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Sandy, I hope you enjoyed the free dinner this evening. You sure are invited to a lot of them. Vacation soon!
Jackie, a busy day once again. How amazing that you ran into someone you worked with 20 years ago. I never run into people from long ago. Enjoy your free time!
Barbie, I hope you are well.Lin 🙋🏼♀️
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Happy Saturday! The seminar was interesting and I learned some things in the planning of my funeral. I am going to check prices with the other company I was using because I did like what this place had to offer. Today is laundry day and hoping to get to run a couple of errands if I can get moving. Having some problems with different sites today so slowing me down.
Lin, yes vacation is a week away and I am getting stressed trying to get everything done. I don't know why because I have time. I think I am worried about the weight of my suitcase with all that I am bringing.
Jackie, how nice to run into an old friend, not sure I would remember someone from 20 years ago. lol
Have a good day.
Sandy One Day at a Time
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Sandy, the only piece of mail I received today was an invitation to a free dinner. I thought of you!
I watered my grass seed, messed about with my pots on the deck, and did a bit of online banking.Barbie and Jackie, I hope you are well my friends.
Hugs.
Lin 🙋🏼♀️
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😀 Sandy, planning and pre paying for your funeral is one of the kindest things you can do for your family.
🤣😱🙀 Annie had a party with a pillow while I was out walking this morning
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Happy Saturday. Yesterday I walked George on the moors early because I knew it would be a warm day so got going before the temperature rose. I didn’t see anyone I knew this time, probably because I took a route to avoid sheep and lambs. What I found out was that when I’m early my routine goes astray because when I popped into town to buy some seeds, garden grit and couple of birthday cards, the garden centre was still closed and by then it was about 9:30. As I drove out of their car park a member of staff arrived and told me they now opened at 10 if I would like to wait but it was warming up and George was already fed up because before going there I had stopped at a garage to power wash dust off my car! Next hiccup was when I stopped to buy fresh bread from our local shop but the delivery was late! I pottered in the garden for the rest of the day and although it was occasionally noisy because a neighbour was having a large poly tunnel erected, I had a relaxing day, although did hear all about the wedding plans of one of the builders and his doubts about going ahead. Too much information!!
Today is even warmer and very sunny so again we walked early, this time round the block. Friends Christine and Richard just visited with bags of horse manure for my raised beds. They have 2 horses that in the summer months stay in a rented field a mile away so drive past my property every morning. The bags that Richard fills himself were getting too heavy for me to lift so yesterday he half filled some so I can now work on my raised vegetable beds.
A few years ago I payed for a funeral plan but since then have decided simple is best and have told friends to have a fun gathering then, when not too windy, throw my ashes across the top of the moor!!
Oh dear Barbie, did you manage to smile at Annie’s destruction of the pillow? I know when Betty’s antics from being prescribed steroids created mess I would have to take several deep breaths. She thought it great fun!
Sandy, when I first bumped into the work colleague from years ago I didn’t recognise him because he was wearing a fabulous big hat and his hair was so long it fell over his shoulders! The sun was in my eyes when I looked to say good morning, but I did recognise his voice. He was walking a cute little cross breed dog that George took to right away so they ran round the field together.Are you going to grow vegetables this year Lin or have the squirrels defeated you? So far I have placed a metal grid across the top my strawberries and hung a piece of netting over Broad beans because a squirrel and pigeons living in a neighbour’s tree will help themselves if I let them! I’ve erected net for climbing runner beans but so far, few have popped up in their pots in the greenhouse.
My morning is running away so best get on. Take care everyone.
Jackie 🥰
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😀 Jackie, I have a similar frustration because my weekly drive to town is to pick up groceries at 8:30 on Sunday morning and nothing is open then. About Annie and her antics—-I am getting better at my attitude about what she does. I gradually put away more things and move more things away from the edge of the counters so she can't reach them. I've had to buy two new remotes for the TV, two new leashes, and a new harness. Fortunately when she grabs shoes and clothing she doesn't chew on them. I had to redesign the flower beds in the back yard so she'd have a wide space to run from the patio in the grassy area.
