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Hey....wanna f***??!! yep, really. my reply? yes, but not with you. :glasses: turned out he was a friend of someone I knew and I learned he asked that question hundreds of times a week, and had a 10% batting average. he figured he was willing to get shot down 90 times to score 10. what a dope. and hold on to your hats…

Sounds like a rough morning. He might be doing a little passive/aggressive thing with the earring. maybe he didn't want to watch the kids, maybe he didn't want you to go out, maybe he didn't want you to pierce the girls ears. maybe he just goofed. but you need to talk about it. he went out? while you were yelling at him?…

I have so been there!! do you find yourself waiting until they go to bed so you can give yourself a treat? are you thinking about it all day? or even part of the day? could be signs of addiction. sad but true. consider tossing out all unhealthy foods in your home. your kids and hubby don't need them either. so don't use…

Congratulations!!! :flowerforyou: you can't go wrong with steak and salad. or chicken and salad, or grilled fish and salad.....hmmm I am beginning to see a pattern!! :laugh:

LOL...wow!!! I am a seriously lucky woman. maybe I just see things differently, but I don't stew over things like this. when his using my brush and not cleaning it out irked me, I bought a new brush "gave" him the old one and it became a non issue. I always check to see if the toilet seat is down, I am the one who needs it…

sounds like you did the right thing by keeping is casual. "sorry you can't make it but....." now, go off and have a great evening!!! :flowerforyou:

could your husband be a tiny bit jealous of the time you spend here? a little nervous over your success? wanting you to succeed but afraid it might change more than your outsides? (and it will) you will become more confident in your choices, more secure in yourself as a person. you are growing. don't add this extra stress…

Happy Anniversary!! so, are you going to do what your sister asks? is it too late to tell her you can't do that? maybe instead of paying for her family to eat, spend that same money on a romantic night in a motel with your honey. Don't let the thoughtlessness of one person ruin your special evening. spend it together…

Try Josephs Lavash bread in the deli section of Wally world. lay it out and spread it with mustard, fat free mayo, whatever. layer deli turkey, and lite cheese and some lettuce. roll up and slice into rings. it looks great on a platter and the Lavash is only a hundred calories, plus what ever filling. you get lots of rings…

when I first started adding veggies to my diet I tried to hide them. :happy: I would hollow out a cuke, stuff it with seasoned tuna, no mayo, and then slice it into rings. if you can have crackers, its great on top of a cracker, or I would take a zuccini or other squash and cut it in half lengthwise, scoop out the seeds…

A tattoo is a single needle or a set of needles going under the 4th layer of skin at 60 times a second. there are seven layers of skin and the first 3 are the ones that flake and peel and burn etc. the out line stings the most with a feeling like a bee sting, a cat scratch or a paper cut. as similar examples. it is a sharp…

try logging everything. every bite. at the time you do it, not just as a recap here. it makes a difference and gives you time to eat those necessary calories. keep a few nuts on hand. they make a huge difference/

I have been extremely curious about this process. would be be willing to tel me (and others) why you made that decision, what you are expected to do, you know all the stuff. what does it feel like to eat so little at a time? is it difficult to learn? can you cheat? do you? I know I am being extremely nosey, but am…

I don't understand how it would be wasting egg? wouldn't it make sense to just dump the yolk into another omlette? what a bunch of bs. that was. I bet the cook couldn't separate eggs. laugh. or didn't want to be bothered with having to separate eggs. do you actually see the egg? maybe they use a powder or some kind of mix.…

Congratulations!!! yesterday WAS a good day for you, and for all the reasons you listed, 2 scoops instead of 4, only one wendy's instead of three, a small candy instead of large....every single one of those choices was a victory..:drinker: so be proud. those are great steps to healthy eating. not everyone can go cold…

Lordy, don't you just want to smack 'em upside the head!!!:grumble: He means well, but could maybe be a little more tuned into your needs, the whole, I don't want to hear about it thing would frost me a bit. laugh. He's right though about obsessing and making a huge deal out of it. But it's probably because you just…

looks like we have covered all the angles!!:laugh: You might find it easier to EASE him out of your life rather than just dump him. it will be less tramatic for you and give him time to show what he is made of. be busy for a few days, then a week, then a few weeks. you know what I mean. You have a job, and other friends…

PS. You can't "spice up" a relationship by pushing him away, get naked....do the horizontal bop, make monkey noises, oil up the twister mat, try on a batgirl costume, what the heck? you are on earth such a short time. have some fun. we are not human beings on a spiritual path, we are spiritual beings on a human path. :love:

How long have you been together? Are you living together or still dating? If you are living together and he is out of work are you supporting the family? Is he looking for work? We have all been through this kind of thing, and money can break a relationship, but one thing I found about your comments that was…

Just remember where ever they send you, YOU are trying THEM out. Not the other way around. A talented, professional, experienced person is worth their weight in gold. while temp to hire is a great way to get in with a company I personally loved the freedom of regular temping. as an experienced admin/receptionist I can step…

I was a professional temp for years and years, and I loved it. a good one gets you into some really cool places and if you travel like I did you can just go to their local branch and start working. ( I used a national service) Its a great way to get into some of the bigger corps and to learn a bunch of new stuff too. If…

YES, definately stretch, stretch first to warm up your muscles before you add weights and then after to relax them from the workout. I have just discovered Pilates, and I really like it. I haven't noticed a lot of difference in the shape of my muscles yet, because its only been a week and I can't do most of the exercises…

went to this site, and subscribed. very cool info there too. its a WW site, but I can still apply quite a bit of it. it also has new foods out I have never seen either, its a really good way to keep up on new stuff. thanks

not trying to show my ignorance, but why would you make this? would you use it on cereal? or drink or cook with or what? How is it milk? what happens to the almonds? I have never heard of this, so I am curious. thanks

eat some cottage cheese, or nuts or a protein of choice. if its 9pm and you haven't eaten enough you are still going to be up 3-4 more hours. you need a little something nutritious. aaahhh college, I remember some of those times. :laugh:

what about protein and carbs? does anyone have a count on that? where are you getting them? I need a good protein bar. the premier odessy are great but huge and pricy. I eat the fiber one yogurt, its only ok. would like to try the bars, after all you can never have too many oralgasims. :laugh:

72 pounds in 8 months?! Wow, you did fantastic. It really inspires me to work harder. Thanks

at least we delayed you a little bit. :glasses: use it as a day to mix up your system. if you stay at the same calories all the time your body will adjust. so, if you think of it that way you are actually helping your diet!! enjoy:drinker:

Hey, its going to be 90's all summer kiddo, you can't use that as an excuse!! nice try though :laugh: Hubby wants some? well, that's better, a sunday treat with your sweetie, at the soda shop, ok, I can see it. but only a small one. and don't forget the crunches.

WAIT 20 MINUTES Do you really want it? WHY? are you bored? sad? depressed? lonely? happy? craving sweets? angry? Is the cone necessary for your sanity today? is it more important than being healthy? Is it a reward for not driving a knife thru a loved ones heart? think about it..... then if you still want it, go have one.…