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I think it all depends....I get flirted with on here often, and I do friendly flirting back. I am married, and most people would think that's not okay, but I tell my husband everything, and I don't say anything I wouldn't want him to know. Harmless flirting is a good self esteem boost, especially when most of us on here…

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I personally have had the opportunity to cheat many times, but my marriage is based on love, not sex, therefore I prefer the love over the sex. If that makes any sense. I can control physical feelings towards someone else, as my love for my husband is so strong. Not everyone can, though, and I get that. I know that…

With me, when my husband and I first met (I was about 3 months shy of 18, and 135 pounds) he couldn't keep his hands off me. But now, things are different. Of course, we are both almost 23, have a 6 month old baby, and are taking care of my mother and my sister, so there isn't a lot of time or privacy, but I did notice…

I know, right? I thought it would have been deleted by now...got pretty heated for a while there. Oh well, everyone has their own opinions, and I respect each and every one of them, even if I don't necessarily agree with them all.

My thoughts exactly. :)

Totally non-judgmental, as I am always under my calorie goal. Would love to be your friend! :)

Thanks, but this really isn't about me. My husband has sleep problems and is always tired, so that's why there's little to no sex. Or at least I'm hoping that's the only reason lol. I have talked to him about the porn, because I caught him watching it, after he had told me when we first got together he would give it up for…

That wasn't really even where I was going with this, just happened to come up. I feel if a man is truly happy with his wife/girlfriend, he shouldn't WANT anyone else. But that's just my personal opinion. I am in no way judging anyone who feels differently...

I wanted the thread deleted because I was irritated with how it ended up being all about me, when that was not the reason for starting it. For anyone who I may have offended, I'm sorry, wasn't my intention at all. I was just looking for other people's views on appearances vs. love I guess....

It's not that I can't keep up with him, it's the other way around. When he is solely watching porn and wanting nothing to do with me, that hurts.

Lol nice subject change! And now that you say that, I want one too! :)

No. Just drop it. Didn't mean to offend anyone. That was not the purpose of this thread.

I said I assumed since men weren't posting, that the answer was yes. DID NOT say men on this site were shallow cheaters. Someone earlier on in my other thread said that men who didn't post probably were. And I'm not crying.

NOT AT ALL. I have said numerous times on here and the other thread that I am not in any way interested in cheating on my husband. Never have, never will.

Not here to win friends. And sorry if that's how you took that. I did not mean to say that most men on here were cheaters.

Did I pass? LOL

I don't plan on starting another thread. I think I got all the answers I wanted. Some people don't need to be so fricken mean about it though. I wouldn't go on someone else's thread and give them hell for asking a question.

I'm just curious. The reason behind it doesn't matter. How do I delete threads?

No, not at all. What the hell? This thread is not an excuse for people to attack me.

I am asking other people's opinions. Again, this has nothing to do with me. My insecurity is not what made me post these threads, my curiosity is. If you have a problem with it, just don't comment....

That's incredibly judgmental. To each his own. If someone else is fine with their husband watching porn instead of having sex with them, fine. That's you. I personally have low self esteem, and was raised going to Church, so yeah. I think it's wrong for MY husband to watch porn instead of want me. Doesn't mean if you did…

I never said I know more about love than anybody else. I just know if my husband left me because of my size, I'd be pretty freaken hurt. If you want your SO to lose weight for health reasons, of course that's fine. I just think that if you want them to lose weight just because you think they aren't attractive anymore, then…

This thread had nothing to do with me. I know my husband isn't cheating. I talk to him about everything. I am insecure about my body and everything, but I know he couldn't cheat on me, even if he wanted to. I do know however, that my weight gain has affected our sex life by quite a bit, but he still loves me for me. (God…

Whoa guys! Haha don't get all defensive. Was just putting that out there. If you wouldn't, then great for you, your wife/girlfriend is lucky to have you.

I never said it was wrong. I just said if he really loved her he wouldn't want her to change anything. Besides, since when are relationships one-sided? If my husband asked me to lose weight (which he hasn't come out and done, although I know he wants me to) of course I would. But I'd expect him to try to keep the…

I'm noticing over half of the responses here are from women...and being a woman myself, I know we are not all shallow. This was aimed more towards men, but I'm assuming since there's not too many posting, then the answer is probably yes.

If you don't love him any less, and wouldn't cheat on him because of his size, there's nothing wrong with that.

Great response. :)

If you really loved her you wouldn't want her to change anything....