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Studs can be sexy, depending what their swag is like. But I'm all about the femmes, personally. For 'fun' or friends with benefits, another stud might be able to keep it real, but for dating.. femmes only, please. Just my opinion, of course.

I weight myself every few weeks or so. Like between 4 and 8 times a year. I don't find myself obsessed at all with the number on the scale and find myself to look smaller than the scale says, which most who know me will agree with. I have no need nor desire to place too much power in whatever number the scale decides to…

Maybe your friend has a body type that is difficult to put weight on and happens to drink tea, thinking that is the main reason she's staying a certain weight. While certain teas (not all) have their benefits, they will not keep you thin. Hell, drinking water will not keep you thin if you don't do other things in addition…

Yes, everyone needs a break once in a while. Some people have cheat meals, some people have cheat days. But there's a difference between a cheat/break and 10 days of eating anything and everything non-stop as you say you have been. You do not need that extra 4 3/4 cupcakes. If you want to worry about the children in Africa…

Tampa here.

We're around. Just keep your eyes peeled for us!

They definitely look and sound delicious. Next trip to the grocery store, I'm gonna have to grab the ingredients and whip this up myself. Props!

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say that your girlfriend knows you have a husband. Because if she didn't... maybe she found out and wasn't pleased. That'd be too easy, and there'd be no legitimate reason for you to be asking this here. So... you were dating a woman. Awesome. You have a husband too? Cool. You haven't…

Far too little information to give an opinion. Maybe him saying 'no idea' meant he responded, and has no idea why you didn't receive it. Does he work a lot? Have a busy schedule? Do you feel the need to text him 50 times a day, and maybe he was just irritated with you or something else and didn't want to respond? Maybe he…

Considering all the other benefits or drinking water, you should be happy to drink it regardless of it's ability to promote/help weight loss. I love water! Nothing quite as refreshing as a tall glass of iced water. Yummy!

If she says she's doing it for you, she's probably just trying to be nice or make sure you keep funding her shopping. I don't dress well, take care of myself or keep in good shape for anyone but me. When I spend 85$ on a new cologne, it's because I like putting it on and enjoy the smell of it. I like smelling good. When I…

I used to work security, so when I need to look intimidating, I absolutely can. Also, my personal style (not shown in photos) isn't the most 'welcoming', so I've heard. Add my tattoos to the combo and apparently I'm seen as more intimidating than not, even when I'm not trying to be. But then again, when I'm actually…

Unless it has **real** sentimental or material value, I toss it. I find myself making excuses to toss things as opposed to keep things. If it's something in good condition, I have a Salvation Army a few blocks from me. I'll donate it instead of trashing it.

Videographer and directors assistant with a local adult production company. Also in the process of enlisting in the Army.

Masculine identified queer Dom here. My fitness goals are to gain stamina, endurance and muscle. Sex and BDSM is part of that... I love curvy women and enjoy being able to toss a curvy bottom/sub around and be intimidating to her/them in appearance. Always up for like-minded motivators and being a motivator on here. Chin…

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Something light. If you don't typically wear something light, then don't wear anything at all. Some people are sensitive to stronger colognes and perfumes.

Mine are pretty freaking big too... just saying. ;-p

I would have kindly said no or pretended I didn't hear her or thought she was joking, and then reported her.

As someone previously stated, all men are not the same. Some men prefer curvy women, some prefer large women, some prefer very fit women, someone prefer tiny/petite/very thin women and some prefer something I've not mentioned above. Personally, I've never felt pressured by my spouse (who is not a male, but a female) to…

Here is a link to one that I find delicious: http://eatathomecooks.com/2009/08/tomato-and-artichoke-heart-salad.html My mom originally made it for me. Artichoke and tomato salad, and it's delicious! I love it. I could eat it all day and night. :-]

I 'eat back' most of my calories. I typically burn 700-1500 calories on an average work out day, and I eat majority of them back for the fuel and energy. Sometimes I don't eat them all back, simply because I'm not hungry. But usually I do. I love food anyway, so it works in my favor. ;-p

Mila Kunis! How could I forget her. She'd be my number one. Man, I must be more tired than I thought right now. Lol

*sighs* You're gonna be one of those guys that takes one comment, analyzes it, and ignores the rest. Cool. I highly doubt that if she has no work out regimen, as you said she doesn't, that she is taking in less calories than she's using. If you lost 75% of your weight by not exercising, good for you. Many people can't do…

Drinking enough water (as you obviously know) is important. But calorie counting/watching is not how you lose weight. Diet is an important factor, of course, but if she's not doing much physical activity she probably won't gain weight (she might though, depending) but she certainly won't lose weight. She needs to, in my…

As far as hair shampoos go, I swear by Dove and my lover (and my mom) swear by Aussie. Both Dove and Aussie have different 'types' of shampoo. Revival, damage repair, etc. Just pick whatever you feel fits your needs. Using a conditioner (if you're not already) could be good, too. I tend to always use matching conditioners.…

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I'm female-bodied but identify as genderqueer and I love the ladies. Consider myself pansexual, but that's not really relevant. Lol. I'm new to this site and could use some friends/motivators as well, and would be happy to provide friendship/motivation in return.

I signed as well.

Regardless of what word you put (if you're set on text and not imagery) it can be girly. Just pick a more feminine font. I'm a female and have several text tattoos, but I purposely wanted more masculine fonts. Any reputable tattoo shop will allow you to look through their books and take your time picking a font, they may…