What body type do you men prefer?

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  • mhotch
    mhotch Posts: 901 Member
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    I guess it depends on when you ask them.

    http://www.jsonline.com/blogs/news/165625926.html#!page=1&pageSize=10&sort=newestfirst

    Stressed men prefer heavier women, study finds
    By Amanda Alvarez of the Journal Sentinel
    Aug. 10, 2012 1:40 p.m.



    Men who are stressed out prefer heavier women, a new study has revealed.

    Judgments of human attractiveness seem to change depending on environmental conditions that require different adaptive strategies, according to the report published in the journal PLoS ONE.

    British researchers showed stressed and non-stressed men pictures of female bodies, and found that the stressed group gave higher ratings to women who were normal weight or overweight. The range of women who were rated attractive was also broader for the stressed group.

    These results agree with previous studies showing that stress causes people to prefer “mature” physical characteristics that are correlated with ability to handle environmental stress.

    While the effect in this study was small compared with the differences seen in body size preference across cultures, the authors emphasize that judgment of physical attractiveness and body size preference are flexible and can change based on environment, lifestyle and resource availability.
  • 1Tim4v8
    1Tim4v8 Posts: 47
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    Why is it that anytime someone posts "hey guys <insert question here>", the first (or nearly the first) answer is always another lady....and of those....why is that 90% of those say "well....not a guy....but.....<insert lame comment here>"....ever notice that guys don't do that? sure, we will eventually jump in at some point.......but is it just in your nature to have to make a guy question about YOU anyways? \m/

    Because the rest of us women find these questions demeaning.

    And men don't have periods or give birth, so they can't comment on what that actually feels like, whereas women do have experience regarding what and how many men are attracted to them at various stages of life, size, etc.

    I certainly wouldn't comment on a thread asking about how to handle getting an erection every time you see a picture of Tina Turner or whatever.

    Ok so by your logic it's ok for you to tell other women what men want....though you're not a man....because you experience attraction.....so then you automatically know everything there is to know about the subject?

    I'm surprised you don't comment about erections....surely other things get erect on you when stimulated that should vicariously make you an expert on that too \m/

    Well all I now is your *****ing like a woman! ahahahahahahaha
  • 1Tim4v8
    1Tim4v8 Posts: 47
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    Of course there are other things that come into play - personality, confidence, style, etc.

    But, if we are simply looking at BODY TYPE and NOTHING ELSE.
    There has been studies that have taken this on.
    Look up Martin Tovee from Newcastle University.

    He has studied female attractiveness and compared many elements that could determine a female's body attractiveness.
    It turns out that BMI is the highest predictor of female attractiveness (more than waist-to-hip ratio).
    Now, unfortunately, what may upset you, is the actual BMI range that is considered attractive to men.
    It has been shown that the most attractive women tend to be between a BMI of 16-20, peaking at around 18-19. Which means women are "borderline underweight" to be considered peaking their physical attractiveness. Sad isn't it? No wonder we're all messed up in the head. What is considered attractive isn't what is healthy.

    Now, the ratings of attractiveness are still good between a BMI of 20-24 but drops down significantly afterwards.
    Other studies have also shown this. Most PlayBoy bunny centerfolds have a BMI of under 19, if I remember correctly, it was something like 18.8 or so.

    Look it up - Martin Tovee, he has done all sorts of studies on female attractiveness.
    Martin Tovee's study on optimal attractiveness

    http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0140673605792576

    BMI is such a bad way to measure body composition. It doesnt take into account how much muscle a person has or how lean they are. Peoples figures, frames and bone structure vary so much that this measurement can essentially remain static when comparing two people that look completely different. A better way to measure composition is bodyfat percentage. That being said, I'm happy with anywhere in the green on this scale.

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    Now this is actual body fat percentage. The one on the left would probably come in low on the BMI scale, suggesting she is underweight. But clearly she is in great shape. She's not skin and bones, nice rounded hips and tummy, and nice muscle tone. Not that the others aren't attractive, just trying to show how two measurements differ.

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    Now if you ask most men which they like best? Most would probably like the one on the left. The point: the higher the ratio of muscle to fat on your frame, the more useless the BMI measurement is. Yet another reason women should be hitting the weights.

    If you were to look at further studies on BMI, you would know that the body fat/muscle ratio can only significant differ in HIGHER BMI values. This means that for low BMI (under 19), muscle and body fat percentage doesn't vary by much.

    So, this being said, you can't say... well, I'm underweight, its because I don't have any muscle, but otherwise, I'm still healthy.
    It only works the other way around, when overweight according to the BMI chart, it could be because you have lots of muscle as opposed to fat. So, when at a low BMI, most of your weight comes from structure (bone) and what is left, muscle and fat, doesn't make a big enough difference.

    That being said, it still means that a low BMI would rule over body fat percentage as a predictor of attractiveness, especially in Martin Tovee's study.

