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  • oystereyes
    oystereyes Posts: 969 Member
    Hello everyone! Today is still August and it is still summer here. A warm day is predicted and we will try to enjoy it with a few outside tasks. Katie gets her stitches out this afternoon. I have been wondering if she did some of the work herself. I am not too good at doing an examination on a seriously wiggling 30 lb. dog. I have been trying to keep up with exercise and weight lifting. Some days ...excellent! Some days NOT excellent!

    John fixed the dish washer and I am thrilled about that. When John fixes anything there is a certain amount of cussing things into submission. It is really unpleasant to be around when the tools and work lights come out of the shop. Katie and I run for the art dungeon, shut the door and turn on some wonderful music. It is a survival technique that I learned many years ago.

    Sandy: a visit from your daughter! I'll bet you have great fun doing girly lunches, shopping and sitting by the pool gossiping. I am always impressed with the way you have these amazing relationships with your family. Even Babe! Not many of us could work out a way to stay connected yet live apart. You are a loving and accepting person. Something I strive for but rarely achieve.

    Anne: you are another of those lucky ladies! You must have done something very RIGHT to have such devoted sons. I know you recognize that these young men are just crazy about their mom. I love that Jilly has a best friend. Our Katie is kept well away from neighborhood dogs. They are on loose and some are pretty aggressive.

    Jackie: Brady is such a pretty cat. It sounds like he found a great home. So many kittens have such a sad end. This is an exceptional story we all love to hear about. Brady and the bees! I feel this needs to be explored and turned into a children's story book. I'll think on this!

    Lin: make no mistake about it...you are a lovely woman with a generous heart. I feel sorry for your ex. He could have shared his life with a magnificent human being.

    Buzz: mom used to have a whiff of dad's oxygen when she felt tired. She said it cleared her head and gave her a short burst of energy. Not sure if this was a good idea or not but we didn't dare complain. She did seem to enjoy sharing it with dad. She had a mask thing she held over her nose and mouth. Their House was turned into strange raceway of long oxygen tubes. Mom wrapped glow in the dark tape around them to keep from tripping.

    Have a great day,
    Patsy
  • Sandydur
    Sandydur Posts: 9,355 Member
    Opps, thanks to Patsy's post I just realized I confused Jackie's animals. Sorry Brady, I am glad you didn't get stung, ask George how that feels.

    Thanks Patsy, it couldn't be my age that got me confused could it???
  • Shirley61
    Shirley61 Posts: 7,758 Member
    Hello Sneakers,

    We are at the cottage again and I went to a Yoga class this morning. A different teacher than what the schedule said, lots of downward dogs and planks she really worked me today. I was in a Fitbit challenge this week too but had to stop due to spotty Wi Fi again and not getting the proper steps for the challenge.

    We stopped on the way to see Isaac and he was playing with his water table and eating a smoothie on a stick getting it all over him. We did get some pictures but I don't know if I can retrieve them due to the Wi Fit here so maybe when I get home I can post it.

    I got a new pole and reel for fishing so I hope to try out this week.

    Jeri - Lovely family and so many kids. The newborn is adorable too!

    Sandy - Great pictures of Robby at the party, I take it he likes superman!

    Patsy - Katie is so cute I can't believe she doesn't go downstairs. Try the leash up and down and she will get the hang of it and then there will be no stopping her.

    Marie - How are you doing with the wound healing? I hope its getting better.

    Buzz - Good luck with the oxygen machine, I hope you find the right one for Mike.

    Shirley
  • pjsatticPhoebeWaleskaGA
    pjsatticPhoebeWaleskaGA Posts: 1,701 Member
    Fun posts, loved Buzz telling about the kindness of everyday people. I hope Mike comes around. Buzz, I hope you will be able to do something for yourself at least once a week. Out with the girls, lounge at the pool, something You would like.
    Lin, happy birthday to your ex. I'm experiencing the years ahead of me thru my husband, since he is 10 years older than me. I hope my health will be better than his. I think this is the first time I disagree with Sandy. If he didn't appreciate you back then, he never will. You're a wonderful person, and he is out of luck!! On the positive side, he gets Medicare, haha!

