jhigg11 Member

I don't believe you can truly love someone until you have seen them at their worst, and still love & accept them for all their faults.

In my opinion, you can't make someone else be committed. They have to do that themselves. You get what you put into this site, like everything in life. I delete people, who are over 2 weeks without stopping by. If they want to add me again that's fine, but I don't want the notices. I want people who participate and I can…

OP - 12 years is a long time. You need to take some time and grieve that relationship. Don't jump into another big commitment, you will regret it, because you will likely bring your relationship baggage with you. Enjoy your time getting to know yourself again.

wow, that was really uncalled for. You should step back and take a look at what you just wrote. It was hateful. Don't comment if you have nothing constructive to offer.

You look fabulous. Great job!

I really don't think you have any more weight to lose. You look fabulous. Maybe start lifting if you want to get stronger and tighten. But honestly your stomach is fantastic, and I would love to have your body. We see something here that you don't, you really need to see what you look like now. You have a beautiful body.

You're young, and if the pics are you on your profile, then you are pretty good shape. if you can't meet or keep women in your real life, then you will probably have a horrible time trying to find (quality women) on the internet, where the only thing that comes across is your personality. Right now you are not winning in…

I was all talk, about losing weight. I wanted to, but had no motivation, and then I was diagnosed with hashimoto's disease. After starting medication, I feel so much better. My friend on facebook started a 30 day challenge for a group of friends to track what they are eating and they're workouts, and I've stuck with it,…

I'll be 30 in November, I'm working hard for a fitter healthier me. I'm going to spend my 30's treating myself much better than my 20's. :-)

you look awesome. Great job!

Girl you look fabulous. I also would say your outfit is adorable in your current pic. Well done.

Amanda, you look fabulous, you are one of the people on my friends list that is so inspiring. I can't wait to show you my progress in a year. :-)

I think the OP could use compassion instead of being told she has excuses. She has a serious eating disorder. She's not eating twinkies for dinner and wondering why she can't lose weight. She's starving her body of vital nutrients and harming herself. Sweetie, you should work with a therapist, nutritionist and a trainer…

I found a compression sports bra that holds me in tight, from Target. Best $15 I ever spent. :-)

up your calories, and eat more fiber & protein in your diet.

I go 2 or more times a day everyday. I try to get enough fiber in with fruit (red fruits are supposedly good for digestive health) or dried fruit is also a great source, oatmeal - love the stuff, kashi cereal is delcious, fiber one is great, and I also like whole wheat english muffins. I try to get my fiber in the morning,…

totally agree. It's so hot here in AZ, I wouldn't dream of doing anything outside after 7 am. haha.

I have many, because I haven't achieved my gw, but everything up until that point. :-)

I absolutely love chocolate, so I wouldn't survive without having a bit here and there. I found a solution to my problem. The skinny cow fudge bars, are so yummy. I don't feel guilty eating a 100 calorie bar. It satisfies my craving without making me feel guilty. :-) I think there are ways around it. I can live without the…

He sounds depressed. The lack of motivation, probably binge eating junk at work. Feeling insecure about you, and your relationship. Without bringing up the weight, you should make an effort to tell him things that you love about him, and why he is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. In any…

make sure you are drinking water through your day too!

It was accurate when I got it, but yeah it's not even close. But it will be soon.

you look adorable. Great job on your weight loss!

You look awesome, like a totally different person. :-)

Looks like you're letting your mind control you. You need to infuse yourself with positive thinking. Negativity is the most debilitating thing to someone trying to change their life. You also need to be committed and really no why you are eating right and exercising. It shouldn't be to fuel some goal to just look good. It…

Yeah your calories are way too low. I don't work out that much and I consume 1500--1800 calories a day. I consistently have lost weight over the last four weeks.

Hilarious!

130 would be great. Hopefully toned and looking amazingly fit when I reach it. :-)

Today is my 30 days and I am 13lbs down too!

I honestly think the best thing you can do for yourself is get a therapist who deals with this sort of thing. Also, your depression will affect your metabolism. That is awesome the strides you are making. You need someone to help you deal with the underlying issue. You will never be healthy physically, if you aren't…