WEIGHT NO MORE - OCTOBER CHAT

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  • KatAdele
    KatAdele Posts: 290 Member
    Today was not my best eating wise but it is my birthday so... Anyway, I knew lunch and dinner would be higher calorie so i skipped breakfast and worked out this morning. Tomorrow I will be back at it.

    My October goals:
    Log my meals, even if I’m over on calories
    Keep up with my exercise schedule and add distance on my runs
    Find and practice three alternate ways of dealing with stress besides eating
    Limit sweet treats to 4x a week, then 3x a week

    As far as struggles, for me it’s really afternoons and evenings when i feel like i have no time and so much to do that I tend to overeat. I crave the ‘high’ from a big sugar hit. I know it’s easier to avoid the craving when I limit sweets so maybe I need to try to focus on that.
  • amsandos
    amsandos Posts: 273 Member
    User ID: amsandos
    Week Number: Week 1
    Previous weight: 145
    Current weight: 142

    Lst night I listened to the PnP podcast and it talked about fat girl thinking. My challenge for this week - this month is to become aware of my fat girl thinking and to deprogram myself. So cultivating my fit girl thinking. I will do this by jounralling morning and night.

    I am happy with my loss I am keen to let one good day follow another and when I have a bad day let the good day follow it.

    I hope to be 5lbs lighter at least by the end of October.
  • amsandos
    amsandos Posts: 273 Member
    That should say my goal is to be 5lbs lighter by the end of October by maintaining the actions from last week.
    No unplanned sugar
    eat to + 2
    plan eat evaluate
  • sleepymom5
    sleepymom5 Posts: 2,462 Member
    edited September 2019
    Daily check in for Sunday
    Food - Good day, ate junk at night.
    Water - 64oz
    Exercise -None
    Steps-3,502

    I don't know why I ate junk. I feel like if I don't eat a lot during the day, I some how feel deprived and make up for it at night. I ate some cereal and peanut butter. Ugh!
    Onward, busy day cleaning and packing. Hopefully a ton of steps. I was going to ride my bike but it is windy. I may just try it to the store and back. If that goes well I will go for a ride. If I struggle too much I will do something else. Want to get exercise in early and get to the store before I get too involved here. I want to have healthy options here. I already started the laundry and soaking the life vests. I have a bad sense of smell so I am always afraid things smell. I had my daughter sniff all the life vests before she left this weekend. She said they smelled so I am cleaning them and hanging them out. Hopefully that helps. If not, then I will get new ones next year. I am soaking in oxyclean and laundry detergent so I am hoping that will do it. Cleaning the garbage cans too. It is going to be a fun day! Lol! I have to say, at least now in my head I have accepted summer is over. I do love it down here but I am ready to be home.

    @nstephenson01 I was so hoping I would see a post from you this am. I woke up with an alert that there is a state of emergency in Montana as there were several feet of snow dumped in the Northern Rockies. Is that you? I swear one day I am making a map and putting a little dot with where everyone is in the world so I can properly worry! Lol! I also don't know why I got an alert, not much I can do from South Jersey. I hope you and your doggies are safe and warm.
    @amytriesww Awesome loss! I am going to have to let you in on a secret, I don't know when it is decided that we move to a new thread. Sometimes we have a few days left and we move, sometimes we go into the next month before we move. I think it just depends where the end of the month falls. So with that long winded non explanation, you posted in the right spot! You have been doing so well and I really admire your consistency with your busy life. You really are inspiring!
    @KatAdele HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! I think you did great, you knew that you would be celebrating so you balanced it out with your calories during the day and exercise. Now back at it today! Great October goals! I especially like that you aren't cutting sweet treats out all together and it appears like you are slowly dialing them back. I think that is better in the long run.
    @amsandos Awesome loss!! I agree with your thinking. Sometimes bad days happen, don't beat yourself up just get back on track. Not too long ago you weren't on track and weren't very happy with your progress. Look how you turned that around! What a great feeling! Btw, I think we are on the same podcast. Lol! I need to work on that too. Great October goals! You are going to have an awesome October my friend!
    @Barbb1557 I almost forgot to respond to you! I actually came back to write down what you had said-progress not perfection. I like that. I hope you are feeling more like yourself today. I am glad you noticed that although you were feeling down, you didn't cook and eat like you used to. That is progress! Thank you for listing your struggles too. I have many of the same ones.
  • jedaschultz
    jedaschultz Posts: 1,024 Member
    edited September 2019
    Hi, I'm Debbie. I'm 56, married 35 years and have two daughters. Our oldest is 29 and has special needs and lives with us. Our youngest is married and lives in the next state over. We live in Central Illinois and I stay home and am the caregiver for our daughter. I have been trying to lose weight now for quite some time. I'm great at recording everything however it usually is way over my limit. Here are my goals:

    Today - stay within my calories, drink my water
    Week - Stay within my calories and be good while traveling
    Month - lose 3 pounds
    Year - lose 10 by the end of the year.