😀 The important part about planning a paying for a funeral plan is save your loved ones from having to advance money they may not have and make decisions at a time when they are not at their best. Jake and I had prepaid a burial in California including grave sites but when we moved north we changed our minds and were able to change things to what we wanted up here. I could have easily paid the cost of cremation for Jake, but it was a relief to have made the decision and paid the money ahead of time. I remember how traumatic is was for my mother when my father died and she had to make decisions….the money wasn't a problem but what to do for a funeral was overwhelming.
😀 I think this is what we all have done.
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Happy Saturday! I slept in today and it felt wonderful. Church today and a few errands I didn't do yesterday. I am embarrassed to tell you I took scissors to the back of my hair yesterday and oh boy did I mess it up. I will go to my girl on Monday to have her hopefully fix it but lesson learned. I am not a hairdresser and should have just called her to tell her to fix what was bothering me.
As far as funeral arrangements, mine are basically all done, except for the payment which I will do after the cruise. I have another book that explains everything I want done at my mass including the songs. Every detail of who gets what and where I want my luncheon etc. I am being cremated so no wake, just a mass and a luncheon to celebrate my life. The kids can bring my ashes to my niche the next day by themselves. I bought and paid for that years ago. I am going to look over the details from the crematorium because at the presentation the other night he brough up some good points and I want to make sure I haven't forgotten anything. I want it as simple as possible for my kids as they will have enough to do emptying out my condo.
Trying to fill out all the documents needed for the cruise but have to wait for Cheryl to fill out her part.
Have a good day.
Sandy One Day at a Time
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Hello. Hot and windy today. Mid-80’s now (abut 6pm).
I did a few things outdoors this morning. Watered grass seed and planters. Dug out some organic plant fertilizer stakes for my lettuce and green beans. That is all I am planting this year although I have been planting green beans every few weeks. Two plantings so far, and 2 more to come. I plan to look for some lettuce plants next week. The seed has been growing very slowly.
Jackie, I am trying to fight critters. I have whirligigs (pinwheel), wire cloches, and I bought hot pepper powder and put some in a little metal sprinkling can. I have been told squirrels do not care for that. Hope that is true. 🤞🏻🤞🏻
Sandy, good for you sleeping in a bit today. I have a friend who chops off her own hair all the time. I do know how she does it. Never seemed to have a bad haircut.Barbie, wow, that was a mess! Annie, my gosh. Great that you stay calm. Well done.
For my friends who have cats or like cats, I ran across this funny ditty today.
Be safe! Have a good day tomorrow.Lin 🙋🏼♀️
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😀 The cat poem is awesome.
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Happy Mother’s Day! Going for breakfast at Lisa’s parent’s house. Enjoy your day no matter what you are doing.❤️
Sandy One Day at a Time
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🌷🌞 These came from son and daughter. Annie barked at the woman who delivered them and liked them whe they were in the vase
🌻 My treat for myself was to plant seeds in pots. Now I wait
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Hello. I watered my struggling grass seed, picked up a small grocery order, dug weeds, did Zoom classes, watched the church service on YouTube as well as a solo by a young lady that I had not heard doing a solo for a long time.
I ate totally non healthy food today. 🤦🏼♀️ Luckily I only had enough for a day of craziness.
Barbie, those are lovely flowers. Come on seeds, grow 🤞🏻🤞🏻
Sandy, hope you had a nice day
Jackie, are you okay?
Be safe everyone.
Lin 🙋🏼♀️❤️
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I’m fine thanks Lin, just crashed in the evening after some late gardening. We had a lot of rain which was needed but meant I had a lazy morning after a local walk. George didn’t want to go far and we turned back just in time because as I hung my jacket up back at home, the heavens opened! I enjoyed an exchange of text messages and photos with Charmaine because she was enjoying good weather and was planting tomato and cucumber plants into grow bags, using canes as supports that we had cut down at the bottom of my garden. My beans are not doing well in my greenhouse, so only 4 have popped up from 20 planted, and when I investigated by emptying the pots I saw they had become mushy and fallen apart! I have a few left in the packet so will try again although I noticed on our walk that a neighbour who sells seedlings from her front garden had a tray so I might take some change with me tomorrow. Once the rain cleared I dug a garden bed of weeds and tidied a stack of pots before cooking my evening meal.
