SWEETS1234 Member

I know it's crazy. If your female you have to work harder to burn more but men typical consume more as well.

I'm all about planning new things and going on trips, I will try to more appreciative of everyone around me.. I'm looking into starting a new class to see how that feels. I know I have a good life that was never the issue. :flowerforyou: I think I'm just at a certain point where like someone else mentioned earlier I have…

Oh my that's what I'm afraid of...my husband made a comment like that living till retirement and then LIFE will start

Perhaps this feeling falls to all us regardless of our status. I guess we have to find that something in ourselves to feel complete.

Thank you for all your thoughtful ideas. It gives me something to chew on. I have been speaking with my husband about all of this and while he's not overally happy about how I'm feeling at least we're in this together. I do like caldon4523 idea for setting up a GOAL. cheers

lol love it

I am grateful for all that I have, I was not trying to be ungrateful. I just was wondering if other people ever felt this way and if so what they've done about it?

It's not that I don't like my life. I just want more...now I just have to figure out what it is.

It's been a year since I met goal and I still get asked how are things going...am I still keeping track....how are my workouts.....blah blah blah blah.... and let not forget the ones who are waiting to see if I keep it off... blah blah blah so yes it bothers me but I'm happy that I can just nod and walk away.

really just me?

I miss my boobs which I guess is common for some and I miss eating without thinking. BUT I love the way I feel in my own body so much more.

lots and lots and lots but i love food so it's worth it

I've wondered about this myself. If you're already counting the daily burn then I'd have to say according to your numbers you're only adding an extra 223.67. This is just my thinking but to each his own.

I like to take nap in a warm sun patchy :wink:

Skin keeps going through changes as you lose weight. Hopefully they'll it'll fade quickly. I personally haven't noticed any new ones but I have loads on my stomach and thighs.

Pasta with ground beef sauce topped shredded cheese and a loaf of garlic bread. There you have it MEN are fed. cheers :)

It's the sugar that gets you. Every time my husband has a coke I always take the first sip and love it. LOL. You have to do what works for you but it's probably not something to have everyday. Maybe more just a once and awhile thing. Good luck. :smile:

Ah yes the blunt grandparent. I feel for you years ago my grandfather kindly total me that I was getting too big and pointed to a larger lady and said you don't want to turn out like her do you. Then he told me to go for a run. It hurt but that's my grandfather. Recently at his birthday party he said where did you go…

Need a change, I'm in :)

8pm 1530 and still need to eat about another 350

My son was dancing around the room singing skinny mommy skinny mommy for no reason all. Sweetness.

different weight ? height?

If you want to burn the same amount of calories in 30 mins, you'll to increase your intensity level. Drive yourself harder or increase your time. Good Luck. I know it sucks but that's just how it goes.

Take your measurements...the numbers never lie. :)

Ah marriage ..... to each his own met and moved into together 5 months into relationship enagaged at 11months married a year after that, I was 25 and he was 23 in two months will be celebrating 9 years and I love him more now then the day I married him.

mini peanut butter cups yum

PERFECT :)

I know where you're coming from, I have them all over my stomach, thank you pregnancy, and of course I'm self conscious. However it has been years and though the colour has faded and the lines did shrink up a bit. They still look like scars and the skin looks thin and pulled and all scratched up. That being said I still…

oh yes i LOVE these but only buy the 3 pack

Yes I use to shop with a dear friend who was blessed being slender. I'd be looking at pants wondering if there was any chance of fitting into them and she without thought would say "those pants are huge". Needless to say we stop shopping together and even though I've lost the weight. I still don't wish to shop with her.