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  • kimiuzzell
    kimiuzzell Posts: 611 Member
    Julie, I am in the UK... My daughter is off to Switzerland and my son to France. Tomorrow we do early Christmas which seems a little odd but hey ho! Upside is we get to visit them for a week each in January and February so we get some skiing in too!!

    Today I lifted and gave everything I had. I was beat by the end and am already aching. Loving it though and friends are noticing the difference... Many comments about how good my butt is looking in jeans!!! Hubby loves the confidence it is giving me too as for most of my adult life, while I was married to my ex (for 20 years) I had next to no confidence. Now I have so much more it is great!!

    Hope everyone who's feeling under the weather soon feels better x
  • manic4titans
    manic4titans Posts: 1,214 Member
    Dna, celiac? So sorry. My youngest has type 1 diabetes. She is checked yearly for celiac because autoimmune diseases come in pairs.

    I lifted today. Sorta. Hubs and I poured concrete slab. I lifted 25 bags of quikrete. Each bag weighed 60 lbs. I mixed it with a hoe. So I worked my legs , arms, and shoulders. I am already feeling the soreness creep in.

  • Beeps2011
    Beeps2011 Posts: 12,163 Member
    Putting the scale away, for me, will simply delay the inevitible.....my clothes aren't fitting because i have put on fat. And i have been weighin every trip to the gym (i have no home scale, thank goodness!)
  • DawnEmbers
    DawnEmbers Posts: 2,451 Member
    So much to catch up on here as I eat my soup and cracker while wishing I was in bed.

    Beeps - Lots mentioned on the scale already. I hope you find what works best for you as it's a challenge and I am sure many of us struggle with that thing even though it's just one factor. Last month for me has been up and down, not down to before vacation yet even after a month. I try not to obsess but it's not easy. I'm in a different group on a different health site that is very much more into cardio than lifting. In that group, there is one woman who is around 80 years old and she obsesses over every .5 gain. If she is up the next day it's because she ate a cookie the day before or had a little extra of something viewed as "bad" so she's always struggling to get the scale to go how she wants for her goal. I've tried to word a few things nicely to help but she's stuck in that mindset and her doctor's goal weight doesn't help as it fuels the need to keep the scale moving, and it's tough to watch at times. I weight at home but I lift at 11 pm and I don't like the number as much then, so we all have our own deals with the pesky device to work on. I try not to obsess and remember things like right now I'm having high sodium items but it's a challenge all of the time.

    kim - Early Christmas still sounds great to me. I live in a different state than all of my family and don't often see much of anyone during a whole year. This year was different since I had to go out for stepsister's wedding, so I got to see a good chunk of family in early November. Christmas eve and day, however, I will be over here and working as the store doesn't close for the holiday. I hope you enjoyed the time with your kids before they go off on their adventures.

    Julie - Sounds like things are going well. I like the 4 day split, in part because squatting is fun but every single gym session got tiring after a while.

    mme - Welcome. :smile:


    Okay, now for last night's lifting. I went after my 9 hour work shift but between elbow still having issue and coming down with a cold, I didn't do upper body power. I did upper body and tried out a couple of different things instead. So it was random upper body night and tonight is a no go cause congestion blah. After my work shift today I'm just coming home and going to bed. Tried not to get sick but pesky thing happened anyways. At least, after tonight, I have a couple of days off work for rest. Working has bothered my elbow more than lifting so it will be a nice break for that too.


    bench press 1x8 regular and 1x5 pause @ 65, 1x8 regular and 1x5 pause @ 75, 2x3 @ 95 - tried a couple of things since elbow has been an issue. Knew I wouldn't be able to get 105 let alone more as would have been the plan with power day.

    decline bench press 2x8 @ 55 and 2x8 @ 60 - okay but unracking was the hardest cause I'm not quite tall enough so getting the bar in position is a slight struggle.

    lat pull 1x8 @ 60 and 2x8 @ 70 - these weren't bad.

