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Currently I am eating 800-1000 calories a day. I'm doing this to fit into a certain dress by a certain time. I know my body can't sustain this indefinately. I am trying to eat a lot of protein and fiber. Once the event is over I will eat 1000-1200 calories. I expect to gain weight back but lose it in the long run. I do not…

One night stand

My issue is I don't want to think about my weight everyday for the rest of my life. I want it to become automatic. When I did it before it was for a year and it worked but again how long????

Right where I am!!!

Yesterday was my husbands birthday. After a day of everything going wrong - I tried to make the day nice for him by buying a nice dessert and presents - both of which he did not like and verbal said so. W/o thanking me for the effort. Instead of picking a fight - I went to bed.

NO!

I'm on here to keep me aware of what I'm eating. NOT To lose weight.

looney tunes. That's All Folks!:glasses:

:blushing: :smile: After 46 years ofcontinous singlehood, I friended my pledge brother from college. We hadn't seen each other in 27 years. 20 months after our "1st" date we got married in April. 1st marriage for both of us.

I'm losing weight v ery slowly - because I have a disability and can not excercise strenuously. So caloric numbers are ok but I'm not burning it off. I;ve lost 12lbs but need to lose 7 more and I can't. Some days I want to chuck it all - but that would not be productive. I can't do too much more than what I'm doing know -…

Well I met my husband @ 19. We were attracted to one another but nothing happened. Fast forward 22 years later we met. It took us a year to get engaged. But that was because of our families. If it was up to us we would have gotten engaged after one month.

I just got married i n April. Didn't ask for either although with debt we really wanted money. However we thought is rather crass to ask. We got some lovely gifts that we never would have thought of.

For me it wan't about "settling" I have a disability andcan not work out the way I once did - so I needed to redo everythin g from eating to excercise to find what would work for me w/o ending up shaking. As a result I gainned all my weight back. I "settled" while I tried to find what works for me. I'm still experimenting…

Bogart it was either that or Brando. (I like movies and "tough" men) LOL

Does your dress not fit or is it not what you envision? If you eat 1000-1200 a day you will lose. That is what I eat and then with exercise it becomes less. I'm not trying to lose weight at this point just stay the same. You need to be realistic about your goals and what your body will handle. If you have gainned a…

Same as you

I'm not Money going to the honeymoon and debt. Fitting into old clothes I never threw away

Always looking for new buddies

I agree with Alex that this should be posted in fitness. That being said. - a pound is a pound. Muscle doesn't weigh more than fat it just settles in the body differently - in a good way. Working out is healthy and if done in moderation will speed up you weight loss. You will be expanding energy and burning calories while…

Years and that is all I say.........

'(heavy breath) Uh Continue etc. 'I'll have what she's having" Resturant scene from "When Harry Met Sally"

Thank you:drinker:

Always looking for support from each other

Another option is to not break up with your trainer but change your whole fitness regimine with them. Sometimes your body needs to work muscle differently to break a plateau. This might not be your case - but it something to think about.

Bad To The Bone

I'm 47. and lost lcost to 20 lbs here. Exercise for me isn't what it used to be.

I am slo looking for motatvators. I lost some weight would like to lose more - but exercise is curtailed by physical limitations.:glasses:

Sorry for the comment. I used to work with anerxorics (I;m not saying u r!!) and since I don't actual see you I don't know. Sorry if I upset or offended you. It is quite an achievement to lose the weightyou have!!!

First of all stare at the top of their head. They think you are looking at them but you are not. Focus on the words remember they are words That's all. If the words are relevant use it as constructive criticism - if not roll your eyes around (in your head!) and remeber this too shall pass