    Heading home, then to clean up the truck, hard to do if it gets dark first. Always see it in daylight and see what was missed! The pear tree at work is loaded this year, I don't want to spend the week in the kitchen, but little jars of preserves make good gifts.
    Jeri, scary stuff, these scammers! I'll never forget when American Express dropped the ball and our checking account was overdrawn by 17,000!! I dropped them right after that.
    Hi to everyone,
    Have a fine day.
    Phoebe
  • Jacean2016
    Jacean2016 Posts: 820 Member
    BUZZ I wasn't going to say much today, but I so enjoyed reading about Nelson and the way he chatted to your Mike. Isn't it a wonderful thing that there are still caring, patient people about. Just, you might say, an ordinary man, but anything but ordinary when one looks deeper.
    I too think LINS ex husband missed out and didn't appreciate what a thoroughly nice woman our LIN is. Poor "old" chap! Like PHOEBE, I too wish him happy birthday. As for my ex, God bless him wherever he is. Deep down I do wish him well, after all, without him my sons wouldn't exist. PATSY, I have no idea why the "boys" are so good to me. I certainly didn't do anything "right". We sort of fumbled along as best we could when it was just the three of us in earlier days, oh and Jenny the lab and Thelly our English puss. I'm just one very fortunate woman. Missed out on romantic love but no missing out with my sons or pets. I think my boys have a huge chunk of my Dad in their gene pool. He really was a lovely man. When he died far too young at 68 it seemed the whole village turned out, standing on the sidewalk as we slowly drove to church. It's an odd thing to say, but de Gaulle in France died at the same time and all the villagers turned out for him. A well known man of the world, and yet, my Dad, unknown in the world (like BUZZs Nelson) was treated exactly the same. The comparison struck me as we drove past the villagers.
    That's enough of me reminiscing and gabbing on,
    Enjoy the rest of Tuesday girls,
    Anne.
  • JMarcella57
    JMarcella57 Posts: 1,902 Member
    edited August 2016
    Sweet dreams, Sneakers.
    Marcella
  • linder4866
    linder4866 Posts: 11,456 Member
    Sweet dreams Marcella.

    Buzz, it is heart warming to hear that a staff member took so much time to try to help Mike. People are usually so overly busy and stressed that they would not take time. Wonderful. And I hope it works out and DH will be able to socialize and interact as much as possible.

    Anne, you are a fortunate lady to have such wonderful sons. So helpful and loving! I am glad you are now ready for the next seasons coming our way.

    Phoebe, I was just chortling a bit I guess as my birthday will soon be coming up. Just a bit over a month from now. I got a bit nosy this evening and found out a bit about my ex. No, we have not spoken for years and years. He remarried and adopted her adult children. He was CEO of a company he and his brother purchased. He also is an Associate Pastor at a large church in the community where he lives. So my poking around had to do with that company. I had heard rumbles of problems with it. I found out today that they quietly went out of business in May of last year. I know, I didn't need to know. Oh my, pears and pears. That sounds like a worthwhile project!!! Wish I could come to help you.

    So are you ready---I Maj'd today!!! Wahoo!! I won, I win, I won!!! That was so exciting. One more class next week and they are trying to find a time when Mah Jongg will be played at the center. We'll see. I also put my name on an email roster so we might contact others to set up times to play. I think I was the only one at my table to add my name. The others were worried about giving out their email addresses. Good grief. It's just a list for the 20 people who have been learning together. Whatever.

    Shirley, I hope we'll be able to see any/all pictures or videos you might have of Isaac. I bet he is growing and changing so much. Enjoy fishing (if you get to go).

    Patsy, I hope all went well with Katie as her stitches were removed. I hope she feels okay. Hugs.

    Marie, wishing you well as you co tinue to heal and to cope with DH's problems. God bless.

    Sandy, you always have so much going on. Wahoo. I hope,the sun will shine when you have time to get to the pool.

    Other than doing a bit of laundry, I tried to decipher how to use that tool to check engine codes when the check engine light comes on. I have figured out where to plug it in and have worked through the settings. Unfortunately any software updates will NOT work for me as I have Windows 10 and this works with Windows 7. Now I have to figure out how to have the engine on but not running. A bit difficult with a keyless car. I think one press of the Start button without holding down the brake may do it. Then to figure out how to run the appropriate diagnostics and how to clear codes. Well, I made a start!!