Rain hammering on my roof woke me at 4:30 and every hour after that until I gave up. George was restless too so, when the rain eased, we walked round the block and he is now snoozing on the garden room chair.
That’s a beautiful bouquet Barbie and looks like Annie agrees.
The sun is trying to shine through the clouds so I will get myself organised outside. I’m sure every shrub has doubled in size after the overnight downpour. Wellies will definitely be needed!
Happy Monday.Jackie 🥰
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Happy Monday! My Mother's Day was nice and had fun playing games with the kids. I woke up at 4:45am and couldn't go back to sleep no matter how much I tried. I picked up Lisa's parents and took them to airport for them to return to Florida. I was going to go get my chopped hair fixed but she ending up canceling on me and rescheduled for tomorrow before my mani/pedi. I thought I was going to Rob's later to pick up kids from school but he texted and said he wasn't going downtown after all. I was happy about the cancellations as I really need a nap.
I hope all are well and have a great day.
Sandy One Day at a Time
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Jackie, it sounds like a very good day. Sorry about the beans not popping up. If you can find some already started, go for it. I called a nursery not far from me to ask if they had any small flakes of lettuce plants in stock. She said no, the last of what they had got leggy and the employees took them home. I guess I will plant some more seed although it may be kind of late for spring. We will see.
My backyard was invaded by black birds. I must have lots of bugs to hunt out there. Also my raised containers were attacked by chipmunks, squirrels and birds. I put out more hot pepper powder. I need a green house!!If it is not raining, the power company will cut the power to my property first thing Thursday morning and will install the new electric line on my property and up to the meter. There is a note that if they damage concrete or other things, they will fix things within 6 weeks. That seems a long time. I am not looking forward to this. It may rain on Thursday though so this may need to be rescheduled.
Made phone calls to notify the power company about my generator. They told me I needed to talk to the company who installed the generator. While I was on the phone with them, I got my annual service call scheduled.
Otherwise, I did make a trip to Trader Joe’s to stock up on tofu again. Wow, they got quite cleaned out on plants and flowers due to Mother’s Day.
Did a few Zoom classes. Just finished for today.
Sandy, glad you got a day that included time for a nap.
Time to take out the trash and get my mail.
Be safe everyone.
Lin 🙋🏼♀️
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Happy Tuesday! I went and had my hair fixed that I messed up. Lesson learned. Going for a mani/pedi at 1:00 and one errand. Slowly I am getting ready for my cruise. We are also trying to plan a party for Cheryl that is getting complicated. Marisa said Cheryl would like to go the Big Game Show which is a place where you compete against each other playing different games.
It's the game show that started it all. The Original is a wild ride through rounds of trivia, chance, prop challenges and speed tests! Teams must spin, draw, build, wager, and guess their way to victory. Great for the whole family!
However it is $35.99 a person so we would like to ask any one who would like to come to pay their own way. It is for an hour so after that we would invite anyone to join us at a restaurant for a pizza party with appetizers and salad along with the pizza including beer and wine. Does that sound fair?
I am really stressed over all this but somehow we will make it happen.
Sorry to vent to you my friends. Have a good day.
Sandy One Day at a Time
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hello, tonight is a long live programs on You Tube - new product release. I have seen the sneak peek, and some things look very good. So, just a note as I need to run along. Today was another day of watering plants, doing laundry, talking to friends on the phone, and Zoom classes.
Sandy, I don’t know what would work with your friends and acquaintances. That amount of money for many people would not be an issue. But for people who have little interest in games, they might not want to attend.It will work out.
Be safe everyone.
Lin 🙋🏼♀️
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Happy Wednesday! I have a trial appointment today which I was not happy about. They had it scheduled in June but then called to say they made a mistake and made an appointment for today. I have enough to do before Friday but will manage some how. I now have help with the birthday party. I talked to Cheryl's sister yesterday and she said she will work with Marisa to find a place. I also talked to Marisa and told her the game room should be postponed until another time when we have 15 people who want to go. So Kristen and Marisa will work together within our price range and find a venue. I am very happy to pass that on to someone else and will give her credit if they succeed before I return.
Lin, things usually do work out but in the middle of the chaos it doesn't seem like it will.