    db shoulder press 2x8 @ 17.5 and 2.8 @ 22.5 - tad light, wasn't going to do ohp so thought I'd do these instead, had to share the 22.5 but that was okay as the guy is one I see around a lot and he's at least nice (plus puts away everything when he's done with a lift)

    face pull 3x8 @ 20 - something new. Went light and wasn't quite sure if I had them right since I watched youtube in order to find out how to do it. Felt it in my shoulders as I'm not used to that movement at all.

    overhead cable tricep extension 3x10 @ 20 - tried to see if it could replace skull crushers for a little bit cause elbow. Kept hitting my ponytail so that was a slight nuisance and elbow felt it a tad but not bad.

    shrugs 2x10 @ 30 - random but I couldn't figure out what to do last. I considered trying rack pulls for the fun of it but some guy was camped in the cage doing some seated thing with heavy weights plus dumbbells and pull ups. Plus, I might not be tall enough cause the lowest spot for the safeties doesn't look like it's below my knees, but I'd have to get closer to be certain.


    Then I went home, took medicine though I didn't feel that bad while lifting and slept off and on. Now to get ready and go to work so I can come home tonight and sleep more. Maybe figure out small foods to eat cause this soup was a fail. Too much stuff in it, veggies and meat. May need more tissue soon... good thing I can get that from work.

  • dnamouse
    dnamouse Posts: 612 Member
    manic, yeah, Coeliac is hereditary and runs in my husband's family. His mum, him and our boy all have it.
    One of his sisters is sensitive to gluten but was inconclusive with testing, she decided not to go for the biopsy and is partly gluten-free.

    We linked it back to the sausage sizzle at the church Christmas Carols. Apparently the label on the bag the sausages came in said gluten-free, but I'm not sure where they were sourced from and if there could be a cross-contamination source, which is a little scary because our labeling laws are incredibly strict, and if it was the sausages then the butcher could get in a fair amount of trouble.

    Or it could've been the bbq, or crumbs accidentally dropped on the sausages etc...
    I do feel sorry for the organisers as I know they try to be extremely careful.

    But next time, we'll take our own picnic.


    Lifted this morning, that leaves me with 4 more weight sessions until Christmas break. I think it will be about 1.5 to 2 weeks away from the weights, but we're going to the farm and then the beach, so lots of activity every day. And it'll be a nice mental break I hope :smile:


    And now I have to go pack a wholesale order to send express this morning. The boy is watching cartoons and the girl is still in bed lol 7 weeks of school holidays... whoever thought that was a good idea?? :wink:
  • kimiuzzell
    kimiuzzell Posts: 611 Member
    So...yesterday involved a lot of driving for me. I went to pick up my grandmother who lives an hour away, got her back to ours, we did presents and had a lovely family lunch. Then packed the car up with son's gear for the season, and I took him to the airport, dropping nana off home along the way. All in all, 10 hours driving....so I felt fairly siezed up and tired when I got home about 11pm!

    On Saturday, I went to the gym, but my daughter gave me a lift home. Stupidly, I left my gym bag in the boot of her car. Before I left for the airport yesterday she said she would get my bag out, chuck my washing in the machine and leave it for me. No problem. Collapsed into bed last night, and asked hubby if C had left my gym bag. He said yes, she either put it in the kitchen or the garage, he couldn't remember which. No problem, both are places I am used to looking for my gym bag in. So, I set the alarm for 5.30, got up, got my gym clothes on, had a cup of coffee....looked for my gym bag. No bag. Looked everywhere. No bag.

    So, got undressed again, and got back into bed for half an hour! Gah, part of me is annoyed with myself for not doing an "at home" workout - I could have cobbled something together as I do have some dumbells and a swiss ball at home, and I was already in my gym kit of course. But part of me says I was tired, and had a long day yesterday, and really an extra half an hour snoozing and a day away from the gym might have been what I should have done for a reason.

    So, I've accepted that I am tired today. I will not go to the gym after work (I did a mega workout on Saturday, so 2 rest days is not unreasonable) but I will go tomorrow and kick *kitten* then.

    Ho hum!!! Some days just don't go according to plan, but in the grand scheme of things I don't suppose it is so bad really.....

    Have a good day, one and all!
  • Julieboolieaz
    Julieboolieaz Posts: 658 Member
    edited December 2015
    Kim-a little extra rest has value too! ;) Especially after all that driving! I guess the airport is pretty far from home? Hope your kids enjoy their ski seasons...what a lovely option for them! People comment on your tushie? Ha! I'd die! I can tell a difference, and Dh notices ;), but if someone else commented I'd be torn between flattered and mortified! :lol:

    Dawn-I want a better bench...mine is still anemic, but my form is getting better! I'm just a wimp with upper body lifts. You're doing great! Inspiring!

    DNA-nice holiday ahead!! Enjoy the time with the kiddos home, even those crazy moments :). It's going by too fast!

    Manic-that's a lot of work! Lots of lugging, bending and hard effort! My dad and my nephew are/were T1D...so I know a bit of how challenging that can be to manage.

    Beeps-leggings are very forgiving ;). Tunics and leggings are my friend this winter!

    Lifted today. I like squatting each session, so I've decided to stick with SL a while longer and just add more stuff at the end of each workout, as time allows. I've been doing this, but am now feeling more confident that it can be a real program all my own :). Did tricep press, back extensions and hanging leg raises today :). I feel mor solid, less squishy. That's great! Scale and clothes not reflective of my efforts, I'm trying to be ok with that. My leggings look good because my legs are more firm and my tushie is higher and rounder, so I'm encouraged. Jeans mostly fit, a bit tight, but ok. Scale up 10 lbs from last year, trying not to worry and just keep lifting! :)
  • kimiuzzell
    kimiuzzell Posts: 611 Member
    Julie I love the comments about my butt. It used to be something I was ashamed and embarrassed about, but I have learned to love my curves and work with what I have been blessed with!!

    I lifted after work....Having thought I would have a rest day. I did almost 2 hours. Really really worked hard and loved it. I will sleep well tonight!!
  • DouMc
    DouMc Posts: 1,689 Member
    Kim, you are dead right to enjoy the comments. I have been working on 'operation build a bum' for a couple of years now and have gotten to the point where my bum now resembles a normal one instead of a pancake but I am still a long way off getting compliments from people who haven't in the past slagged me (in a friendly way) for having no bum! :smiley:

    Julie, its great to see progress like that. I love feeling like my body is tightening up.

    Kim, you definitely needed the break. Especially after your day yesterday. did I see that you are in the UK? Its nice to have someone else on this side of the pond! (I'm in Ireland).

    dna, that is such a pain about the bbq. I have a friend who is celiac but she says she doesn't get symptoms if she eats a small amount of gluten, it just quietly destroys her gut! I was tested for it recently (and I also get regular tests for type 1 diabetes) because I have autoimmune problems so I was very glad when the test came back negative.

    Dawn, excellent lifting as always! :)

    beeps, ignore the scale. Look at measurements and how you feel. it is such a better measure of progress. My weight is up but my belts are looser than they have every been before so Ill take that!

    Today I went back to the gym after over a week off due to illness. it was deadlift day and it was hard!! Managed to up my weight on the deadlift but the rest of the workout wasn't great because my whole body was like jelly! I have a feeling that I will hurt tomorrow!
  • mmebouchon
    mmebouchon Posts: 855 Member
    Dawn thanks for the welcome. It nice to have someone to share with who enjoys lifting. Hope you are feeling better.
    Dna and Maniac my family is riddled with autoimmune problems, me included. I am gluten sensitive( possible celiac) and have been off it for over ten years. It suck so much more when its your kids that are dealing with health issues. I hadn't realzed that it was common for them to run in pairs but it explains allot.

    I took the weekend off except for walking. I keep debating about moving my lifting days to Tues, Thurs, Sat but by the weekend I always feel like I need the full two day break. Anyway NROLFW 3b was this morning. I have made a bit of progress with dl ( 60lb )and lat pulldowns (40lbs) but zero in moving up weight in the overhead press (10 lbs.) yup that is it, but at least I am improving.