    I decided to pass on the quilt auction this evening. We had wind, dark clouds, a bit of rain with more promised. I decided staying home would be better as I am going to Tai Chi early tomorrow morning. Then I have some soy milk on hold at a store near downtown. Everyone else who might have this is out and out at the warehouse so I will definitely drive over to pick this up. They also have lovely local produce so I am sure the trip will be worthwhile.

    Otherwise, I have been working on a spreadsheet, getting property tax checks ready, changing passwords (as mandated by some sites) and updating alerts on one account. I tried a chat with them today and they just really could not help me. They just are not flexible so I think I've done my best with what is offered.

    Going to a birthday party on Saturday and need to decide if I will add a small gift card to the gag gift I got her--it is a surprise party and no gifts were asked for by the organizers. Someone asked if gifts were welcomed and no one answered her question. Ooops. I wonder what that means?

    Lots of sneezing and coughing etc. When you have year-round sinus and allergy who knows if you have added a cold into the mix? Haaaaa.

    Going to read for a bit.

    Hugs and best wishes to everyone.

    Lin
  • pinkperil
    pinkperil Posts: 5,072 Member
    edited August 2016
    The weather forecast today promises 30c but our walk this morning was in thick fog which is only now lifting so I'm thinking that must be another part of the country. My plan today is to collect from the allotment onions that have been dug and left to dry because we anticipate a storm tonight. The garden got the better of me yesterday because after 3 hours weeding I looked around and noticed little change so have phoned a gardener I know that helps people who struggle to keep on top of things, most of them elderly, and left a message asking if he can work an hour or two a week in mine. I absolutely hate to do this but must recognise the months lost last year due to the surgery and treatment knocked me back so I'll blame that rather than my getting older!! Hopefully this time next year I'll be telling you all I'm back in charge!

    Patsy ~ You paint such a wonderful picture of John in repair mode while you and Katie creep into the dungeon; it did make me laugh. You're right, Brady and the bee would make a wonderful story but you'd have to change the ending that I hadn't admitted..... the bee was left spinning on the footpath while typical kitten Brady rubbed his face with his paw and yowled but continued to be fascinated enough to jump on it again so my foot had to put it out of its misery!

    Buzz ~ Doesn't it restore your faith in human kindness when such a man takes the time to talk to Mike and offer wise words when he didn't have to. It sounds like he has a gift and is working in the ideal environment whatever his day job. It also shows just how popular Mike is when so much encouragement is coming in his direction from everyone.

    Lin ~ Phew, that car business is mind boggling to me and I wouldn't know where to start. It's taken me 18 months to work out why the child lock on the back doors of mine wouldn't let people out even when the engine was switched off, then the other evening as the same conversation was going on for the umpteenth time the friend in the passenger seat asked what the red light with a cross symbol through a small person was for.... switched it off and now the doors don't lock!! Congratulations on the marjong win which just goes to prove you have the patience of a saint what with all the hobbies you participate in. Taking Buzz's list of things to do to keep the mind active I'm contemplating a jigsaw for the first time in years in the hopes Brady doesn't scatter it across the floor each time I start to build it and may well get myself a colouring book and pencils, not that they'd ever end up as beautiful as yours!

    Sandy ~ Don't worry sweetheart, I'm always calling Boris George, Brady she instead of he and Hebe anything but and I'm living with them!!

    Phoebe ~ Heading home, that's great and probably loaded down with those pears! Like you I don't like to spend too long in the kitchen but at the moment have a large bag of runner beans from the allotment to dice and par boil ready for the freezer although a part of me thinks I'll maybe just work my way through them in the coming days and eat fresh!

    Since starting this post the meter reader has knocked on my door which means another bill on the way then my neighbour who's a maths teacher to tell me her students' results are greatly improved this year so she's delighted and also should she help out a friend whose cat recently produced 3 kittens? Since she and her partner work full time I didn't think it a great idea to take on a couple of them which thankfully confirmed what she felt anyway.

