What body type do you men prefer?

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  • marie_cressman
    marie_cressman Posts: 980 Member
    Now that I'm older and wiser, it's all in the attitude not in the body type. Yeah, sounds corny, but that's how I see it. Of course, took me a lifetime to realize that.

    I don't think it sounds corny. LOL I think mature men can appreciate many different body types because they have learned physical form isn't EVERYTHING in a relationship. Of course, there has to be some sort of attraction physically, but it's not the most important part.

    I have noticed MOST (not all of course, but most) older men prefer women who go lighter on the makeup (this coming from listening to my brother and his friends and other family members) and are more natural looking while many younger men like the done up, looks like a model perfection. My husband is an odd ball. He prefers me without makeup and he's only 25. Good thing he does... I hate makeup. haha!

    <-- ZERO make up... this is how I look almost every day of my life. Even when I wear makeup, I get asked often if I have any on. It used to bother me, but now I take it as a compliment.
  • Prahasaurus
    Prahasaurus Posts: 1,381 Member
    I like the brainy type.

    --P
  • ivan1964
    ivan1964 Posts: 435
    To me the body doesn't matter they must be pretty in the eyes and face and have a good personality the rest is just iceing on the cake
  • Sules02
    Sules02 Posts: 19 Member
    I love this question!! I love all the Politically correct answers but wonder what they really want?
  • elv1ra
    elv1ra Posts: 146 Member
    im gonna weigh in with my ideal male since theres no ladies version.

    I love men that are talllll like 6`2+ the taller the better with a broad thick build. muscular, big chest, thick arms, and some belly. though ive been attracted to men of all different body types.
  • wedge421
    wedge421 Posts: 224 Member
    Curvy
  • rosecando
    rosecando Posts: 33 Member
    I asked my husband (of 30 years) what type of woman he likes, he replied
    1- she gotta drive a tractor and 2- milk 700 cows
    im safe- i do both and have a 40BMI...:bigsmile:
  • SetecAstronomy
    SetecAstronomy Posts: 470 Member
    The naturally thin, active thin, active med. Build, curvy (not chubby but hips), lil on the thick side, or bigger build?

    Okay the post is 10 days old but still has some legs, so I'll throw my 2 cents in.

    The only body type that DOESN'T do a thing for me is the morbidly obese. My girlfriend is not a supermodel...she has curves, and has said she needs to lose some weight.

    But as I tell people ad nauseum when this topic comes up: body type/shape is only half of the picture. The other half is the personality. And I'm attracted to "the whole picture" when both are good. I've seen some very "society-approved" women when it comes to their shape who have wretched personalities, and quite honestly that is a huge turn-off.
  • Sirxx99
    Sirxx99 Posts: 43
    Personally.... It doesnt matter but for what I like to see.... I am not up for skinny... I like thin to medium yet fit (your hip bones shouldnt show) Six packs are not as sexy as outline abs.... Chests are nice but prefer a nice butt to that....Not all guys are picky and might prefer personality to looks. Usually looks comes with Attitude, emotional neediness, high maintenece, laziness and a sense of entitlement. (maybe not all women) but for the most part this is true... If this upsets you then you're probably in denial because if this doesnt descibe you then it wouldnt be offensive. Just Sayin!
  • abstrakt_star
    abstrakt_star Posts: 50 Member
    Medium with a little bit of chub. I like when men are smooth and I'm not a huge fan of abs.
  • Italiano7
    Italiano7 Posts: 382 Member
    Breathing...


    Best. answer. ever.

    I second that.
    i third that
  • Philly_1123
    Philly_1123 Posts: 1 Member
    I like all types but I do find that the petite active women have a special place in my heart! lol
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    I like fit, but I prefer a small layer of fluff. Like 10 lbs before stomache definition. And plump thighs and a butt are wonderful. Curves are wonderful too.
  • pudadough
    pudadough Posts: 1,271 Member
    Not this freaking topic again. Seriously, there's a lid for every pot. *takes topic out behind woodshed*
  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
    Really sometime I wonder if we'd save more time by just asking...

    Guys... Who wants me? Who would want me 10 lighter? Who would want me 10 lbs heavier?

    I read these posts and look for what kind of guy likes my build, and then wonder if he'd like me... As if it even matters! Like its been said a million times... There's a type for every person.

    That's my midnight thought... :-P
  • SurfinBird1981
    SurfinBird1981 Posts: 517 Member
    I think men prefer a happy soul :smile: I dont know though, I'm not a dude :smokin:
  • Topsking2010
    Topsking2010 Posts: 2,245 Member
    Now that I'm older and wiser, it's all in the attitude not in the body type. Yeah, sounds corny, but that's how I see it. Of course, took me a lifetime to realize that.



    I agree. Personality plays a major part. Like a woman who is confident and passionate about life.
  • marketdimlylit
    marketdimlylit Posts: 1,601 Member
    I think men prefer a happy soul :smile: I dont know though, I'm not a dude :smokin:

    As if lol.
  • SurfinBird1981
    SurfinBird1981 Posts: 517 Member
    I think men prefer a happy soul :smile: I dont know though, I'm not a dude :smokin:

    As if lol.

    :laugh: a little too much on the fence?
  • marieautumn
    marieautumn Posts: 928 Member
    I don't think every man prefers the same type of woman, but i would think they would prefer some one healthy and confident, regardless of their size.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    I don't think every man prefers the same type of woman, but i would think they would prefer some one healthy and confident, regardless of their size.

    I don't think that every man has even a single type of woman. Things can vary a lot but still be desireable.
  • phoenix_59
    phoenix_59 Posts: 1,123
    there is one for every occasion....
  • Sirxx99
    Sirxx99 Posts: 43
    I think men prefer a happy soul :smile: I dont know though, I'm not a dude :smokin:


    Agreed
  • SassyCalyGirl
    SassyCalyGirl Posts: 1,932 Member
    I live my life by what "I" prefer!
  • danne32339
    danne32339 Posts: 155 Member
    Uncle Mac,
    You just made my day. Thanks for the laugh.
    Good luck,
    Doni :flowerforyou:
  • UncleMac
    UncleMac Posts: 13,833 Member
    Uncle Mac,
    You just made my day. Thanks for the laugh.
    Good luck,
    Doni :flowerforyou:
    Laughter is one of life's greatest gifts! Enjoy!!
  • jenjones28
    jenjones28 Posts: 66 Member
    Personally, curvy but fit. Make her a brunette with long hair and green eyes and I'm hers.
    Hey! That's who I married!
    THIS would be my husband's answer. Although I'm still working on the "fit" part.
  • djsupreme6
    djsupreme6 Posts: 1,210 Member
    I think every guy secretly pines for redheads ;) Of any body type..Right? Haha

    redheads...oh yes for damn sure...body type...well curvy fit is perfect....those curves in the right places any man will like
  • ilovemybuggy
    ilovemybuggy Posts: 1,584 Member
    why all the rudeness? sheesh people! :grumble: lighten up for f*cks sake!
    yes!!
  • RainHoward
    RainHoward Posts: 1,599 Member
    Now that I'm older and wiser, it's all in the attitude not in the body type. Yeah, sounds corny, but that's how I see it. Of course, took me a lifetime to realize that.

    This is soooo true. I like a woman who is a great conversationalist and great in bed. And if she can cook too...... Confidence is one of the biggest turn ons for me.

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