    No BMI is is totally bogos on some people, my husband for instance is very very lean with narrow shoulders and hips, he is also very tall, but his weight is 130 and is very healthy at this weight anything more then this and you can see it on his tummy and neck, also I am very broud, I have wide hips and very wide shoulders, with a TON of muscle mass, so I am at a skinny (yes skinny) weight at 185, were I can see my rib cage and collor bone, right now I am 270, so no BMI is not realiable at all
  • Tony_Brewski
    Tony_Brewski Posts: 1,376 Member
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    Curvy. That classic hour glass shape. Meat on the bones as well.
  • Jeremy_
    Jeremy_ Posts: 36 Member
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    If I get to fully customize my order, I'll take the #4: medium-sized, athletic, and curvy, with brown hair/green eyes. And a side of nice legs.
  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
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    Muscled and lean.
  • Going4Lean
    Going4Lean Posts: 1,077 Member
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    Muscled and lean.
  • RotterdamNL
    RotterdamNL Posts: 509 Member
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    I care more about what's in the inside but if i had to choose, as long as she is not taller and wider then me i am fine :D
  • marie_cressman
    marie_cressman Posts: 980 Member
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    I guess it depends on when you ask them.

    http://www.jsonline.com/blogs/news/165625926.html#!page=1&pageSize=10&sort=newestfirst

    Stressed men prefer heavier women, study finds
    By Amanda Alvarez of the Journal Sentinel
    Aug. 10, 2012 1:40 p.m.



    Men who are stressed out prefer heavier women, a new study has revealed.

    Judgments of human attractiveness seem to change depending on environmental conditions that require different adaptive strategies, according to the report published in the journal PLoS ONE.

    British researchers showed stressed and non-stressed men pictures of female bodies, and found that the stressed group gave higher ratings to women who were normal weight or overweight. The range of women who were rated attractive was also broader for the stressed group.

    These results agree with previous studies showing that stress causes people to prefer “mature” physical characteristics that are correlated with ability to handle environmental stress.

    While the effect in this study was small compared with the differences seen in body size preference across cultures, the authors emphasize that judgment of physical attractiveness and body size preference are flexible and can change based on environment, lifestyle and resource availability.

    This actually made a lot of sense (in my opinion). My husband has a high stress job. He's an Infantryman in the Army. I am not a skinny minnie. I have always been on the heavier side. Every girl he was with before me was on the heavier side from what I can tell. :)
  • Toomestwin
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    Now that I'm older and wiser, it's all in the attitude not in the body type. Yeah, sounds corny, but that's how I see it. Of course, took me a lifetime to realize that.
  • marie_cressman
    marie_cressman Posts: 980 Member
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    Now that I'm older and wiser, it's all in the attitude not in the body type. Yeah, sounds corny, but that's how I see it. Of course, took me a lifetime to realize that.

    I don't think it sounds corny. LOL I think mature men can appreciate many different body types because they have learned physical form isn't EVERYTHING in a relationship. Of course, there has to be some sort of attraction physically, but it's not the most important part.

    I have noticed MOST (not all of course, but most) older men prefer women who go lighter on the makeup (this coming from listening to my brother and his friends and other family members) and are more natural looking while many younger men like the done up, looks like a model perfection. My husband is an odd ball. He prefers me without makeup and he's only 25. Good thing he does... I hate makeup. haha!

    <-- ZERO make up... this is how I look almost every day of my life. Even when I wear makeup, I get asked often if I have any on. It used to bother me, but now I take it as a compliment.
  • Prahasaurus
    Prahasaurus Posts: 1,381 Member
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    I like the brainy type.

    --P
  • ivan1964
    ivan1964 Posts: 435
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    To me the body doesn't matter they must be pretty in the eyes and face and have a good personality the rest is just iceing on the cake
  • Sules02
    Sules02 Posts: 19 Member
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    I love this question!! I love all the Politically correct answers but wonder what they really want?
  • elv1ra
    elv1ra Posts: 146 Member
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    im gonna weigh in with my ideal male since theres no ladies version.

    I love men that are talllll like 6`2+ the taller the better with a broad thick build. muscular, big chest, thick arms, and some belly. though ive been attracted to men of all different body types.
  • wedge421
    wedge421 Posts: 224 Member
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    Curvy
  • rosecando
    rosecando Posts: 33 Member
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    I asked my husband (of 30 years) what type of woman he likes, he replied
    1- she gotta drive a tractor and 2- milk 700 cows
    im safe- i do both and have a 40BMI...:bigsmile:
  • SetecAstronomy
    SetecAstronomy Posts: 470 Member
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    The naturally thin, active thin, active med. Build, curvy (not chubby but hips), lil on the thick side, or bigger build?

    Okay the post is 10 days old but still has some legs, so I'll throw my 2 cents in.

    The only body type that DOESN'T do a thing for me is the morbidly obese. My girlfriend is not a supermodel...she has curves, and has said she needs to lose some weight.

    But as I tell people ad nauseum when this topic comes up: body type/shape is only half of the picture. The other half is the personality. And I'm attracted to "the whole picture" when both are good. I've seen some very "society-approved" women when it comes to their shape who have wretched personalities, and quite honestly that is a huge turn-off.
  • Sirxx99
    Sirxx99 Posts: 43
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    Personally.... It doesnt matter but for what I like to see.... I am not up for skinny... I like thin to medium yet fit (your hip bones shouldnt show) Six packs are not as sexy as outline abs.... Chests are nice but prefer a nice butt to that....Not all guys are picky and might prefer personality to looks. Usually looks comes with Attitude, emotional neediness, high maintenece, laziness and a sense of entitlement. (maybe not all women) but for the most part this is true... If this upsets you then you're probably in denial because if this doesnt descibe you then it wouldnt be offensive. Just Sayin!
  • abstrakt_star
    abstrakt_star Posts: 50 Member
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    Medium with a little bit of chub. I like when men are smooth and I'm not a huge fan of abs.