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Is it wrong?
For the most part I'm actually happier being single. I mean there are times I miss having a someone but seem to be getting more annoyed by men lately then excited by the prospect. I'm running a lot more ... I'm back into my fitness like I was before my ex ... my dedication and motivation is back ... I don't want someone…
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shhhh it's so quiet in here but it is Friday!
We haven't done one in awhile so what is everyone doing this weekend? Tonight I have a christmas party to go to and I have no shoes that will fit with my brace so I have to go shopping first Tomorrow I have hair appointment and the Zombie Christmas. I ended up getting…
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Online dating assistant
This is a brilliant idea! :laugh: http://www.thefrisky.com/2013-12-04/help-wanted-online-dating-assistant-for-busy-ambivalent-single-professional/#more-3281148
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One way your SO shows s/he truly cares for you
Article from my friend's website. He is writing about men, but I'm sure this is true of women too.
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Brits having considerably less sex...
According to a recent study, down 20% over the past decade. Average 3x per month for the general population. Interesting discussion here that perhaps porn is to blame: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NbKRqQGjadk With easy access to porn, people (men?) are unwilling to put in the effort to develop a loving relationship.…
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November Funnies
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Quirky!
So, who considers them-self quirky? Or has been accused of being quirky? I was called quirky recently, and I didnt realise I was!! I just thought I had a fun/big personality, but it turns out that singing hello to someone is 'quirky'.......who knew? :laugh: So, therefore, isn't 'everyone' quirky in some way? I mean, none…
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Head first. Heart second. Glands last. (Find the Woman of Yo
Interesting article on the dating process. I was NOT a fan of eHarmony, but I think the advice is still good: http://www.forbes.com/sites/billfrezza/2011/05/31/how-to-find-the-woman-of-your-dreams-in-six-weeks/ The author is not religious and did not want a religious girl, but I especially liked this quote: Another excerpt…
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FRIDAY!
So yeah, normally it's just work and the gym for me since I work weekends but not this weekend. I am taking it off to meet up with some friends over in Seattle to go see the Doctor Who 50th special at a movie theater. I may hit up the EMP museum and visit a friend while I'm in the area. What's everyone else's plans?
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Military Men aren't ALL Jerks, lol
I was really surprised when I deployed with the marines and army guys that many of them were much more "family men" than I'm used to in my air force travels. This current assignment is another joint assignment (all forces) and I'm surrounded again by men who care about their families, who take time out to I don't know if…
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It's Friday, Friday, Friday!
So what's everyone got on the go? For myself, I am heading out to see my friends band play tonight with the new guy I am seeing ... first time he is meeting my friends. Tomorrow is race kit pickup, a walk, and generally taking it easy. Sunday is my last race of the year ... a 7k! After the race, my friends band is having a…
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Friday
So what is everyone up to this weekend? I am pretty much going with the flow this weekend. Might go to a movie, might go to a party or might just stay home tonight. Tomorrow have a walk for diebities and then nothing really planned and sunday planning on going hiking.
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Cat fishing and monetary damages...
My mom and I are watching Dr. Phil. The lady on the show has been catfished and paid her catfish over 100,000 that he claimed he needed (not sure for what). Now the argument we are having. My mom thinks that the catfish should pay the woman back the money he stole since he "scammed" her. I say that the lady wasn't coerced…
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The Cinderella Conundrum Explained
Well, my ex-wife decided to move away (long story), leaving me alone with our two kids (11 and 12). In a way it's a good thing, less drama. We had joint custody, but now it's just me. This was over a month ago. Fortunately, I have two great kids. Sure, it's a ton of work as any parent knows, but so far no major issues.…
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#LookADouche
Motivational Speaker Tells High School Kids 'Dateable Girls Shut Up' http://gawker.com/motivational-speaker-tells-high-school-kids-dateable-g-1464304493
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What's your holiday-season antidote?