I hope both Barbie and Jackie are doing well working in their gardens. My hummingbird is back and came to see me yesterday while I was on my balcony.
Enjoy your day.
Sandy One Day at a Time
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😀 Sandy, that did sound like an expensive party. Of course, I wouldn't want to go either to the game or to the restaurant, but many people would enjoy both. I'm glad a good solution was found.
😀 Yes, I am busy in my yard and riding my exercise bike and watching TV and knitting and of course, walking, either with or without Annie. Bessie goes with us for about ten minutes in the big field behind the house but rarely ventures out into the street.
😀 On Thursday I logged onto my regular 9AM Zoom meeting and Zoom said they couldn't find speakers or a microphone. This was on the computer that Jake bought in November. I figured out that I could have sound with headphones but it wasn't what I really wanted. On Monday I looked online and found a computer repair place in town. I called them and asked if they could fix it. A nice man said that he said it shouldn't be a problem. I unplugged the computer and Annie and I drove to town and dropped off the computer. About two hours later I got a call that the computer was fixed so Annie and I drove back to get it. What a relief. I was happy to pay the money.
😀 A long time friend texted me and asked if I was lonely and would I like her to come visit. I am not the slightest bit lonely but I'd love to see her. I had planned to contact her when the weather was milder and invite her for a walk or a visit on the back patio. In 1976 I was alone, unemployed, and poverty stricken and someone told me that learning to be alone was a lesson that would serve me well in my life. That is true. I am my best friend and my best company. It's even better now with all the available TV and internet.
😍 Barbie
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May is turning out to be sunny and warm almost every day which makes up for the past year of rain and more rain. Not much to write about other than weeding, cutting grass and walks on the moors. Another good thing that comes with days like this is I find it easy to eat healthily which is why we all met so long ago! 😊
I received a phone call today from my vet practice asking me to pay for tests on George, even though he is well, only because he is now 13. I was polite but told the caller that since he is eating, sleeping, running zoomies and a happy dog, plus his usual annual check is due in July, I am not interested. He tried to convince me George having blood and urine tests even though he’s well, was a good idea but I gave him a firm no thank you! I think I mentioned before that many vet practices, including mine, have been bought out by investors looking to make more money for their rich clients and a recent BBC investigation discovered vets are being pressed to meet targets, in other words unnecessary procedures!
Loved the video Sandy. Isn’t it wonderful that the hummingbird returns every year.Hi Lin. Pretty teapot!
Barbie, for different reasons I also learned at a young age to be content in my own company, in fact there are times I relish it so completely understand where you’re coming from.
It has gone midnight and I just glanced out the window to see a huge, orange moon over the horizon. I will let George out before bed and take a closer look!
Jackie 🥰
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Hello. A stressful day. I went to the basement to do laundry and found water all over the floor. Thus began a long day of getting assistance to try to stop the water heater from continuing to fill and leak. Then I needed to get an appointment with the company where I have a service contract. Then while waiting for a tech to show up, I tried to clean up water, move things to make it easier to remove the old water heater etc.
So the work went on for quite a while as quite a bit of plumbing needed upgrading.
Finally it was finished and I paid. But no receipt. If I don’t get one in the next day or two, I will call. Apparently they are not providing any documentation now. I don’t like that.
Anyway, on to the next hurdle tomorrow, the power company will be messing about to connect a new underground line.
I could use more solitude now.
Be safe everyone.
Lin 🙋🏼♀️
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It is another beautiful day with clear skies and a gentle breeze. My decision first thing was whether to leave George at home, shop for groceries then walk once shopping was put away, shop then drive into town with George or walk, drop George at home then get my shopping. I went with the latter so we could stroll on the moors while still quite cool then with George back home I didn’t have to search for shady spots and leave car windows open. Luckily I glanced at the fuel gauge as I got into town because it was heading for red! So now I’m home sipping coffee and planning the rest of my day. I’ve got a variety of plants to deliver to Linda but Thursday is her childminding day with granddaughter Darcy and I know she loves to take her out to explore places so I’ll drop them off tomorrow on my way to the moors. She will probably still be asleep but I can leave them on her front step.
