Sirxx99

Yes I should have clarified way back on the first post. My experience was a younger mother (early 20's maybe?) talking on her cell phone in the mall while I was walking my with my kids. She was not paying attention to her baby and it was all out there. I understand people are taking care of their kids but so am I. I said…

I just wanted to clarify that I am only speaking on the subject about the women who cross the line of being appropriate. Most mothers do a great job of keeping everything covered I am great with that. I was only speaking to the ones think they are entitled to let it all hang out.

I am a father (as the previous post says) and YES I did have to plan around the childrens feeding times, YES I would ask my wife to cover up (but never had to) as that has nothing to do with the baby eating, YES this was only an OPINION, YES it may be an ignorant comment as I am a male and could not breast feed my kids,…

you are looking too much into it.. The act of in public breastfeeding is lazy. Why not go to the car, cover up, use a dressing room at a department store there are several almost unlimited alternatives. To chose not to exercise those options can be viewed as being lazy. I cannot think of any reason or situation a woman…

This was all I was trying to say. I never said at any point it was unacceptable. I guess I look at things differently and offend people if it didnt come out right over the several posts. I would do anything for my kids at any time they need something. I was always able to time manage my kids for the most part. However the…

:brokenheart:

well you can read my prev posts. As well.. I never said it was wrong but in most people and most situations it is laziness. Not taking time to plan ahead. Maybe not every situation but most can be done in private. My original post was also about the women complaining about people looking when they are the ones in public.…

I dont think the debate is because it is gross... I think more that it is something that could and should be done in private. In the 50's it wasnt acceptable to whip it out in a grocery store. Ladies also stayed home or fed in private then went out to run errands. While I am not offended by someone breastfeeding. I see…

cover up! or try feeding before you leave if you have a husband have him help out there are alternative.. That this is the same reason people "cant find time to workout".. If a guy dropped his pants in the middle of a restraunt would you look? Disgusted or not you would..... it is human nature....

I think if she doesnt mind people staring then fine... But if you are gonna complain because someone is starting at your with your breast out. That is where I would have an issue. Dont complain if you are the one with your buisness out for everyone to see. I have heard of some females thinking they have the right to pull…

Angelina ..... with those lips :) PS Shawshank had me rollin

15-25%

It never stops.... I still feel like a huge guy at times and the only time I remember I lost weight is when im buying clothes. What my mind remembers and what other people see are 2 different things as well. I figure as long as I feel good about myself and im working hard to get where I want to be then it is just "a work…

I used to be.... I want to wish you luck. being that young and still having the rest of your lives.... It will be hard as you guys change over the next 10+ years. Best of luck and congrats.

An egg or 2 or a few whites scrambled with Cheese, real bacon bits and top with alil salsa

In all honesty there is health(IER) options now at all fast food restraunts and most display nutritional values or have a guide there. Most of the time its just "hidden" by all the better tasting food. I mean without thinking I would take a burger to a salad 10 out of 10 times. Look over the menus. I am in the Northwest so…

Hmmm I am gonna vote new trainer... if it wasnt your husbands friend and you could stay away is one thing but dont put yourself in the position to do something stupid and could possibly regret. Ask yourself this how would you feel if your husband started working out with your friend and he started developing a crush for…

Amazing! Love seeing people happy!

Well for me... fighting started around the 50lb mark also she tried to sabotage my weight loss.... Then at around 75lbs down what seemed like daily accusations of I was cheating even though I was home straight after work and never went out.... Then around 100 lbs our 9 year marriage ended. She said because I didnt wear my…

PC = Guild Wars 2 (currently) and was playing The secret world PS3 = MW3 and final fantasy 13-2 *** Waiting on Borderlands 2 *** Xbox 360 = Dance central 2

Surround yourself with people on the same journey and watch out for those who want to sabotage you. Take it day by day and in small goals by the time you look back you wont remember how you got there. Like others say it will be a long term commitment and will not happen over night. It will have to be a life style change.…

Shoulder to mid back.... I have yet to find any women attractive with boycut or Bobbed hair. mid neckish hair is Pushing it and VERY few women can pull it off. I dont think guys prefer their women to look like guys. It's just something not even boobs can make up for.

If you give up you will be unhappy.. If you gain 10-20 more lbs you will ask why did you give up on yourself. Vactions are an expectation you will gain... Agreed with a previous comment... it is likely water retention... It should be your motivation to burn it off. When it comes on that quick it will come off if you work…

Dr.'s dont know everything.... they give advice based on statistics.... I say double up on sports bra and know your limits.. The only person that knows what is good for you..... is YOU. If you went to the DR's because you have massive back issues then jogging is probably not a good idea. For every problem there is a…

Agreed

Personally.... It doesnt matter but for what I like to see.... I am not up for skinny... I like thin to medium yet fit (your hip bones shouldnt show) Six packs are not as sexy as outline abs.... Chests are nice but prefer a nice butt to that....Not all guys are picky and might prefer personality to looks. Usually looks…

It looks like you are just starting out into your new journey(9lbs lost tag)... If you are working out I would say try and set up a cheat day if you really have temptations. Eat SUPER strict for 6 days and then have a day to eat what you want. Your body can only absorb so many calories in a 24 hr period. An anology I like…

I have said so... If you cant be honest with each other your better off not together anyway. Doesn't constitute being mean about it. Maybe she just does't know or maybe she doesn't care. I am sure you are not with her just because of her looks however I would expect the same in return if i was looking a bit sloppy and she…

Everyone is different. you just need to sweat. Whatever you need to do to get your hear rate up. weight is always harder to get off but no one says it has to be all or nothing. You cant sit on the couch for a year and then get up and run a marathon. Start slow and strive to make every day better than the last.

I am!! I still have a little bit to go and the less there is to loose the harder it gets. The bright side is the harder it is the more determined I get. :wink: