JessieSky

You could be a clone of a Heather I know, so I'll go with that =).

The Oatmeal is good, naked anything is good...I don't think it needs *too* much sprucing up.

Feeling like a complete zombie today, so without a whole lot of thought, a few really good ones I' add: Blue - A Perfect Circle Motorcycle Drive-by - Third Eye Blind Not Falling - Mudvayne Aurora - Foo Fighters Circle - Slipknot Lateralus - TOOL

Listen to your doctor, and most importantly your own body...as you get closer to your goal, see if it seems attainable. Maybe your healthy range will be just above the 'ideal' range, but still in a quite healthy range. Either way, your doctor would know far more than your friend. Hopefully she meant well, but either way I…

If it's a matter of being stubborn, focus your will power on balance. You want to lose weight and be fit, and that's great, but you're undermining your ability to do it in a healthy manner and ultimately setting yourself up for trouble with your current mindset. It sounds like you know what you should be doing- make sure…

The older definition of "nerds"....more intelligent than wickedly passionate about random things.

I do think for some people that's the case. You can't always help where you'll lose the most fat or how long it will take for an all around effect...while you can't always target specifically, it can help to make sure you're getting in enough full body exercise, just so you're not neglecting any particular area altogether.

Stoners maybe? & yes, definitely could have fallen under the 'rocker' category...some things don't change ;).

Does seem like a possibility here. I'd probably try different things, too, if she were someone in my life. He sounds concerned, with good reason.

Not sure that she should start lifting given the anorexia and all that until she speaks with her doctor. Some exercises might be unsafe for her at this point, being so underweight. Bottom line is, a doctor needs to be part of this equation, no matter how you decide to go about being healthier.

Agreed, it sounds more like a matter of caring about your health than just a preference of sizes. 95 is not a healthy weight for you.

There are quite a few things I'd change ideally, but I guess the most important being a flatter/more defined stomach.

Drama

Coming back for food porn later ;)

without the caps ;) Awesome tats, people! Making me want one desperately D:

:laugh: It does feel that way on days like that. {The sleep thing, anyway.}

First of all, you don't look "ew" at all! You look healthy! I don't think it's necessarily reflective of issues...even if you know 100% that what people are saying is false, hearing things like that is still harmful (and it's intended to be, too, which makes it even worse coming from your family). It sounds like THEY have…

Find things that you enjoy...try things you think you won't enjoy because sometimes you'll surprise yourself, and keep a good variety going. Even your favorite type of workout will no longer be fun or terribly helpful if you focus on it 24/7. I'm a very visual person; I like having inspiration board(s) with some fitness…

Nothing wrong with some of these options and DIY to some extent, but it might be helpful starting out with any type of Yoga to do a class or two. It's important to know you have the kinds of movements and stretching down just right, and while you can mimic a video or something off of an app, it can't tell you if you're…

The Haribo sugar free "Satan bears" and water diet. Considering the context I assumed it could be nothing other than a joke, but I know someone personally (and have heard of even more O.o) who take it rather seriously. People always want some magic solution, when the truth of the matter is much simpler than what they're…

SW: 200 CW: 196 GW: 186 (for the month)

Witty, skinny & brutally honest. 2 out of 3 isn't bad.

Maybe both? I don't know, my immediate thoughts might not be the most pleasant but I'd still think good for her to be able to be confident in her own skin.

Sure, why not? ;)

As far as gifts, I've always had luck with things you can do together- concerts, games, etc. depending on his interests.

Truth.

Basically any sweets and not exactly in moderation. Cheese, too, I could eat sooo much cheese. Soda was a big thing, too.

Sure ^-^