    I do well with my exercise(step challenges with my daughter and son in law most weeks, I usually lose but stay close to them). I also go to the gym with my husband every morning during the work week. I walk on M,W,F and do weight machines on T,Th. Sleeping is hard for me and I rarely get enough. Writing down my food I do great with and do it faithfully every day with everything I eat, I just eat too much and too many snacks.


    Username: jedaschultz
    Week: 1
    Weight in day: Monday
    Previous weight:204.2
    Current weight: 205.6
  • sleepymom5
    sleepymom5 Posts: 2,462 Member
    @jedaschultz I like your goals. They are all obtainable. You really have a great workout routine (or should I say routines) Let's have a great October!
    @nstephenson01 Thanks for checking in! I am glad you weren't in the region that got the state of emergency! Snowy days can do that to you. Your's sounded like the snowy relaxing day we all envision. I was thinking, can you make a new vision that is equally enticing. Maybe a healthy meal that you really love and save it to make just when you are snowed in. Or even snacks that are healthy that you truly enjoy to have on hand. Maybe instead of wine, you can have a special tea that feels like you are splurging when you aren't. That is actually one think that I did change successfully at the shore, I used to like to have a glass of wine on the deck every night. I switched it to tea. If it happened to be iced tea or another low cal drink, I put it in a cute glass. Lol! Weird but it worked for me. I just remember last winter and all the snow you had. I was thinking a making a plan now may help you in the future. Thanks for posting the pictures, you know I love them! Your dogs look like they are enjoying the snow!
  • Cafelelia
    Cafelelia Posts: 1,298 Member
    Sunday check in

    Calories - logged & on track
    Water - 2 l
    Exercise - 30 min walk

    It was a busy weekend and for whatever reason, I did not sleep well last night. Probably thinking about everything to do this week. Our younger boy is sick today and home from school. It feels like all of the back to school illnesses are circulating early this year.

    We will give it a few more days to hear from everybody about you struggles and then list some topics.

    A note to our new members that Pam and I record your weekly weigh ins on the Challenge spreadsheet. When we do so, we mark you entry as “insightful” to let each other know that we have recorded the weigh in. You can view the spreadsheet on the Challenge home page.

    @jedachultz - You have great goals for the month (and year)! I totally relate to the overeating & snacking. A lot of exercise & activity often make me more hungry, or just plain old stress too.

    @sleepymom5 - There is so much to do in closing down a summer place, hope that you get it all done and relax! Love how you listed the struggles that you have overcome. Look at how much you have accomplished! Btw, I did not draw that sign, just found the image on the internet!

    @Barbb1557 - Thanks for sharing your struggles and I think they are common to so many of us. Sorry that you had a down day yesterday, but you still ate well and stayed on track, which is fantastic!

    @amsandos - Amazing loss, congratulations! I noticed last week that you stuck to plan, and also made small decisions & choices that added up to doing so well this week. I like your goals and will also listen to that podcast as I think that mindset/thinking can really hold me back.

    @KatAdele - Happy Birthday!! Love how you still got a work out in on your special day! Great goals and totally relate to the “danger zone” times of day for overeating.

    @amytriesww - Another amazing loss, congratulations! You have been so consistent and successful! Can you remind us what you are doing? I take it Weight Watchers, but what about exercise, self-care, anything else?


  • tryingagain5
    tryingagain5 Posts: 1,037 Member
    @sleepymom5 and @Cafelia
    Hi Pam and Lisa
    I was told to add you both to my friend list but I don't know how to do that. I looked it up on the FAQ section but it didn't take me where it said it should.

    Could one of you explain how to do that?

