MsMarlaMae Member

There is a great spoken piece by Levi about the plight of the invisible femme. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Q7IzwUa_kI I often feel invisible to the LGBT and straight community. While my butch girlfriend is always known and seen. It can hurt my feelers sometimes, but I know who I am and eventually they will figure it…

I started in July 2011 with a hundred to lose. I'm down 80. It's a day at a time. I recommend to just start with the logging and staying under your calories. I found, for myself, that it was easier to focus on that before I started focusing on the gym. As that seemed like too much and I got overwhelmed. No matter what you…

Hi! 40 here :)

As we have both lost a lot of weight (me 80 her 60) we help each other a lot of ways. Not only do we help keep each other on track (Hey, didn't we have bacon with breakfast, how about X for lunch to even out the counts today). But we also remind each other that we know how to get back on track when we've had a bad day. No…

I like red heads for sure, and I am a red head. My gf loves them too ;)

I could fill up pages of the awesome stuff my mom has said that kept me going. The one that always works: This too shall pass.

I was like you, refuse to declaw my cats. Thought it a terrible thing. I had 3 scratching posts (all different kinds), sticky strips on the furniture, and i even tried the soft caps for the claws. Every single piece of furniture I have is shredded. If you dare leave a piece of leather clothing or shoes out you can expect…

If you force me to choose, I'll pick the *kitten* every time. But I sure do love boobs too.

That's some sexy brain work right there. May I lick your brain? Please? :blushing:

Me too! And it was awesome! Just to add to the TMI, it's that TOM and it was extra gnarly!

So impressed with all the debt free folks! Good for you! While I was married over 12 years, we got in a bit over our head in cc debt. About 14k total. In the divorce I took most of the debt from credit card, but have paid it down to about 10k. I put it all on a no interest card, and make a monthly payment large enough that…

I think it's nasty, but I didn't like regular yogurt so it was no surprise to me that it wasn't gonna be the miracle everyone says it is.

I'm gonna keep not holding my breath for Texas. We'll be the last to pass it, if ever. *sigh*

Eh, I offered two of my larger friends the option to go through clothes that didn't fit me anymore. Like you they were all super cute, and had lots of life in them. No one got upset or butt hurt. They were just happy about new clothes. Think it depends on what sorta friends you make. Mine know me well enough to know that…

Butch women, particularly my butch :)

No joke. I'm one of *those* people ;)

I say yep, not only do I love ladies, the athletic ones are high on the list.

Does it for me: Butch women, Well groomed, Confident, Has their *kitten* together. Kills it: needy, broken, stinky, bad teeth, and bad breath. Also, nails.. please my lovely butches please.. keep those nails short and clean.

Not gonna make it! But I just got done with SPLF in Dallas :) We are hoping for IMsL next year!

1. My wrap around skirt came unwrapped while standing in line in the gym to get on the school bus. I wasn't wearing a slip, I was 13 and mortified. I still always wear a slip. 2. I peed myself in the 3rd grade when the teacher wouldn't let me go pee mid class. She then pulled me out in front of my art class (I had left a…

I've watched it, my gf watched, a few of our friends watched it. None of us are doing month long cleanses, but we all tried a couple days and met varying success. We all did it as a jump start/supplemental to an already healthy diet. We all found it helpful in getting those pesky leafy greens into our diet. Everything in…

I'm sorry you are going through this. She might be being a bit insensitive, and you might be being a bit sensitive. It's the way of things with weight I think, so many triggers! Just keep being honest with her, tell her how it makes you feel when she does those things. But no matter how she reacts or brags, or succeeds,…

Nevermind the after juicing poo. Oof.

I've got 18 lbs left to my ultimate goal, and 3 lbs do my first goal. I've been here now for a few months. I know the problem, it's me. I like my new body, and I'm not working out like I should, or eating like I should. Instead of getting to down on myself I try to show myself that I'm also maintaining, with a minuscule…

Started in a 20 Top or XXL, now in Mediums. Started at a 24, now in a 14 pant Started in a 22 dress, now in a 12 Started at 260, now 177.6 17.6 to go, and maybe a bit more :)

This and want strawberri said. Many of us have tried for years with no luck.

If you are a fan of jerky you can always make it yourself. I find that Emeril's recipe is very delicious, and you can monitor the salt. I also make my own granola, so easy and wicked tasty. If all else fails, I go for the Aldi fit and light, I'd rather make it homemade so I know what I'm eating.. but their snacks are…

Never been creeped on here at MFP

congrats! My last ones to come out to were the hardest... and are still a struggle. But it's such an amazing feeling even with the hate.

Heh! I see you looking! Cat and I are totally gonna hit it up some day, you and your lady have GOT to come with.