What an awful day for you Lin! No written proof of work carried out or a receipt sounds dodgy to me but then I’m suspicious of everyone these days. Perhaps it’s an age thing with me. It’s the same with the inconsiderate and often rude drivers on our local narrow roads that seem to have forgotten their manners and basic highway rules. I am doing my best to stay calm but there are times, like yesterday when a car crossed to my side on a blind bend in order to race past a rider on her horse. She just managed to stop before hitting me but then turned back in front of the rider causing the horse to rear up! I put my hands up in the air to indicate my frustration at the driver and received a rude gesture. Another young female driver! 😡
Sandy, the original party plans did appear complicated to me but then it is years since my family and friends did much to celebrate. I’m all for a quiet, genteel get together! I do hope your trial appointment wasn’t traumatic. You’ve been so brave about attending, especially after unpleasant reactions. ❤️
My next job will be to clean out the hen house. Their run is mostly in the shade so it seems a sensible place to be!
Happy Thursday and a safe, uneventful one!
Jackie 🥰
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😥 Lin, what a frustrating day for you. It's the kind of frustrating day that would make me want to be miraculously transported into assisted living. I know that I'm grateful to have the financial ability to pay for repairs when they come up. Not everyone is that fortunate.
😀 Jackie, I agree that people are more rude and self centered than necessary. I am fortunate that I don't have to go out often.
😀 My neighbor came over yesterday for a brief visit with the dogs and me in the back yard. She wanted to tell me that she'll be gone to Seattle until garbage day and wanted me to put her garbage can at the curb on garbage day. She said the can would be barely half full so there would be a lot of space for me to put in my bags of yard waste. That's the best gift someone could give me right now.
😀 Yesterday I cut the grass since rain has been predicted for today. I left Annie in the house because the last time I mowed she got close to the mower and barked. It might have been safe, but it made me nervous. Later she came out and we played in the yard together.
😀 I am so fortunate that walking in my neighborhood is so safe and pleasant. Bessie likes walking in the big grassy areas and Annie likes the streets where there is almost no traffic. Sometimes we see people and other dogs but usually there is no one at the times we walk. I take my car out only once or twice a week—early Sunday morning for curbside pickup of groceries and one other time for other errands.
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Happy Thursday! We have a beautiful day with storms expected late afternoon or evening. I have my meeting today (I am chairing) but before the meeting I am picking up my taxes to be signed and mailed. He had a six month extension but it was making me nervous so he agreed to have them done today. I don't owe anything so I just have to sign and mail. I will wash some clothes and start packing. I also want to have a FaceTime call with my grandkids tonight.
I was never alone in my life until I separated from Babe for almost 11 years. When I got divorced I lived with my kids so I was nervous about living alone. Once I got used to it and realized I could take care of myself I loved it and still do. I welcome the days I have nothing to do but stay home. That isn't happening much this summer. First the cruise, then driving with Lisa and kids to Florida and staying 5 days. In July Babe's daughter might come in for a week but she will stay in hotel. The end of July we have our Family Reunion which might be our last as my SIL is moving into an independent living facility. My doctor at the trial yesterday told me it is time to start injections in my left eye once a month. I am not looking forward to that but want to keep my eye sight.
I guess if I keep moving I might stay healthy like all of you.
Sandy One Day at a Time
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🙀☹️ When I came home from my walk yesterday evening, I found that Annie had taken one of the pillows from Bessie's bed and torn it open and spread the innards around the carpet in the office. She has done the same thing with several other pillows in the time she'd been here but so far, not the pillows on my bed. For some reason this upset me more than it had before and I was reminded of the story of the second arrow. Cleaning up the mess was not difficult, buying new pillows is not a big deal, the pillows are all decades old but somehow I was excessively troubled. it wasn't the first arrow of the mess or need to replace pillows or do without, I was stewing about having an endlessly uncontrollable pet, never feeling safe, a future of pillow chewing and a host of other things (all imagined). The first arrow of the chewed pillow wasn't the problem, it was the second arrow of self flagellation and fear of the future that got to me. As soon as I realized that, I felt better.
😀 Today my friend comes over to dance. Annie likes to dance with us which is dangerous because tripping on her would be a catastrophe. I keep a box in the room with us with balls and a leash to help with dog control. Each week we seem to be able to dance more dances than the week before.