    Thanks
    Linda

    Thank you ladies for requesting me as a friend and making it easier for me.
  • tryingagain5
    tryingagain5 Posts: 1,037 Member
    Cafelelia wrote: »
    @tryingagain5 - That message above is for you, I sent you a friend request! Welcome to the team!

    Thanks, I accepted both of your requests
  • tryingagain5
    tryingagain5 Posts: 1,037 Member
    Check in for Sunday
    I got 20 minutes of low intensity exercise
    8 glasses of water
    Food part not so good but my own fault.🙄
    I ate too much at a baby shower and then again at my book club.
    Will do my best to get on track for Monday's check in.

    I work 3rd shift so would normally be sleeping at this time of the day but had last night off. I will probably be checking in late afternoon or evening.

    My goals for October:
    Get in 8 glasses of water 4 days per week
    Continue working on getting in fruits and vegetables: 3 fruits and 2 vegetables 4 days per week.
  • tryingagain5
    tryingagain5 Posts: 1,037 Member
    I think my struggles are getting to a certain point and then giving up and gaining back what I've lost. I'm not sure exactly why, almost like I don't deserve to be a thin, healthy person. I know that's a silly way to think because I should be able to be thin and healthy just as much as anyone else.

    Also, I have trouble on the weekends, especially when I have an event or get together, which revolves around food. Sometimes I do well but it's a struggle and sometimes I can't control what I eat at those times. I know what to do, it's just that I don't do it.
  • nstephenson01
    nstephenson01 Posts: 854 Member
    Great idea @Cafelelia! @sleepymom5 I like how you considered successes in addition to struggles.

    I think its important to remember things we do right. This journey isn't easy. Celebrate the little things.

    Struggles:
    - Overeating. I love food and I enjoy everything about it... cooking, smelling, tasting. Its hard for me to think of it in terms of strictly nutrition for my body and not a pleasurable experience.
    - Staying on track when not in my cocoon such as traveling, some social situations or when house guests are visiting.
    - Giving in to cravings. I need to work on my resistance muscle. Planning meals helps and I'm going to try prepping more foods ahead of time.

    Successes:
    - Water. Since giving up diet soda years ago all I drink is water.
    - Exercise. I find some form of exercise pretty much everyday. I enjoy it and appreciate the strength and endurance I now have. I don't feel myself if I'm not active.
    - Viewing food as a reward. I use to reward myself with food or drink when something good happened or when faced with a challenge. I'm not a puppy LOL and am much better in that area.
    - Avoiding junk food/artificial ingredients. Haven't had an oreo cookie, frito chili cheese chips or Ritz crackers in years! I have trouble not overeating these types of foods.
  • nstephenson01
    nstephenson01 Posts: 854 Member
    Nice loss @amytriesww! You've been so consistent. I'm in awe... definitely something I have trouble with.

    Happy birthday @KatAdele!! Afternoons seem to be a struggle for plenty of us. We run low on energy and look for a quick fix.

    WTG @amsandos! Ride that momentum and keep up the good work!

    @Barbb1557 Sorry yesterday was a bad day but you did well with your food and that's great! Make today a good one!

    Thanks for the advice and really good ideas @sleepymom5. I do need a plan for when winter really sets in. Hubby may/should be home and he has terrible eating habits. LOL Maybe make some of the vegetarian dishes I like and have them available so I can continue pursuing that area. No way my husband will go without meat. And I try to drink tea but I don't really enjoy it. Maybe I should look into mocktails...

    Oh I just thought of another struggle... I hate feeling hungry! Its not like I'm going to die or get pregnant! Maybe IF will help in that area.
  • lennoncpa
    lennoncpa Posts: 777 Member
    @sleepymom5 I have not try the overnight oats but in the current Reader’s Digest magazine the overnight oats are on the list of 20 best Foods that heal our bodies. The article says that when oats are cooked some of the resistant starch is lost and that the overnight oats are a great source of resistant starch which is very healthy for us. I guess my issue with that is that it says you should soak the oats in milk overnight and I don’t use milk and I really just have my oatmeal with a drop of almond milk but I wouldn’t want it soaking in the almond milk. Can you soak it in water overnight?
  • lennoncpa
    lennoncpa Posts: 777 Member
    @Cafelelia thank you!! I keep trying to get younger and I stay incredibly active, but some of it is just good genes! My mother was 92 when she passed away and she looked more like she was in her 70’s!!
  • KatAdele
    KatAdele Posts: 290 Member
    Today was pretty good:
    Log my meals, even if I’m over on calories - check
    Keep up with my exercise schedule and add distance on my runs - ran 2 miles
    Find and practice three alternate ways of dealing with stress besides eating - haven’t had time to work on this yet
    Limit sweet treats to 4x a week, then 3x a week - two pumpkin cookies tonight

