Non Scale Victories

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  • Jackie9003
    Jackie9003 Posts: 1,115 Member
    NovusDies wrote: »
    I feel like I have not had one in too long. I realize that is my fault for being perpetually distracted and less happy than normal and not looking for one like I should... wait...

    I went to a ball game last week and I sat in the bleachers for 3 hours. I had one of those padded deals with the backing but the padding was only about 1/2 inch thick. I wasn't totally comfortable and at the end I was wondering if I would make it but I did. 2 years ago I would not have made it more than 15 minutes nor would I have even fit inside the portable stadium seat thing.

    I also had to walk about half a mile to and from the field and climb the bleachers to get a seat all of which I did without feeling like it was any effort.

    Not huge but a decent accomplishment for me and it is helping me achieve my long term goal of being a better uncle.

    That's a great achievement, I love it when the realisation hits you that all the effort is worthwhile.
  • TwinThompson
    TwinThompson Posts: 80 Member
    I’ve always been a bit paranoid that my calls are too big/disproportionate and that they wouldn’t get any smaller.... put my knee high boots on and they were far too big around the calf!! I’m finally starting to see abs register results on myself!
  • Jackie9003
    Jackie9003 Posts: 1,115 Member
    I’ve always been a bit paranoid that my calls are too big/disproportionate and that they wouldn’t get any smaller.... put my knee high boots on and they were far too big around the calf!! I’m finally starting to see abs register results on myself!

    That's great, especially as winter is coming.
    I've never been able to fit into wellies for that reason, my standard is ankle boots and I've had problems with those and fat ankles!
  • dhiammarath
    dhiammarath Posts: 834 Member
    I’m excited for boot season too! My legs are the part I’ve always been self-conscious about. Last fall, I was able to wear my boots but they were super tight. This fall, they are are NOT and I’m so excited. I suspect that the last 15 will come mostly off my legs as it’s the first to gain and last to go. -.-

    But there’s hope! I have hope! Especially since I bought a new pair of fall boots just this weekend. I’m ready!!
  • dhiammarath
    dhiammarath Posts: 834 Member
    @NovusDies I'm glad you got some good news! Home stretch!
  • NovusDies
    NovusDies Posts: 8,940 Member
    @NovusDies I'm glad you got some good news! Home stretch!

    Well... it was at least "not terrible" news. lol.

    I was going to wait until later to get this knee checked but I realized since it was definitely on my road map I needed to know so I could plan for it.
  • Jackie9003
    Jackie9003 Posts: 1,115 Member
    It's strange how we find it hard to accept compliments, this is hard work a lot of the time so take it and be pleased with your progress. Well done :)
  • NovusDies
    NovusDies Posts: 8,940 Member
    hansep0012 wrote: »
    Ok, in the last two days I have received a compliment each day on my improved health (weight loss).

    Not generally being a person that receives positive comments I did not know how to react when each of my friends noticed that I'm looking better than I did a year ago. I post this in the NSV thread because it has been awhile since the scale has trended downwards but I've kept swimming, golfing, and walking and owning my lifestyle commitment.

    It was affirming to me to hear that I look healthier.

    P.S. I've settled on a reply when faced with a compliment, "Thank you!" is all that is needed.

    That is a good NSV even if it feels a bit awkward. Also it seems like you have a good strategy for all the future ones you are likely to get.

    I am okay with direct compliments like "you are looking better" or similar. I find comments about pride either felt by someone else (for some reason) or that I should be feeling to be odd. It actually just happened yesterday. My FiL told me he was proud of me for losing so much weight. I know people say that all the time but in literal terms it makes no sense to me. Last week I was also told I should be proud of myself. I don't spend a lot of energy on pride in the first place but secondly I am not done losing weight so why would I be proud of a job not yet finished? I am not saying that other people should not be proud of every pound they lose but I am not wired that way. I have had 4 people take time to try and convince me I should be proud. Why is this important to them? I am happy with the progress I have made, can't that be enough? Again, I am not passing judgment on how others should feel but I do not want to get ahead of myself. I just want to do me without being lectured. Sorry for the rant.
  • Learn to love yourself and live in the present. Don’t put off what you can do today until tomorrow.
    Learn to love the process of becoming a healthier you. It’s ok to accept complements and take pride in your progress and your commitment to yourself.

    Be sure to ask yourself powerful questions and review your answers regularly. Why do I want to lose my excess weight? What will be different when I lose all my excess weight? What will be the same?
  • So thankful for your post. You inspire me and i’m sure many others.
  • Jackie9003
    Jackie9003 Posts: 1,115 Member
    Wow @wannabeskinnycat that's brilliant!
  • kosseychick
    kosseychick Posts: 244 Member
    @wannabeskinnycat ..wow thanks for sharing your story! Very inspiring!😊
  • merph518
    merph518 Posts: 702 Member
    Labor Day weekend I hit up a sale at Peter Harris and bought a bunch of 2xl shirts to "grow into" (shrink into?). The first of them fit this morning :)
  • @merph518 I have a few X’s to go, but I am excited for you.
  • merph518
    merph518 Posts: 702 Member
    @Satisfiedwithbetter Thanks. I started out at 4xl, in some of the looser-fitting range of that size, threatening to need a 5xl. Dropped 2 shirt sizes now, fitting into looser 2xl shirts and 4 sizes of pants so far.
  • I’ve gone from 6xl to 5xl and loose 4xl, plus 6”s in the waist.
  • conniewilkins56
    conniewilkins56 Posts: 3,391 Member
    I haven’t lost any sizes because I had every piece of clothing I owned stretched to the max!....at least now my clothes are looser and seams aren’t popping!
  • merph518
    merph518 Posts: 702 Member
    You will in time, Connie! :)
  • wannabeskinnycat
    wannabeskinnycat Posts: 205 Member
    thanks @kosseychick

    These victories are brilliant :smiley:
  • ConfidentRaven
    ConfidentRaven Posts: 1,428 Member
    My nsv this past week, I was able to buy pants at Walmart, that fit, and aren't too tight, that are 2xl. I used to be in (nearly bursting) 3xls, I probably should have been in 4xls, but I'm stubborn like that.
  • Jackie9003
    Jackie9003 Posts: 1,115 Member
    Some great results here, well done everyone.
    I had a clothes related one this week too, I bought a new jacket from the high street rather than a plus size store.
    I'm currently wearing, mostly, a UK size 20, down from a 24/26.