  • DawnEmbers
    DawnEmbers Posts: 2,451 Member
    Thanks everyone. Still sick so no lifting last night and probably not tomorrow. I was supposed to have the day off but I ended up working little over an hour cause yeah. Photo is quite busy.

    Julie - Always wanting a bigger bench. :wink: Great that the form is there for you. I'm still trying to fuss with set up. I almost wish I had someone to do the lift off part cause my shoulders get a little offset when alone but oh well. One day in dream house i can have an adjustable bench.

    Dou - those days back often seem rough. I'll have my own next time I'm in the gym, probably lower body day too, though no deadlift until sunday, which is so far away.

    mme - thanks. Nice with the increases. Overhead press tends to be a stall for many, though since nrolfw I have to admit my lat pull down hasn't increased much, pesky 10 lb increases are challenging.


    I'm just enjoying some star wars themed chicken noodle soup and watching youtube videos. Today is a tad light on the calories so hopefully tomorrow goes better.
  • Beeps2011
    Beeps2011 Posts: 12,163 Member
    I did lift , today.

    And I fasted, too.....i am literally doing diet-911 to just get something good going.

    I will liftm tomorrow, too.
  • jo_marnes
    jo_marnes Posts: 1,601 Member
    Combat today, shoulders are sore now. Could be interesting as have combat tomorrow night too - don't usually do it back to back but can't go any other day this week due to work shifts.

    Crappy bench session yesterday, elbow feeling a bit yuk. Rows were good though. That's about all. Still not 100% well so can't expect much more really.

    On a different note, think I finished all my Christmas shopping today. Now for the mammoth task of wrapping it all.
  • kimiuzzell
    kimiuzzell Posts: 611 Member
    Jo, my rows are probably now my worst exercise, technique-wise too - I really do need to concentrate on those at a steady weight for the next few sessions rather than to expect to increase weight - I'm at 37.5kg so if I can get it right at this level it will be most satisfying. At the moment, I can feel the wrong bits of my body moving even if the bar ends up where it should be!

    mme - I have a problem with the OHP in that I can't seem to do it with the olympic bar but I'm ok with the barbells. Don't know why, whether it is a psychological thing, in which case I need to give myself a slap, or whether the additional length of the olympic bar is actually a hinderance on the OHP to me. I can press the bar itself, but even adding a little weight to it then causes failure, yet steadily I was able to increase the barbells which, of course, are shorter, so I am assuming that is it. Only problem there is increasing in 5kg weights which as Dawn says, is tough - no fractional weights on barbells unfortunately!

    But the main thing is, you are improving - small steps WILL get you there. I have been doing this only for 8 weeks but I look back at my records and see the difference in what I can work with and it is quite an increase. Plus, just the way I feel over those 8 weeks and the confidence etc that cannot be measured in lbs or kgs is pretty darned good too!

    Dawn, I hope you feel better soon - take care of you. In fact, there are a lot of people under the weather at the mo, so general get well vibes to everyone who needs them!

    Dou - I'm in the East of the UK, Very wet here at the moment, but then I think most of the country is, isn't it! Re butts...mine wasn't flat, rather the opposite - I am a typical "pear" so my backside was always seen by me (and others) as substantial, with the illusion of being even bigger because my waist is so small as are my boobs. So, although I will always be "curvy" - I now love the fact I have hips, a waist and a booty that is firming up. Its no longer a fat bum, but is working its way towards being a fabulous bum haha!
  • StephieWillcox
    StephieWillcox Posts: 627 Member
    Hi ladies - I'm switching over from the SL for women group since I have decided to switch to the "Strong" book, and your daily chatter looks lovely and motivating :)

    My name is Steph, I'm 29 and live in Reading, England (close to London). I have been married to Nick for nearly 4 years and we have a 9 month old daughter called Kaitlyn.

