, he might be pleasant enough to have a drink with, but that's not why we are there and I really don't like confusing the two. So I don't. Our texts are to make plans or touch base only. That said, while in the moment and after, there is lots…

"So here is the quick way of working out if you're a feminist. Put your hand in your pants. a) Do you have a vagina? and b) Do you want to be in charge of it? If you said 'yes' to both, then congratulations! You're a feminist.” ― Caitlin Moran, How to Be a Woman

“We need to reclaim the word 'feminism'. We need the word 'feminism' back real bad. When statistics come in saying that only 29% of American women would describe themselves as feminist - and only 42% of British women - I used to think, What do you think feminism IS, ladies? What part of 'liberation for women' is not for…

Have other interesting confession to make. Boyfriend and I have made an agreement. Both of us want to be healthy and lighter, and we were both working on it independently before we met. Sometimes couples help each other, and sometimes being together hinders that process. We've made an agreement that by the end of December…

Countdown to my sister's wedding which is next Saturday..rehearsal dinner is Thursday night, Friday is nails and pedicure (as demanded by bride), Saturday is getting hair and makeup done (as demanded by bride), squeezing myself into barely appropriate bridesmaid dress (cleavage is spectacular though possibly not PG).. and…

Never, ever thought I could separate emotion from sex and be with someone and not want to date them. Only in the last 6 months has this changed. Turns out I so far am more sexually compatible with people I don't want to date....and it is surprisingly freeing to have complete and utter control over my sexuality, without it…

I agree. ^^

Tonight having dinner with a friend - will possibly be awkward. He invited me on his work trip to Bermuda. Kinda get the idea he'd like a little more than friendship..but that's all I want. Saturday morning am hiking with my dog and some girlfriends if it doesn't rain, if it does..we'll figure something else out. Sunday…

Yeah..no chance I have ever or probably will ever avoid sex. I don't actually hate my body near as much as I think I thought others did. Now perhaps walking around naked in a brightly lit room might have given me some pause in past.. but honestly, the men I've been with have never been remotely as critical of my body as I…

Good question. You'd think there would be correlation. I actually scored a 28 or 29.. which doesn't make me all that comfortable with my body apparently. However.. I have a weird thing about committing strongly to quizzes..I always generally pick somewhere in the middle as opposed to an "always" or "never" category. And…

^^ Honestly I was thinking exactly the same thing! I want to know early on what potential there is...and so engaging in sexual flirtation is actually a turn on for me. The key for me is that it has to be seductive, intelligent and respectful (at the start anyway). Someone who has an amazing way with words or compliments…

If they are genuinely crap in bed...NEXT! If they are too sweet and innocent and can't appreciate some off colour humour...NEXT!

Umm..hello..