    Can I just confirm what others have said over time, you are all family to me and I care deeply about whatever happens to each and every one of you. <3
    Time for my lunch and then that trip to the allotment.
    Jackie
  • JMarcella57
    JMarcella57 Posts: 1,902 Member
    Much to do today. Some cleaning, errands, office work and packing for the weekend! Tomorrow morning, I look forward to driving down to Lake City, Florida to spend the night with my brother and sister-n-law (about a 5 hour drive) and then Friday morning another 3 hours on down to Orlando, Florida for a weekend ladies retreat. I am so ready for this and I just know that all of the speakers will be wonderful. :)

    Phoebe - Safe travels for your drive.
    Marcella
  • oystereyes
    oystereyes Posts: 969 Member
    We have a hot day coming on today. I will use the day for one or more of the thousands of tasks waiting for me inside. As I look around it is difficult to choose the one most disparately neglected. John will be heading out to do his "guy errands" which involves a hard wear store or the lumberyard.

    Our son called yesterday and he is doing what all boat owners usually do. Repairing something on the boat. The good thing is that he has a small crew of willing sailing pals to assist him. He and his regular crew motored upriver to a small town and had a lunch before sailing back to Portland. A good time was had by all.

    Katie's stitch removal took about three minutes and she was ready to go home, happy and full of "beans!" I am so relieved this whole episode is done and over. She has learned to go down stairs. I used the method Jackie and Sandy suggested. We tugged firmly on the leash and she resisted for two steps and then she instantly got the idea. What have we done?!!!! She is now creating havoc on two floors of the house instead of just one.

    Must get going.
    Patsy

  • Sandydur
    Sandydur Posts: 9,355 Member
    edited August 2016
    Happy Wednesday or is it? Rant coming, skip ahead to the next paragraph if not interested.
    Babe is driving me crazy and all I can tell myself is to take deep breathes. He is having stomach pains and originally called me to tell me his son is trying to get a hold of the doctor because he doesn't think he can wait until Monday for the colonoscopy. Then he called me to say the pain is getting worse and maybe he should go to the ER but his son went to his daughter's school because she was bleeding, maybe a first period. (TMI) I asked what he wanted me to do and he started screaming I don't know and I lost it and said if you don't know how am I supposed to know. He said someone has to take care of Daisy if he goes in the hospital and I said I would but not sleep there and he screamed again why not? I told him to first see if he ends up in the hospital before discussing it (I did tell him his son could take her and he screamed he didn't want him too). So he said never mind he would just wait until he died because no one cares. REALLY? I told him I was jumping in shower in case he wanted to go to ER. I called and he apologized for screaming at me but his son called and is trying the doctor again. His daughter hurt her "prostate" but it is all under control. So I am sort of on call to see what is happening. Can I just say what part of being separated doesn't Babe get?
    He expects me to be his wife and do all the wife things even though I don't live with him.
    I am really getting tired of it and really don't know what to do about it because truthfully he helps me so much financially I am afraid to say no to anything. Okay done with rant and it was therapeutic to write it down. I am sorry if it is too much information but we are "family".

    Patsy, so glad you listened to us and I knew once Katie figured it out she would be a terror. lol
    Glad the stitches are out and you can resume your normal life.

    Marcella, have a wonderful time in Florida with your brother and a great ladies retreat!!

    Jackie, I did that name thing with my three boys, always called them three names. My daughter was the only girl so it was easy. I think a jigsaw puzzle might be something I would like, I will have to give it a try.

    Lin, sometimes I feel like I have too much going on, but you are just as busy as I am. I am looking forward to the pool and just relaxing, hope the weather co operates.

    Anne, your dad sounds like a wonderful man and your boys are taking in his footsteps. Thanks for sharing your memories.

    Phoebe, you are correct, if Lin's husband didn't appreciate her when married what would change? Something I should remind myself daily.

    Shirley, have a great time at the cottage, is your MIL with you? Robby has a water table as well, did you see on Face Book how some animal chewed the sides? They think it was chip monks but emptied the water for now.

    Have a great day, I feel better already just sharing with you.