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Happy Friday! Still have to pack and be ready to leave by 2:30. You probably won't hear from until the 26th as I won't have WIFI on the ship. I might get it in the ports but just in case I don't, have a good week and stay healthy and safe.
Sandy One Day at a Time
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Hello, the installation crew is here every day. It has been a tiring week. I would feel so much better if they didn’t come back next week.
I called requesting receipts for the water heater and my annual maintenance plan. I am such a wimp that I ended up exhausted.
Now I need to find a company to do a roof inspection and that will do repairs if necessary. Right now I am not up to hunting for a trustworthy company. The hot water heater recommended that I have a roof inspection after water was dripping from the hot water heater exhaust pipe. Not good.
Sorry I missed everyone yesterday. I was exhausted and fell asleep early. It was way too late to post when I woke up.
Sandy, happy travels.
Barbie, sorry about the uncertainty of Annie’s actions. I am glad you are dancing with your friend.
Jackie, I hope you have some pleasant weather. 🤞🏻🤞🏻 happy bean growing!
Diane, hello, hope all is going well for you and your family.Be safe.
Lin 🙋🏼♀️
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I could have sworn I posted yesterday! Bon voyage Sandy, although you’ve already gone!! ⛴️
yesterday I loaded up my car with items for the tip and took George with me. It was very hot so I put the car air conditioner on. It was the usual story when I got there; the workers standing around chatting to each other while the public carry heavy items up and down steps! After lunch I carried on weeding but then George started to sneeze continuously but wiping his nose with a cool damp flannel didn’t help and he carried on for nearly an hour. Just as I thought I would have to phone the vet for an appointment in case something was lodged in a nostril, he stopped and lay down in the shade. The poor little man was exhausted and I can only think the car air conditioning drew in some dust at the tip. I’m always sneezing at the moment because there is so much pollen flying about so can’t say I was any worse after the trip.This morning we enjoyed an early stroll on the moors where we saw Ruth for the first time in weeks. She had apparently been without a car after a young driver drove into her, then complicated things asking her not to go through the insurance company and he would pay for repairs. Of course when he heard how much it would cost he told her he couldn’t afford it so Ruth then had to go to her insurance company and explain the delay! They wrote off the car after an assessment and sent a reasonable payment so will now go after the other driver while Ruth payed for the repair because it is a good car and she wants to keep it.
On the way home I popped in to Sheila to check she is ok, which she is, although still in pain after her fall, and now I’m home gardening.
So much going on Lin; I’m so sorry! When it comes to repairs or inspections I won’t use anyone that isn’t recommended. Luckily we have a local parish website where we can ask for just that. Hopefully next week will be less stressful for you.
Barbie, adapting to dealing with the smallest issue on your own will take time but understanding why you react is a good start. Dear Annie is adapting to change too, bless her!
Time to go outside and continue gardening. 👩🏻🌾
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Hello, sorry I didn’t post yesterday. Not an especially interesting day but a neighbor stopped over while I was watering my grass seed and wow, she can talk. After I shut the water off, the conversation went on and on.
Yipes!
So all that I did was look after my little pots of veggies and the grass seed. Did some Zoom classes, fussed about with the temperature setting on the water heater. I haven’t found my perfect setting yet.Jackie, I am sorry you always end up having to deal with the trash you dropped off while there are people there who are supposed to assist. 😢
Take care and all best wishes to dear George.Enjoying yourself Sandy?
Barbie, I hope Annie is behaving.Lin 🙋🏼♀️
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Drat, my post disappeared as I typed! A shorten version is that I walked George early on the moors then stopped at Linda’s for the morning to exchange garden plants and catch up on news. I have started to weed and prune in the overgrown section at the bottom of my garden where it is shady and therefore cooler but can tell it will be a long job. My brother Bernie phoned from Spain so we had a long chat before I cooked an evening meal, then watched a couple of tv programmes. One is a new drama about a deaf lady who helps the police using her ability to lip read when they are observing a group of criminals. So far so good!
Love the lemon tree Lin. You have reminded to reduce the temperature on my water heater, then time for bed as I struggle to keep my eyes open.
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