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Hey everyone! :flowerforyou: Sorry to depress you all with this again!:embarassed: :ohwell: Just a quickie update and an apology!!!! Soooo sorry not to have updated sooner but things are a bit raw, you know?? The kind of raw that has you curling up in bed every night in agony! Have bitten the bullet and split up with the…

Thanks guys. :cry: :brokenheart: :cry: Again!lol :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: K. Big sigh and ....start typing....:sad: He and I sat down last night to have a good talk about everything that has been going on and after a good 2 hours of this, he ended up really losing his rag and was 2 inches from my face screaming and…

Oh and Manda?? Perfect advice! Perfect man!!! Got his number???:laugh: :flowerforyou:

Well hi folks! Felt an update was needed. I apologise cos it's going to be a long one! A huge, huge heartfelt thank you to all of you who replied to this thread since my last post (Memaw, breanix, awd, mommared and all of the rest.) You are all fantastic and your responses all made me cry. A lot! :heart: :cry: Where was…

Thanks for the sympathy Chilli. I'm just glad I've got my kids and the perspective to know that life does go on. So.... a list of Pro points for the single life please everyone!! :flowerforyou:

Hi Guys.:brokenheart: Yep, seems I'm to be single again.... Major shoulder to lean on moment here.... Darren walked out on me. Middle of the night, not a word just a ridiculous note and an email which was just as ridiculous. I suppose the only way to look at it is irreconcilable differences. From being blissful with the…

Ahhh, that would be my.... BED! Bless it for being there for me night after night!lol xx

I know but it was the thought of cookies on my computer and all i could think was spam:laugh:

Well, obviously we would all be doing it all the time and saving thousands of pounds of NHS money in the process!!:laugh:

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Hi guys.:love: Major update time again! Now that I have had my computer properly fixed after it keeps dying on me!! grrr. :laugh: Darren has officially moved in, :smooched: all that is left is the money stuff to sort out. :grumble: I hate that it is so complicated to merge two lives and their baggage. His daughter is…

:flowerforyou: Sorry for not replying sooner :mad: computer died on me!! Thanks everyone for GREAT suggestions. I have been so frustrated in trying to get back into the way it used to be for me swimming, as a teenager and younger and perhaps I have been unreasable in trying to attain the same state now. In trying to lose…

I've been a swimmer since birth practically and used to swim competitively at school but since having my kids I've let it all slide:blushing: , but now that they are all at school and I need to lose this weight I've been going again more regularly but I've noticed that my technique has REALLY slipped in the intervening…

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Well hang on to your hats folks!!! :laugh: I think it's time for an update here! Where to begin?? He's been staying the night since last friday (I know I know, it may seem a bit quick but when you know you know ,right???) and OMG I had forgotten what it was like to be in bed with someone! :embarassed: :love: :smooched:…

Guys you've got me all choked up.This site has the best people on it in the world! I guess the big point to all of this is to remember that 'What goes around comes around!' it may take a while but just hang in there everyone! All of YOU are fantastic! :flowerforyou: Coralie.xx

Thank you Momma and I will definately keep you all informed! :flowerforyou:

Indigo, thank you so much for posting on this thread. It's been a rough old lead up to this point but just you see that you don't give up hoping eh? If someone like me can find their other half then you certainly wont have any problems at all. Just keep your eyes and your mind wide open. And remember that there is nothing…

Hi guys!:heart: Yes more computer probs or I would have given the update days ago! Jerkface is a thing of the dim and distant past momma! But he did serve one very useful purpose.... I was more than able to recognise Darren for the gem that he is thanks to all the crap I put up with from old jerkface himself!! I spent a…

Hi folks How are ya?/ WOW! I have been having al sorts of problems with my computer, hence no posting!:sad: :sad: :sad: BUt!! You guys will not believe it! Seriously! And huge thanks for all your supoport last time... I think you can tell where this is going....!lol I have met someone! And this time I think perhaps the…

This is the first place I found it for the USA. Over here in the UK it is about £10 for a large bottle. All my friends swear by it! http://www.drugdispensary.com/products/detail.asp?sku=2198029&bhcp=1

Tried Bio-Oil? Great for scars too.

Thinking of you.:heart:

Thank you so much! But sadly confidence is in short supply at the moment! What I really need to do is kick myself in the butt and just ask this guy why he doesn't want to divorce his wife! Hopefully then I can get on with things again! :heart:

Thanks! Have just ordered a copy! I hope it helps. Something has to. :laugh:

Thank you for your honesty Bamboo. :flowerforyou:

Thank you Cheryl, I like the sound of your text. I might do that! Or email him. And Verna, thank you for all your support all the way through! I just keep thinking that maybe he will turn out to be an ok guy at the end of this. Deluded huh? :laugh: The whole 'new man' feeling is addictive though isn't it? When your mobile…

Chin up, eh? Your kids are soooo lucky to have you. Never forget that!!! :heart:

Hi everyone! :flowerforyou: Sorry to be so long in replying, but it's all a little busy in my house just now! Firstly I'd like to say a big THANKS to all the comments! :heart: I'm hearing you all loud and clear. I too see the red flags and hear the warning bells going off in my head. When I stop making excuses that is!!…

Hi. Thanks, I'm guessing it's the money thing. With complicated divorce etc and not wanting her to get any of his money. And who could blame him? I had none of these problems with my divorce as we had no property or money to split. I admit that some things bother me a little, like not knowing his last name or the name of…