    Sandy
    One Day at a Time





  • Jacean2016
    Jacean2016 Posts: 820 Member
    Dear Sandy, I'm wondering exactly how to say I would handle the Babe situation. I don't want to be presumptuous and any remarks are made because I have a great respect for you and most certainly don't want to say anything that would unintentionally hurt you. For a start love, I hope the financial help is not a verbal agreement but has been drawn up by a separation lawyer. If so, he can hardly stop payments. If no legal separation and he does, it would be a form of blackmail because no one should be forced into looking after a person with the threat of ones living being withheld.
    I was sort of "fortunate" in receiving no payments from my ex. I didn't need his help being young enough to work at the time. So..... I packed up the sons, the dog, the cat, the plants and we headed off for pastures new. 600 miles to be precise. Best thing I ever did, despite having no family over here.
    You DO have a loving family. Can you move closer to them and out of Babes blackmailing clutches? And it IS blackmail, talking of dying and no one caring! Have you, if you haven't already, thought of a legal separation? You don't work being retired, and I think because of age, Babe will have to support you wherever you are. I do wish you the best of luck whatever you decide to do and I really feel that all this Babe and his nonsense will eventually put a strain on your own health. You got out of the marriage for a reason.
    Anne
  • Sandydur
    Sandydur Posts: 9,355 Member
    At hospital waiting for results of CT Scan on stomach. Yes, I took him because he asked.
    No offense Ann, I do understand what you said. I am legally separated through the courts but Babe gives me more than what was agreed. He also brings me many supplies so does a lot extra. I suppose I am afraid to stand up to him, but in reality I still love him. Thank you for your input. Sometimes I have to hear other opinions.

    Sandy
  • fancyladyJeri
    fancyladyJeri Posts: 1,319 Member
    edited August 2016
    Oh My, Sandy big hugs to you. Hope all is okay with Babe. You are such a nice person you would have helped Babe even if you didn't still love him. We are here to listen to everyone's vents if that's what is needed. That is what good friends do and I think of you as a very good friend.

    As I mentioned we are going away for the weekend. Ed still isn't 100% and has started antibiotics again. He did see th Doctor. I wanted him to have another X-ray but he wouldn't. Men!!!!!! At least he is having a nap right now.

    Still trying to get in my 10,000 steps each day and mostly successful. Don't think I'll get them in when we go away tho. It is an 8 hr drive to C'oeur d'Alene. We leave Friday morning.

    Buzz I too felt so good about the nice gentleman who talked to Mike. Gives me a nice feel good feeling.

    Cheers to all

    JERI



  • linder4866
    linder4866 Posts: 11,456 Member
    I hope they find out what is going on. It stinks when you hurt. Poor Babe. It was good of you to take him for the test but I know you are very kind and you would help even your friends if they needed a ride. Hugs to you Sandy.

    Okay so Tai Chi/Qigong this morning followed by errands. After lunch I got back to it and I am happy to report I have cleared the check engine codes. Now that I know how hopefully it won't take so long next time. The emission test appears to run twice during my use of a tank of gas. This is much cheaper than letting them poke around on the car for days. If it ever changes to a flashing light I will get it fixed.

    Now, rain is coming down but REI has a presentation this evening on Yellowstone and I think I will go unless the weather worsens in the next 15 minutes.

    Tomorrow is library ladies morning.

    Hugs my friends. I love hearing all the stories you share. Thank you.

    Lin

    P.S. Glad Katie is doing well after the removal of her stitches AND happy the stairs are no longer a stress-provoking event.
  • Jacean2016
    Jacean2016 Posts: 820 Member
    Thank you Sandy for the response. You got me thinking. Highly unlikely, but if C landed on my doorstep in distress would I take him in? Guess what, I have a feeling I would. It's nothing to do with the money, which I never received, it's to do with a loving past and memories and children shared isn't it, when it all boils down. Good for you taking Babe to the hospital, good for Babe helping you out more than he needs, sincerely hope all works out for you both in the end.
    ❤️
    As for the going down of stairs, Jilly is very small, BUT we are taking one stair at a time, after all there is no rush for us, and she now dares to go down two of the four stairs. One giant step..........etc.
    Anne.
  • Sandydur
    Sandydur Posts: 9,355 Member
    Update: the doctor called Babe's son and he wants him back in the hospital tonight. His aorta isn't pumping enough blood into his stomach or at least something like that. Babe gave me this information from his son. So because I said I wouldn't spend the night to take care of Daisy his son was going to take him but as an enabler I said I would stay, Babe beamed. Turns out Phil's daughter did get her period and is scared to death, so it is probably better for her to be with her mom without Daisy distracting everyone.
    Not sure why I didn't let good enough alone but I knew this was important to Babe so I agreed.
    Came home to pack an overnight bag and will be leaving shortly. They will run more tests and hopefully Babe will be home tomorrow. As much as he irritates me at times. I am not ready to let him go. Thanks again dear family, I really count on you to let me say these things I don't say to everyone.