    I joined a gym in September because I was so unhappy with my post-pregnancy body, and have used Stronglifts 5x5 since then (switching to 3x5 in the middle of November). SL was great, but was getting so difficult, and I really struggled with each lift being so hard. My current working weights are:

    Squat: 67.5kg
    DL: 80kg
    Bench: 41kg
    OHP: 32.5kg
    Rows: 45kg

    I currently weigh around 90kg (yikes, ~200lbs) so I have a large amount of weight to lose!

    Picked up "Strong" last weekend, and am currently making my way through it, I intend to start very soon (perhaps tomorrow if I can get it together for then, definitely next week).

    Hope you all have a good day :)
  • kimiuzzell
    kimiuzzell Posts: 611 Member
    Welcome Stephen....some of us flit between this and SL so you are in good company!!
  • kimiuzzell
    kimiuzzell Posts: 611 Member
    I ache. That is all.....
  • DouMc
    DouMc Posts: 1,689 Member
    I also ache! But in a good way so its ok. :)
  • DouMc
    DouMc Posts: 1,689 Member
    Welcome to the group Steph. As kim said, lots of people here are doing different programmes including SL. I'm looking forward to hearing how people get on with strong, I'm still hoping to see a copy of it on christmas morning... :smile:
  • jo_marnes
    jo_marnes Posts: 1,601 Member
    Hey Steph, congrats - those are some good numbers you've got there.

    Kimi - try changing up your set up/ positioning. I used to row with the Olympic bar from a bench as my back hates the pick up from the ground and I lose any good form I would have had. Now my gym has better racks, I row from the support bars on those. I don't know what they are really called - but the bars that save you from being crushed if you sat down in a squat! :D My elbows also hate rowing for reps so I touch the bar back down on the supports each rep which seems to stop the elbow tension. yeah it's not a perfect way to do it, but I'm up to 55kg doing it that way and I can concentrate on the muscles that should be working rather than fixing the ones that shouldn't.

    The more I speak to PTs, physios etc, the more I have realised that while it's great to want to do everything "by the book", sometimes our bodies actually require a bit of a different method. I have adapted a few things this way - such as bumper plates under the bar for DLs (again, back hates the initial lift from the floor and rounds), the rows, the number of reps on bench etc (I do 5 x 3 not 3 x 5 etc). Squats are another example - can't progress back squat, tried leg press - that hurt my back. Now I'm doing front squats and single leg press and so far that's working. No point flogging a dead horse.....
  • manic4titans
    manic4titans Posts: 1,214 Member
    Binge ate last night. I ate ALL day long so today I feel bloated and miserable. I haven't been back on the treadmill in a few days. The labral tear is giving me fits.
    I skimmed through the STrong book. Did I tell yall again how much I hate step ups? Well , in case you don't remember and for all you new peeps, I HATE STEP UPS!. He has incorporated those into this program.
  • dnamouse
    dnamouse Posts: 612 Member
    LOL manic, I'm sorry, but that made me giggle. You and my daughter would get along really well - she hates step ups too :smile:

    Today is my 15th Wedding Anniversary. Damn that's a long time lol That's 18 years together...


    Actually speaking of my almost-teen, I better go toss her out of bed so we can get some stuff done today :wink:
  • Beeps2011
    Beeps2011 Posts: 12,163 Member
    Hi steph, and I don't like step-ups, either, manic....although I have plopped one-legged-get-ups back into my workouts and boy, that sucks, too.
  • Beeps2011
    Beeps2011 Posts: 12,163 Member
    Happy anniversary, dnamouse!!
  • Beeps2011
    Beeps2011 Posts: 12,163 Member
    I got my lifting in, today, and I sat down to do a 3-week "calorie-plan" along with a 100-day scale-loss plan. My head is in a GOOD space, today, so I just took advantage of that.

    For now, my "calorie-deficit" plan is to simply eat only half of my "plate". Because i have LOTS of functions out this month, that was a strategy that I have used, successfully in the past (2013 and 2014). So, time to just use it again!

