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NovusDies
NovusDies Posts: 8,940 Member
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  • NovusDies
    NovusDies Posts: 8,940 Member
    It is what you learn after you know it all that counts

    I am guilty of saying this often in the MFP forums. It goes well beyond weight loss but it basically means that you should never just assume you have all the answers. Always be open to growth. For weight loss I think it really means you should never stubbornly adhere to a plan. If it needs adapting or if it needs thrown out the window it is not a failure it just means you go a different route for a time. As Larger Losers we may experience this more because weight loss can have an impact on various hormone levels over time in a larger deficit. As hormone level are impacted there can be greater or lesser control over our appetites.
  • NovusDies
    NovusDies Posts: 8,940 Member
    You don't have to love what you do to lose weight but you can't hate it.

    This is one of mine. At least I think it is. It is hard to know what are truly original thoughts.

    Probably self-explanatory but I do not believe that being miserable is sustainable. There are many ways to achieve a calorie deficit and there are many ways to exercise so making smart choices for ourselves is critical. I also like to say we want to push ourselves not shove ourselves.
  • NovusDies
    NovusDies Posts: 8,940 Member
    Comparison is the thief of joy

    The first obvious meaning is not to compare yourself to other people. Be happy with where you are and what you are accomplishing. There are lots of things some of you are doing that I would like to be doing right now too and it is okay to use those as motivation but I shouldn't get so fixated on what I can't do as this exact moment that it overshadows what I have done for myself in the last 18 months.

    When it comes to weight loss I think this also applies to comparing yourself to a past version of yourself. I can remember being at the weight I am now a long time ago and I could do so many more things. Dwelling on that does me no good either.

    I doubt any of us could practice this perfectly so I use it as something to tell myself when I feel myself getting lost in it for a moment.
  • kosseychick
    kosseychick Posts: 244 Member
    Your mindset is everything..
  • NovusDies
    NovusDies Posts: 8,940 Member
    Don't major in the minors

    This basically means that you should not get fixated on the stuff that has minimal impact. A good example of this is the Thermic Effect of Food (TEF). TEF measures the amount of energy it takes for the body to consume calories from specific sources and that is typically macros. Yes, if you could eat an all protein diet you will probably lose at a rate just slightly faster than 3500 calories per pound but it would also kill you. Your body needs fat.

    It is best to consider things like that as no more than an intellectual pursuit not a directly applicable one. Sustainability is, imo, always majoring in the majors.

  • NovusDies
    NovusDies Posts: 8,940 Member
    The only way past is through

    I love this saying. I find myself saying this to myself when I don't really look forward to a task that I need to do to achieve a desired result. I just need to roll up my sleeves, cop the best attitude I can about it, and get it done.
  • kosseychick
    kosseychick Posts: 244 Member
    @NovusDies .. with your determination an strength ( that I see daily on this forum) you got this!👍
  • real_change
    real_change Posts: 52 Member
    NovusDies wrote: »
    The only way past is through

    I love this saying. I find myself saying this to myself when I don't really look forward to a task that I need to do to achieve a desired result. I just need to roll up my sleeves, cop the best attitude I can about it, and get it done.

    I love that quote too but I know it a little differently, not that I think it changes the meaning. “The only way on is through.” That quotes has gotten me through some very difficult times.
  • NovusDies
    NovusDies Posts: 8,940 Member
    NovusDies wrote: »
    The only way past is through

    I love this saying. I find myself saying this to myself when I don't really look forward to a task that I need to do to achieve a desired result. I just need to roll up my sleeves, cop the best attitude I can about it, and get it done.

    I love that quote too but I know it a little differently, not that I think it changes the meaning. “The only way on is through.” That quotes has gotten me through some very difficult times.

    I like your variation. It has a bigger scope to it. "On", to me, means "On with your life." The one I know, to me, is looking at a temporary obstacle. Sometimes it is just about the boulder in the road and sometimes it about the road beyond.
  • merph518
    merph518 Posts: 702 Member
    "I've done it before, I can do it again."

    I don't really deal much in quotes and such, but this is something I tell myself pretty often. It's likely not as helpful to others as it is to me, but this time around I don't feel like the changes I'm making are impossible. If I lost 100 lbs 9 years ago, I can do it now.

    The challenge is to not repeat the mistakes I made in the past.
  • real_change
    real_change Posts: 52 Member
    NovusDies wrote: »
    Time is going to keep passing so you might as well lose a little weight while it does.

    This is just a reminder that rage quitting makes no real sense because no matter what we do time will continue to move forward. In the past I would get mad at my lack of quick or consistent results and throw in the towel. Of course that just led me back to gaining weight. It was a blind spot that took me way too long to uncover. Instead of trying to strangle time for results I need to just allow it to happen on the easiest path forward I can find.

    So true. I’ve done this too many times to count. I’m so much happier this time around being focused on slow weight loss. It really takes the sting out of the scale (every .10 loss is a victory and every .3 uptick gets shrugged off as long as I’m trending down) and I’m enjoying myself so much more.

    I also have enough to unlearn without feeling frantically hungry all the time. I have some big habits to break. Accepting slow weight loss is way less stressful than learning to quit secret stress binging. I feel like I now have the mental and emotional bandwidth to take that on since I know now that I can have “hungry days” and eat up to maintenance calories. Those days often felt overwhelming in the old days of rapid weight loss. It’s incredibly freeing.