    Sandy
  • CALIECAT
    CALIECAT Posts: 12,530 Member
    Thanks Sandy for the update.

    Marie <3
  • pjsatticPhoebeWaleskaGA
    pjsatticPhoebeWaleskaGA Posts: 1,701 Member
    Sandy, they're men, we are bound to get frustrated with them. Jim is grumpier these days. So I'm grumpy too, lol. We are both more relaxed at home. I've never heard of something like that happening. The body has as many wonders as it does not so wondrous. I was guessing some kind of ulcer, but either way, I hope they can fix the problem soon. I always picture Marisa as the little girl she was. Not anymore! I hope they prepared her for her cycles. Enjoy your time with Miss Daisy. Wish you could take her home, but having experienced your landlady via your descriptions, I wouldn't want to do it.
    Little pups are growing up, gobbling up everything their parents teach them. So eager to please and make you happy. I love that about dogs. Cats do it, when they want. ;) .
    Resting today, and laundry. Trying to get all 'truck stuff' washed so I can put it in the car, out of my way. Of course, it rained. I had rugs on the clothesline. They'll dry tomorrow, supposed to be about 90 degrees.
    Lin, I am amazed that you figured out all of that check engine light trouble! I had no idea there was anything to do except go to the dealer. Hope I don't need it, but it's good to know. Glad you are enjoying the activities at the library. That's the sort of things I would be doing if I was retired. You're already winning Mahjong? That's great! It must feel good too. Like Buzz said, new things, never stop learning.
    Jackie, Brady must think he's landed in Heaven O:-) ^_^ Maybe he has. So glad there is someone to help out with the vicious weeds. They are rampant here, Jim used the weed eater today, I'm so glad. I can never be sure if I am seeing poison ivy, or some other three leaf weed. I printed a photo but I get it confused. I'll have to force myself to leave home tomorrow for a few groceries and sugar for the pear preserves and for making hummingbird nectar. I guess I'll need more jelly jars too.
    I haven't told Jim that I ordered a new smaller sofa and it will arrive tomorrow! He'll be shocked when they deliver it, and when I tell him we've got take take the larger sofa to Goodwill. We can't let him get bored can we? Lol!
    Time to put in another load.
    Phoebe
  • delraybuzz
    delraybuzz Posts: 2,779 Member
    SANDY, you are kind and loving, and I believe you attend a group for enablers, don't you? One cannot simply command "Stop loving"1 and you are doing the caring thing for Babe. On the other hand, he's a darn fool, allowing his idiot son and daughter to ruin his wonderful marriage! I might be more sympathetic toward him if he has at least SOME backbone regarding decisions he made, but at this stage in life, I truly think you almost have the best of two worlds! Except a young and beautiful woman like you might still enjoy a bit of romance in her life! Now back to reality.....
    I must be up at 5 AM as we have transportation to the huge VA hospital where aside from Mike's appointment for a wheelchair, I have an appointment for the pharmacist to label all 45 pens and vials of Medication and insulin the state requires in skilled nursing homes. All his pills must be sent out to be individually bubble wrapped. 'Nite...
    <3 Buzz

  • pinkperil
    pinkperil Posts: 5,072 Member
    edited August 2016
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    The current state of play is snoozing pets and me trying to motivate myself to do some serious housework while the edge of a thunderstorm throws the occasional huge raindrop in our direction. The gardener hasn't made contact yet but then usually he just turns up at the door when he has an hour to spare so may have missed me while I've been out and about. Time will tell.