    Tomorrow I will probably be eating out for dinner so I’ll need to plan ahead the rest of the day.
  • sleepymom5
    sleepymom5 Posts: 2,462 Member
    What a day! I got so much done but I am exhausted and my body is hurting Lol! I got all the outdoor stuff put away but except the hoses. I am hoping to get down with Daisy one last time and let her run on the beach. She loves it. (Dogs are banned from May-Oct.) I cleaned out the garage, the first floor and the second floor. Tomorrow I am hoping to do the third floor and then...back to PA...Ugh! Today I didn't drive at all, I figured why bother if I don't have to! Have a good night everyone!

    @Cafelelia Another great day! September was an awesome month for you! I bet October will be just as good if not better. Hope your son feels better soon. There is a lot going around by me too . It does seem early.
    @tryingagain5 I have a hard time at events like those you were at. I am really working on my overeating. I have noticed a lot of the times I am not even hungry. Just because I notice I am not hungry doesn't make it any easier to resist Lol! I have been planning before I go and it does help a little bit. 3rd shift is tough too. Are you always on nights or do you rotate? I always had trouble with eating when I worked night shift. I was hungry before, during and after nights. Some how I seemed to end up eating an extra meal. I like your goals for October. I think they are ones you will be able to reach. I share your struggles. I have been trying to just make small changes that I know I can do for the rest of my life. I have been losing slowly but it is better than giving up and gaining. You can check in at any time so no worries, you can wait until you wake up after 3rd shift.
    @nstephenson01 I also share your struggles! I think a lot of us have similar struggles. Look at those successes! It is nice to see things that were a struggle aren't anymore. I like the idea of mocktails better then the tea idea! Why didn't I think of that Lol!
    @lennoncpa I knew they were healthy but didn't know the reason! We have been getting a lot of good information from that Reader's digest lately! I looked up a few recipes for dairy free and they all seem to use almond milk. I guess you could play and see how it tastes with water.
    @KatAdele Nice day! Maybe to start off you can exercise to relive stress? The adding distance to your runs could actually help two of your goals then. Good idea to plan before dinner tomorrow. Many restaurant's have on line menus. Making the decision ahead of time takes the stress out of doing it when you are tired or hungry. Hope you had a nice birthday!
  • sleepymom5
    sleepymom5 Posts: 2,462 Member
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  • hope002
    hope002 Posts: 1,066 Member
    Check in for Monday
    Food IF on track
    Water good
    Exercise: running intervals, plank challenge
    Steps 10,189
  • Barbb1557
    Barbb1557 Posts: 111 Member
    Barbb1557

    Checking in. Great day yesterday keeping food under calorie limit. I am still not sure how to set my fitness pal percentages for fats, protein, and carbs. My fats have been higher, but I feel confident that two eggs and 1 Tbsp of almond butter with a very small apple are not excessive. I went to the grocery store and bought only healthy items, No pretzels! Humus and veggies chicken tuna and a few frozen healthy choice power bowls. It has been 3 months with this awesome group and I feel so much stronger about making good food choices and planning ahead. A heartfelt Thanks to all of you!
  • sleepymom5
    sleepymom5 Posts: 2,462 Member
    Check in for Monday
    Food Logged and on track
    Water over 80
    Exercise: Bike 30 min, PT exercises and all that cleaning should count for something! ;)
    Steps 11,931 steps

    Great day yesterday! I need to keep this going even with going away on Saturday. I have so much to do still before we go. I don't know why I am so focused on closing up this house when I have a trip lol! I am sure I will get it all done but I seem to head right to the fridge or pantry when I feel overwhelmed. I did well stopping myself and refocusing yesterday so I plan to keep that going. I have to head out to PT so I have to go. I will check back in once I am back in Pa. I really don't mind the drive but there just has been too much back and forth the past few weeks.



