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Hi!!!!! Hope you're doing well. This group used to be my poop!!! Hopefully it livens up!

I recognize some folks!!! I hadn't looked in this group for over a year or more. Don't even remember the last time. But I saw some familiar faces! Hi!!! Happy to hear everyone is doing great. I'm doing well. I moved to Colorado (from Texas) about six months ago with my fiancé! We get married 12/17 of this year. 5 more…

It seemed like the guys this season were just not very into it. And the gals were just doing it becaushe they're married and felt it had to work. Strange.

They all annoyed me. I didn't like this season at all. I can't believe who stayed married!! They showed updates of the couples from season 1. I think 6 months later or something.

I would probably opt to get divorced but keep dating the person. Unless it was a soulmate type of thing we BOTH felt but yeah, that hasn't happened yet.

The nurse guy is a poon. Not my style. And why the hell did he hammer a screw into the wall? That coue is annoying me. Jess and Ryan are not even interesting to me anymore. Yuck! They both think they're right. I just don't think they're personalities go together. If I were with Ryan, you can bet I'd speak up!! I do like…

See the couple who had sex seem Doomed to me. I think their personalities clash. I think the chick came off as desperate to me though. I don't know. They both seem a little off. And I love friend zoned couple too! They weren't my fav either but so cute. Just like the first season... Doug and Jamie became my fav too.

Do yall think it's interesting that the couples who had sex the night of the wedding aren't doing so hot (last season too)? Granted the one couple where both were bullied as children are also having difficulties but more because of life circumstances .. Not because they themselves are clashing.

Yes, it's one of the couple of shoes I watch. It seems to be working!

I'm alone a lot! The best thing to do once I hit that point is get out!! I actually enjoy being alone in silence but I can only do it for so much. I'll go out get a pedi and wine or even treat myself to avacado rolls and a Jeremiah red at Bjs Brewhouse and sit at the bar midday. Because Im the queen of overthinking... So I…

Been there! I moved in with my current bf w/o saying it. Those words just had so much weight and power that I wasn't ready to give them away. He didn't say it either though even though he said we almost said it a couple of times but chickened out because he wasn't sure how I felt.. But it was obvious he did. We also had…

One thing that was a turn off/ red flag were profiles that had a list of "don't be" or "don't contact me if.." Even if the list didn't apply to me. Blah! We all have dislikes, been played, etc but I don't want to read it. Just like women that say "I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A HOOK UP" as the first thing on their profiles!…

Hmmm I don't think so. But I will be honest and say I would judge guys off of pics. If a guy looked like a player to me, I didn't bother. Maybe I missed out but I ptkbably wasn't that interested in the first place. Now if you had a gut feeling something wasn't right, then trust it but I like to do my own research!

I never made first moves but I did what Jen said if out at the bar. I'd go get a drink next to guy in question, bump him or wait until he looked my way then said "hello!" or smiled. I called it passive aggressive flirting. :) Other than that smiling works wonders. I'd often go to shows and stuff alone and just enjoyed…

Awwww me too! I haven't worked out in so long. I do outdoor active stuff but def not making working out a priority.

I wouldn't tone down your style. The only toning down I would suggest to anyone is the serious stuff. Other than that, be your quirky witty self. I met guys that either didn't get me, were fascinated by me (but later found I was too "different"... I got dumped by my first post divorce bf and the reasons he gave me were all…

Staying home! I work NYE so I'm not getting home until 6-7. If bf is home, we *might* go to his grandpas lake house (we hang out there a lot) and maybe just be around his family. I think I've only gone out once for NYE. Not really my thing.

I gotta brag. I had an awesome profile and many men would write me complimenting it. I truly tried to "show off" my personality via words... Difficult but I think I achieved it! I ignored the "hi"s or "hey beautiful". Come on! You can do better than that. I would never write back a guy a simple "ok". I put in energy and…

Yes! My first online date was after a month of talking. A month! I was in no hurry but he ended up as a friend as soon as I met him in person. I wasn't attracted to him. As I practiced more, hell I'd start talking to a guy one night then 1 or 2 nights later it'd be meet up for a drink. I just wanted to see them in person…

Most online Sayers know the drill and if you're a first timer, you'll get the drill pretty quickly! I wouldn't suggest you swipe back (not sure what that is, I was on match for a couple of days then got a refund :) ) if you're unsure unless the reason is you're not sure if you're attracted. But if the guy is meh to you,…

This sounds super romantic!!!

I for one prefer men with beards. My bf grew one out when we were in the mountains for 9 days and omg I loved the whole mountain manly man look. >:) Yummmmmmmmmy! I consider myself attractive but def not the hottest girl out there. My profile was always witty and funny. I never had a problem finding online dates. Sometimes…

Yup, I think he is married too! I'm sorry that it ended this way. But yes, you should def look for someone that treats you very well in the future.,

Well glad it brought some awareness to you! I'm glad you aren't all caught up because yeah, sounds weird he didn't respond nor answer your call.

I am happy that you are happy. But, it sounds a bit fishy. He sounds like those fast forward guys.... They rush, their emotions are huge and you're just so special to them unlike anybody before. But then either time passes by or some other circumstance (in your case he doesn't live nearby) and he's no where to be found. I…

There's a difference between saying "I'd like to have a gf who does so and so" rather than "I don't like when you do so and so". Huge difference! If some guy was telling me how to act or he rather me not do something at 3 weeks, I'd drop him fast. I got the impression he did it that way. But could be wrong. Nonetheless,…

It just sounds way too complicated for just 3 weeks. This should be fun and the serious stuff can come later. If her lifestyle is a deal breaker then don't see her anymore. The fact that you said "she knows I have a problem with this" comes off a little strong. You shouldn't be telling her what you have a problem with.…

Good here in good ole Tx! Welcome!!

Yeah save yourself some heartache. I was in the same exact situation a couple of yrs ago. Granted, were still great friends but that's all he wanted from me though there were confusing signs. I don't hate him because he did communicate it to me. I moved on and dated. He's met several of my bfs! He even came around a couple…

I tried match for like a week. Because I never responded or pmd anybody, I received a full refund. I had better luck on the free sites!