Non Scale Victories
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I had updated my face picture on FB, about 3 weeks ago as my new photo. And for whatever reason. Even though I have been on FB since I never went and looked at comments or anything relating to that picture. So today I got brave and did so.
And friends and family who know me, as in face to face but have not seen me for quite some time were like oh wow, you have lost tons of weight your face is so much thinner. All those nice comments really surprised me to be honest. And yes made my day.5 -
A lady in church on Sunday sidled up to me and asked in a low voice if I had been losing weight. I told her yes, I was trying, but figured it only was noticeable because I happened to be wearing a body shaper underneath my clothes to hold in my muffin top and smooth out my back, so I figured that had just made me look slimmer, as while I've lost 30 lbs since summer, I wasn't seeing any difference in my looks.
But when I mentioned the conversation to my mother, she said that yes, it was noticeable - which is amazing coming from my mother as she doesn't usually want to discuss weight loss one way or the other. I'm not used to getting positive feedback from her!
Course, I still can't see a difference in the mirror myself....2 -
@bmeadows380 Try comparing pictures between then and now. I find it much easier to see a difference in a photo comparison than by looking in the mirror, even now. It's so easy to get used to the new normal.1
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@merph518 I don't have many pictures to compare to! lol I do have one from my highest weight and I can definitely see the difference from then, but even when looking at the pictures I took at Christmas, I don't see much of a difference myself from the summer to then. Ah well - its just the way I see myself, I suppose!0
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I kind of had a pleasant shocker of one earlier today. I have been doing lots of sorting, and today it was jewelry. Next week, we are having quite a few windows replaced. So all furniture must be moved a certain distance away from windows.
So while doing this, I also have been sorting, keep, donate, take for gold and or silver value.
I came across my original Wedding Band that is almost 36 years old, and I have not been able to wear for 27.5 years because it was way too tight. And about had to be cut off me, while I was pregnant. So I found it today, and for fun, I took off the old plain gold band, and anniversary band. To just see how tight it was. Hooray it slipped right on, no issue. Even better now I can wear it first out, to act as a ring type guard as the others have become so lose. This has so totally made my day, and to be honest was like a rainbow and pot of gold to me.6 -
Down another jeans size this morning... size 42 fits now, starting from size 58. I'm having trouble wrapping my head around this to be honest, I'm only two sizes up from my adult low weight back in 2010.6
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@merph518 that's always a great feeling, isn't it? And I understand completely about not being able to wrap your mind around the achievement, especially when you think back to when you last got into that size!0
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Definitely. It was a surprise for sure this morning. I noticed my jeans were feeling a bit baggy so I tried on the next size down on a whim.2
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My jeans were loose this morning, too!....I hate saggy butt jeans lol1
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I wasn't exactly sure where to put this, so figured this thread would work:
The water weight is FINALLY going down!2 -
I hold a lot of my weight in my lower abdomen, so far I've lost everywhere else except there. This morning I was sitting down and there is a definite depression in the middle of my pooch. I know it's nothing concrete but I can't stop touching it. lol.4
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I just said in another thread that I had wanted to be below 260 lbs by my birthday (and that could mean even being at 259, as long as it was under 260), but didn't think I was going to make it. Then I step on the scale this morning, and instead of an increase as I was expecting since TOM should be here in under 24 hours from the signs I'm getting from my body, instead of that increase, I had a decrease from yesterday to 259.3 lbs!
I know that's a daily, all time low reading, and it will pop back up from there, and since I'm using the HappyScale trend now for recorded weight instead of Thursdays actual weight, it still might not be under 260 on Thursday when I record, but at least I know I'm going in the right direction, especially since I've been having a time with unwanted temporary weight the last few weeks-you guys have had the patience of saints putting up with my whining3 -
Congratulations!...hold your head up high because you are amazing!0
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Yay!!0
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Kind of a weird one to describe. My computer area is set up at a recliner, and I use a lapdesk for my keyboard/mouse. For as long as I've used this setup (since we moved here Nov 2017), I've had to use a u-shaped "Boppy" pillow under my lapdesk because I didn't have enough of a lap for the desk.
As of the last week or so, my stomach has receded to the point where I don't need that pillow anymore.5 -
I have 2 today as I've not had any in ages!
I went on my 2nd cycle ride of the week and also in 4yrs since I got the bike.
BUT, my stomach has reduced so much now that it doesn't overhang or stick out, therefore as I peddle my thighs don't nudge it up and down and everything stays in the same place (if you get what I'm trying to say).
This is a really big confidence boost for me5 -
As of yesterday I am technically no longer obese. I know this is somewhat scale related but I am losing the obese label that I have had for most of my life.
I am not sure if the end comes with losing the 'overweight' label or not. I will see when I get closer.
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congrats to merph518, Jackie9003, and NovusDies ! Those are great victories!
@merph518 My cat appreciates that I now have a lap he can lay on lol
@Jackie9003 That reminds me of when I finally was able to fit into a booth with a little room between me and the table, or my car and have room between me and the steering wheel.
@NovusDies My ultimate goal for this year is to get to the stage 1 obese category; I just left stage 3. I have 63 lbs to go before the overweight category. My big dream is to make it solidly back below 200 lbs, so I do want to go at least middle range overweight. I don't know if I have the fortitude to tough it out to normal range, even the uper end.2 -
bmeadows380 wrote: »congrats to merph518, Jackie9003, and NovusDies ! Those are great victories!
@merph518 My cat appreciates that I now have a lap he can lay on lol
@Jackie9003 That reminds me of when I finally was able to fit into a booth with a little room between me and the table, or my car and have room between me and the steering wheel.
@NovusDies My ultimate goal for this year is to get to the stage 1 obese category; I just left stage 3. I have 63 lbs to go before the overweight category. My big dream is to make it solidly back below 200 lbs, so I do want to go at least middle range overweight. I don't know if I have the fortitude to tough it out to normal range, even the uper end.
My advice is not to worry about the end. I am getting closer and I am still not worried about it. There is no reason why I have to decide what my future self must do. Let him evaluate what is happening then and decide.0 -
yeah, I think about what end goal might be, but its so far away, that its more speculation than anything else. I just focus on the closer milestones, like getting down to 250, then 240, etc.1