    I don't need to re-invent the wheel....I just need to BE ON THE WHEEL.
  • kimiuzzell
    kimiuzzell Posts: 611 Member
    Happy anniversary dnamouse!!

    Jobs, thanks for the tip....I look forward to reporting back with some Progress soon!!

    Can I confess..... I don't mind step ups. Maybe I am doing them wrong :/
  • mmebouchon
    mmebouchon Posts: 855 Member
    Steph hi
    Beeps it sounds like you have a plan.
    Dna happy anniversary.
    Maniac sorry but you made me laugh too with regards to the step ups. I can't say I love them either but I think lunges are worse.
    Jo what you say sounds reasonable. I imagine I am going to have to get a bit creative with how I do things as I get to heavier weights. My right shoulder is pretty damaged from arthritis.
    Kimi sorry you hurt.
    Dawn take care


    My dad has been visiting for the last 5 weeks. He leaves tomorrow so I need to be up early to take him to the airport. That shouldn't be too difficult as I don't seem to be able to sleep past 4 am any more, arg. Today is a rest day and I had planned to get in a walk but we are having round I don't know what of rain and wind storm.

  • Julieboolieaz
    Julieboolieaz Posts: 658 Member
    You guys are all doing well! I'm on my phone so won't try personals... Just know I'm inspired by you guys!! You're much stronger than I, but we're all getting better each session :smiley:

    Lifted yesterday, ran/walked today, lift tomorrow...all is well :).

    Those of you with Strong...is there a lot if the one legged, balance work in it? Trying to remember how much of it I did in NR? Tried to find it at a local book store, but they didn't have it.

    KUTGW Beasties!! :heart:
  • StephieWillcox
    StephieWillcox Posts: 627 Member
    Thanks for the welcome :)

    manic - I'm afriad there are step-ups - they are in the very first workout! I'm also with you on the step-ups. They suck! The first time I tried out NROLFW I used an 18" box to step-up onto. YIKES. Never made that mistake again!

    julie - Haven't been through every stage in detail, but single leg romanian deadlifts are a common feature of the starting workouts, so I imagine there is single legged stuff throughout

    Best parts of strong (so far) is I like the RAMP warmup - I do not do enough mobility work/ warm up in general, although I am slightly concerned that the first thing to do is foam roll? I was under the impression that you should do that once warmed up (clearly I have been misinformed there!)

    I also like doing Core first (my core is non-existent post pregnancy), and I like rounding off each session with intervals. It feels very well rounded (much more so than Stronglifts where I felt like I should do cardio and stretching but never did).

    I'm heading to the gym today to try out some things from the first stage, but am actually starting on Monday. Need a trial run to get the form down first!

  • Julieboolieaz
    Julieboolieaz Posts: 658 Member
    Thanks Stephanie! How long are the workouts taking? With warmup before and cardio after? Just curious. I'm at about 70 minutes now with stretching and trying to compare :). I like 1 legged DLs, not a fan of the other 1 legged moves though.

    I'm with mme...I prefer step ups to lunges! I'm not doing either currently...which makes me happy ;)

    Happy anniversary DNA!
    Beeps-you know what works for you!! Holiday parties are a challenge to be sure!
    Manic-sorry for the binge, but hopefully it'll get it out of your system? It's hard with all the goodies around this time of year!
    Kim-I agree...maybe I'm not going up high enough?
    Jo-good input! I agree, I have had to adjust some lifts, like my squat, for my own body shape (tiny torso means my legs are a bit further apart than most) . Finding what works for each of us is the key, and of course then working it :smiley: .
    Dou-sounds alike you're doing well! Kutgw!
    Dawn-hope you're feeling better!
    Steph-you're doing great! I finished NR a few months back and am now doing SL. Ironically :)

    Good lifts today! Didn't my regular squat, OHP, and DL, actually upped the weight on DL and feel ok. All good. Added in back extensions, leg press, and lying leg curls today. All good. Scale down a bit and calories up, so I'm a happy girl! Been upping my carbs and calories, carefully I think, and am happy to be maintaining. That's my goal through the holiday season! :)

    Take care all.