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Is it wrong?
For the most part I'm actually happier being single. I mean there are times I miss having a someone but seem to be getting more annoyed by men lately then excited by the prospect. I'm running a lot more ... I'm back into my fitness like I was before my ex ... my dedication and motivation is back ... I don't want someone…
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It's Friday, Friday, Friday!
So what's everyone got on the go? For myself, I am heading out to see my friends band play tonight with the new guy I am seeing ... first time he is meeting my friends. Tomorrow is race kit pickup, a walk, and generally taking it easy. Sunday is my last race of the year ... a 7k! After the race, my friends band is having a…
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Minimalist Running in the winter
I am a minimalist runner, running in my Vibram Fivefingers and absolutely love them. Since I started using them my shin splints have completely gone away. I am in the process of training for a Hypothermic Half marathon right now ... it will be run March 2nd and here in Canada, it will be cold. I see that Vibram has a cold…
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Running and gaining weight
Since I began training for my first half marathon (ran it Oct 13th), I have been steadily gaining weight. I am not eating excessively or bad ... the only change is that I am running now ... 2 runs a week up to 10k and then a long run on the weekend of up to 20k. My goal is to run 5 half marathon's and a full next year but…
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Happy Friday!
Can't believe nobody has started this yet so I will this week! What does everyone have on the go? Myself, I am going to see a friends band play tonight, resting tomorrow, and then running my 1st Half Marathon on Sunday! :) And then following the half, am settling in for football and turkey as it's Thanksgiving here in…
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Online dating
I'm curious to know if this happens to others, or if it's just me. In regards to online dating specifically ... you start talking to someone on the dating site, switch to texting and talking on the phone, exchange more pictures so you both know what the other looks like ... there is a definite connection and then you plan…
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FWB
I'm very curious on everyone's opinion on this. Once a guy and a girl have been FWB, can they ever go back to just being friends or does sex ruin everything? No real reason for asking ... just curious. Debate on! :laugh:
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Need advice
Started talking to a guy online back the end of June ... we didn't end up meeting until August 19th. We have been dating since the day we met ... so just over 2 weeks now. He is cute and incredibly sweet and treats me like an absolute princess ... a nice treat from the guys I have been dating this summer. He says he wants…
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Carlyannabell
Anxiously awaiting news of your weekend! Hoping all went well girl! :)
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Thoughts?
Been watching a lot of videos from a dating coach from England ... I think his name is Matthew Hussey. In one when asked why guys who show alot of interest up front, but when a girl starts to reciprocate the interest, why do men pull away ... was it because men like the chase and when they catch what they want, it's not…
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Why would a guy do this?
First, I just wanted to say I LOVE this part of the forums because you guys are all awesome with your advice and have pretty much been bang on so here goes another question. I had dated this guy I met off POF for a couple of weeks back the first part of July, and then out of the blue he stopped talking to me. Stopped…
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Signs a guy is into you
Apparently I am clueless ... so please help a girl out because I am attracting losers and users. How do I know if a guy is REALLY into me ... and not just for what he can get out of me?
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Dating into more?
Just curious what the general view is on this. When you are dating someone ... meaning the the beginning stage where you're getting to know someone going on dates and hanging out (have to explain because dating means something different to everyone) ... at what point does dating someone turn into something more? Is this a…
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Would you date me?
My profile pic on here is the one I use on POF and I don't have much luck with messages, or get messaged by men only looking for sex or men who aren't single only looking for sex. I am wondering based on my profile pic alone, would you want to message me if you were on there looking? Not trolling for compliments ... just…
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POF ... did I miss something?
I've been single for almost 7 weeks ... and I think I missed something being off the market for 8 months. I'm on POF and I find it easier to txt people after a few messages rather than the constant back and forth on that site ... yet I have had more than 1 guy question if I am txting more than one person. Is it okay to…
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The friendzone ...
This question is mainly being put to the guys but feel free to disucuss ... Once you put a girl in the friendzone, does she ever have a shot of being more? The reason I ask is a good friend of mine and I have been hanging out (differently lately) and told me he doesn't want to ruin our friendship because he likes our…
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POF ... someone please explain
Went on a first "meet" with a guy last night from POF I have talked to a few weeks. Was very hesitant to meet this guy because I am looking for long term and his profile said he's not looking for anything serious. Not having much luck, I adopted a rule this week that whoever asks me for coffee, that I will go and meet…
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kiss and poof
Just because I feel this deserves it's own thread ...
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Beach date
More for the girls but the guys can chime in to on what they would like to see. I have a first date with a guy tomorrow night. We're going for a walk on the beach and to hangout there to talk. What do you wear to a beach date? I don't want to go too casual but I also know its the beach, lol so I can't exactly go dressy.…
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Is it better to honest up front or later on?
Before everyone jumps on me .. hear me out. I am honest to a fault ... I hate lying to people and don't do it well. But when it comes to dating, I am being friendzoned all the time because I'm being my true self ... which is a tomboy ... I watch sports ... I yell at the tv during games ... I've been told this is…
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How to catch a man's eye
So trying to figure out the best thing to wear to be approached at a bar. I was told once I was very intimidating because I was dressed in jeans and a hoodie. I don't want to dress sleazy to just pick up ... but I want to wear something to catch a certain someone's eye. What is the best thing a girl can wear out for a…
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Fresh out of long term ...
My boyfriend of almost 8 months ... who I thought was my forever love ... broke up with me last week. At this point I'm still dealing with it so know I'm not ready to jump back into dating. But how long is the right amount of time to wait to start? I know it's all general ... but right now I'm thinking I don't want to date…
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Posting this for my son ... if anyone can help
Hey everyone! Figured I would post this in here and you can pass it by like most will, but just in case someone out there wants to, and is able to help ... this post would be worth it. My son is a great little guy ... he's 10 and funny and smart ... but has a lot of challenges. He has ADHD, ODD as well as 3 major learning…
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A man says "need time" ... question for the men
My boyfriend blindsided me on Sunday and told me he needed some time to figure his life out. He doesn't want to talk to anybody ... myself included until he gets things straight in his head. He says he doesn't want to break up and he doesn't see it going that way and he still loves me. We've been together 7 months and he…
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NSV - Lost over 100 lbs and hiked a mountain
I've lost over 100 lbs since October 2011 and this past weekend completed a major NSV! Completed my goal of hiking Mount Katahdin in Maine. :) So proud of myself. I did a video vlog of my mountain hike from this past weekend if anyone is interested in checking it out! You'll have to copy and paste the link to watch! Enjoy!…
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Motivation for after a long weekend
New vlog is up ... motivation for after a long weekend. I took you on a walk with me! Copy and paste the link to your address bar to watch! http://youtu.be/bV8p9LLBv3c
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Motivational Vlog is up! :)
New vlog is up ... copy and paste the link if you wanna see. http://youtu.be/Q_UYhEvgRCk
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Posted my 4th weight loss v-log
Latest v-log is up ... talking about Personal Training and an important message about your scale! Check it out if you wanna! Copy and paste the link to your addy bar .. http://youtu.be/F-TDZU0xUNQ
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New fitness vlog
Started vlogging my journey! Check it if you wanna! :) You have to copy and paste the link. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-83SU8NvuRU
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Did my first v-log on my weightloss journey
Check it out if you want to! :) Please be kind! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lD4ERtD_3kA&feature=share (You have to copy and paste the link!)