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Oh fantastic! I'll give her your user name, or feel free to search her and add :)

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I used to babysit a family who have two boys and a girl, all are gay!

We all know you're beautiful Kabiti, no photo would change that darling x

You're both doing well though, he obviously wants to come back to you .. a little more time and I'm sure it'll be like he was never away! Keep us up to date on progress, I'm sure it's reassuring for others to read :)

Hello you guys! Welcome to the LGBTQ board! I hope you're both doing well, and if you're looking for friends there is a post called 'I'll be your friend' where you'll find a list of people who are happy to be added. Hope that helps and we'll see you soon!

Yup, given that he uses that term himself I'd be reluctant to change it even if you felt language had changed. I'm interested to hear someone use the word transsexual, I would never use that word any more! In the UK we use Trans* for pretty much everything because it encompasses everything .. and transgender for those who…

Very pleased to hear life is falling into place Ren, that's a huge deal! And well done for getting here! This is the start of something great, I'll be sending a friend request!

Such a good question .. I think I'd really like to be able to wear something on top that I don't feel I have to pull to hide me all the time, you know you cover in baggy stuff that you're always grabbing at? I want to wear something tight that I know looks good and doesn't need pulling about! That, and dresses :) By the…

Wow, I love this post! It's not 2:30am and I'm absolutely not balling my eyes out. I wish I had some super inspirational story, but I don't. Fairly sure I knew I was gay from a really young age, I remember being totally besotted with my teacher when I was like 5. I had boyfriends at school, and I did dreadful things in…

Oh darling! What a horrible situation, I really feel for you all. You've done the right thing telling him, but if he's grown up with the views of his parents then it might take a period of adjustment before things settle. I wonder if it might be helpful to write something to him, from the both of you? Perhaps just share…

Sadly, I think I know even less than you do, but I'm so pleased you've had some good responses. I hope you'll let us know how you get on? I'd happy share a beer with you when you're goal weight!

I totally forgot about fight club, and silence of the lambs .. Man, my list is getting long!

That's amazing news! I'm so happy for you! You can totally do this .. my best words of advice are: 1) Log everything you eat. Everything! 2) don't guess weights, weight everything. Everything! 3) be totally honest, don't lie in your food diary. Being accountable for everything you put in your mouth is really important. 4)…

Have you all seen bridesmaids? I think that was my shocker of the last couple of years. Everyone was on about how I should see it .. so I dragged my self there, and honestly I laughed my *kitten* off! Got any other films that you didn't like the look/sound of but they blew you away?

Thanks guys! I'm desperate to make some nut milks in it .. that might be tomorrows task and then I can try some of this ice cream tomorrow night!! I've not had a go at that yet, been too busy doing a smoothie for breakfast/lunch and soup for dinner! And you're right about youtube, thanks!

Ahh .. I really should go see a show sometime. Honestly, the last time I went, must have been early 90s! I saw Cats and Starlight Express .. thats how long ago ;) You'll have to make some recommendations, or maybe we could all go together!

Oh I'm really pleased people agree! I wrote this post while I was grumpy and I was worried people might this I was a miserable little grot bag! I bloody love But I'm a Cheerleader! I'm terrible at forgetting films I've not seen in a while. Mind you, it's great for watching the same things over .. I've always forgotten the…

Oooh! Yum! Thanks!

I think another important thing to remember is friends! Add people to your profile here, support them and they will support you back. Having someone to listen when you're feeling rubbish, or celebrate with you when you've reached a goal, that's a big part of why MFP works! So make the most of it, use your pals :)

*love* girl interrupted! Probably a top 3 for me too. Others would be Trainspotting and Human Traffic, but like you they change depending on my mood! Is it bad to admit The Fith Element is up there too!? I've not been to the cinema in an age, but I really want to see Filth, by the writer of Trainspotting. Have you seen it?…

I went to my first gay wedding only 3 years ago .. it was honestly the best wedding I've ever been to! Both the brides look amazing, they picked this stunning setting but the best bit was the way they'd put the ceremony together. They thought about all the important stuff to them, they took out things like sickness and…

You can only work with your body darling, so if walking is difficult could you get one of those mini exercise bikes to pedal while you're in your armchair watching TV? Or some Velcro weights so you can just lift your legs while your sat? Don't be too hard on your self sweetheart and listen to your body! I'll keep you in my…

You're doing the best thing, you're a strong woman and you'll be a good roll model for your kid! Best of luck x

I understand why people are kinda jumpy when it comes to this subject, it's a tricky one but for some it'll open relationship issues that are stressful. I'm really pleased he seems to have understood a little more, let's hope his education grows and support is unconditional! My advice, buy frylight ;)

If you'd fallen off the wagon, you wouldn't be here asking for help .. you've done the bet thing you could, look at all the people rooting for you! Today's a new day darling :)

Well to the same question we give the same response! Measure and log everything, every. Single. Thing. that passes your lips. Measure your foods, always. Without exception! That should get things moving :)

You're my new hero!!

Wow, you're incredible!

Wow, you're incredible!