BelMckenzie

I am an extremely light sleeper but I love sleeping in bed with someone. My boyfriend and I sleep very well together, we start off cuddling and I usually move over before falling asleep. I take up very little room on the bed since I like to sleep close to the edge (so he has 80% and I have 20%). I do have a hard time…

That cabin should be split 7 ways or Ann should be paying less since she is not getting a room (privacy) or a bed. I have done the rent situation and I caused a lot of issues when the girl moved her boyfriend in, but since he only slept there and went to work during the day according to her, he didn't need to pay. It was…

I tend to think of every relationship as a new beginning. He is not my ex so why should I question him and fault him for things that are my own fears. So every time I feel I am looking at my new beau in a way that I am suspecting something of my ex- I try to move past it. I am not perfect, I catch myself comparing at…

I'm going to witness this event on Saturday! Go Packers!

Yeah I think it is easier to get over someone (especially short term relationships) by meeting or having sex with someone else. I know I am over someone if I feel fine sleeping with someone new since I won't do that if I were hoping to get back with the "ex". However in a long-term relationship I would need to work through…

I admit, I have been in every one of the situations- cheated on a boyfriend (in high school) still feel guilty about it, been "the other women", and I have been cheated on in 2 of my relationships. I flat out refuse to have any part of it now. I feel it is better to break things off if you can't respect a person enough to…

This to me is just common sense, there is no need to be in a relationship when you feel it will never go anywhere. This blog only irritates me. After reading parts of this blog and it making me feel like **** since every outfit, every hairstyle, and every workout- I do for myself. In no way do I want my ultimate appearance…

How cute!! Dogs make great workout partners!

Log your food daily, everything you put in your mouth from dipping sauces to creamer in your coffee to give you an idea of calories you are consuming. Also eat breakfast, if you can't stomach something big that early grab something healthy like an apple to get your metabolism going for the day. Make sure you eat throughout…

I gained most of my weight from a health problem and my boyfriend at the time stuck with me through it. But that being said, I have never come across someone with doesn't want to be with me 20 lbs more so I don't really have that mindset. I know now I get more attention now but I am also healthy and much happier then I was…

I am going with 100% that I will be married in the future. I want it and I have a very optimistic outlook on my future.

I dream of a relaxing weekend, but it is going to consist of going out with the guy I am seeing to dinner and a movie (End of Watch) tonight. Tomorrow, I am work (boo!) and then going to a bonfire or meeting my friend's ex (not quite sure why she wants me to meet him so badly). Then Sunday more work and maybe finally doing…

I do think it more of a preference but I'm 5'7" and have dated guys from 5'5" to 6'2". Granted I prefer a guy to be my height or taller but it's definitely not a deal breaker. Yeah the lying thing would be a deal breaker.

I agree with this. I tend to fall in love with my ears. I have dated many guys that if I had met online would not have given a second look at their photo, but I am more fascinated by what they say and the way they look at me that I become attracted to them that way. It's odd, my other single friend is the exact opposite…

Try meetup.com and join a group that does activities you are interested in. It's a great way to meet people with common interests.

I agree with this as well. If you have an awful pet that has never been trained properly and the dog still pees on the floor at 5 yr old- let's just say I will never be moving in until you train that dog properly.

I agree with NCTravel... you are an attractive guy and you seem to be reading decent messages to these women. It really boggles my mind why you would not be getting responses since I know I would respond if I receieved a message from you and I am a childless women in my 20s. Even when I do the free sites, I can only be on…

I agree, I don't look at his shoes unless they stand out.

I didn't say make out, get naked, get physical or anything else besides kiss. But if I like a guy and he likes me, I would love to be kissed on the first date, since if I don't want to kiss you- I tend not to be interested. This is just my PREFERENCE. Maybe I have been dating a lot of guys that lack the confidence to even…

Ok, so what if on one of your POF date, you had awesome conversation with lady and was extremely interested in then why won't you want to kiss her on the first date? To further my statement from before - no kiss is not an only deal breaker for a second date IF I really am interested and feel they are interested in me, but…

DM said it perfectly, I am looking for a guy to take charge, that is an important quality for me. Usually, if they don't kiss me on the first, they typically don't try on the second and third date (from my experience) and I'm talking about dinner dates not coffee meetups. So why should I keep wasting their time and money…

That is great, thank you for sharing. I am awful at being patient and I am so done with being single- I was hoping this year will be it, but I guess once I meet the right man, the wait will be worth it.

Ok, I don't think guys focus on #3 often enough and if they do they don't seem confident when I show up looking my best (typically a skirt or sundress on a first date). MUCHO bonus points, if you remember to compliment how nice she looks and tell her she is beautiful (not in a creepy way). And #7 is SOOOOO important, I…

I disagree with that, but maybe I am one of the few that read the profile as well as look at the photos. I like the photos of men with kids since it shows them as a potential father which is what I am looking for out of a partner since I want kids. But I also prefer to date men with no kids, so if I see a photo with a kid,…

I agree with roadie, if there are unlabeled photos of you and a girl especially one wrapped around you or you are holding, I assume ex-gf. Now, I know everyone has a past, but seriously not what I want to be my first impression of you. Oh yeah, I usually love the photos of a guy and his dog (as long as it's not a toy breed…

I love my dog, but it's not the same as loving my partner. Honestly in a relationship, my partner would always come first over my dog since I recongize its a dog but that being said, I wont be with someone who didn't accept my dog or cats.

I agree with this.

Yeah, the conversation is awkward but I have it before having sex the first time, even with using condoms since they are not 100% effective.

On the contrary to that though, lately I have been dating guys who are picky eaters which I am not. I love my seafood, vegetables and cheese so it would be hard to cook for them since I make a lot of veggie quesadillas and grilled salmon.

22- 15 to 29: Greater beta. More than a few attractive guys will approach you. But if your personality is flawed you risk becoming a pump and dump victim. very interesting to know that I am a "pump and dump" type of women.