    Phoebe ~ Another laugh out loud from me at one of your comments. I'm loving the philosophy behind your sofa order and certainly can't imagine Jim ever getting the chance to be bored living with you!! The obvious question is will the sofa be for the two of you or the pets? As you can see from the photo above my sofa has been taken over so I sometimes fined myself perching on an edge!

    Sandy ~ Sometimes things have to be done for a quieter life so I'm thinking you taking Babe to the hospital AND looking after Daisy will reap rewards down the road, i.e his emotionally demanding kids won't have cause for complaint, not that I imagine they'll ever appreciate how important you being in Babe's life is and one day, who knows, Babe might show a little more appreciation other than financial. It's easy for me to say money isn't everything because I don't have much but I don't see that loving family of yours letting you struggle in any respect but if you still love the guy you are in effect between the proverbial rock and hard place aren't you!!

    Patsy ~ I guessed Katie would get the stairs with a little firm persuasion because yes, she knew there were pastures new to rip up and toss about!! I bet she's having a ball investigating another level in her home!

    Buzz ~ With all you have to do to keep a check on medications and all that goes with it I don't imagine you ever needing a jigsaw or puzzle to keep your mind active. Hopefully though calmer days lie ahead as Mike settles into his new routine.

    I made the mistake this morning doing an early supermarket shop on nothing more than a banana for breakfast so now the fridge is full of food I wouldn't normally eat.... just have to spread the naughty items out over the coming week! The store had weigh scales on offer so I bought a smokey black glass one to replace my very old ones and was happy to see they show the same weight even with clothes on and 2 cups of coffee!! No swimming today because one friend is unwell and the other taking a mutual friend to hospital for an emergency mammogram and biopsy. Hopefully the news will be good for her because she's not had the best luck in life..... a "B" of a first husband who totally mixed up their kids in the worst possible way and they're only just settling into normal life since she remarried earlier in the year to a wonderful man.

    It's now time for my lunch so I'll go and search my fridge for one of those naughty items!!!

    Jackie
  • Jacean2016
    Jacean2016 Posts: 820 Member
    edited August 2016
    Oh JACKIE, what a beautiful picture. It's as if Brady is bringing out the latent "motherly" instincts in George! I think cats are the loveliest of all creatures and your photo makes me want to rush out and get a kitten for our Jilly! No! No, Annie don't go there! You are already "bow legged" from one lively pup!
    PHOEBE you had me chuckling as well, oh to see Jims face when the new sofa arrives! Even more priceless when he realizes he has to cart the old sofa to Goodwill! You obviously know how to handle men and I wish I'd known you and your example in the late fifties and sixties! Then I was your docile little wifey! Before I discovered, surprise, surprise, I had a backbone in the nineteen seventies.
    SANDY I hope you wake up to a better day than yesterday.
    We went for our morning walk in what can only be described as steamy jungle. Not a sniff of any other dog walkers, just a few listless youths hanging around the bus shelter smoking ciggies. That was quite early and Jill and I have decided to hole up for the day with the air conditioning just forays into the garden. I washed my hair earlier and it now looks like a brown/grey Afro. Jilly thinks it's an untidy birds nest. She burrowed into it with her sharp little claws when I got on hands and knees to recover her milkbone from under the sideboard. She doesn't like going under the sideboard because of a cross piece on which she cracked her head. Of course the sideboard is a magnet for balls and biccys.
    You have to laugh at this spell check. Biccys became bicycles!
    It's a good day to do some washing of clothes methinks.
    Hoping to hear how Sandy and Babe made out.
    Anne.
  • pjsatticPhoebeWaleskaGA
    pjsatticPhoebeWaleskaGA Posts: 1,701 Member
    Jackie, love love your photo. One question, if that is George and Brady on Scruffs blanket, where is Scruff? Sleeping on bare floor, lol?!
    So sorry for your friend with the emergency mammogram. I've never heard of that. I hope it won't be the big C.
    Anne, picturing little bit melting the hearts of burly teenagers. Or defending you by nipping at them! Yes, stay cool thru these last hot days.
    Time to get to it
    Phoebe
  • Jacean2016
    Jacean2016 Posts: 820 Member
    Ah yes PHOEBE, "Little Bit" the great defender. The other night we came across a group of oriental gentlemen outside the church. It's Anglican but It is loaned out to various groups. These seemingly perfectly nice chaps wanted to pet her and for the first time ever "little bit" shot behind me and was peeping at them from between my legs! Normally she bounces all over everybody regardless of where we all originated, Chinese, Caribbean, Canadian, all much loved by Jilly, who just wants to play. So why was she scared of this group? Perfectly normal men who all laughed and said "oh she scared of us."
    Another mystery to solve. I love mysteries.
    Anne (Marples)
  • pinkperil
    pinkperil Posts: 5,072 Member
    https://www.amazon.co.uk/Scruffs-Snuggle-Comfort-Reversible-Chocolate/dp/B00ORNZ64Q/ref=sr_1_8?ie=UTF8&qid=1472141614&sr=8-8&keywords=scruff+dog+beds