I was looking to shake things up a bit so I'm starting Insanity today (whoo-hoo). I'm excited because the program is two months and it will carry me right through the holiday season. My hope is that taking on this extra challenge will keep me from packing on holiday pounds. So... what is everyone else doing to prevent…
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dating is like being a secretary
:laugh: http://www.cnn.com/video/data/2.0/video/showbiz/2013/11/07/conan-aziz-ansari-texting-dating.team-coco.html
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Oh, that internet machine
I seem to recall the story about the Chinese man successfully suing his wife for actually being ugly being discussed in here. Apparently the story is not true... http://online.thatsmags.com/post/no-a-chinese-man-did-not-successfully-sue-his-wife-for-having-ugly-children
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When you make poor eating choices
When you make poor choices, or indulge, when does it show for you on the scale. I always just assumed it would show pretty much right away--within 12 hours anyway? But, over the past week, I had two people say that (for them) it doesn't show until a couple of days later, so if they indulge in something on Sat. night, scale…
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HALLOWEEN!!!!!!!
Ok so its just about that time ghouls and ghosties. The halloween parties start this weekend. So what are you gonna be for halloween and what are your plans ...... MY costume http://www.purecostumes.com/halloween-costumes/G8946/naughty-little-red-adult-costume.html.. though I'm going with fishnets rather then thigh highs.…
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October Funnies
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HTOTD: How to handle crush on coworkers or subordinates
I'm at a contract facility today and a convo I overheard spurred this question: what do you do when you have a crush on a coworker? Do you ignore it? Find excuses to be around them? Keep it at work? Try to ask them out outside of work? How does the answer change if your crush works FOR you? I know a couple folks who flirt…
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So what's the difference? (Single vs Divorced)
I was out today with some singles from church. One said people shouldn't call themselves single if they are divorced- they should call themselves divorced because technically they're not single. I did not ask for explanation because I had to tend to my son and the convo had moved on before I had a chance to. I'm curious:…
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Divorced? Change your name back - Why or why not?
For the ladies who changed their name after marriage (or would if they got married): Did you change your name back after divorce? Why or why not? If you've gone through divorce (and I hope you never will) do you think you would change your name? For the men: If you meet a lady, would you care? Why or why not? My personal…
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Interesting video
http://www.nytimes.com/video/us/100000002507537/scalded-by-coffee-then-news-media.html?WT.mc_id=VI-D-I-NYT-MOD-MOD-M328D-ROS-1013-HDR&WT.mc_ev=click&WT.mc_c=228248 This is nothing related to being single. The NY Times did a piece about the story of the lady who sued McDonalds and won millions when she spilled hot coffee…
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Black Women Interracial Dating (Warning: Could be Offensive)
Did a blog post today that stirred up some controversy. I posted one of the PM responses, but I think the rest will have to go unpublished. What do you think? You can look at the blog and responses here: http://www.myfitnesspal.com/blog/JanieJack/view/is-the-black-church-keeping-black-women-single-583142
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Won't Put Up With Any Bull?
I was talking to a friend who just entered a relationship and, when I congratulated her, told me she wished she was as smart as I was, that she'd probably have found a man long ago. I told her (without thinking about it) the being smart isn't a good thing when it comes to men, that I got a lot of dates and while I expected…
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The Friday topic
So it is Friday. What does everyone have going on this weekend? Tonight is gym and cleaning Tomorrow we are going to a apple cider place where they have hard cider tastings and then have a house warming party to go to that night. There is also a couple other events I might go to one my friends band is playing and it is his…
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She Doesn't Want To Be Exclusive- what do you think?
One of the sites I'm always talking about... http://argville.com/ had this post. What do you guys think about her situation and Victor's advice?
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I did it! Told my friend I had feelings for him.
I know a few of you are familiar with my situation. Crush turned friend turned unrequited love turned almost FWB. He was SO confusing for me because we did things I only reserve for boyfriends. We spent all of our time together. He did things for me, and cared for me. Emails and texts every day. The last 2 months we have…