    @twyla77 I forgot to put you on the chart last night for a late weigh in. I hope everything is ok. We usually hear from you by now.
    @hope002 Nice day!! Keep it going!
    @phoebe112476 Nice loss and awesome September!! I am sure you will hit or surpass your October goals. You are a whisper from the 150s now!
    @Barbb1557 We are lucky to have you in our group! I knew you would be a good fit with us! I am not sure what you should set either, maybe ask your doctor at the next visit? I think mine are set at the MFP suggestions. Awesome job at the grocery store! You are really starting to make this a lifestyle!
  • nstephenson01
    nstephenson01 Posts: 854 Member
    Successful day yesterday! Met all my goals! 💪

    Food: pre-logged, ate as planned. Stopped per IF schedule
    Water: great
    Exercise & steps: 90 minute yoga class, 1 hr dog walk; 10,184 steps
    Went to bed on time & slept great. Also made time to read during the day... another form of self care.

    Now to repeat today. Just taking one day at a time and not looking too far ahead. Waiting for my fast to end so I can have breakfast LOL

    Have a great day everyone!
  • Cafelelia
    Cafelelia Posts: 1,298 Member
    Monday check in

    Calories - logged & under
    Water - 1.8 l
    Exercise - 55 minutes circuit training

    I am late signing on today as my little guy is sick again, and I have it too. I managed to fit in exercise yesterday and today, so maybe I can sweat this bug out. My energy may get low by the end of the day, but I will be putting together a list of our challenges later today or tomorrow and will share.

    @sleepymom5 - Great day yesterday! I know your trip is soon and when is it? Do you have a plan or is it the type of trip where you can have a plan?

    @Barbb1557 - Thank you for being such a great part of the team! Great day yesterday! As for macros, it is so individual. Some weight loss theories say that higher healthier fats are ok, so say more protein, and then again, if you are working out hard, some say more carbs. I think you can just go by what works for you and experiment a bit if you are not sure.

    @phoebe112476 - Congratulations on the loss! Great September review and October goals! I so admire you being able to bust through a plateau. You are so close to a new weight decade, which is very exciting!

    @hope002 - Great day!! I downloaded the plank challenge, but am first working with my trainer to make sure I modify side planks properly for my injury.

    @KatAdele - Great day and hope that you enjoyed those pumpkin cookies!

    @lennoncpa - You can soak overnight oats in water, but they may be bland to eat. You could modify a recipe by using water, and adding in a tablespoon or two of almond milk, or something else like cocoa, or fruit to give it flavour. I make my overnight oats with an almond/cashew milk (unsweetened, plain), and add different things like fruit, Pb2, and even greek yogurt for more protein. It is a convenient breakfast because it is ready to eat.

    @nstephenson01 - The snow does look pretty! Has it disappeared yet? I live with three guys that like their meat too and I am a vegetarian! They will eat my vegetarian dishes, or I make a bunch of veggies sides, then they eat meat & I have something like veggie burger. My husband is a recent convert to Beyond Meat burgers, which grill in a very similar way to beef burgers. I like them too, but have half as they are quite big.

    @tryingagain5 - I am a fluctuator and completely relate to what you posted about gaining back and your thinking around it!

  • amsandos
    amsandos Posts: 273 Member
    monday daily check in
    food on plan but ate my daughters left overs
    water on plan
    exercise rest day
    sleep lots but interupted so tired today
    Made it through Monday without over eating despite feeling tired and groggy all day.

    but today arrrggghhh if I get through today with my plan still in tact I am making a weight loss crown and wearing it all evening! It is 16:50 and I am in the dying moments of a really *kitten* day at work. There is cake everywhere and people have waved it in my face. I am not eating it. It is *kitten* it down raining and I have to go for a training run later and idonwannnaaaahhh! Waaahhh waaaahh. I think I might need some deep breaths.
  • ljdanny
    ljdanny Posts: 2,131 Member
    Welcome new members.
    I'm Tracy, 47, from New Hampshire. I have 2 boys 25 and 22. Both are having little girls, one is coming any day now the other in February. I have been gaining and losing the same 5 pounds forever. This is a crappy week as I am not feeling well, I have a horrible cold, hoping it passes soon. I was doing really good last week with my workouts, this week not so much.

    My goals...
    Log my food 5/7 days
    Lose 5 pounds
    Exercise 5/7 days
    Drink plenty of water
    Watch my snacks
    Do better at checking in

    Just let my cold pass for the exercise because I'm so exhausted.
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