    Phoebe ~ The name of the blanket is sheer coincidence but Scruff won't be allowed anywhere near now that Brady has taken ownership!

    Anne ~ George can still embarrass me by barking or growling (sometimes both!) at a total stranger for no apparent reason. It used to be black and white dogs but he seems over that little foible now!

    Jackie
  • CALIECAT
    CALIECAT Posts: 12,530 Member
    edited August 2016
    Well I have not been able to get on here this afternoon. Finally did thanks goodness Was driving me crazy. I went to the doctor. She took me off of my pain pills She did not wont me on the pain pills for my Kidney. Go back in for weeks
  • Shirley61
    Shirley61 Posts: 7,758 Member
    We are still at the cottage, this morning went to another yoga class and it was cancelled. They said you should check the schedule before coming and I didn't . The instructor's babysitter cancelled at the last minute. I did get an email telling me about the cancellation but still fighting with WiFi so never read it in time. I am trying to keep my days in tact and I did get in a walk tonight. It is still very warm here and I did get out and do some fishing, but no fish for a fish fry yet. Kristina and John will be arriving tomorrow and we will have some company tomorrow because they haven't seen Kristina in a long time.

    Let's see if I can find a picture of Isaac. I don't know if this will work Wi Fi is taking forever.
    This picture is not showing it failed to load. Next time.

    Shirley
  • Sandydur
    Sandydur Posts: 9,355 Member
    Latest update is Babe had 5 hours of tests today and tomorrow they are doing an angiogram with a camera to see what procedure is best. Either another shunt or surgery. Not exactly sure what the problem is but it has to do with his aorta and his stomach. His son and I have been texting with no problems, I haven't talked to him, nor have I seen him. He will let me know tomorrow if I should be there for the procedure. I am letting him handle all of the hospital things, I am taking care of Daisy. I did go to the hospital twice today, once to visit and the second to bring some fresh clothes. I am very tired as I did not sleep well last night but hope tonight is better. Will try to check in tomorrow.
    Prayers are needed, so there is nothing serious and he can come home soon.

    Sandy
    One Day at a Time
  • pjsatticPhoebeWaleskaGA
    pjsatticPhoebeWaleskaGA Posts: 1,701 Member
    Sandy, glad to hear from you. I hope they get Babes issue resolved. Is this the cause of the dizzy spells? Well, Miss Daisy is getting some quality time with her Mommy. Hope you can rest better tonight.
    Phoebe
  • delraybuzz
    delraybuzz Posts: 2,779 Member
    Just saw the latest from SANDY, and of course we are all sending our best and sincerest wishes on his recovery and your good health as well!
    Our update: left for VA and 6:15 AM, arrived at 8:45! Went directly to pulmonary department as Mike had run out of oxygen and had no strength to breath! The gave him a replacement tank and we then went to Wheelchairs, where they fitted him for an apartment size motorized chair, and we returned home with him being happy about that chair. His room had an electricity problem so he was unable to nap in bed, and by the time I too him down for dinner, he had little strength to finish his meal. We left right after eating, though we loved the people at our table. I cannot figure out his health status, as it seems to change almost hourly! I guess minute by minute is the only way to get through what is happening without going mad!
    Almost 2 AM and since I rose at 5 AM, I'm drooping!. ZZZZZZzzzzzzz!
    <3 Buzz