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Orange, however I do like grapefruit, and pineapple too.. ..

Honored. Giggity..

Concur. just because he's dated "A LOT" doesn't mean he he's a serial dater, he could have just failed to make a deeply meaningful connection.

Someone who takes care of herself, someone sweet, fun, and into me. Everything else is negotiable

I concur: Every one always says " I want a partner in crime" or "I want a best friend". I concur, I think its easier then saying I want someone who is unpredictable and could care less about me.

Can a girl get out of the friend zone with me, yes. Can I get out of the friend zone w a gal, I hope so. As I've been losing weight I look at it like the more weight I lose the more I go from hearing "no chance in hell" to "what are you doing tonight." I guess it ultimately comes down to attaction and chemistry. While…

Can a girl get out of the friend zone with me, yes. Can I get out of the friend zone w a gal, I hope so. As I've been losing weight I look at it like the more weight I lose the more I go from hearing "no chance in hell" to "what are you doing tonight." I guess it ultimately comes down to attaction and chemistry. While…

my standard haven't really changed but more weight I lose the more I feel like I go from "not a chance in hell" to "what are you doing Friday night?" In someones mind.

I keep attracting gals that should on Jerry Springer.

i've lost an average 2 year old

Some people do and some people don't, it all depends on the people. I don't condone it, i've had it done to me before and it..... well lets just say those women ( yes plural, cheating gf's are a nice military perk) were unworthy of my love. If you don't love the person anymore then end the relationship, plain and simple.…

I know you want to crawl into a handle of scotch, I know you're feeling lost, empty, and like like the happiness you see around you isn't meant for your life. I know you have no path. But remember all that you are, all that you have accomplished, and that chance favors the prepared, not the fat. You will have chances, but…

It was a combination of things: My Dr telling my i had a "fatty liver" and it was causing me to show symptoms of hepatitis, the realization that i was fat and how far i'd fallen, the knowledge that i was capable of something more, and someone who actually made me want to be a better me re-entering my life.

Well, you can stick to the pain, and let it consume you or you can take a deep breath, swallow hard, and move on.

You know... the fat *kitten*

Well said...

When I'm back to having women eye me up as a piece meat, not look in disgust at me as a tub of lard.

Don't over-analyze. consider it compliment. Your buddy see's you, knows your goal, knows your working hard at it, and was honest in visualizing the new you. Hot = win

Not that i've ever seen.... but i still hope.

Wow, you look nothing like your picture I know i used a picture of one of my friends Why ? I don't think I'm photogenic Well maybe you should start working out, it'll help build your confidence No i'm too busy working overtime at Royal Farms. So you're not a teacher? No I got fired for slapping one of those brats. Check…

At a diner, pick up a packet of Sugar and say "excuse me Ms, you dropped your name tag."

Concur...

Look into a mirror. Visualize the skinnier healthier you. Then close your eyes and see yourself on a beach at the end of the summer, the waves crashing, the gulls sqwalking, and you playing with your son. Building sand castles and running on the beach. See how good you feel, see how happy you are.. Now get to work; and…

Hey, we're going streaking!!!! Com'on Everybody!! Frank the tank - Old School

Mike Tyson said it best "everyone has a plan till they get punched on the mouth". After that only experience will help, Size helps some but knowing how to use it matters a lot more than just having a bigger build.

I have before. It actually turned out pretty well and we dated for about 9 months. My lifestyle turned out to be a problem tho (military deployments are tough for gf's)

Haven't we all.

From high school wrestling when people were trying to make weight: Sweat suit pants, trashbag over your topwith 2 shirts underneath, thick hoodie over that. Then start doing cardio. you'd be amazed how much weight you can drop in an hour. NO hard running, no need for a ridiculous pace, just keep your heart rate up. My best…

Ring finger tan, or social media hunting. if he has a FB you can check or see if you have any mutual friends that may know or have pics on their profile.

For me it all depends on the woman and body proportion/build. No woman looks good as a bag of bones, and most women look phenomenal with a little meat on their bones (whether they believe you when you tell them they look great is a different story). You don't need a perfect 6 pack, to look great, but a little…